Anupama 15th April 2021 Written Episode Update: Kavya’s Evil Act

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Pakhi feels guilty for lying to family for her stupid classmate Kabir. She thinks as Bapuji says, she should inform parents before going out. Kavya enters Vanraj’s room via balcony climbing ladder and thinks if Anu can enter like this during holi festival, why can’t she. She drops vase. Baa hearing sound walks in thinking a cat must have come and searches it. Kavya hides behind her. Pakhi informs Baa that Anu and Vanraj are coming. Baa walks away with her. Kavya searches Vanraj and Anu’s divorce date letter and finding it thinks why did V hide his divorce date from her; he didn’t even inform his family about it or else they wouldn’t have planned picnic for him and Anu and Baa/Pakhi wouldn’t have been flying high with hopes, see will enjoy seeing family’s reaction when she will inform them about divorce date.

Vanraj with Anu returns home with grocery shopping on the way. Kavya whistles at them and comments that seeing them, it looks like their picnic went well. Baa walks out with family and says she didn’t know society has kept white cat as watchman. Kavya says they are world’s coolest couple who went on picnic even when their divorce date is very near. Baa says they are couple and can go wherever they want to, why is she jealous. She says good they spent time together as they are getting divorced after 2 days. Family stands shocked hearing that. Kavya shows divorce date letter to them. Kavya taunts Vanraj that she thought he didn’t inform only her, but he didn’t inform even his family; anyways 1 day is gone and only 1.5 days are left, so all the best. She walks away smirking holding divorce date letter.

Family walks in sadly. Vanraj follows them. Anu stands remembering Kavya’s taunts. Vanraj walks to Anu and holding her hand says there is still some time left and takes her in. Pakhi asks why didn’t they inform them about it. Baa says so that they don’t feel bad. Bapuji says so that they can gather good memories with family till separation. Anu and Vanraj apologize. Pakhi cries vigorously hugging them and says it means tomorrow morning they will be having only 48 hours left. Anu says people don’t get 2 hours of peaceful life, but they are getting 48 hours to enjoy life. She describes all her pending chores and says she willl prepare tea for them first and then gajar halwa for her Sweety. Bapuji consoles Pakhi.

Samar with Nandini returns home and asks her get out of taxi. She says she doesn’t want to, but has to go. He kisses her forehead and hopes he takes her along, but then says that day will come soon. Pal Do Pal..song plays in the background. She holds his hand, kisses his dance trophy and gives it to him. He throws flying kiss on her, and she goes to her house. He then looking at Anu in kitchen remembers hoping to buy her a house. Anu sees trophy and gets happy realizing Samar came. Samar says rockstar mummy’s rockstar son and touches her feet. She blesses him. He says he missed her. She says even she missed him a lot. He gives credit of his trophy to her and says people clap for children forgetting that mummies are real winners. She thanks him for the way he is, being the world’s best son, supporting her and being her strength always. He asks why is she giving farewell speech now itself, she shouldn’t give this speech when she will go or else he will cry. She smiles. He says they have a lot of memories attached to this kitchen, reminiscing all the events. Anu says this is their hangout place, they used to support each other here and its very special for them. He emotionally says he will member their memories, her, her food, her scolding, etc. She says even she will miss all that and hugs him.

Precap: Vanraj warns Kavya to leave him and his family alone for 2 days till his divorce finalizes. Anu thinks why she is feeling weird.

Update Credit to: MA

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  1. WARNING: This is going to be a long one… so grab some popcorn and pop and lets get started.

    I just want to start off by saying that Anupama was supposed to be a game changing. Where it was supposed to be grounded in reality, that it was something that people can watch and relate to. But right now that just does not seem to be the case. That it is not just a typical saas bahu serial but instead it is supposed to show how our society really is. But since the first episode to this point nothing has not only changed in Anupama’s life but every side character literally stays the same. This is a show where character development needs to happen, where it needs to show growth but instead there is never any growth. Anupama is just like every other serial, where 1 issue will be dragged out for a week long, and where no one ever communicates to each other. Going back and seeing some of the old episodes now, I found a lot of stuff that does not make sense. First of all, did no one in that family realize that something was going on between Kavya and Vanraj. Like Devika figured it out but no one in that family. Babuji, Samar, Kinjal… did no one ever catch the fact that something is happening here. I do not expect anything from Pakhi or Paratoish, but they do notice stuff and they follow their father everywhere so did they never realize that something is happening, that something is not right. If you a child is attached to their parents they would see changes and would see that something is not right here. Ba notices a lot of stuff from Anupama but does not notice if his son is acting very strange. People do not change overnight, and no one checks with Vanraj. I found it very strange because Kavya and Vanraj are not good at hiding their relationship. Where even Rakhi knew something was off from the first meeting. This is something that I just do not understand. Another thing that I did not understand is why did Anupama not tell Ba and Babuji once she found out about the affair. Anupama suffered for her family’s happiness? To not hurt Ba and Babuji’s feelings? Samar asked what we were going to do if Ba and Babuji found out. This is something that I did not even consider. All Anupama did by hiding the affair was just delay the big explosion and just delayed the truth from coming out. Maybe if she were just to tell the entire family about what happened and then left the house. Not only would that be a better storyline but would have shown growth. Before the affair we see moments where we see Anupama stand on her own two feet, when protecting her children, so she should be able to have strength to tell everyone what Vanraj did and then leave that house. It would have shown growth and then have Vanraj suffer. Another thing that I did not understand is how did Paratoish believe his father’s story when Vanraj was telling him that Kavya was black mailing him and manipulating him. Like Vanraj is an adult he can make decisions for himself. Paratoish is smart, so wouldn’t Paratoish notice the cracks in Vanraj’s story. Vanraj says that Kavya is blackmailing him, and just using him… but why is he celebrating her promotion, constantly inviting her to all of their celebrations, where he picks her up, drops her off at work, travels everywhere with her. Never once show signs of being pressured to do something because Kavya is forcing him. Vanraj is an adult that can do things for himself… so how did Paratoish not catch Vanraj’s lies. Maybe not on that day but maybe like a day later… because do not forget that Kavya said that Vanraj is not a kid that he will do whatever I want him to do. That he is doing this because he wants to do it, and he knows what he is doing. So is Paratoish just dumb, I know he loves his dad but after a certain point he should realize that something is going on. Also why did it take so much time for Anupama to give Vanraj the divorce. The very next day after everyone figured out about the affair she said that she will sign the divorce papers, yet never goes to a lawyer, or brings it up again until Vanraj leaves the house for the 3rd time. Cause in the show time period… it’s been up to 4 months where they had the story going where Anupama never sent or talked about the divorce. From the moment she found out till the moment where Vanraj left the house for the third time, Anupama kept quiet and did not bring up divorce. Vanraj keeps on making the same mistake by constantly running to Kavya everytime his ego gets hurt and yet everyone is still happy to have him home. Like what. They all put their anger towards Kavya but what about Vanraj. Once again it takes 2 to tango, so it is Vanraj’s fault. That family is so quick to jump on Anupama when she makes a mistake but then Vanraj kept making the same mistake and Vanraj is accepted with open arms. Ba only yelled at Vanraj once after she found out about Vanraj’s affair, but Ba constantly taunts and yells at Anupama for not staying with Vanraj and not complying to their demands. That is just annoying. Another thing I do not understand DID THEY FORGET THAT VANRAJ AND KAVYA HAD A 8 YEAR LONG RELATIONSHIP AND THEY WERE GOING TO GET MARRIED! I feel like everyone just forgets that. Ba is forcing Vanraj and Anupama to be together but the thing is that Vanraj had another relationship with Kavya for 8 YEAR! That can not be overlooked or forgotten, but they seem to forget every single time. Vanraj just did not cheat on Anupama like one night, or a year it was a 8 YEAR LONG RELATIONSHIP! There is nothing you can do to fix that, and everyone just forgets that part and it amazes me. And do not get me started on PAKHI! Pakhi was mad at Anupama cause Anupama is not following Pakhi orders by staying together, and then she stays with Kavya because Kavya was being kind, but then once Kavya was not following Pakhi’s order, and because Pakhi can’t speak rudely to Kavya and get away with she hates Kavya and does not want her in her father’s life. It is just annoying. Pakhi is not a little kid, she is a grown tennager who needs to respect her elders. The fact that Pakhi needs to have things go her way or it does not happen is just annoying. In every goddamn serial the husband is treated like god, a good bahu is one that will tolerate every abuse, the kids are rude, the Ba that only yells and taunts the bahu, and the father-in-law that either does nothing, or is just evil. Anupama is not known and not a fresh breath of air. Also are they not struggling with money, there have been so many celebrations, holidays, and so many things happening but never once you ever see them going to work. Or see Vanraj even trying to find a job. DID EVERYONE FORGET THAT HE DOES NOT HAVE A JOB! It is just the same shit like every other serial.
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    I understand that most of that cast have covid. But the show makes good money. If they have better script writers or have a better storyline they should be able to create an amazing storyline while everyone has covid. Where they are able to create just a good story, still have some good character development. I thought there was going to be a turning point when Kavya talked to Anirudh, where he was explaining everything to Kavya. I thought that after that conversation that Kavya was going to change. Where she is going to think about her relationship and have questions prepared when Vanraj comes back home. But the fact that Kavya is still hell bent on ruining the family is just annoying. Doesn’t Kavya have a job to worry about, like the fact that you never see Kavya working, they could have good episodes of only Kinjal and Kavya goes to work and have to figure out how they are going to be working together. Or having Kavya be more kind, showing off her nice side like she did before. Like before the affair came out. It is just annoying that they turned a good character into a villain. This is not a superhero villain, and even superhero villains have reasons why they are doing the things they are doing. Like Thanos, and Joker have reasons for what they do. While Kavya is just a normal working woman. Kavya was always insecure about her relationship with Vanraj because Vanraj is the type of person where if you do not give Vanraj what he wants then he will just make you feel bad about it, and where he will make you walk out of the relationship until you beg him to come back. But at this point in time Vanraj and Anupama are getting a divocre, Anupama does not want to be in that relationship so why is Kavya hell bent on ruining Anupama and the family. It will only make it worse for her to be in a relationship with Vanraj. Also isn’t Kavya logical so why is she not using her brain to understand the fact that she is making everything worse for herself. She used to think before doing anything, she makes sure that everyone is on her side, and now she is just evil. Instead of telling Babuji how pakhi is not a good girl. But instead making sure that she was safe and making sure that she comes home safely, instead of telling babuji after Pakhi left, instead do it right away to show how kind she is. One thing I do agree with Kavya is that Pakhi is not a little girl, she is a teenager, she needs to learn manners. But Kavya is acting like a crazy person, she needs to tone it down, and maybe she could be a multilayered character. Where instead of purposely hurting the Shah’s family she does it without knowing, which then she tries to make it better. It just shows another side of Kavya liked before. Where she tries to make things better, and where she learns.
    Anupama is not a saint, she is just another human being with feelings. She is not a god that can always be good. Anupama only knows the rules of the household because she has been living there for 25 years and she has adjusted to that lifestyle. Kavya has grown up another way she does not know the rules of the Shah’s house, but the fact that they criticize Kavya over the smallest thing and talk about Anupama like a god is annoying. Instead of pitting the two girls together, they should have Anupama and Kavya be acquaintances, where they are able to be civil with each other. The fact that Kavya and Anupama are always pitted against each other for who knows Vanraj the most, or who knows the rules is just dumb. They both are from two different words, and they both are strong and have knowledge of their own topics. This is something I feel like they need to stop. Vanraj who always puts himself before others, who cheated on his wife, who constantly makes mistakes, can not control his anger should be the person that has to fight. In indian shows they always pits the woman against each other is just dumb woman do not always fight. Anupama has flaws, Kavya has Flaws, Ba has flaws and Pakhi has flaws. Pakhi is just like Vanraj and kavya. All of them are selfish, all of them want things done their way or else they will throw a fit, and where they will ruin the other person if they do not act the way that they want them to act. Kavya did act kindly when she went to visit Vanraj after the accident but then she started going crazy again, which annoyed the hell out of me. Kavya can be a really good character but they are always trying to make her the villain, making her evil, where she is literally using a teenager to get what she wants. Kavya is acting like Pakhi, they are both looking for themself, and where they will do anything to have things go their way. Where they are both willing to hurt anyone in the process. Kavya used to be different in that she would show emotions, emotions of regret, and that she used to be more expressive and happy. And whenever she used to be angry or frustrated it would make sense why. This is something that was great because she had the correct emotion when dealing with each situation. But now it is just her being angry and grumpy. And Pakhi was always a one dimensional character where she always wanted things to go her way. It is annoying because she never changes or learns. If she did changed, then she would have accepted her parents divorce and wouldn’t have forced them together, not only that she went out to party even though Anupama told her not to. She does not learn anything.
    Anupama constantly talks about family. Blood may be thicker than blood, but that does not mean you are family it just means that you guys are related by blood. To be a family is where you help each other during the time of need, always there, care for each other, and willing to teach and learn from each other. But that is not the case here. They always treated Anupama like shit, that family was just relatives, they were not her family. Her family is Kinjal, Samar and her mother. They understood her, helped her, cared for her when no one else cared. But I feel like in these types of serial they always show that no matter what these people do to you they are family so just accept it. Or when Ba got in to a fight with the neighbourhood woman about Anupama was dumb for not accpeting Vanraj back, or when Ba replied that what Anupama did was wrong but no one has the right to taunt ANupama other than me… I was just shocked… was that supposed to be a sweet moment. Remember back when Rakhi came to the celebration and yelled at Anupama and Ba stood up for her but when everyone left she blamed everything on Anupama. That is not what families do. This is just dumb and insane. Like in what world is it okay. Ba shouldn’t be yelling at Anupama or taunting her at all, Anupama is a grown ass woman, where Ba can just tell her something is not right, not yell at her or taunt her. This is something that made my mind blown, just because your husband comes home and is willing to marry you does not mean that everything should be forgiven. HE CHEATED ON ANUPAMA FOR 8 YEAR, VANRAJ MENTALLY ABUSED HER, ALMOST PHYSICALLY ABUSED HER! Ba and Vanraj made it okay that the kids even started to abuse her! That is not what a family is, Anupama staying there and still tolerating it is putting a bad example. Cause where I live if you cheated that’s it, you leave that relationship. Yes being in an abusive relationship makes it hard to leave, but Anupama’s own mother was trying to drag her out of the house, Vanraj kicked her out of the house, but no Babuji stops her saying that the Bahu needs to stay. He only made it harder for Anupama to live. I believe they are not growing Anupama more like making her suffer. I wished that when Kinjal left the house that she went home, and that Anupama left before that so then the family would actually suffer, but nope Anupama and Kinjal are the ones suffering. Ba will have a blind eye for her sons but not for her daughter in law that does everything for her. Ba has a mentality of blood is everything and she is pretty misogynistic. The show does not move anything forward; they just push the narrative that women need to suppress themselves for everyone to be happy. But it just makes everything worse. I understand that they want to add some conflict and want to have some drama but if it is reality based there can be tension. Like the money issues, it could have been so much more, but they just left it. That is the thing about this show… they have one issue, the family have to deal with it for like 2 days and then they forget. Like even with assault and actual problems that women that they have to face. Like when Kavya got attacked by men, they have trauma and they are scared. But in this show it happens for two days they are scared but then they act like nothing ever happened. Like what happened to Kavya’s attacker, we never saw him again, we never saw him get arrested, or anything. Or what happened to the attackers that fought Samar, and then attacked Nandani. Where they go, they were never reported on or have any police case happening. The fact that Anupama is being talked about for not taking back her husband but the neighbourhood do not talk about the fact that Vanraj cheated. It is just annoying and something I CAN NOT GET OVER! There are so many plot holes that never get answered. Things happen in that moment and then nothing happens after that. The same thing happened with pakhi where they will never talk about her trauma again.
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    This episode was just insane. Once again… I understand that Vanraj is acting nice, but come on… they are getting a divorce. At Least keep some boundaries man. Like why is Vanraj holding Anupama’s hand… I just hate this. Someone does not change overnight, change takes time. I will not forget or ever forget that this man had abused her and that he cheated on her for 8 years. If the producers are making it in a way where Anupama will stay there that’s it I quit. I wont even read the updates anymore. I get Kavya should have not told the entire family she should have let Vanraj or Anupama do it but at the same time Kavya really wants the divorce. But also Anupama not taking a stand for herself, and just being there is annoying. This woman is supposed to bring change, so isn’t she supposed to speak up for herself. Also why is Vanraj holding Anupama’s hand…? Before Anupama wouldn’t even let him help her with anything and now she is following him. I just hope that this does not make Anupama stay, that ANupama leaves. But if ba brings this moment up I hope Anupama says back that Vanraj cheated on her for 8 years, and that she has had enough.
    My final thoughts are…
    If they do not change Anupama’s characteristics, and do not focus on her growth next week this is just going to be an annoying saas bahu show that I will stop watching cause I am done with this. Anupama is supposed to grow and is supposed to bring change but there seems to be no change whatsoever. Anupama threatens to leave but ends up staying in that house. It is annoying to either leave or stay stop with this is Anupama ever going to leave. Also stop treating Anupama to be this god, like a devi where she can not do anything wrong. It is annoying, she is a person she has a human, so why is this happening. Anupama does have flaws stop making her look like this perfect devi in front of Kavya. The fact she comes home from a vacation and still prepares tea for them…
    Babju may be helping Anupama but he does not have a backbone. At the end of the day whatever Vanraj and ba wants that is what happens. Vanraj wants to leave the house so he leaves, Vanraj wants to come back so he can enter. Ba can yell at Anupama for 10hrs and Babuji will not say anything, only thing he does is prevent Anupama from leaving and doing better because a devi can not leave her temple. Instead of telling Anupama not to leave, tell your wife and son to change their behaviour.
    Pakhi is irritating. She is a one dimensional character, there is no growth to her, she is a bratty kid that wants everything to go her way or if it doesn’t she throws a fit. Like come on.
    Vanraj is also the one that cheated, he should also learn from his mistake. Vanraj should also get taunted at and backlash, not just Kavya. Vanraj is a selfish person, people do not change overnight, so him being nice is dumb. Be realistic, Vanraj is looking after himself, and that Vanraj should be held accountable. Vanraj should also be yelled at and punished.
    Kavya is just an obsessive girlfriend… She wants Vanraj, we get it. She can be portrayed differently, not this crazy obsessive girlfriend. If the writers are good they can show her as this person that really wants v but not in the manner they are showing her now.

    I wanna know your guy’s opinions. Do you agree/ disagree or just do not care anymore. Let me know.

    1. While most of what you said is correct. I believe that they have to pace a show. If they showed everything quickly the show would be over in no time. I could relate to anupama not telling vanrajs parents. When you suffer from low self esteem and are in a abusive relationship you are blinded by a lot of things. My fiance had cheated on me too..and I didn’t want to be the one telling his family. I ended things and left the explaining to him. Yes but still staying with the family and all the crap was a bit much.

      Kavya is literally out to get a teenager. What is that saying about her? She is literally behaving like a child. I particularly don’t care about vanrajs love life. But looking at her behaviour I just want her to be written off from the show.

    2. True I agree with you

    3. I also agree. When u really care about people, u want to protect them from disappointment and hurt as much and as long as u can. Having said that I also feel Anupama needs to show more human emotion than just being good , nice and giving lectures and explanations all the time I definitely don’t think what Vanraj did was right or okay. But I do think Anupama has lot more to lose if the divorce happens. She can make a choice to reconcile at her own terms , now that she is independent and others are also seeing how much valuable she is to the family. But most importantly there is ABSOLUTELY NO GOING BACK to the way things were. Vanraj has to sincerely apologize and make genuine efforts to put Anupama first faithfully!! I remember reading from one book:: parivar koi tree nahin hota jisse ek jhatke mein kaat do, bahut saree vines bhi uske saath kat jaati hein!! And Anupama truly loves her family. She needs them for herself as much as they need her!!.

    4. You know I sometimes feel that kinjal deserves someone better than paritosh . I can already see a junior vanraj shah in him . I dont know whether this will happen or not but I want the makers to cast a guy opposite pakhi u know a love interest and then he should cheat on her . Then she will realize how her mother went through when her mom’s trust on her father was broken and she was supporting her father instead the support should have gone to her mother . 3rdly I want kavya to marry Vanraj and then she should stay in that house and treat baa like her slave , and Vanraj should ignore what kavya does to her mom then this baa will realize anu’s importance and regret how she used to treat her and always used to taunt her . I want samar-nandini to settle somewhere else and they should show samar a famous renowned choreographer and nandini the same . AND LAST BUT NOT THE LEATS anU SHOULD BE SUCCESSFUL AS A DANCER and she has over 40 academies across the country some even in other countries , THEY SHOULD CAST A GUY OPPOSITE ANUPAMA WHO IS ANUPAMAS TRUE SOULMATE . This Gadha Shah urf Vanraj shah should rot with Kaavya

    5. True I agree with you

    6. I understood that you pissed with this serial. The same thing happened with me. I stopped watching this serial

    7. True I agree with you

    8. Sanita rodrigues

      Mystery you write really well i would suggest u to create ur own page and write ur own story with ur favourite characters from any show i would really love that

  2. Yes I Have been reading all your comments and I agree with you for most of the parts but I cannot just simply ignore your point on kavya she is not only an obsessive girlfriend but also a cheating wife she left her husband for Vanraj and Vanraj is now also leaving her that’s it and Vanraj is a very snobbish character you see I think he also deserves punishment and last but not the least I really do want Kavya and Vanraj to get married so both of them can understand the differences . Vanraj the difference between Anupama and Kavya and Kavya the difference between Vanraj and Anirudh. and I compltely disagree with your point that Serials are supposed to show the ground reality no they are supposed to tell stories .

    1. @shilajit, I agree with you. I understand where you are coming from. Kavya is a cheater as well, and yeah serials are supposed to tell stories not be reality.

    2. But those stories can be realistic, inspiring, path breaking and motivating. Not just ki ek issue ko khinchte jao sirf episode banane ke liye!! I started watching this show thinking it will be nice to watch a lady restart , struggle but then successfully re make her life!!! Haven’t seen that happen so far!! 🙁

    3. True I agree with you

  3. Amal

    LMAOOO Oh Gosh! Vanraj will always be two timing love rat who likes to get his cake and eat it , man who’s been spoiled by his parents, specially his mum… what a vile human being he is 😷 There’s no need to go back to memory lane as he been disrespectful through out his marriage with Anupama…. This guy only used Anupama as a baby making factory and now is about time she started to think about herself … fck them kids who are trying to keep them together too ! TF 😩

  4. WARNING: This is going to be a long one… so grab some popcorn and pop and lets get started.

    I just want to start off by saying that Anupama was supposed to be a game changing. Where it was supposed to be grounded in reality, that it was something that people can watch and relate to. But right now that just does not seem to be the case. That it is not just a typical saas bahu serial but instead it is supposed to show how our society really is. But since the first episode to this point nothing has not only changed in Anupama’s life but every side character literally stays the same. This is a show where character development needs to happen, where it needs to show growth but instead there is never any growth. Anupama is just like every other serial, where 1 issue will be dragged out for a week long, and where no one ever communicates to each other. Going back and seeing some of the old episodes now, I found a lot of stuff that does not make sense. First of all, did no one in that family realize that something was going on between Kavya and Vanraj. Like Devika figured it out but no one in that family. Babuji, Samar, Kinjal… did no one ever catch the fact that something is happening here. I do not expect anything from Pakhi or Paratoish, but they do notice stuff and they follow their father everywhere so did they never realize that something is happening, that something is not right. If you a child is attached to their parents they would see changes and would see that something is not right here. Ba notices a lot of stuff from Anupama but does not notice if his son is acting very strange. People do not change overnight, and no one checks with Vanraj. I found it very strange because Kavya and Vanraj are not good at hiding their relationship. Where even Rakhi knew something was off from the first meeting. This is something that I just do not understand. Another thing that I did not understand is why did Anupama not tell Ba and Babuji once she found out about the affair. Anupama suffered for her family’s happiness? To not hurt Ba and Babuji’s feelings? Samar asked what we were going to do if Ba and Babuji found out. This is something that I did not even consider. All Anupama did by hiding the affair was just delay the big explosion and just delayed the truth from coming out. Maybe if she were just to tell the entire family about what happened and then left the house. Not only would that be a better storyline but would have shown growth. Before the affair we see moments where we see Anupama stand on her own two feet, when protecting her children, so she should be able to have strength to tell everyone what Vanraj did and then leave that house. It would have shown growth and then have Vanraj suffer. Another thing that I did not understand is how did Paratoish believe his father’s story when Vanraj was telling him that Kavya was black mailing him and manipulating him. Like Vanraj is an adult he can make decisions for himself. Paratoish is smart, so wouldn’t Paratoish notice the cracks in Vanraj’s story. Vanraj says that Kavya is blackmailing him, and just using him… but why is he celebrating her promotion, constantly inviting her to all of their celebrations, where he picks her up, drops her off at work, travels everywhere with her. Never once show signs of being pressured to do something because Kavya is forcing him. Vanraj is an adult that can do things for himself… so how did Paratoish not catch Vanraj’s lies. Maybe not on that day but maybe like a day later… because do not forget that Kavya said that Vanraj is not a kid that he will do whatever I want him to do. That he is doing this because he wants to do it, and he knows what he is doing. So is Paratoish just dumb, I know he loves his dad but after a certain point he should realize that something is going on. Also why did it take so much time for Anupama to give Vanraj the divorce. The very next day after everyone figured out about the affair she said that she will sign the divorce papers, yet never goes to a lawyer, or brings it up again until Vanraj leaves the house for the 3rd time. Cause in the show time period… it’s been up to 4 months where they had the story going where Anupama never sent or talked about the divorce. From the moment she found out till the moment where Vanraj left the house for the third time, Anupama kept quiet and did not bring up divorce. Vanraj keeps on making the same mistake by constantly running to Kavya everytime his ego gets hurt and yet everyone is still happy to have him home. Like what. They all put their anger towards Kavya but what about Vanraj. Once again it takes 2 to tango, so it is Vanraj’s fault. That family is so quick to jump on Anupama when she makes a mistake but then Vanraj kept making the same mistake and Vanraj is accepted with open arms. Ba only yelled at Vanraj once after she found out about Vanraj’s affair, but Ba constantly taunts and yells at Anupama for not staying with Vanraj and not complying to their demands. That is just annoying. Another thing I do not understand DID THEY FORGET THAT VANRAJ AND KAVYA HAD A 8 YEAR LONG RELATIONSHIP AND THEY WERE GOING TO GET MARRIED! I feel like everyone just forgets that. Ba is forcing Vanraj and Anupama to be together but the thing is that Vanraj had another relationship with Kavya for 8 YEAR! That can not be overlooked or forgotten, but they seem to forget every single time. Vanraj just did not cheat on Anupama like one night, or a year it was a 8 YEAR LONG RELATIONSHIP! There is nothing you can do to fix that, and everyone just forgets that part and it amazes me. And do not get me started on PAKHI! Pakhi was mad at Anupama cause Anupama is not following Pakhi orders by staying together, and then she stays with Kavya because Kavya was being kind, but then once Kavya was not following Pakhi’s order, and because Pakhi can’t speak rudely to Kavya and get away with she hates Kavya and does not want her in her father’s life. It is just annoying. Pakhi is not a little kid, she is a grown tennager who needs to respect her elders. The fact that Pakhi needs to have things go her way or it does not happen is just annoying. In every goddamn serial the husband is treated like god, a good bahu is one that will tolerate every abuse, the kids are rude, the Ba that only yells and taunts the bahu, and the father-in-law that either does nothing, or is just evil. Anupama is not known and not a fresh breath of air. Also are they not struggling with money, there have been so many celebrations, holidays, and so many things happening but never once you ever see them going to work. Or see Vanraj even trying to find a job. DID EVERYONE FORGET THAT HE DOES NOT HAVE A JOB! It is just the same shit like every other serial.
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    I understand that most of that cast have covid. But the show makes good money. If they have better script writers or have a better storyline they should be able to create an amazing storyline while everyone has covid. Where they are able to create just a good story, still have some good character development. I thought there was going to be a turning point when Kavya talked to Anirudh, where he was explaining everything to Kavya. I thought that after that conversation that Kavya was going to change. Where she is going to think about her relationship and have questions prepared when Vanraj comes back home. But the fact that Kavya is still hell bent on ruining the family is just annoying. Doesn’t Kavya have a job to worry about, like the fact that you never see Kavya working, they could have good episodes of only Kinjal and Kavya goes to work and have to figure out how they are going to be working together. Or having Kavya be more kind, showing off her nice side like she did before. Like before the affair came out. It is just annoying that they turned a good character into a villain. This is not a superhero villain, and even superhero villains have reasons why they are doing the things they are doing. Like Thanos, and Joker have reasons for what they do. While Kavya is just a normal working woman. Kavya was always insecure about her relationship with Vanraj because Vanraj is the type of person where if you do not give Vanraj what he wants then he will just make you feel bad about it, and where he will make you walk out of the relationship until you beg him to come back. But at this point in time Vanraj and Anupama are getting a divocre, Anupama does not want to be in that relationship so why is Kavya hell bent on ruining Anupama and the family. It will only make it worse for her to be in a relationship with Vanraj. Also isn’t Kavya logical so why is she not using her brain to understand the fact that she is making everything worse for herself. She used to think before doing anything, she makes sure that everyone is on her side, and now she is just evil. Instead of telling Babuji how pakhi is not a good girl. But instead making sure that she was safe and making sure that she comes home safely, instead of telling babuji after Pakhi left, instead do it right away to show how kind she is. One thing I do agree with Kavya is that Pakhi is not a little girl, she is a teenager, she needs to learn manners. But Kavya is acting like a crazy person, she needs to tone it down, and maybe she could be a multilayered character. Where instead of purposely hurting the Shah’s family she does it without knowing, which then she tries to make it better. It just shows another side of Kavya liked before. Where she tries to make things better, and where she learns.
    Anupama is not a saint, she is just another human being with feelings. She is not a god that can always be good. Anupama only knows the rules of the household because she has been living there for 25 years and she has adjusted to that lifestyle. Kavya has grown up another way she does not know the rules of the Shah’s house, but the fact that they criticize Kavya over the smallest thing and talk about Anupama like a god is annoying. Instead of pitting the two girls together, they should have Anupama and Kavya be acquaintances, where they are able to be civil with each other. The fact that Kavya and Anupama are always pitted against each other for who knows Vanraj the most, or who knows the rules is just dumb. They both are from two different words, and they both are strong and have knowledge of their own topics. This is something I feel like they need to stop. Vanraj who always puts himself before others, who cheated on his wife, who constantly makes mistakes, can not control his anger should be the person that has to fight. In indian shows they always pits the woman against each other is just dumb woman do not always fight. Anupama has flaws, Kavya has Flaws, Ba has flaws and Pakhi has flaws. Pakhi is just like Vanraj and kavya. All of them are selfish, all of them want things done their way or else they will throw a fit, and where they will ruin the other person if they do not act the way that they want them to act. Kavya did act kindly when she went to visit Vanraj after the accident but then she started going crazy again, which annoyed the hell out of me. Kavya can be a really good character but they are always trying to make her the villain, making her evil, where she is literally using a teenager to get what she wants. Kavya is acting like Pakhi, they are both looking for themself, and where they will do anything to have things go their way. Where they are both willing to hurt anyone in the process. Kavya used to be different in that she would show emotions, emotions of regret, and that she used to be more expressive and happy. And whenever she used to be angry or frustrated it would make sense why. This is something that was great because she had the correct emotion when dealing with each situation. But now it is just her being angry and grumpy. And Pakhi was always a one dimensional character where she always wanted things to go her way. It is annoying because she never changes or learns. If she did changed, then she would have accepted her parents divorce and wouldn’t have forced them together, not only that she went out to party even though Anupama told her not to. She does not learn anything.
    Anupama constantly talks about family. Blood may be thicker than blood, but that does not mean you are family it just means that you guys are related by blood. To be a family is where you help each other during the time of need, always there, care for each other, and willing to teach and learn from each other. But that is not the case here. They always treated Anupama like shit, that family was just relatives, they were not her family. Her family is Kinjal, Samar and her mother. They understood her, helped her, cared for her when no one else cared. But I feel like in these types of serial they always show that no matter what these people do to you they are family so just accept it. Or when Ba got in to a fight with the neighbourhood woman about Anupama was dumb for not accpeting Vanraj back, or when Ba replied that what Anupama did was wrong but no one has the right to taunt ANupama other than me… I was just shocked… was that supposed to be a sweet moment. Remember back when Rakhi came to the celebration and yelled at Anupama and Ba stood up for her but when everyone left she blamed everything on Anupama. That is not what families do. This is just dumb and insane. Like in what world is it okay. Ba shouldn’t be yelling at Anupama or taunting her at all, Anupama is a grown ass woman, where Ba can just tell her something is not right, not yell at her or taunt her. This is something that made my mind blown, just because your husband comes home and is willing to marry you does not mean that everything should be forgiven. HE CHEATED ON ANUPAMA FOR 8 YEAR, VANRAJ MENTALLY ABUSED HER, ALMOST PHYSICALLY ABUSED HER! Ba and Vanraj made it okay that the kids even started to abuse her! That is not what a family is, Anupama staying there and still tolerating it is putting a bad example. Cause where I live if you cheated that’s it, you leave that relationship. Yes being in an abusive relationship makes it hard to leave, but Anupama’s own mother was trying to drag her out of the house, Vanraj kicked her out of the house, but no Babuji stops her saying that the Bahu needs to stay. He only made it harder for Anupama to live. I believe they are not growing Anupama more like making her suffer. I wished that when Kinjal left the house that she went home, and that Anupama left before that so then the family would actually suffer, but nope Anupama and Kinjal are the ones suffering. Ba will have a blind eye for her sons but not for her daughter in law that does everything for her. Ba has a mentality of blood is everything and she is pretty misogynistic. The show does not move anything forward; they just push the narrative that women need to suppress themselves for everyone to be happy. But it just makes everything worse. I understand that they want to add some conflict and want to have some drama but if it is reality based there can be tension. Like the money issues, it could have been so much more, but they just left it. That is the thing about this show… they have one issue, the family have to deal with it for like 2 days and then they forget. Like even with assault and actual problems that women that they have to face. Like when Kavya got attacked by men, they have trauma and they are scared. But in this show it happens for two days they are scared but then they act like nothing ever happened. Like what happened to Kavya’s attacker, we never saw him again, we never saw him get arrested, or anything. Or what happened to the attackers that fought Samar, and then attacked Nandani. Where they go, they were never reported on or have any police case happening. The fact that Anupama is being talked about for not taking back her husband but the neighbourhood do not talk about the fact that Vanraj cheated. It is just annoying and something I CAN NOT GET OVER! There are so many plot holes that never get answered. Things happen in that moment and then nothing happens after that. The same thing happened with pakhi where they will never talk about her trauma again.
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    This episode was just insane. Once again… I understand that Vanraj is acting nice, but come on… they are getting a divorce. At Least keep some boundaries man. Like why is Vanraj holding Anupama’s hand… I just hate this. Someone does not change overnight, change takes time. I will not forget or ever forget that this man had abused her and that he cheated on her for 8 years. If the producers are making it in a way where Anupama will stay there that’s it I quit. I wont even read the updates anymore. I get Kavya should have not told the entire family she should have let Vanraj or Anupama do it but at the same time Kavya really wants the divorce. But also Anupama not taking a stand for herself, and just being there is annoying. This woman is supposed to bring change, so isn’t she supposed to speak up for herself. Also why is Vanraj holding Anupama’s hand…? Before Anupama wouldn’t even let him help her with anything and now she is following him. I just hope that this does not make Anupama stay, that ANupama leaves. But if ba brings this moment up I hope Anupama says back that Vanraj cheated on her for 8 years, and that she has had enough.
    My final thoughts are…
    If they do not change Anupama’s characteristics, and do not focus on her growth next week this is just going to be an annoying saas bahu show that I will stop watching cause I am done with this. Anupama is supposed to grow and is supposed to bring change but there seems to be no change whatsoever. Anupama threatens to leave but ends up staying in that house. It is annoying to either leave or stay stop with this is Anupama ever going to leave. Also stop treating Anupama to be this god, like a devi where she can not do anything wrong. It is annoying, she is a person she has a human, so why is this happening. Anupama does have flaws stop making her look like this perfect devi in front of Kavya. The fact she comes home from a vacation and still prepares tea for them…
    Babju may be helping Anupama but he does not have a backbone. At the end of the day whatever Vanraj and ba wants that is what happens. Vanraj wants to leave the house so he leaves, Vanraj wants to come back so he can enter. Ba can yell at Anupama for 10hrs and Babuji will not say anything, only thing he does is prevent Anupama from leaving and doing better because a devi can not leave her temple. Instead of telling Anupama not to leave, tell your wife and son to change their behaviour.
    Pakhi is irritating. She is a one dimensional character, there is no growth to her, she is a bratty kid that wants everything to go her way or if it doesn’t she throws a fit. Like come on.
    Vanraj is also the one that cheated, he should also learn from his mistake. Vanraj should also get taunted at and backlash, not just Kavya. Vanraj is a selfish person, people do not change overnight, so him be being nice is dumb. Be realistic, Vanraj is looking after himself, and that Vanraj should be held accountable. Vanraj should also be yelled at and punished.
    Kavya is just an obsessive girlfriend… She wants Vanraj, we get it. She can be portrayed differently, not this crazy obsessive girlfriend. If the writers are good they can show her as this person that really wants v but not in the manner they are showing her now.

    I wanna know your guy’s opinions. Do you agree/ disagree or just do not care anymore. Let me know.

  5. The shooting of today’s episode was done long before when the actors (two main leads & others) wasn’t tested covid positive…..It is clear from the fact that Leela & Kinjal was present in today’s episode but presently both of them are in quarantine because they have tested covid positive & haven’t cured yet.However,finally I am feeling relieved to see new precap….I think they have hardly banking of 2-3 episodes after that they will show old episodes because the shooting of all films & TV SERIALS have been stopped in MAHARASHTRA due to ‘JANTA CURFEW ‘.

  6. To me, it seems as if the writers have shifted from showing a downtrodden woman finally finding her voice and creating a better life for herself to now showing a track of understanding, repentance (Vanraj), appreciation (Vanraj) again. It’s almost as if to give a woman the opportunity to live life on her terms is beyond the writers concept so they have done an about turn on Vanraj.

  7. How many women leave their husbands for having an affair?

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