Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 26th May 2023 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
The Episode starts with Abhinav seeing Akshu and smiling. Abhir says I have come. She says I have a surprise for you and Abhinav. He asks did doc man and Goenkas come. She says no. She shows them the board. Abhir asks what’s Aashiyana. Akshu says Aashiyana. Abhinav says I don’t know. Abhinav says its our house name from today. Abhir asks where are the laddoos. She says it’s the name of our house and homestay business, tourists stay in homes and see the lifestyle of locals. Abhinav asks will tourists stay here. She says I have cleaned the storeroom and put the pics on ad portal, I can’t do jam business much, you need time in starting car business, so this work, don’t you like my idea. They call her great.
Akshu and Abhinav ask Abhir not to worry, get well soon and play football. They hug Abhir. Manish says they reached safely, I wish they stay happy and Abhir recovers soon. Kairav says I m thinking of Abhi’s reaction on Abhir’s leaving. Manish says I m sure, he understood it, else he would have troubled us. Kairav says something big is going to happen, think, he can do extreme. Abhinav says booking didn’t come. Abhir says it will come. They get excited hearing message sound. Abhir tells about the sale messages. He says yay, its Ruhi’s message. Abhinav and Akshu cut veggies. Abhir says we got our first booking. They get glad. Abhi is at the hospital. Aarohi calls him. Akshu and Abhinav make the room ready. Abhir says good job. Abhinav asks who is the person coming. Akshu says George from Denmark. He says he will like our culture and food here. She gets an idea. She gets some clothes. They get ready. Abhinav says its too much. Akshu says you said guests should see our culture, get busy now, guest shouldn’t think we are dying to see him. Abhi comes there. Akshu thinks why am I feeling restless. She goes and gets the flowers. Abhir says doc man. Akshu throws the flowers at Abhi. Abhi hugs Abhir. Abhir says I was missing him since morning, so he has come here. Neela takes Abhir with him. Abhi scolds Akshu. Kairav thinks to call Muskaan. Muskaan says Abhi reached Kasauli. She gets Kairav’s call.
He says your wallet is here. She asks can you send it by driver. He says I will come. She says no, send the driver, don’t call Akshu right now. He asks why, tell me the reason. She says Abhi has reached Kasauli. Akshu says you are mistaken. Abhi says you are wrong. He argues with her. He says you have stolen him. She says he is my son. Abhinav says we will explain him. Akshu scolds Abhi and asks him to think anything he wants. Abhi says I m taking my son with me. She says try to take him away and then you will hear me roar. Abhi asks am I no one, I m a rigid father, I will take my son along. Abhir comes and asks are you guys fighting. Abhinav says no, she is just talking. Abhir goes. Abhi and Akshu fight again. Abhinav asks them to stop it.
Akshu says Abhir has got to know Abhinav isn’t his father. Abhinav says its tough for me, I m not Abhir’s real father. Abhir hears this and cries. He thinks who is my dad.
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I really want to see Kairav slap PromiseManyu and Arohi slap the taste out Manjiri’s mouth. This mother-son duo are like wolves in sheep’s clothing. Poor Abhir is going to get his heart broken cause he will find out Nav is not his dad thanks to all the arguing. These prod houses really hate the poor, what all Nav hasn’t done now our lovable Abhir will hate him for not being his bio dad, the Birla poison will be in effect for Abhir, he’ll become another chamcha through Manjiri’s manipulations like PromiseManyu. Then when they kill Nav Abhir will become self hating like PromiseManyu. I don’t think Akshara should ever return to the Birla’s especially with that b*t*h Manjiri. I just hope Arohi sees how they change lovable Abhir then takes Ruhi away, thankfully without Neil only Arohi has a right on Ruhi and the rest of them can suck it. I really really hope when PromiseManyu returns with Abhir there is no Ruhi in Birla house and that Arohi takes Ruhi far far away from the Birla’s. Bye bye cute understanding sweet Abhir, hello Birla corrupted Abhir.
We can only see Aarohi ripping Manjiri apart if she does something that hurts Ruhi, like we saw that day, she slapped them with reality and shut their mouths when Ruhi is getting hurt, other than that we all know Aarohi never really interferes. But, these days I’m feeling sick whenever she calls Manjiri as “Maa”, that women isn’t worth it. I think this time Abhimanyu would be the person to roast her and I would love to see her getting roasted by her dearest son. Manjiri divorced Harsh and he left his own home leaving that lady there who became slow poison in everyone’s lives. It’s soo sad to see Shefali and Aarohi as Manjiri’s puppets. Shefali always used to speak facts and raised her voice for the right thing, Aarohi used to take her own decisions, good or bad, and never let anyone walk over her or decide for her, both the women were strong headed and opiniated and now became mere puppets to Manjiri, they should have shut her up and revealed entire thing to Abhimanyu when they clearly know she manipulated him for her own zid, Abhimanyu putting the case on hold going against her didn’t sit well with her and used this chance to manipulate Abhimanyu. I think they will use Manjiri as antagonist this time for Abhira reunion or whatever sparing Aarohi as she became like that typical ITV MIL who love to torture her DIL, and she will have 3 in her hand to torture😕 Even I want Aarohi to leave that mad house with Ruhi, she can happily go to some other city or even country, let Goenkas visit Ruhi once in a while and have a peaceful life and even find someone who love her, not just Aarohi, but Shefali too.
I agree with you greatly. One slight variation i noticed is that, Arohi becomes fierce when she is defending herself or her misdeeds. “We can only see Aarohi ripping Manjiri apart if she does something that hurts Ruhi”, is only true to some point but not entirely true. If this Arohi is fierce for Ruhis sake, she would have ripped mom-son duo apart the moment they interfered all the times she was schooling Ruhi. Also, the day Ruhi was begging for love, was the day of ripping people apart for Ruhis sake. But she didnt.
She only ripped them apart when they questioned her actions. So she cannot say she becomes fierce when Ruhi is on the line.
Everytime abhimanyu cant be blamed.. Akshnav cant keep a secret especially akshu.. They were talking about it at hospital and arohi heard.. Thn akshu and muskan were discussing it and kairav heard.. Thn akshu was shouting at the top of her lungs at abhimanyu thn manjri heard.. Now akshnav will discuss and abhir will hear.. Cant these 2 first make sure that no one is listening or at least discuss it in a low voice 😏😏
Finally abhimanyu asked who am I? Pura din iska mai maa hu jaap chalte rehta hai..
She has a habit of lying and hiding things and later acts victim jab jhoot pakda jata hai😏
Discuss ye log kar rahe aur abhir ne sun liya so abhimanyu is responsible waah i dont know why people hate h so much that for everything on earth he is responsible
I thought akshu is now ok with co parenting but this annoying woman 😒
Only the haters will blame abhi but even that Abhi is still not the problem.
Every parents love their children and no parents want their child to be taken away from them, so Abhi is doing the same period.
@Sally, totally true
@Surabhi, you hit it on the money.
I hate abhi for his actions he did in today’s episode. He will be like this always and If Abhira Reunion then third seperation track will also include this behaviour of him.
@jade from where this rich and poor shit came? Its not abhimanyu’s mistake that he is rich.. Nd sharmas are poor so what can be done😒 poors are not always the victims and rich and not always bad people
I said the production houses hate the poor cause it’s always the poor that have difficulty after difficulty, it was a general statement about Nav not getting a chance to breathe or be happy like many middle class and poor characters
this is not about poor r rich and right r wrong both sides have uncountable mistakes and now abhir have to suffer due to akshu stupidity
akshu is using abhi like tissue paper after operation she did not think about abhi who want to spend time with his son
No Akshara wasn’t using Abhimanyu as described. She misunderstood his gesture to halt the custody case and he was unavailable even after that because Abhinav felt uncomfortable and she listened to him there. At the end Bade Papa asserted his authority and everyone listened to him. So this misunderstanding didn’t happen because Akshara suddenly became ungrateful. She should have in the happy moments sought to attain a mutual understanding on how they can co-parent Abhir. They all somehow didn’t see the importance of that. But blaming her for misusing Abhimanyu isn’t entirely factual, sorry for my expression. Manjiri is the one using or misusing Abhimanyu right now.
Exactly @Francis can’t people see what Manjiri was using her words to manipulate Abhi’s mind??
@Francis. Totally true. It is all bcz of manjiri now this misunderstanding arised. Um sure if Arohi could have explain the situation before manjiri abhi would have understood it well and won’t react this way. Akshara always lives with the fear that Birlas will snatch abhir from her. And that fear make her to not trust abhi and overeact which will later mess up everything. Abhi when he gets angry doesn’t ready to listen to any one and starts shouting. Each an every action and reaction of both abhi n akshara proves that they are not compatible with each other any more.
@Sally; @WTH; @🙂.
I agree that Manjiri has manipulated Abhimanyu to confront Akshara. She wants Abhir by all means but the development of the story may surprise everyone. Now that Manjiri has started interfering with the lives of the Sharmas at Kasauli, Akshara will not sit quietly now. She wouldn’t have anyone destroy her happy family and not retaliate. So the story is likely to heat up based on this confrontation.
Very right. This is unjustified interference that could be easly resolved if Abhi reprimanded Navra over the phone for not waiting for two days atleast. And after the reprimand, ask them when they will be back to udaipur. But this disturbance has also affected Abhir and this warrants heavy action from Akshu. She is indeed expected to retaliate.
I concur. Manjiri’s assertion is so tainted that even her sentiments aren’t exactly right anymore. This unjustified interference will definitely come with it’s price tag to be paid by those who couldn’t see beyond their own noses. Now Abhimanyu will in the spirit of the highly inaccurate information given, start to play games with the Sharmas in Kasauli which doesn’t make sense. Now the people involved might want to pretend in front of Abhir but one day he will overhear their conversation.
Birlas r toxic but goenkas r no less. Goenkas r cheap, disgusting, selfish & hypocrites with no moralities. Manish & Kairav r so cheap & disgusting.They want AbhimanyuBirla to stay away from his own son.If they consider Abhimanyu such a bad & undeserving person,why r they letting their dearest Aarohi get married to him? Y do they want Abhi to be a good father for Roohi? Akshara has forgotten already that AbhimanyuBirla operated on his own son+saved his life. & withdrew case for AB.
Actually kairav objected, however since arohi has capacity to make her own decisions they don’t have a say.
You are right but Why did kairav hide AB truth from goenkas and Birlas? Coz of Aarohi and ruhi rite?
I hope Arohi is not marrying mommy’s little bumchum anymore. She’s too good for that mommas boy
@Ara The thing is Akshara did tried to informed Abhi abt their going back to Kasauli, she too had informed Aarohi! Goenkas then supported them going back! How did that make them cheap n disgusting? Who is the actual one who is cheap n disgusting???
@Aaa what did Goenkas did to deserve your ??? judgement about them??? B4 u judge, try judging urself first!! 🙄🙄🙄
Abhimanyu would have done nothing like that if manjiri did not manipulated him… The thing is saying every time Abhimanyu cannot be blamed,, you see They not even once told anyone that they will not be returning to Udaipur.. You people telling that Akshnav could have waited for Abhimanyu can’t Abhimanyu also have waited for a few days ? He is only behavig like that due to manipulation of Manjiri and why the hell are they not discussing like adults… Abhinav even asked them to calm down and discuss it … Stupid .. No wonder Abhira didn’t worked out..
So you want to say his impulsive behaviour, his judgemental nature , his zidd are not in his control?
Is he human or machine that manjiri pressed Angry mode on.
If Manjiri tells manipulates him to slap Akshara and he does that then is the culprit is Manjiri or more on Abhimanyu
Shakuni was worse then also Duryodhan and Dushasan was worst.
Exactly both these hotheads keep creating some mess or the other and this time the flames have reached poor abhir as well.
@ Urmi Completely Agreed with you..
@Shilajit, @Urmi true.
It was only a matter of time.
Abhinv and Akshara definitely can’t keep their secrets 😂😂😂. Abhimanyu and Akhara’s fight scene was supposed to be serious but I laughed so hard at the immunity Akshara and Abhimanyu showed. and Abhinav who was in between, was completely overwhelmed by their childish behavior a real Kasauli sandwich 😂. But seriously Abhimanyu was so right if Abhimanyu had done what Akshara did she definitely wouldn’t have spared him and would have asked why his consent was not asked she would have blamed Abhimanyu. All the reasons given by Abhimanyu were completely right, why Akshara couldn’t wait two days, on his return to be able to discuss? why couldn’t she ask Abhir to wait a bit, just who is he for them, for not deserving to be consulted? when he too and Abhir’s father. Abhinav wanted to explain because he understood that the mistake was theirs. but Akshara didn’t want to explain as usual, because she doesn’t see where are her mistakes, she told Abhimanyu that he can believe whatever he wants (so imature) she didn’t admitted her mistake even when she was clearly wrong. Abhimanyu always kept his calm when Akshara and Abhinav considered that he made a mistake, he listened to them without talking too much as he subtly acknowledged his mistake but Akshara she is completely unreasonable today. Abhimanyu and Akshara behaved like real kids worse than Abhir and Ruhi.
@Yeol Completely Agreed with some of your points lekin yehi baat Abhimanyu Phone pe bhi kar sakta tha..Ki why they could have asked his permission and waited for two days and then Abhinav and Akshara could have also explained that they will be returning to Udaipur also in a few days .. He could have made a call and discussed calmly ….Instead what he is doing “I am going to take/snatch Abhir from you to Udaipur now” …Pure Comedy Gold…Both Akshara and Abhimanyu are idiots and they can never work out together forget about co parenting and I am glad that we are seeing Abhinav confident again in Kasauli and making again logical points …
I dun understand Manish managed to get through Akshara but Abhi’s calls was not able to reached Akshara n he blamed Akshara for avoiding his calls???
No, not all Abhimanyu said is right. When the iron was still hot, forged in the goodwill of a successful surgery, he should have sought a permanent working arrangement on Abhir with Akshara and Abhinav. That was the most reasonable moment, not a week after the surgery. This is because the Sharmas are comfortable at Kasauli and they will have thought of going back at some point. What is the use of high IQ if it isn’t used where commonsense requires it? This impasse is the result of multilayered incompetence by the full range of participants here. He could have got a good deal there and then, but he didn’t.
@Francis I disagree, the iron must be beaten when it is hot and Abhimanyu taking the custody matter out of it took the first step, logic dictates that for the relationship to work it’s Akshara’s turn and Abhinav to take the second step to balance the field. You have to move forward at the same pace and have a give-and-take relationship so that no one is left behind in their situation. A week after the operation without speaking personally or even taking the time to meditate on how to satisfy the two fields, Akshara decided to go to Kasauli because, as you say, she feels happy there. But it’s not just about her own wishes, she didn’t consider Abhimanyu as a father and didn’t consider that for a good understanding a discussion was necessary before deciding on their departure.
What good is having a brain, if it is not used to think well before acting. It is irrefutable that Abhimanyu as a father and a person who has a right to discuss the future and decisions that concern Abhir has been completely overlooked, because they preferred to think for him by making a decision, without knowing his opinion and without having spoken to him beforehand. Abhimanyu and Akshara acted totally immature, but Navra and responsible for this error in thinking because leaving without having settled things was a big mistake.
@yeol b4 you judged did you watched, Abhir was the one who wanted to go back to Kasauli! Did Akshara not tried to call Abhi n informed him? Did Akshara not called Aarohi next n informed her? Doesn’t Abhi n Birla know where they live in Kasauli? Did the Sharmas left forever n go into hiding? Did they cut off all contact n availability to reach them if need be? Abhi reaching Kasauli today answer all that!! So what is the problem now?? It’s Manjiri manipulative words that stirred Abhi’s mind n judged the Sharma’s like you did!!! And the immature is definitely you!!
@yeol. It depends on how you see the problem. I don’t find Navra is wrong here. First they decided to tell about Abhir’s wish to abhi. Then they tried to contact him. Since they failed they contacted arohi and asked her to let Abhi know the situation. And the other thing is they didn’t go to kasuli permanently. It was only for a few period of time. So they didn’t wait till abhi comes since they are comming back to udaipur. But what is wrong is both abhi n akshara overeacted and created a mess. If abhi thought about the situation with a calm mind he won’t react this way n if akshara handled abhi’s anger camly they won’t end up with hot arguments.
Good one. Navra is naive. But Abhi is smart yet he didnt think to plead his case after surgery. Infact all his actions screamed Abhir should stay with you Sharmas.
And we must agree Manyu current situation is influenced by a certain 3rd party interference.
Exactly! @Mark n @Francis
@Francis. Very true. If not for Akshara abhi could have called to Abhinav and sort out the issue. Abhi very well knows that Abhinav is the best person to talk with about Abhir. If he tried that problems won’t arise. Abhi believed what manjiri told and didn’t listen to arohi n misunderstood her as well. This shows nothing else but the lack of understanding and trust between the itv world’s best couple.
I agree with @Shilajit. Since Navra did not explicitly say they wont return to Udaipur or they wont hold a discussion, Manyu could also wait for a few days until they return. He could establish this over a phone call. But since he is under the influence of Manjiri, he is the unreasonable one. And Akshu closely follow the list of unreasonable by not explaining their intentions of being in Udaipur now. Its not anyones mistake as no one stole Abhir and Abhir was not stolen from anyone as its Abhirs wish to be in Kasauli now. Abhir should not adjust to the whims of grown up Abhi.
@Mark It’s not about Abhir who has to adapt, Abhinav Akshara and Abhimanyu are all 3 parents and it’s the adults who make the decisions for their children when the situation has already developed in this way or Abhir and the son by Abhimanyu. sooner or later he will have to adapt to his three parents and the idea that he has two fathers. That is why it is important that he organizes a way of life so that Abhir can adapt to the situation and the acceptance of his two families. Abhimanyu is not the person to blame, for Abhir’s troubled future and the emotional shock Abhir will feel. the situation requires that the child be able to adapt to the lifestyles of his parents three parents. even divorced couples do their best to adapt their child to their new way of life. Navra could have discussed everything before leaving so as not to create a conflict, they should no longer think only about them, but also about Abhimanyu’s opinion when it concerns Abhir so that they can all agree.
We are definitely arguing the same thing. We should talk about NOW. Now Abhir wants to be in Kasauli. No one dared to discuss about a middle ground after the surgery. This is the main point. Since Abhir demand came when Manyu is not in town, i dont see any problem in going ahead and then later Manyu will be informed that this is a trip that is organized for Abhir. And they will be back to udaipur where they can silently look at each other without growing balls to talk about a middle ground.
@mark. Exactly. Navra had no intension to stay kasuli permanently. They just wanted to fulfill abhir’s wish. And i don’t think that abhi won’t let them go kasuli after knowing that it is abhir’s wish. Bcz abhi cares about abhir and for navra that also is another reason for them not to stay till abhi returns. But i think navras excitement after returning was misunderstood by many. But who won’t react like navra when they come to their home after many days amd after a tough time. So many people point finger towards navra here.
@Mark, stopping the custody case was just Abhimanyu’s clear way of testing the waters between him and the Sharmas. When such a big initiative is taken from one side, it’s usually to ease the tension and later be able to lay the groundwork for common ground if cordiality works, and cordiality begins by trying to consult in person to important decisions. Abhir is important to Abhimanyu so if he has to leave they could have waited for two days then discussed it without creating a wave because he is sure that after almost losing Abhir, just like Navra, Abhimanyu also wants to be with his son.
The Sharmas are now adapting to Abhir’s request to be in Kasauli now! @yeol
I disagree with the assumption that Abhimanyu made a well-meaning gesture and Akshara didn’t want to reciprocate. I can agree to the fact that Akshara somehow failed to reciprocate his gesture. Now I explain why I got to this position. Abhimanyu should have along with the gesture communicated his intentions, and there wouldn’t have been a misunderstanding. Somehow he failed to communicate the basis for holding or suspending the custody case. The Goenkas misunderstood the gesture but only Abhinav was sceptical about leaving Udaipur without consulting with Abhimanyu for a couple of reasons.
Abhimanyu should have struck the iron while it was hot, using our parlance, right after the surgery not after a few days. He thought that Akshnav would wait for him but those assumptions are circumstantial and prone to error or misunderstanding like this. Let’s say that you are the President of your country or Prime Minister, will you expose yourself on the assumption of a goodwill from the other party that you are working with. Of course not. You have to cover the bases and explore every possibility that may emerge.
Your statement about Akshara overlooking Abhimanyu is indeed irrefutable and in that we agree. But here again we differ on the premises of the decision. To me, Akshara and Abhinav made that decision in error rather than deliberately. The final go ahead was given by Aarohi and Shefali and they tried to contact him without success a few times. So they wouldn’t have gone without some form of clearance.
@Francis, I still disagree it’s the height of naivety to interpret Abhimanyu’s gesture as a free pass to take Abhir without him too having a word to add. The gesture was clear and precise, it was a ceasefire to be able to test the waters between them. Akshara and Abhimanyu were in extreme competition, and Akshara was in total urge to exclude Abhimanyu as a father by proclaiming Abhinav as Abhir’s one and only father. So how could she think for even a second that the suspension of the case was the end of the war and that Abhimanyu as a father who was ready to fight tooth and nail for his rights was going to accept that Abhir is away from him, barely Abhir’s operation performed, and especially as parents after having almost lost their children, they will certainly burn with the desire to pamper him and be with him. Either Akshara and devoid of any intelligence, or Akshara never considered co-parenting but just the same doc man status for Abhimanyu. When a storm wreaks havoc, you have to take some time to try to reorganize everything after it has passed. and that is exactly what was happening, Akshara didn’t take first step towards Abhimanyu as they were all taking time to take care of Abhir as that was the priority and Abhimanyu as well. But when Abhir’s health finally stabilized Abhimanyu and the one who made the first move. After Operation Akshara and Abhinav also could have made peace approach for Abhir, but it was Abhimanyu who threw the rope and with their old hostilities it is normal to think that they too could have been looking for a way to keep the peace after his gesture. who would have imagined the sequel.
@yeol. About this court issue i think akshara won’t stop till birlas stop. I say that bcz akshara has to fight against not only abhi but also birlas specially manjiri. Akshara verry well knows that abhi is a puppet of mnjiri. So akshara has to fight against whole Birlas n she won’t step back till birlas stop since the fight has begun. But before that we were shown that akshara herself went to apologise and to explain on what kairav did and not to start a fight but she was late as manjiri had already poisoned abhi. And for abhi his fight is only against akshara and no one except her is there to fight with him. So i feel since the court fight has begun it will always be abhi (and even not whole birlas) who will take the step of holding or closing the issue not akshara.
@🙂 I don’t believe Akshara is actually aware of the person Manjiri has become, otherwise she would have directly asked Abhimanyu after the operation to make peace for Abhir so that Manjiri can’t add his two cents. I believe Akshara thinks Manjiri just sees her as Niel’s killer, Akshara has known Manjiri a bit and she’s never experienced her manipulative side so she has no idea what kind of enemy she has in front of her. Akshara just as she had taken the initiative at a time to chat, could do it during the moment of peace between them and Abhimanyu but she was too overwhelmed with Abhir’s recovery and after all Abhimanyu is not really her priority anymore, so she didn’t think about Abhimanyu’s feelings when Abhir asked to go back to Kasauli. I can’t wait for Manjiri to fall, she’s ruining everyone’s life.
All that you said, rings one thing, and that is, you think going to Kasauli was up for discussion.
@Mark, if Abhir asks to see Ruhi right away, and Akshara and Abhinav are not present but he wants to go to Birla to play with Ruhi, Abhimanyu tries to call Akshara but there is no answer, and he tries to reach Abhinav but he can’t answer either. if Abhimanyu just leaves a voicemail, I took Abhir because he wanted to play with Ruhi do you think Akshara will react how? Should he wait for their return, or just take Abhir, because he wants to go to birla to see Ruhi? Each decision needs to be debated between the parents so as not to create uncomfortable situations.
Now i see your problem is that they gave in to Abhirs demands. But didnt we establish that Abhir should be pampered now untill he gets well? This is just an attempt by Goenkas, Navra to fulfill his wish even if its unreasonable. When he gets well, and as you say wants to go to Ruhi, if the parents are not available, the one responsible for him will make the decision. Leaving a voice note is fine and also turning him down is fine too and delay is fine as well, as time for pampering is over.You remember how Akshu trained Abhir well when Manyu came to take Abhir and Akshu decided to play fair? Akshu made sure that Abhir knows if he wants to go somewhere, his parents give the go ahead for everything. Even accepting a gift needs validation from his parents. So how will this kid think to ask a third party to give the permission to go to Ruhi unless its an emergency.
@yeol abhimanyu listens silently when he feels he is wrong just like any person would but she is akshara who believes that she is always right that’s why she don’t listen and starts fighting doesn’t matter if the other person is speaking facts. Akshara should learn to listen, i don’t know why thos lady remains mum when manjiri insult her and fights like a cat when abhimanyu says facts or says anything logical
@Francis, yes I had thought he should have terms of access drawn up while withdrawing the custody case. But then gave him allowance for still being in the emotion of the moment, relief at having been able to use his skills to save his child and looking forward to the sheer joy of holding his boy in his arms. The only worldly thing on his mind was to thank MahaDev, so he went on seva to the medical camp. In that mood I can image my mind being free of angst and being generous to all and everything. Gratitude is good but it does take one’s eye off the ball.
What is the point of going to medical camp for Abhir as he said, n then come back n forget his judgement straight after that!
I agree. Abhi made a decision there that was subject to differing interpretations. He should have known that the Sharmas are naïve. They are simple-minded and good people who can misinterpret certain events if not clarified. He is smart and he wouldn’t have minded the trip if he got the full explanation.
Yes I agree that Manjiri hijacked the event so that she could position the Navra pairing in a bad way. Abhimanyu was in a new understanding up until she interfered.
I agree with you. This was an oversight probably based on an assumption that the Sharmas are sincere people. All what he did after the surgery was right except in not getting an understanding on Abhir. That is why this misunderstanding returned. He was happy on returning and would have enquired about the reasons for going back to Kasauli but his mother wanted to steer the conversation and she got the first step of her wish.
I disagree with your statement that Akshara and Abhinav assumed that the court notice was a free pass. It wasn’t. They tried to contact Abhimanyu to no avail. Then they sought permission from Aarohi and Shefali for a trip for a few days. So they weren’t taking leisure of the situation. They wanted to contact him and I believe that if they established contact, this discussion would have been irrelevant because Abhimanyu will allow it if it was Abhir’s wish with some conditions. Where I’m hitting at is that Akshara and Abhinav were somehow convinced that Abhimanyu wouldn’t continue to fight the case. They were mistaken there. But that’s their naivety which applies to the Sharma family. Which is why I wrote that this misunderstanding was brought about by various parties and not one of the parties. Everyone is at fault for the misunderstanding and assuming that the reconciliation was in place was a delusion made by both sides in lieu of an actual deal.
Agreed here. Abhimanyu didn’t use his full resources to tackle the issue. Now he is angry and until he calms down the situation is likely to remain tense. He is such a crucial player here but now his temper has taken control of the situation. Everyone is nervy and angry.
True. It’s just the facts.
Your points insinuate that Abhir going to Kasauli was up for discussion. But the truth is it was never up for discussion. Information was supposed to reach Abhi which it did. All that Abhi said is him throwing a tantrum as Abhir wants to be away from him. E.g. what would he have done if they waited? At the end of the day he would say yes.
i see your problem is that they gave in to Abhirs demands. But didnt we establish that Abhir should be pampered now untill he gets well? This is just an attempt by Goenkas, Navra to fulfill his wish even if its unreasonable. When he gets well, and as you say wants to go to Ruhi, if the parents are not available, the one responsible for him will make the decision. Leaving a voice note is fine and also turning him down is fine too and delay is fine as well, as time for pampering is over.You remember how Akshu trained Abhir well when Manyu came to take Abhir and Akshu decided to play fair? Akshu made sure that Abhir knows if he wants to go somewhere, his parents give the go ahead for everything. Even accepting a gift needs validation from his parents. So how will this kid think to ask a third party to give the permission to go to Ruhi unless its an emergency.
It’s no problem to cater to Abhir’s whims and pamper him because a day or two wouldn’t have changed anything for Abhir. what is the role of Abhimanyu for Abhir according to Akshara if his parents give green light for everything, then Abhimanyu should also give green light as he is also a relative of Abhir. reality should not be forgotten Abhimanyu and Abhir’s father, Akshara has to think about making adjustments, the way Akshara used to do with Abhir can’t be the same, now that Abhimanyu and in the equation, she should have already considered including him in the decision making. Akshara should not only think about her way of dealing with things concerning Abhir anymore, but she should also think that she and Abhinav are no longer solely responsible for bringing up Abhir making him happy and that they are no longer solely responsible for decision-making in Abhir’s life. Abhimanyu should be consulted just as Navra should be in the current situation, because they have not yet reached an agreement because it is also the only way for his three adults unable to understand each other to avoid conflicts. If for example tomorrow Abhir wants to go to Ruhi he is still recovering and the same situation as Akshara and Abhinav happens, Akshara would react badly and there is no denying that. @Mark you have your opinion and I have mine my reason was clear from the start, if Akshara was really open to co-parenting she would have taken into account Abhimanyu’s reaction to their departure and sought to discuss, Abhimanyu left a door open and Akshara couldn’t use it, after all that happened I can’t explain that Akshara still can’t read between the lines.
It’s YOU who can’t understand, Akshara DID tried to call Abhi n also INFORMED Aarohi, after all this you still said she did not took into account for Abhi’s reactions?? what more you want her to do?? ABSURB!
Your argument looks well-built but it isn’t effective enough to logically stand up to scrutiny. This is because it is based on Akshnav not wanting to involve Abhimanyu and then Akshnav deciding for Abhimanyu without his permission or knowledge. We cannot deconstruct this argument validly down to its basic units. So this is a logical fallacy. The countervailing one has been proven several times by several people but you choose to stick with the prior argument which is faulty.
Secondly Abhimanyu was influenced to take a hardline stand against the Sharmas but you don’t account for it in your analysis. So Abhimanyu’s position changed on Abhir leaving for Kasauli but no where have you accounted or provided for it in your analysis. This isn’t just about Abhimanyu and Akshara even though they are the most involved here. Manjiri instigated Abhimanyu and Manish gave permission to the Sharmas fulfilling Abhir’s wish. Again here you haven’t accounted for it in your analysis. You’re just all about Abhimanyu Akshara and Abhinav, but it’s not as simple as that. Others have significant parts in the misunderstanding but you stick to these failed assumptions that the Sharmas made a decision on Abhir alone without involving Abhimanyu.
Thank you @Francis. @Yeol feels we are back to square one but in actuality we are strengthening the coparenting bond by covering loopholes like using middle women is highly lethal, decisions should be taken by all three, its not about Abhir anymore but its about making Abhir conform to the whims of 3parents e.t.c.
@Francis, your argument doesn’t hold water Manish’s permission didn’t matter in this story because it’s not Manish who is in direct conflict with Abhimanyu but it’s the Sharmas, only the opinion of Abhimany Akshara and Abhinav really matters. Abhimanyu was instigated by his mother sure, but her argument proves that he didn’t approve that Sharmas can’t wait for his return to consider Abhir’s return to Kasauli together. Abhir wanted to go to Kasauli but with the previous situation and discussions still too fresh from Akshara and Abhimanyu’s fight, waiting was the best option without discussing. Do not sell the skins of the bear before having killed it, and Navra was irrefutably too delirious in taking risks. Abhinav Akshara and Abhimanyu are the only people who have the right to make decisions regarding Abhir, because they are aware of the state of their freshly conflicted relationship. but take a ceasefire for an ending was too superficial and naive. It was best to quietly listen to the reproaches and be able to move on to a calmer discussion after Abhimanyu and voiced his displeasure instead of getting inflamed as Navra was essentially at fault. Abhinav and Akshara voluntarily chose to return to Kasauli for Abhir’s wish, a wish that was not so urgent and that as a responsible adult, they should have first considered their unresolved rivalry regarding their sons Abhir, before considering leaving on the sole basis, of a too fragile pseudo-peace which did not yet have a solid foundation. it proves how much Akshara underestimates Abhimanyu’s desire to be with his son and his fatherly love. Abhimanyu might have wanted just like Goenka to have the opportunity to speak with him before he left. @Francis, external problem factors are not really taken into account, when the primary parties involved, are those who have decided not to learn from their past mistakes. Especially Akshara with his reproaches against Abhimanyu for not warning him before making a decision concerning Abhir, she should have known that Abhimanyu would also have wanted to hear it from his mouth, and with Abhimanyu’s reproaches concerning the two calls which have changed his relationship with Abhir misunderstandings happened too quickly if no precautions are taken. You can go on arguing with Navra’s naivety in the forefront and outside factors, but it’s still invalid. tomorrow the problem can certainly be solved or not, but that does not erase Navra’s irresponsibility.
@Yeol, with you again on the argument. I had to laugh at what is the point of having a brain if you won’t use it.
Thank you for your insights. Abhimanyu’s argument is valid to an extent and he made a confrontation based on the lie whispered to him by his mother. But we have already established that the Sharmas were mistaken in thinking that the custody case was over. So what remains is to hash out the differences and find a suitable solution for Abhir. @yeol keeps sticking to what is effectively a non starter and @Rai is supporting for the sake of supporting. But that is not the point, the point is whether Akshara and Abhinav were making a decision on behalf of Abhimanyu for Abhir? The answer to that is no. So what is so hard to get here?
And as you said, Akshu is not making efforts to understand what is happening. I.e. Manjiri has influenced Abhi. And remember, Navra did not do follow up to find out how Abhi took in the information or if it reached Abhi as intended. Naive indeed and delusional.
You keep making the counterarguments but they are empty and devoid of content. Abhimanyu is mistaken that the Sharmas are going forever with his Abhir but that wasn’t what transpired. They weren’t even willing to go as you are wanting to believe. They went just to help Abhir’s recovery which Manjiri heard very well and if that wasn’t relevant she would have told that to Abhimanyu. You’re talking as if this argument is invalid but that isn’t the case. Abhimanyu is right to a certain degree and he could have asked them what was happening to clear the air and they as well were stuck in a delusion which @Mark understands very well.
@Francis it’s not about Abhimanyu believing that they take Abhir forever as you think. Akshara and Abhinav took Abhir without his consent, they relied on outside approval instead of waiting to talk to him. What do you call taking something without permission? Abhir is not only the child of Akshara and Abhinav. Abhimanyu’s approval was required just like Akshara told Abhimanyu that everything related to his son Abhir, his approval should be required even for small things like shoes. Abhimanyu made an effort first and he was disappointed whatever their reasons were not completely valid. because as you expressed it so well Akshara and happy in Kasauli and this motivated his choice, it is not only up to Abhimanyu to make efforts to make things work. When Abhimanyu steps forward Navra steps back, when Akshara steps forward Abhimanyu steps back. When a person makes an effort it would be better to try to follow the rhythm instead of advancing at his own pace because when the other is ready the other side will certainly not be. Abhimanyu’s gesture was the most significant on both sides to establish peace and Akshara and Abhinav should have followed his pace. I’ll stop there, you have your opinion and I have mine.
Yes I agree. The misunderstanding is happening with the two sides. Just as Abhimanyu isn’t aware of the nature of the Sharma trip, he even thinks that they’ve gone forever. The Sharmas think that Abhimanyu won’t pursue the custody case. They were naïve there. This is a logical argument. This is because we can disprove Navra thinking. This is amply proven by Abhimanyu’s challenge to them by visiting then in Kasauli. This argument is valid.
Let’s look at Abhimanyu’s position. He thinks that the Sharmas sneaked away from him. That they have gone forever. He got this spurious information from his mother, a confidant and trusted source. Over time the voicemail message will emerge that Akshara was actively trying to take permission from him. Then they asked permission from Aarohi and Shefali and asked them to pass the message across. This will immediately disprove Abhimanyu’s thinking that the Sharmas were trying to cheat him. The complementary argument that is given here can be disproved too using these examples as well.
While family members may not matter directly but the structure of the families are considered. Both Sharma and Birla are Hindu families, but there are differences. Abhimanyu belongs to a Hindu United Family. So the governance of those families, the elders have more authority and in modern nuclear families. So the context of the families are more relevant. This is why Manjiri and Manish have a voice in this matter. Just to clarify. The child custody laws of India have different extant laws for the different major religions apart from the Christians for which a specific one hasn’t been drafted as the follow one associated with section 41 of the Indian Divorce Act of 1869.
Sorry the keyboard truncated a word I meant to say Hindu Undivided Family.
A nice prayer and two knowing glances, two growing smiles. Abhir comes back home and halts that. Akshara wants to show them something. Akshara is so inspired today, the Aashiyana idea is so beautiful. The ideal get away in an idyllic setting. Homestay on the mountains with the locals. That is something now.
Abhimanyu has come to take back Abhir. So he will try to but things aren’t looking like calmness and peace will take over. Akshara isn’t ready to talk to Abhimanyu about Abhir. She wants her happy family complete and unruffled. This isn’t possible now. Also Bade Papa made similar assumptions about Abhimanyu but that was wrong. Abhimanyu wants to spend his life with Abhir. Kairav isn’t keeping quiet and he is going to Kasauli now.
This is why the negotiations were important they should have had the peace talks in the moments after the surgery when the good will was perhaps coursing through all their arteries and veins except perhaps (what?!) for Manjiri. Now angry people cannot do peace summits. Abhimanyu may open the custody case at the courts close to Kasauli. Or something else is planned by those clever guys.
Something about those looks from earlier. @Mark sorry I was asleep later on. I think something serious happened. Now we await some news on further developments on that day. The preggy twist won’t be so surprising now. Your assessment of the Akshara’s love for Abhinav ticks all the right boxes. This is what some of us have been saying since. Akshara’s love for the two men is so different one was passionate and the other is more reserved. So now there aren’t any questions about what state Akshara is because she expresses her feelings in a different way now. Akshara changed a lot after the leap but it wasn’t easy for a section of the fanbase to accept this one.
As i said yesterday, i dont know why people didnt like the display of love by Abhira, which i actually injoyed. That is what people who are crazy for each other do, they want all the world to know their feelings and they act like kids. I never saw any cringeness.
You are completely convinced they had s*x this night? 😊😊😊😊😊 fingers crossed. If she becomes preggy in the future, then today was the action day. Otherwise, it is still a blank for me. She is not even blushing.
I have never had any issues with the live expressed by Abhira too. The love was sometimes passionate and starry and sometimes sombre and starless. It had its ups and downs like the movies. The love was Akshara’s first and Abhimanyu’s one and only. They were children at heart, nothing so wrong about that. They needed a modicum of understanding. Which they didn’t have.
I am somewhat convinced of that event. I see the nuances and don’t see any awkwardness or shyness. The guys are setting the baselines for future events so they throw in a consequential event into the regulars. Or like keeping a diamond ring among the ordinary things to bring it out later. The reasoning behind my assumption is that she is more reserved when expressing her feelings for Abhinav. Today she would have been true to type still reserved but not shy.
In my understanding
1. The custody case was on hold, equivalent to cancelled.
2. Abhir said he wanted to go home and will visit Goenkas soon.
3. Everyone knew it was one way ticket and incase one misses the other, they will visit.
4. Aru also knew it was one way ticket. And Manjiri and Manyu too.
5. Sharmas and Goenkas were deluded to think Manyu will agree for Abhir to be in Kasauli.
6. Navra mu Abhi withdrawal of the custody case as him leaving all responsibility to them.
7. Manyu or Navra dont want to discuss middle ground as they know there is NO middle ground. It is either Abhir stays in Udaipur or Kasauli and the opposers respectively will be limited to visits for the case of Manyu and for Navra, they will have to relocate to udaipur.
But from the precap, this middle ground will be solved when Abhir chooses a side.
8. Manyu never listens when he gets angry. It is unreasonable for him to take Abhir to Udaipur after he explicitly said he wants to be in Kasauli. Its okay for him to reprimand Navra for being too eager to return home so much that he never got the chance to say bye to Abhir. This tantrum is only because Abhir chose Kasauli and he didnt get a chance to sway him otherwise. As usual, he is not respecting even Abhir.
You’re are right about the events. Your itemised rendering captures a lot of the salient points. The decision to go to Kasauli and Abhimanyu’s unavailability provided the backdrop for the new conflict, the purpose of which is to take the story forward. So there is so much we can do to blame the characters in the story. I enjoyed your take on it. Everyone is at fault here in my opinion in shades but the boldest shade goes to Manjiri who envies the friendship between Akshara and Abhinav. She provoked her son to do what she is unable to do and that is to bring Abhir back to Udaipur. If I may, I differ on one ground, Abhir isn’t the middle ground in this conflict because though the parents will respect his wish, he will get to the bottom of why this story became entangled he has a similar analytical brain and he will likely use that to uncover the gaps in the story. Now the adults have started providing him information for which once he has enough he would choose a side, definitely.
When Abhir chooses a side, it means the loosing side will have to beg for symapthy right. The loosing side will not call for a middle ground because the possibility of a middle ground was only possible when Abhir was unaware of the happenings. The winning side, out of goodwill, will allow visitations, and will set out a chance for the loosing side to express their love to Abhir and will help them in this regard.
Yes true, the loser has to beg for mercy and seek an accommodation from the winner. The middle ground indeed is Abhir up until when he chooses a side. You’re right about that. Abhinav being involved may douse the fires blazing from those two fighters. Otherwise the loser accepts failure and seek mercy while the winner takes Abhir.
@Francis. I feel abhir, after knowing that abhinav is not his real papa n not knowing abhi is his real papa, will get distance from navra as he is upset for hiding, but will get closer to abhi as abhi is his best. And this can again create misunderstanding between that abhi made abhir to dislike navra. But what i wish is that abhir’s decision on his papa should be taken after knowing each n every thing happened in past up to now.
Your assumption is highly probable.
Let’s hope that Abhir knowing Abhi is his biological dad follow him home to Birla and enjoy the rest of his life with Birla forgetting Akshara n Abhinav, so the Sharmas have no choice but to move on and start their own little Sharma’s family! and live happily ever after❤️ The End.
Preview… A new serial start after that!
So true. Holding the tail of a tiger isn’t for the faint hearted, really. Do the Birlas think that Akshara isn’t going to retaliate if they use aggressive means to take Abhir away from her? She will soon start feeding those words to Abhir’s ears about life and the people that made her life like this. Of course she will obscure her own part in this entangled situation.
Abhir will likely behave in the manner you have written down here. Over time he will start hearing stories and stories and she will use every loophole that she will find to heighten the emotional connection to what she is telling Abhir that’s for sure. She doesn’t want to lose Abhinav and Abhir so she will start telling Abhir things that his father did and that his grandmother did that is just how low this game can go.
True. That is highly probable. Abhir will not remain so innocent after this. He might want a reunion though.
Everyone is so caught up with saying Akshu is wrong and Abhi his right the only thing most of us agree on is Manjiri is one of the main issue. People need to stop seeing this as right and wrong and see it as a child who will suffer in the end because parent behave like teens which isn’t fair on poor Abhir. The little man has just had a surgery and then he must find out the man who he thought of as a dad for past 6 years isn’t his dad, it’s not fair on him at all. Abhi can’t just arrive demanding the child especially since Abhir knows Abhinav as his dad and Akshu can’t keep the truth forever from her son. They need to find a way to do this so Abhir is so badly affected mentality by this, his just been through a surgery. Okay cool Akshu hid the truth so what it happened it’s in the past nobody can do anything about it but they can do something right now which is 1. Tell Abhir the truth not him hear and feel sad this poor child had surgery 2. Akshu Abhi and Abhinav need to sit downs have a proper discussion about the child and what needs to happen going forward, if fingers are pointing at Akshu then just as many are pointing at Abhi.
This is the whole point. Manjiri should have chose a later time to manipulate his son. She should have waited for Abhir to recover to manipulate her son. And Abhi should have waited for Abhir to recover to take action. Right now, Akshu is discussing about telling Abhir. But little did she know, she is actually telling it to him right then. Now Abhi is not in listening mode. The child is sick, one journey must have taken a toll on him let alone the return trip that Abhi wants him to take. And he has not enjoyed time with his friends or home and he is being taken away from them? He must think something is not right. Abhi is not in his senses now. He needs action e.g.snatching Abhirs bag from Akshu, and not being reasoned with.
I trust Abhinav is upbringing but I don’t trust the makers . If they make Abhir hate Abhinav for not being his father then what message are they sending to adoptive parents. I hope Akshara explains Abhir and he understands the situation and allow him to decide how to relate with both fathers. What I know, from here on Abhir has been scarred and if he gets to find out how Abhinav ended up being his father, I hope the makers grant my wish and make him hate Abhimanyu so much more than Abhimanyu hated his own father.
Let me remind you this is itv, here as soon as a child finds out that the person they know as their parent is not their parent biologically, they start giving preference to bio parent and all the feeling they had for adoptive parents end right then and there. Suddenly they start being indifferent towards their adoptive parents whom they loved dearly in past and become incline to their bio parent.
Then I should say,luckily Akshara is Abhir’s mum! No matter what Abhir is still connected to Akshara n whoever is with Akshara! Maybe Abhir will choose to go with Abhi, but eventually he will miss Akshara n decide to come back to Akshara n Abhinav!
Yes the makers can change the whole game in a flash. But Abhinav’s fatherhood is unlikely to fail here. Abhir may want both parents to take care of him. But if the process is drawn out he will discover the circumstances of his birth which isn’t going to favour Abhimanyu. But Abhimanyu’s tactics are a little faulty here. Abhir only has affinity for Abhimanyu because he doesn’t know about the separation and the second divorce.
@Francis I agree, hope it turns out as u say!
I hope so as well. That would mean another recurring theme through the generations. This show has patterns recurring through time. Abhi became estranged from Harshvardhan and it may recur like that. Akshara has been through similar experiences as her own mother. I look forward to the upcoming episodes with some tension, of course.
Ye akshu abir abhi shanti se baith ke baat hi nai kar kaste, manyu gusse mai opposite party ki baat nai sunna chahti aur akshara gusse mai aake baat nai karna chahti, shanti se samjhane ki koshish kyu nai ki, chalo mana ki abhimanyu ne ekdum se aake bomb fod dia aur akshu ghabra gai aur kaam ki baat nai boli, par baad mai to explain kar sakti thi na. Voice msg kyu nai choda ladki ne nikalne ke pehle.
Manjiri sai mai bekar hai i hope arohi ruhi ko leke chali jaye.
Try as hard as I may I find it hard to sympathise with Akshara. Her adamanacy, stubbornness and selfishness at not sharing parenthood with Abhimanyu is at the root of the pain now for her and Abhinav. Abhimanyu made the mistake of trusting her by withdrawing the custody case. He has learnt his lesson and is right in his determination not to give an inch this time in his drive to be in his child’s life and not be reduced to the biological fact, of just being a sperm donor. The biggest sorrow in all this is Abhir’s pain at knowing he has been living a lie. There isn’t a magical age when a truth about the lack of a biological link to an adored parent becomes easier to bear, though, children because they have yet to absorb society’s judgements and prejudices may bounce back quicker, as they are easier to persuade that love is what matters alongside being very much wanted by the parents. Abhimanyu is ensuring Abhir goes through no feelings of rejection by him. How will they explain why Papa Abhinav and not Papa Abhimanyu lives with him! Akshara has woven a complex web of pain for all caught in her net.
@Rai, I’m not too sure that Abhimanyu has all the facts at his disposal which has a good ring to it. When he learns about the missed calls he will realise that the other party made an effort and this in turn brings them closer in understanding. Akshara isn’t reasonable with Abhir’s upkeep and she can’t expect Abhimanyu to stay away from Abhir. She was living in a web that she made, but now that Abhimanyu knows about Abhir, she has to make adjustments that can help resolve this entanglement. She has a part to play now she is likewise Abhimanyu. She responded to Abhimanyu’s anger in a way that didn’t indicate that she was ready to understand what was going on. Abhir’s emotions aren’t being considered by Akshara and Abhimanyu in this childish fight.
@Rai. I wonder how akshara could have told about Abhir’s papa withoit hiding. I mean for Roohi it is understandable when arohi says that your papa has become a star. But for Abhir how could akshara narrate it. Could that be “Abhirs papa is there in udaipur but we/i cannot go n live with him” how will that affect abhir? I just can’t think how that story could have been?
@Rai, another shot at goal at least for me, I share the same feeling, Akshara has indeed woven a web of pain the words are very fair and no one, not even her, will be spared the consequences of her choices concerning Abhir . Let’s see how quickly the current will reach the shore. I think if someone creates a mess he should definitely be the one who does his best to balance and erase his mistakes. The current web is the result of the person who wove it and that person should be the one who should do everything possible not to cross the girls to avoid collision at all. some of the responsibilities are shared between Akshara and Abhimanyu but their decisions are their responsibilities, they are going to have to take responsibility for their choices by making efforts to mitigate the consequences of their choices each and required to look their mistakes in the face and to accept that they and responsible because he made the choice himself.
@🙂Why would it be impossible to say, ‘your Dad Abhi lives in Udaipur. We are not friends, I am friends with Abhinav and he is your Papa.’ I’m trying to explain it, as I would to a child. And then if one day he wants to know more about Dad Abhi, she could let them connect instead of sticking to her guns that Abhi doesn’t want to know Abhir. Yes, in her mind she thinks Abhi would reject Abhir and so she is trying to save the child any pain. But today the child is in pain learning the truth.
This situation is way advanced and not at all identical to before Akshu decided to play fair. “adamancy, stubbornness and selfishness” is at all not the issue here.
The issue now is Manyu under the influence of Manjiri, wants to take Abhir with him to udaipur. He is being unreasonable and mad by packing Abhirs stuffs by himself. He wants Abhir to come and give him a big no for him to wake the hell up. Coming to Kasauli now was not up for discussion as it was sick Abhir wish. Also, another issue now is that Akshu is not making an effort to help Manyu to see reason.
Yes Navra was delusional in thinking Manyu gave all Abhir responsibility to them. The only thing that is reasonable now, is telling Navra that they were mistaken and hence talk of a middle ground when the middle ground opportunity is open. But since both have no balls to talk about middle ground, because they know middle ground is non existence. There is only Kasauli or Udaipur. There is no in between.
Akshu is not wrong to give Abhir semblance of a normal life which includes a dad. If in future he gets to know about his bio dad, good for him he will have two dads. If he decides to keep only his bio dad then Akshu can sit down and accept that she did a mistake introducing a willing dad who became useless when Abhir grew up and didnt see his usefulness. But if Abhir chooses the willing dad over bio dad, then she did a good job from the start. If he chooses both, then his son will have double happiness. If he comes to hate his bio dad, then Akshu can be happy as she managed to postpone the inevitable for as long as it lasted and Abhir was able to enjoy his innocence of not having to hate anyone. As simple as that.
Very true. Even my question on how akshara can make abhir understand if she had decided to not hide truth is bcz of this hatred. Bcz as i see if akahara says who his papa is and they are not living together and who is this abhinav.. then abhir will be loaded with many questions with HOW? WHY? WHAT? then answers for his questions could have more chance for abhir to grew anger n hatred towards abhi without even seing him. Although that situation has now come abhir has already developed a good bond with abhi by now n he sees abhi as a nice person. So now there might be less chances for abhir to get angry on abhi. But nothing can decide by the audience n as you said it all depends on abhir by the way he takes the issue.
@Mark, so what is driving Akshara’s anger. She looked pretty wild today. And, no, it’s not her choice alone to decide what is best for Abhir. The essence of this story is not the manipulation of a grandmother. It is as the story keeps announcing periodically and repeated several times today recognition for the biological father’s right. Hence Abhimanyu speaks directly to Akshara the mother, leaving the adopted father out of the conversation.
I think her anger is bcz of her past inscident that happened on Neil’s death. Um not going to justify any one but saying what i felt seing this anger of akshara towards abhi. She is still stuck in that day where all lives got changed. She had not given any chance to speak but when she tried no one listened and even abhi. She was thrown out and abhi didn’t try to listen her once due to his pain. So now she gets angry when seing abhis ego and him not trying to listen as this might remind hwr the past. I think this way bcz the day she went to talk with abhi on what kairav did she tried to explain him but he was not ready and that ended up with hot arguments amd initiating course case. So now evevery ry time she sees abhis ego she gets angry and react in anger.
What is driving Akshus anger: Manyu came to Udaipur means, after a successful Arohi conveyed the information that it was a short stay in Kasauli, Abhi did not be patient enough to give Sharmas the space they need(this must have been Akshu thought at the begining). Then followed by being called thieves. I would accept if he called them delusional and impulsive. Delusional for thinking he left Abhir entirely to them and impulsive for not waiting even for few days to fulfill Abhir wishes. What Abhir wanted was a must to happen. If Abhi had received the call, he would have no choice but to tell Akshu to go ahead. And i was okay with the second best step Navra took, gave the responsibility of INFORMING Manyu(not discuss) to Aru. But Aru was held at gun point because Manjiri knew it is logical that Abhir wish should be fulfilled regardless of whether the middle ground discussion is held or not. The discussion can wait but a recovering Abhir cannot wait. Also, here is where Navra failed as the person they trusted(Aru), let them down. And this is where i agree with @yeol that Navra have come a long way regarding coparenting, only to take a risk with a middle woman who was easly sabotaged. I agree with Manyu that they could have waited untill he came, as this would have not given Manjiri a loophole to take advantage of. Abhir wish was not up for discussion but delaying it was very possible.
@Yeol, true the person who weaves the web which has all entrapped should own up and take responsibility. Akshara though survives on dreams, she is in denial about her role creating the mess around her and so keeps compounding her mistakes. Today my patience with her self righteous is running thin.
@Francis, fingers crossed for the sake of Abhir’s sanity the adults get real and stop fighting for their individual selfish need. Akshara needs to get her head out of the sand and recognise for an attempt at peace it’s going to have to be Mamma, Papas and Junior/Nikki ji in a co-parenting deal.
@Mark we know now the return to Kausali was never intended to be a short stay. The call to Abhimanyu was not between co-parents but to get permission from Abhir’s physician which they got from Arohi. Arohi only authorised a short visit cautioning that Abhir was still under medical care. Here the Sharmas are being irresponsible, Abhir is still in recovery. The distance between Udaipur and Kausali is nearly a thousand kilometers, hardly a distance that be travelled for a daily visit. All in all Abhimanyu is correct in feeling Akshara is perpetrating an act of thief by taking his child from him. And all his points were addressed only to Akshara and not Abhinav. He knows she is the ring leader and has past form with her as an adversary. She is no victim as they keep showing us in the story.
What we are shown is far from a victim. We are shown a naive, delusional, smart woman. Its still not clear if they intended to stay permanently due to contradicting conversations. Why did Aru say i will tell Abhi? Tell him what if its not about, Abhir wish to be in Kasauli? Why did Aru fear Abhi will not agree? The call to Aru was to a doctor and co parent middle woman. Afterall, Nav insisted for Manyu to be informed of their wish to fulfill Abhir wish. Lets not talk about irresponsibility as Aru gave the green light. Also, Manyu desire to take Abhir with him shows traveling is not a major issue.
My concern is, Manyu is interfering in Navras turn to be with Abhir. When he was with him in Birlas, no one came to interfere.
It seems Kairav sees Muskaan more clearly now. He may have applied a few eye drops. He can now see what Muskaan was seeing which is a nice first step. He will now try to stop Abhimanyu and as the adults spar over the bits and bobs, Abhir will start to discover his lovely family in all its glory.
I think this kasauli track is necessary because This will either make or break sharma family. Now all is revealed abhimanyu in kasauli he can see the family dynamics that this Family has. How Abhinav and abhir’s bond is. All three are there without outside influence to let the truth be known to abhir. It’s better that he is away from Birla and Goenkas so when he learns the truth they hopefully won’t confuse the child. And abhir can make abhimanyu understand not to snatch him from his family.
I agree Akshara was also slightly immature during the backpack scene. But the issue is Akshara REACTS, Abhimanyu ACTS. Akshara is reacting to Abhimanyu’s childlike behavior except he’s an adult and can’t be explained like a child. Hence she also comes off as such because she can’t find any other way to interact with this guy, some people are like that. She tried talking, it didn’t work, she tried the next best method which she believes might make him see sense but as we all witnesses to no luck. Maybe Abhinav can, that’s why Akshara and Abhinav make a good team. They both have strengths and weaknesses but they listen to each other when their weakness comes front and the others strength. There’s no ego, they rely on each other. Except to make way for Abhimanyu, it seems like the makers are ruining Abhinav’s character. This man who had the strength to literally carry Akshara and build his business for them is suddenly plagued by doubts and weakness.
@Mark, no Arohi’s status as a co-parent is yet to be agreed. If Akshara was consulting family then she would call Manjiri in Abhimanyu’s absence. In joint families grandparents are considered the head of the family. But lets leave it at this. And, yes, they are acting irresponsibly. Arohi as the doctor gave permission for a break of a few days not for a relocation. But lets leave the story to unfold the truth for us. Although the makers do hang all the crucial parts of the story on misunderstandings. No wonder we battle it out on our interpetions in this forum. Enjoyable though it is. By the way like you I am still wondering what took place between Navra during the night. Watching the morning after, I’m not sure if I was watching a moment of: ‘sorry, the wait was too long and I just could not get it together’ from Abhinav. And Akshara was like: ‘ never mind there will be other nights’, and then Abhimanyu walks in. Interpretation is a nightmare. They need to spell things out more.
I hope that Akshata never goes back to that Abhimsnyus house
He is so unreasonable
Now after 6 yrs he wants to be a father omg he may win his so butAbhinav is the best father snd can’t stand abhimanyu
As he is so selfish only thinking of himself and that mother of his not of what Abir will go through
Please don’t get Akshata go back to this man ahbimsnyu keep Abhinav alive please
I hope that Abhimanyu gets married to aruhi as they deserve each other