Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 18th April 2023 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
The Episode starts with Manjiri saying Akshu is taking Abhir so far. Aarohi says yes, Abhinav and Akshu decided it. Everyone discusses it. Aarohi says Akshu came and took Abhir’s reports. Mahima says she came to Abhi before and now she wants to go to US, she doubts us. Shefali says Akshu would be doubting herself, maybe Abhinav and family make her have faith. Manjiri says its their family matter, we should pray that nothing happens to Abhir, he gets fine soon, he would be so worried, we should pray for his good health. Aarohi thinks I also want Abhir to get fine, if everyone stops him from going. Manish scolds Akshu. He asks don’t we love Abhir, you decided it, you made us strangers, why do you care. Suwarna asks him to calm down. He says she is taking Abhir abroad, ask her. Suwarna says you took this decision because of Abhi and your tension or is there any other reason. Surekha taunts. Everyone explains Akshu. Manish and Kairav argue. Akshu cries. Abhinav worries seeing her. Manish says this decision is wrong, you are not listening to a doctor, Abhir shouldn’t travel. She says I have thought a lot and decided this, I don’t want to fight with you. She sits crying. Abhinav says I want to support Akshu, you all please support us, we need your support. Abhi comes home. He gets down the car.
The balloon bursts. Abhi cries and tries to blow it again. He says sorry junior, I want to take care of you and your things, but I m not able to do anything, why Mahadev, why. Parth talks to Shivansh on call. Shefali takes the phone from his hand. She says when you come home, I need to talk something imp, I miss you, see you soon. She gives the phone. Parth scolds her and says no one will tell my son anything. Manjiri and Aarohi come. Shefali says I will decide, he is my son also, you are ordering me, I won’t hide anything, I don’t want him to have trust issues, I will tell him the truth and attend therapy sessions with him. Kairav says we are going to Disneyland, we will take your mum and dad along. Abhir says you changed a lot and love me. Kairav says you are so lovely. Abhir says doc man will not allow me to go, he will get angry and do Tandav. Akshu says he has permitted you and gave the files also. Abhir thinks he was crying for this. He asks shall we take him along, he will get sad. She says no one will be sad, think we will have much fun at Disneyland. Abhi thinks of Abhir and cries. Rohan says your shift is over, go home, I will handle everything here, are you worried for Abhir, its his parents decision, we can’t help it, you spend time with Ruhi, take a break. Abhi says you always have a solution, tell me, how to let Abhir go, we don’t have a solution. Aarohi comes and looks on. Rohan says there is a solution, when parents think emotionally, doctors should think practically, you should think of the kids who need you, Abhir will get a doctor, move on. Abhi agrees.
He says junior is just my patient, I m just his doctor, I should forget this. Rohan says please g home. Abhi says Ruhi would be waiting for me, and I m here…. Akshu says you called us. Dadi says I spoke to Guru ji, I told him about Abhir, he has asked us to keep a Mahayagya, Abhir’s mum will sit in the puja, and Abhir’s dad will tie this thread to his hand. Abhinav asks what’s this. Dadi says Surekha thread, you will tie this, it’s a rule that Abhir’s dad ties this, else puja won’t be successful, take it. Abhinav recalls Abhir’s birth. Akshu looks at him. He cries. Dadi says take it. She gives it and goes. Abhinav thinks.
Akshu says you are Abhir’s dad. He says I can’t tie this thread. She says stop questioning yourself, you are his dad. He says Nand baba was Kanha’s dad, it doesn’t mean Vasudev wasn’t his dad. She says don’t say all this. He says nothing is imp for me than Abhir’s life, my fear isn’t letting me tie the thread. She asks him to throw the fear out. She says Nand baba’s love made Kanha a Kanha, he used to apologize for his mischief and save him from troubles, I m Abhir’s mum and you are his dad, we aren’t making any mistake. She goes. He cries and says this situation didn’t come in front of Nand baba. Dadi says all the preparations are done. Muskaan comes and says Abhir is fine, but Abhinav isn’t at home. Akshu recalls his words. Abhinav meets Abhi. He says mum’s place and fear are big, we can’t understand Akshu, whatever she told you, don’t feel bad, she took you away from Abhir, I will take you close to Abhir. Akshu calls Abhinav. Suwarna says he will come. Abhinav says Dadi has kept mahayagya at home, I want you to attend the puja. Abhi says family is imp in puja, what will I do. Abhinav says its for Abhir, you are also like a father for him. Abhi gets shocked.
Abhi sees Abhir’s birth certificate. He is shocked. He runs to Akshu. Abhir asks why are we going to America. Akshu says an angel doctor will make you fine. Abhi says you have no right to keep a child away from his dad. She scolds him. He says you can’t decide it alone.
Update Credit to: Amena
Honestly Now I just care for Abhinav he is trying to protect everyone take care of everyone ,every single one even if he gets hurt. He is trying to do what is right.
I think Akshara did not wanted to inform Abhimanyu regarding Abhir because of two things ..one her fear that Abhimanyu will steal Abhir from her and of course she did not want that.Even during that time she tried calling him many times…but after she heard Abhi’s thoughts about her and the baby through the phone (miscommunication).She took it as an insult to her and her baby ..(which is true )..Abhi at that point insulted them.(Communication problem)..
Here Aarohi is justifying her actions as she is thinking whatever she is doing id for the benifit of Ruhi and everyone..(Aarohi and Akshara- Same thought Sister Vibes) Aarohi ‘s way of doing things is a bit unjustified…
All of them are just misguided soul ….
After 6 years, Abhi is still immature, he is still a good son who always follows Manjari’s mother’s feelings and is responsible for Neil to take care of Ruhi. A doctor is performing his medical examination responsibilities, just need Ruhi to make a phone call to ask him to go home, he leaves everything and rides his motorbike home. I’m very disappointed and don’t say it’s because he loves Ruhi so much. It is true that Abhi is a good doctor, a good son of Manjari’s mother, but not a good husband. Arohi just needs a father for her daughter, but regardless of morality, personality, and family affection, harms Abheer and also the son of the person she is going to marry, so When Abhi learns the truth, will she come up with a new story that will benefit her? She will defy the truth and blame all the blame on Abhinav and Akshu.?
@Flower you are right .I think Aarohi will not tell anyone that she knew about Abhir and she will justify her action in the name of Ruhi …
Arohi is just using Ruhi as an excuse for her actions first of all she loves Abhi from the beginning she’s not marrying him only because of Ruhi but because of herself
How can she be so selfish that she’s ready to riski Abhir’s life because of her selfishness what kind of a masi is she what kind of a doctor is she.
I don’t think Abhi should marry her.
Akshu is scared to lose her son if Abhi finds out the truth
Plus she did try to call Abhi so many times to inform about the baby but he didn’t listen to her.
But it’s time Abhi needs to know and find out the truth about Abhir.
Akshu is another controlling freak.. She chose abhinav over abhimanyu as she can dominate abhinav easily.. She is the one taking all the decisions even without consulting him.. Already one baby died coz of her stupidity and now again risking her child’s life just to hide her secret😒 abhinav should stop his puppet behaviour and bash akshu for once.. Acha pati doesnot mean patni ki stupidity har baar maan lena.. Atleast abhimanyu is learning from his mistakes but akshu? Kis baat ka ghamand hai ise bhai? Her problem is she never listens.. Aise haalat me US le ke jana 😒😒
Well, I don’t think Akshu is dominating here.
She has fear of loosing Abhir, obvious reason
She called many time to inform about pregnancy but during a phone call, Abhi said even though she is a mother of his child he won’t meet, I mean when Abhinav asked him that don’t you wanna meet her if she is the mother of your child and he said then also NO.
And Manjiri hates her, oh by the Manjiri is true BRILA, the innocent lady has become a true BRILA. Ok keeping that aside, Manjiri will demand for Abhir. Abhi will file a case, these things will surely happen. Akshu is doing the same mistake Naira did during Kairav time.
Right she chose abhinav becoz he is a puppet of mahan akshara n she decides everything,first she murdered her babies due to her extra foolishness of her mahanta.now again due to her ego she is ready to kill abhir what of lady she is.
Then abhi is also a puppet though it is not for his wife but for manjiri. It was bcz of his puppet nature he exaggerated the problems without solving.
Another criminal arohi supporter. These supporters are real criminals who propagate evil characters
If Akshu easily controls others, does she need to live in Kasauli for the past 6 years and not return to her mother’s house? Abhinav is having emotional swings about the responsibility of a biological father. Because Abhinav thinks for Abhi and Abheer. But Akshu thinks about Abhinav’s rights and sacrifices for Abheer. Akshu’s decision is dangerous, but if she stays at Birla hospital and lets Abhi treat Abheer’s illness, will that safety be guaranteed, when Akshu already has suspicions of Arohi’s hand? in the treatment of Abheer as well as the danger to her son. Manish and Goenka family have made a lot of favoritism decisions, for Abhi, Arohi and Ruhi’s feelings, they never thought about Akshu and Abhinav’s feelings, except when Abheer was sick. And the Goenka family didn’t know Akbeer’s true identity either, so Akshu’s decision to leave was only natural. If Abheer’s truth comes out, will the Goenka family cancel Arohi and Abhi’s wedding?
You can only think of one side of the coin, but when the other side of the coin is exposed, will the original decision remain intact, or will all the blame fall on Akshu and Abhinav. They have never experienced Akshu’s pain and Abhinav’s hardships and his sacrifices, so they can rise to the top. Who is the Birla family? What kind of person is Arohi? Surely you have also seen it clearly in the past few days, and I will make sure that lying to separate Abhi father and son, fighting for the happiness and rights of others for himself continues to be Arohi’s forte.
It’s dangerous for Aarohi to be a doctor when she cannot handle her emotions, she can risk patient’s life anytime she lost control of her feelings, we have already seen how many errors she did that almost cost live!
@Surabhi, you are right Akshu is a control freak. I agree she chose Abhinav because she can ignore and dominate him. She does not respect his maturity and balanced reasoning and has left Abhimanyu traumatised with her temple lecture on his showing her no respect.
@Rai and @Surabhi
Abhinav knows that he is new to Birla and Goenka environment that is why he is treading by following Akshu lead. That is why he supported Akshu today which is contrary to yesterday. Abhinav understands that he is new to Goenka drama. Akshara has noticed Aru behaviour when she suggested going to US, she means LEAVE from here. And if Abhinav does not follow Akshu lead when dealing with Birlas and Goenkas thrn he will be the most stupid person on earth because he dont know their true colors.
I agree at @mark abhinav agreed today contrary to yesterday because he saw for himself the position akshu was in and the argument that was going on and it not like akshu is controlling him he is just being a supportive husband what ahbi was never and akshu takes those decisions without his consent because she knows that he will understand and that as long as it about abhir health he will consent to it akshu took the decision to move to the US because she smells foul play in birla hospital and arohi plus the fear she has been hiding do you think she doesn’t care about her son in fact she is even a better mother than manjiri arohi mahima and even the Goenkas ask yourself if it were you will you get your son treated in a hospital that almost caused you your son or were you smell something fishy going on and your instincts keeps warning you? Will you ignore that?
I suggest everyone here to go and revisit episodes from the incident of Arohi fake preggy to Manish talk with Akshu friend. After that we come and discuss who is to blame and to what extent. Manjiri and Abhi forgot that Akshu treated birlas as her family and was struggling everyday to make sure they are happy. They forgot everything Akshu did for them. If Akshu is to blame, then Neil is to blame too as he was an active participant. The situation 6yrs ago called forth Akshu breaking her promise to Abhi. And Akshu is adamant??? I mean, if she sees something wrong is happening and her entire being is telling her to act then is she supposed to let things be just because Abhi told her to? This is controlling behaviour. If Akshu noticed Aru fake preggy then she feels situation requires her to confront Aru about it, is she supposed to resist just because Abhi wants to handle the problem? And Akshu should not interfere his family matters? Isnt that automatically her family after marriage? In short, Abhi was telling her to change herself entirely and just do whatever he says without putting her opinion in it. So manytimes Abhi had tried to silence her views just because his are correct. If he could listen to her about solving Aru fake preggy together then Akshu would not stress about it. Abhi wanted to do everything on his OWN and wanted only Akshus support. For a long time he forgot that Akshu has differing views too that needs to be listened. Even about aborting the babies Akshu used too much effort to get her point through. Its tiring when you have to make so much effort to plead your case. And Abhi using Sirat death was borderline cruelty. Because Sirats death made Aru blame her and that emotionally and psychologically became a slave to her sister and was always in a cage.
@Mark what opinions her opinions as a savior of the world, Akshara always wanted to save everyone at the expense of her own couple she never stopped meddling in other people’s personal affairs and causing problems here and there. Akshara instead of worrying about her couple she always tries to be the holy Akshara her actions of good will have put crises in the lives of several people. Akshara if Abhimanyu did not put a limit on her she would have already sacrificed her life for the good cause. Abhimanyu had his reasons for wanting to terminate Akshara’s pregnancy he knew that she did not know how to take care of her because of her actions as a savior, and no one wants to risk the life of the person you love for a being who does not isn’t even alive yet. Akshara now that she doesn’t get involved in other people’s problems her character is better and her life easier. Abhimanyu kept telling her to think about their lives first instead of others. Akshara proved with her irresponsibility that Abhimanyu’s decision to terminate the pregnancy was more valid, she has not stopped playing the savior in Arohi and Niel’s personal life and with strangers adding stress and constantly putting themselves in danger. . Abhimanyu warned Akshara so many times it’s also exhausting to deal with a person with Akshara’s character.
That akshara nature should change that just because she is married to abhimanyu does it mean she can’t voice her opinion just things go wrong don’t forget she was the first to find out about arohi fake pregnancy just because abhi ask her to stay out if she should just listen to him like a fool she also has the right to confront arohi she’s not just Neil wife but also her sister should neglect that for who abhi ask her to stay from birlas issues are they also not her family or is because he doesn’t consider them her family yet he also wants to solve all Goenkas issues isn’t he biased and also I have a relative who is just like akshara wants to solve everyone problem and forget herself she always puts others needs before hers and she has been cheated on many times people talk to her about it but she is still the same does it means she is stupid a habit is easy to form but difficult to leave even addict cannot quit his addiction in a day if it that easy people won’t need to go to rehabilitation just for that what’s more when she been like that all through her life
@fave she should have listened because Arohi never brought anything good in Akshara’s life, so Akshara shouldn’t care about his problems, you give what you get. It’s stupidity to continue to stubbornly not listen if you see that your actions are causing trouble. Akshara is not stupid she sees well that her actions create the opposite effect sought but never knows how to question until today she believes that all her choices are right. It’s not okay to get involved in a couple’s personal issues if it doesn’t concern you. I won’t let anyone come and interfere in my relationship problems because it’s up to us to decide, you can give advice but that’s it. Abhimanyu has to learn to deal with his anger, but Akshara has to learn to deal with his his behavior as a savior who always thinks he is right
Yes! Abhi using Sirat’s death was putting salts into her wound! It’s cruel just to triggers her wound!
Abhinav is a cannibal and deserves no compassion. Should be condemned to a tortures life with arohi and manjari
Sorry abhimanyu i mean
Talking only FACTs:
During the accident they were told they had a miscarriage.
Abhi the angry young man, “my terms my condition” got way too emotional seen his mother gave divorce to his wife. Akshara being the sacrificer left everything and went where she could. When she knew there is a ray of hope she called serval of times but her calls was ghosted by Abhi. And when Abhinav called to Abhi from Asku’s phone or answered to Abhi call ( I am not sure about that part) Abhinav asked don’t you wanna meet if she is the mother of his child and Abhi clearly with is loud rude arrogant voice then also never. So why any mother will please such a father. But Akshara shouldn’t have hidden the truth from her family. I mean I still say she comes from a wealthy family, where she have got property from her maternal grandmother side too. So why the markers will need to show her as bichari type. They could have portrayed her strong headed young business lady boss. To keep Abhira alive, they could have just showed Abhinav as a the well wisher for Akshu and not husband.
But still Akshu should stay strong and be on her terms and tell him that the amount of calls she did to inform from the doctors number, and Abhinav should remind him his words. Abhi should feel regret and guilty for his behaviour.
You will even answer a person you consider responsible for the death of your brother, I would have blocked it. She called him twice at the time of the accident Akshara did not even once acknowledge that her decisions with Niel were not good she was just talking about her own suffering which made Abhimanyu even more angry and pushed her to be even more down cruel . If Abhimanyu wasn’t open to dialogue that was completely understandable since he too had lost his babies and his brother whom he considered a son and watched grow up. Akshara never looked at things from Abhimanyu’s point of view, so she didn’t persist in calling him 3 call in the dire situation they were in was not enough . A message or email would have been more effective. Abhimanyu ended up putting himself in Akshara’s place and he’s sorry but did Akshara Has she ever thought about how Abhimanyu must feel ? Abhimanyu will never be able to see his brother again and he will always be haunted by the memories of their childhood and their time. It is easier to forget a being that we have never known than a being that has shared our life. But even today Abhimanyu still remembers his babies as because in each situation where a baby and evoked he thinks of his children whom he did not have the chance to know
Why you awlays talk about a msg and email? Akshu tried several times to inform that good news but heard a lot in return. And no one will be remain happy or mentally stable after listening to such hard words and you still talk about a msg and email. Then why don’t you think that abhi should found about akshu’s whereabouts if she was the person he loved. For the past 6 yrs he never tried to search on her. He being a doctor knows very well about difficulties a woman will face after a miscarriage yet he didn’t care about her. So what about that. If he had send a msg or an email then asking akshu how is she or sorry then akshu definitely had told about abhir (he said sorry but that too after he saw her at kasuali after many yrs and with abhinav) His anger and ego which closed all the paths to larn about abhir.
Does Akshara care about Abhimanyu’s emotional state no, she kept saying my pain, my suffering. I’m sorry but Akshara thought she had lost babies that she hasn’t had yet, so how could she put her pain with Abhimanyu’s. Abhimanyu knew Niel to love Niel’s as his own son, but Akshara failed to see and does not see until now that Abhimanyu’s pain is more justified than his own. Akshara was in pain because she was thrown out but she participated in causing the death of a person, this person will never be able to breathe again but she only sees her own pain.
@@yeol how did you get the idea that Akshara never feel Abhi’s pain, if she did not will she had accepted the divorce and walked out?? She was right when she put to Abhi at the temple, what if she was the one that died, and Neil was alive will Abhi divorced Neil as a brother???
Yeol. I remember it was abhi who always chanted mera mera mera. Not only the day neil died but before also. Then every time akshu asked was where is she then.
Just like akshu only think of her pain abhi does the same and so do you, will you message or email a person that has caused you emotional damage and mental distress not to talk of all the harsh words he said to abhinav it’s not like it was abhinav that caused him pain so why did he vent his anger on him and at that time abhir has been born so should have been months right and about Neil death it both akshara and Neil are at fault for that the culprit were cut already so they should move on it already 6years it enough time to come to terms with the death and the question she asked abhi at the temple if she had died will he and manjiri keep blaming Neil for her death even after 6years and do you think if Neil were alive what will he say about them blaming akshara in birla house Neil loved akshara most do you think she wanted to happen if abhi hasn’t come to terms with Neil death even after 6years do you think akshu has also come to terms with it and accept that she is partly to blame for it, it not about whether akshu knew Neil from childhood or not that will make the pain less pain is pain no one is greater we are all humans and our wounds heal differently and express our emotions differently but that doesn’t mean we were never hurt
Exactly!@@yeol! You are right that Abhimanyu…”You will even answer a person you consider responsible for the death of your brother, I would have blocked it” ..if that is so what do you expect Akshara to do, if you have that thought so did Akshara! It’s enough that she tried calling him a few times and he rejected, what more you wanna her to do???? She got the message that Abhimanyu hated her and wanted nothing to do with her from thereon! So you expect Akshara to beg??? Nonsense!!!
Akshara accepted the divorce because she put herself in the position of a victim, she thought that Abhimanyu was doing her an injustice. She didn’t even think about refusing the divorce and stayed to take responsibility and fix her broken relationship, because it was her decisions that led to the drama. At that time Akshara didn’t know that she was still pregnant, but she didn’t think that Abhimanyu beyond losing a brother, it was half of her life that had ended, go watch the episode and you will see she said me too i lost my babies and Niel who was like my son i lost 3 babies, (she put
her pain above Abhimanyu’s), she didn’t once ask Abhimanyu how he was feeling, then there was an argument and he filed for divorce after bitter deaths. I often argue with my husband over the threat of divorce, once he even called our lawyer to prepare the documents. But it was in anger, I said hurtful things and he said hurtful things but it happens in a couple to get hurt and so far we don’t separate. we saw a marriage counselor and he helped us overcome our problems today we are fulfilled and we do not listen too much to the opinion of our loved ones, the family is good but getting involved in their problem divides one couple. Akshara considers herself a victim and will not admit her mistakes. if Abhimanyu had acted recklessly he and Kairav and Kairav had died Akshara would have reacted how? I don’t think she would have told Abhimanyu it was an accident, she would have called him to account and she would have blamed him, I have been through this situation. There are times when you have to know how to approach the other and not listen to their unreasonable demands. I’m a woman but when I make a mistake I apologize to my husband, sometimes he comes after me to apologize and sometimes it’s the other way around. Akshara and Abhimanyu don’t enjoy their relationship, but Akshara’s character was too immature. Even with Kunal’s story, she didn’t ask Abhimanyu’s opinion and made a decision without him having a choice to decide.
At that point you still expect Akshara to ask Abhimanyu how he felt? ”
She didn’t even think about refusing the divorce and stayed to take responsibility and fix her broken relationship
because it was her decisions that led to the drama ” this part you answered the question Akshara did not feel Abhimanyu’s pain!
Well, it’s both of at fault, ask a person who had gone through a miscarriage it’s haunts every time when you see another person pregnant and when you are pregnant again till the date of delivery that fear keeps haunting of miscarriages ( I have two miscarriages so that feeling I know) and Akshara didn’t kill Neil, guys he asked her to stay in the car and he will go, it was an accident, and Neil was the be who took her to hospital. So none of them are at fault and you can’t put a blame on anyone unless it’s proven to be a murder.
Akshara fault is hiding the truth. At least she should have told her family.
Abhi fault was for not listening to his wife once. During a miscarriage both couple suffer, but the women needs more attention love and care. So putting all blamed on Akshara is foolish thing here. Manjiri, the Goenka’s, Abhi, is at fault. I won’t say Aroo cause she is always jealous of Akshu, hence there is no point talking about her. Manjiri showed her true BRILA colours. At least when it was Kaira time Kartik asked Naira to leave he didn’t divorce her. There was miscommunication. But here it’s a cut clear divorce. Now I am asking suppose your husband gave you divorce for no reason or something you can talk and clear and you found out you are pregnant will you want to contact him. Or if you do and if he don’t answer will want to tell “hey dude this your child” I don’t think I will want.
🥱 boring…. You know what’s interesting there is a writer for one of the gossip sites called LGW desk, their YRKKH gossip articles are out of this world 😂😂😂 the writer just plain calls Akshara trash… but they don’t recognise no this Abhimanyu as toxic though. Can’t the child get his operation and get better before the parents start behaving foolishly 🙄 this child has a heart problem now Abhimanyu will try to posses the child and separate him from his parents and stress him and kill him in the process would that turn Ruhi again Abhimanyu for killing her brother… someone tell the writer his boring biryani is burning, give us something sweet with MusKa. I want Ruhi to tell Arohi she doesn’t want Abhimanyu as her papa or poppy she should turn away from Abhimanyu completely then Arohi can be free, Arohi didn’t love Abhi before and she doesn’t now, she has a soft spot for him and maybe after years of being alone she’s looking forward to having the companionship of human connection. Abhimanyu should be left alone to sit and hold his mothers pallu. It would be better if both sisters left with their kids and lived brighter futures without Abhimanyu…
although what akshu doing is wrong that does not mean abhi is right manish supporting abhi even before truth came out will goenka family support akshu after truth reveal i think no they all become birla family puppets especially for manjiri k akshu had part in neil death that is due to her stupidity but abhinav called abhi to inform abhi about baby his rude reply does not justified and some people justify manjiri for her reaction at neil last rites k that is acceptable but even after 6 years she hated akshu so much and she guilttripped akshu make her leave udaipur during abhi accident dont forget that
Why nobody is commenting on Manish how he overreacted about akshu’s decision for going US actually he can ask Akshara in well and matured way why she wants to go US for the treatment when the best doctor is available here he should listen her once then it is ok but no he acted like a paagal kutta (mad dog) sorry for using this word but I felt this truly
And abhinav is not puppet he is a sensible person supportive husband that’s it
Manjiri wanted Akshara out of Abhi’s sight coz she knows he cannot move on seeing Akshara, but Udaipur dun belong to her, she should ask Abhi to leave instead!!
Goenkas and Birlas react like this because they only see how Abhi treats Abhir with care and concern at face value. They dont know that tension is already in the air and there is Arohi who is pulling the strings. Arohi is someone who always resort to set people against each other and will be okay being at the middle unharmed.
And Abhinav? I dont know how these Indian religious activities work, but is he not being unreasonable?
And Akshus effort to contact Abhimanyu are enough. I mean Sms! Email! Is he God that you have to keep contacting until your wish gets fulfilled? Isnt a call enough? That too after two successful calls? Abhi is just unlucky that he missed his chance. But Abhir is not going anywhere right, any time he will get to know he is his son.
It is Abhis anger that separated him from his son not Akshus lack of persistent contact. And Birlas? Just because the treatment is charity, a mom should be okay with her child facing dangers and negligence? And just because Abhi was begged to treat Abhir, if Abhi is neglecting Abhir then i would advice akshu to pack her bags and leave for US.
If you have the will to do something there is always a way. I’m sorry but when we have something important to say or a vital thing that we must inform a family member 20 calls would not be enough we will always look for a way to be able to tell him even if we have to go through another person. in india there is another hospital she should have just transferred Abhir elsewhere, and made contact with foreign doctors. Akshara takes unnecessary risks. It was Akshara’s pride that separated Abhir and Abhimanyu.
@Yeol why should only akshara see abhi pain why can’t he see her pain you keep insisting his pain is more were is the logic in that pain is pain was she not also suffering at the time not to talk of the physical pain she was suffering due to miscarriage we accept that she is partly at fault what else and why you say she should have find a way to tell him about abhir what about him why didn’t he try to find out anything about her he claims he loves you love someone yet you abandon them in crisis when mahesh ask him to come with him to bring akshu back that was his chance but what did he say No right why only put the blame on akshu and not abhi you are just being biased look outside the chess board and then you will see that both are responsible for there predicament
I thought you said if it will you, you would have blocked the call?? Now you expect Akshara to try when it futile!!! Kairav tried calling foreign doctors but no one is available to come to India!!
If they are Akshu’s real family, then why don’t they know anything about Abheer? Never been to Kasauli to visit Akshu, which family are you talking about? They still regularly visit and take care of Arohi, Ruhi, but Akshu is no different from a passerby. Those who are not related by blood, do not know Akshu before, do not know what sadness and loss she has experienced, but they still embrace, love, protect, and take care of her and Abheer. So if it were you, what would you do?
You always tell Akshu must send text messages, emails. There are many important things, only face-to-face meetings, or face-to-face conversations. Called many times but Abhi did not answer, did not care about Akshu, is Akshu so thick-skinned that he begged for Abhi’s attention and attention?
But a few months after Akshu gave birth, is he still angry? Then he doesn’t deserve Abheer. Never give any reason to justify the cold, cruel indifference of Abhi and the Goenka family. And you also know, the woman giving birth, is also the time to come close to death, Akshu and Abheer have already walked there and fortunately with the help of Abhinav, Muskaan, Neela and their prayers. that Akshu and her son came back to life. If at that time unfortunately passed away, then Akshu will also be blamed, why not text or Email Abhi, the Goenka family? Do you feel too lame?
You said at that time Abhi was still angry, not forgetting the pain ….. could it be that Akshu wasn’t in pain? Her own child was also lost, her body, her health was also seriously damaged. If so, I feel so humiliated in the name of Abhi’s love for Akshu.
@Flower for Goenka and Akshara I said my point of view on them in the previous episode
But Goenka Akshara was missing I think she was already planning to hide the truth I’m sure they had no idea where she was, she called them to tell them about her wedding and everyone thinks Abhir is 1 years younger than Ruhi. I had two miscarriages I know emotionally and physically the pain of losing a baby and I for both I was at term, I gave birth to a stillborn baby. But this pain is not comparable to the loss of my older brother who loves me like his daughter I have known him all my life and just knowing that today when he died 4 years ago I could no longer to i can never see his smile again breaks my heart . I often argue with my husband and eight months ago after a verbally violent argument I left for Greece when I was seven months pregnant. There I had an accident and we had to induce my delivery, I called my husband more than thirty times and he did not answer, I ended up calling his sister who warned him took a direct flight and joined me, we forgot the reason for our argument at the time, we just focused on the life of our premature baby who, thank God, is fine. In my heart I consider my cousin and responsible for the death of my brother whereas according to the police expertise it was an accident. But I could never forget that she’s the one driving that car that took my brother’s life. Fate or not, I would never take any risks playing the super heroine while my child’s life is at stake. Akshara is not a police officer, good will does not redeem life, she made a mistake with Niel and the life was lost. It’s a series I saw the episode where Abhinav took Akshara to the hospital it was just for drama, ambulances exist, and in real life the weather circumstances did not allow Abhinav to take Akshara outside he should have called an ambulance and the hospital for instructions. Akshara had a risky pregnancy, my first pregnancy was at risk almost at term, I was hospitalized and yet I lost my baby, why Akshara was not closely followed at the time of her term, it’s completely illogical. My husband was so devastated by the loss of our babies I understood at that moment that the mothers are not the only ones to suffer he was so impatient for his arrival even if the doctors had warned us of the risk his pain was not no less than mine. Circumstances do not allow a woman to deprive a father of his right to be a father. It’s my opinion after all I have my own experience and my own personal experience and I don’t find it appropriate to lessen brotherly pain because of maternal pain paternal pain also exists. Me and my husband often continue to say mean things to each other and ignore each other on the phone but with each problem we try to understand each other and resolve misunderstandings.
My condolences for your pain. I am also someone who has experienced the pain of losing a loved one just like you. And I also have a child with a congenital heart disease like Akshu, but I found out just 1 day after giving birth to my son by emergency cesarean section. Akshu’s anxiety was not without reason.
Accidents happen to you when your relationship with your husband is still alive. What about Akshu who was forced by Abhi to ask for a divorce, and had to leave her husband’s house? So by the time she stepped out of Birla’s house, the two of them were no longer connected, but Akshu tried to call Abhi. You also had a miscarriage, that pain you also understand, but besides you, you also have a husband and family on both sides, who are cared for and encouraged by everyone, and Akshu, who is beside her? Why didn’t she call the Goenkas, you would watch the ep when Manish comes to Kasauli to meet Akshu and you will know, why Akshu never informed the Goenkas about Abheer. Moreover Manish knows where Akshu is, but in the past 6 years, there has been no visit, only meeting by phone, is that considered family? If Arohi didn’t live the Birla family, things would have been much simpler, and Akshu wouldn’t have had to leave Udaipur. Please watch the old eps for more clarity.
@Flower I said in a comment yesterday that one of the reasons for the issues that existed between Abhimanyu and Akshara was their family. Akshara has always been the type to sacrifice himself for them when he doesn’t even give her 1% of the love she gives them. Abhimanyu’s decision
to throw Akshara out was not fair to Akshara but I understand Abhimanyu until today I still can’t look my cousin in the eye without feeling anger god knows how much I try to convince myself that she’s innocent but I just can’t forget. Why did she decide to go out with my brother during a snowstorm? so I avoid all family gatherings. Abhimanyu didn’t trust Goenka as Akshara spent his time sacrificing himself for them, so with every problem he doubted her thinking that she is just taking their part as she used to always do. But Abhimanyu too has always been more lax with his Birla family, but his family never showed him openly that they set him apart like Akshara’s family repeatedly did with her. Akshara has never noticed the injustice that his family makes him suffer, that’s why he continues to not understand and ignore his difficulties. Akshara should have confronted them
to be finally fixed on their intention a long time ago. Abhimanyu when his family does something wrong he confronts them even if it’s not judicially and he lets the people concerned decide and just supports them morally, with his mother it’s different because he spent his life protecting her from the her father’s tantrum so he is not objective with her. Abhimanyu needs to emancipate himself from his mother. But Akshara needs to emancipate herself from her family and claim her parents’ love and financial means, otherwise she will not evolve. My condolences I personally understand how the pain can never completely go away we but we try and have to live on move forward and keep the positive.
Looks like it’s only Abhinav is thinking about the well-being of abhir even more than akshara. He is just concern about his son and all other things and people are his 2nd priority. Must say for abhir, Abhinav is more deserving parent than even akshara and Abhimanyu. He is cares about everyone’s feelings but knows to prioritise his relation i.e Abhir. For him abhir is his first family and his everything.
To describe his character till now- a good positive person, knows to be happy in small moments, gives importance and care to all relationship but also knows to prioritise his important relation (abhir), unbiased, a-bit selfish and insecure. Knows moral rights and wrongs. Respects and loves wife, understanding, calm.
Akshara on one hand is saying that abhir is Abhinav’s son and on the other hand making all decisions herself without acknowledging what he wants. She risking her son’s life taking decisions so impulsively. 😡
I think she is doubting Arohi’s intentions seeing her from last few days and feels that arohi is creating hurdle for abhir, I feel like that she doubts arohi for the fire incident that’s why thought of going US. Maybe akshara feels that Arohi knows abhir’s truth seeing Arohi’s behaviour and her offer of US treatment.
Regarding Abhimanyu knowing abhir’s truth , if we want to be fair than both Abhimanyu and abhir has the right to know truth. But if we acknowledge his past deeds and his mother’s hypocrisy, personally I like feel it’s better if the truth is hidden. So confusin🤷🏻♀️
All in all the makers are making fun of a child suffering from heart problems. The way all are shown handling this matter is so wrong now be it akshara, Arohi, Manjiri or Surekha. And they are uselessly dragging this truth matter.
Agreed here that Abhinav has the best considerations for both Abhir and Akshara. That is never in doubt. He is a great father. Akshara’s impulsive decision to go to the US wasn’t the best at the time and he tried to talk her out of it. However with a little bit of recalling her history with her family, she has considered well and wants to go away again as her default position for solving these kinds of problems. I hardly ever thought that some families are so spineless and unsupportive yet I think that the Goenkas are one good example. This lack of definitive stand for Akshara in particular, no matter how ‘foolish’ she may seem is why the Birlas treat her like street dust. Appalling. This is why Abhimanyu has apologised to Abhinav for demanding that he returns Akshara but did not ever consider to apologise to Akshara for proposing to a married woman on sacred grounds. He doesn’t respect her and what kind of love is that which lacks respect?
This surgery track is designed to give off tension and it is blowing off great amounts of it I would say. It’s dragging on I think so as well. I hope the revelation scene doesn’t end up being a small puff of smoke. I would have been expecting an explosion before now.
Running away at a time like this, not done….it was already shown before when Kairav was calling foreign doctors for his treatment that abhir can’t travel in his situation but now showing that he can travel is contradicting.
People telling that Akshara is risking Abhir’s life by taking him away from Birla Hospital and Dr. ABhimanyu … She clearly stated in today’s episode that the matter is not about Dr. Abhimanyu ..After you have witnessed a mishap in a Hospital after you saw that your child was about to be burned due to Birla Hospital’s faulty machines ….How foolish would be of you to trust Birla Hospital again ..tell me would you go again to the same hospital after you witnessed an accident happening which was close to damaging youir child ? I mean Why ? Now another argument people giving that Akshara should have called Foreign Doctors India …Didn’t you witnessed the episode where Kairav was arranging foreign doctors and were unable to find one to come to India …I mean
A phone call is not enough, and there are several countries that can make the trip France they make medical trips to avoid risks for the patient, Korea they also make medical trips to avoid risks his two countries are on the list of the best in cardiology.
How do you know it’s only a phone call?? They dun hve to show how many calls Kairav made, but common sense you don”t give up after making just a few calls when life is concerned!
@yeol Akshara didn’t exactly choose to go Abroad.. She chose to go to USA …who knows maybe Kairav knows some doctor over there… That is why they are going…over there..A phone call is not enough then what is other fastest mode to communicate E-mail or letter writing ?
Exactly! I wrote many times Kairav tried to call foreign doctors but no doctor available to come to India!
In short, Akshu has accepted that Abhis and Manjiris pain is bigger than anyone. Even her pain is small compared to theirs as they lost Neil and the twins. Akshu did not feel any pain. But we must remember, what happened is fate. Akshu could in no way escape. Akshu saving those girls was inevitable. Its unfortunate that Neil was the price.
1. Akshu and Neil called Abhi but he was not picking up coz he was in sugery.
2. Akshus preggy was very delicate so that phone call and her having to watch as those kidnappers leave and then she get to know that the girls were never found will add more stress to her and God knows if even that one kid would be okay.
3. She did not ask to be called for help by those kids.
4. It was also Neils wish to save them. Remember, Neil asked Akshu to save the girls first and then him. That was the final mistake as the main fatal blow could be avoided.
5. Its Not Akshus stupidity, its called being helpless. Remember the kidnappers were leaving so Akshu had to do something. Inshort, Akshu and Neil underestimated the kidnappers.
6. Akshu had been saying “I am sorry” from the time at the hospital to the time at home. But no one accepted her sorry.
Its good that Akshu told Abhi that she is not going to accept his sorry. Not because Abhi used Sirats death against her but because his decision to not answer her calls changed her sons life.
Mark i disagree with point no 5 when kidnappers were leaving niel and ajshara should have followed them at a distance and simultaneously update the police about their whereabouts, thankfully kidnappers did not had any guns otherwise both niel and akshu would have died on spot, and mark it was not helplessness but stupidity on akshu’s part and niel had to get our from the car otherwise akshu would have. I agree with rest of your points
The chances could decrease more as.
1. You can easly escape a car thats following yours.
2. Kidnappers could lead them to a secluded area and then thoroughly deal with both of them.
3. It could be a non ending car chase and finally they will reach the destination and thus Neil will be forced to come out.
4. Watch Kidnap a hollywood movie. Police are useless in these kind of matters. They will start following protocol and say such area is not under our jurisdiction and thus delay rescue. Only a person with deep emotion involvement will chase the kidnappers down to the end of the earth but police will easly chase them to a point only.
Inshort, it was Neils death day and Akshu was a means to it. If Akshu is to blame then Neil is not so innocent either.
No Akshara specifically mentioned she dun accepted him mentioning about Sirat’s death
@yeol I agree with your analysis of Akshara’s personality and the fall out from Neil’s death which drive Abhi and Akshu apart.
I am wondering out aloud, how I haven’t died from boredom here. Today like some recent episodes look like adverts or fillers. Some high value or golden substance, others some slow burning, mind boggling gibberish. I hope that the boy around whom this thing is subtending doesn’t die before the surgery. Anyway that is a digression.
The Goenkas need a source of inspiration to see what life ought to be. They definitely are missing something here. First of all, they are at fault for letting their in-laws know about the rivalry between the sisters. That is solely an in-house matter never to be mentioned outside. Infact the elders deserve some strokes of the cane to remind them of their school days although caning has been banned in many schools now. This dynamic is what allowed Abhimanyu, no matter how angry he was to speak to Akshara about Sirat, who he had not met, and which he had no right to speak of in that manner.
Secondly, after the leap, when the Birlas brought up Aarohi’s proposal at Suhasini’s birthday party, they should have rejected it flatly for breaking the decorum and for the slight that they intended towards one of their daughters. However the elders accepted it and the story goes on with Abhimanyu choking on his bluff. These elders don’t know how to protect their interests and hence it’s no small matter that their respect is low at the Birlas. They look like they don’t know what to do in this regard.
Lastly I think that they don’t inspire confidence in their son Kairav when they hush him because of Abhimanyu, who will keep taking advantage of their plight. Here I reserve a small blame for Akshara because if she reported him to her family after he insulted her at the temple, he won’t dare to raise his voice again at her family house. That’s by the way. Kairav will never respect Abhimanyu as he doesn’t respect his sisters this guy tried to stand in between the two sisters and was getting married to one while nurturing feelings for the other. This is why I hardly sympathise with him.
Akshara does things haphazardly and that is a weakness. This guy is a scion of a well-heeled family, never lacking or wanting for anything. Good education and a great career. He saw Akshara with her second husband and thought it wise as he approved of his mother’s decision to propose for Aarohi’s marriage. This means in spite of his education and standing he too behaves haphazardly.
Now when viewers watch two leads without depth they will get bored as was before the leap. Reading the updates today is so so. I hope that the issues resolve quicker. I have to say that I don’t see any place for Abhimanyu in Akshara’s life. He doesn’t deserve any of the Goenka girls. Maybe they don’t deserve him too. At least from the beginning of the leap, Akshara deserves a husband like Abhinav who supports her in front of her family. She knows he wasn’t agreeing with her decision but he she left her isolated in that moment.
A correction please.
She knows he wasn’t agreeing with her decision but he never left her isolated in that moment.
I assume a quirk of the keyboard.
I don’t understand this logic that because abhinav is not the biological father he can’t tie the thread biological or adoptive he is still a father right what about people that adopt children because they can’t bear or orphans that are adopted don’t there adoptive parents have the right to tie the thread
Wait, the surgery is not yet over? The way they portrayed as if if surgery doesn’t happen in next 2 hrs, abhir will die, i actually thought surgery is done and instead of post-op care in hospital, they went home. God.
I don’t have the patience to see the episode, even skip them, nor the patience to read.
Very sorry to say, but akshu doesn’t get to decide if abhir can travel or not, his doctor does. If she had so many concerns, why couldn’t she find this USA doctor before only instead of coming to udaipur? She anyway told Manish later na, she could have asked him to arrange for the best doctor in the US at that time only.
The problem with audience viewing akshu abhi is they find akshu a pure soul a 10/10 person and abhi a -10/10, a disgusting human. But the thing is akshu is just a better person that abhi, she’s like 4/10 thinking she’s 10/10 due to her mahaanta while he’s a 1/10 because of his anger issues and stubborness.
He never let akshu take decisions, he had to force her to stop, yes correct. But when has akshu showed that she’s capable of making decisions? She was like a small kid who’d walk into danger all the time and abhi had the responsibility of bringing her back from danger. It was more like a father daughter relationship tbh. In all this, he lost his cool and blamed her for everything. Sirats death and the impulsive divorce was something i hate him for, but the rest he made sense. Instead of understanding what triggered him to lash out at his favourite person, akshu took it upon her ego because she is always right. She gave legal rights to a guy she barely knew. Okay, he’s a good guy fine. But why do you need to involve him legally? Why couldn’t she be a single mom, just friends with abhinav? What was the need to find a father for her son? When her mom could do single mom, why couldn’t she? This looked like a 1980s plot more than 2023 plot.
When abhi apologised to her in kasauli, she could have forgiven him and moved on. But no, she ran to him to insult his sorry. If she had so much issue then why didn’t she slap cases on him and fight it out in court? She could have claimed full custody of the child, given she is from a wealthy family and her family would have done everything to make sure they got abhir legally. Why get scared now.
@Gunjan you are very logical and look at the big picture which a lot of viewers fail to do. many of them lost their objectivity because they took a side. Abhimanyu is an imperfect person and in times of distress we all say hurtful things to our loved ones, just look at Akshara she always feels hurt so she always says hurtful things to Abhimanyu even though she herself is imperfect. Esque because she had good intentions that erases the consequences of her actions? And Abhimanyu is because he was hurt by Akshara’s actions, does that erase the consequences of his actions? Both are responsible for their situation but Akshara’s character of always being a savior was more problematic than Abhimanyu’s. most of the time Abhimanyu was angry with his father or because Akshara did some saving action again or concealed Arohi’s misdeeds
@Gunjan @ Yeol
1. Abher’s second surgery has not been performed because Dr Abhi’s assessment is not comprehensive and has to wait 2 weeks.
2. Akshu was referred by a doctor in Kasauli to see Dr Abhi in Udaipur to get Dr Abheer’s treatment, and Akshu struggled a lot before finally agreeing to come to Udaipur. And furthermore from Kasauli to Udaupur closer, the cost will be less, and Udaipur is also Akshu’s mother home. Akshu is financially independent, independent of the help of the Goenka family from 6 years ago even though she has the right to inherit the property left by her parents.
3. Akshu is Abhi’s wife, she considers Birla her home as well. She cares about people, is that wrong? Abhi always asks Akshu to stay out of things, is that called family?
4. For Dr abroad, you must have financial resources (Abhinav sold 2 cars to earn money to support his wife and children for Abher’s 1st surgery), have a relationship to find Dr, send the medical record to the research Dr, then where and when will there be a treatment plan? But Kairav searched, but he couldn’t find Dr to treat Abher. This is the lame, absurd of the makers.
5. No one said that Akshu and Abhi were perfect people. But Abhi made the biggest mistake of divorcing Akshu when she was hurt emotionally and physically. She had an accident, was arrested at the police station because she was mistaken for a street girl, she was pregnant, her family didn’t care…. her helper Abhinav was suspected by the police when helped Akshu, it was this, that Akshu helped in the name of Abhinav’s wife. But when Akshu gave birth, Abhinav sacrificed himself to hold Abher for 72 hours to give Abher warmth. Akshu passed away empty-handed, with no relatives by his side, Abhinav supported her to have a home, he gave his love for Abher Akshu saw that, so Akshu gave Abhinav the fatherhood for Abher nothing wrong ? Moreover, when the children go to school, they will not be bullied or ridiculed by their peers. My son also used to be bullied and ridiculed by his friends at school because he lost his father when he was very young, I had to face a lot of difficulties for 6 years, thanks to relatives and teachers beside me for encouragement, comforted and supervised my baby, so I understood Akshu’s thoughts.
6. When Abhi comes to Kasauli, he only apologizes for the Seerat problem, but also the matter of abandoning her, she announces her pregnancy, announces the birth. she and Abheer would have almost died without the help of those strangers you’re talking about who gave Akshu’s son a chance to live. Abhi is only a gene donor, if without Abhinav, the gene would have gone underground. So you say Abhinav is not worthy?
7 The issue of legal guardianship Abher, I have also been told by my friend Ariya in this forum, so Akshu will face many difficulties even though she has right reasons, but the court will give priority to the development of Abher. So Akshu is afraid and hides Abher’s identity.
8. Akshu is an emotional person, always thinking for others. Akshu has no intention of harming others like Arohi, does not lie to benefit herself like Arohi. If you live in a family, asking you not to interfere in other people’s affairs even though they are doing wrong, is that called a family, is that called love? I do not understand.
9. If you say Abhi grew up in a family with incomplete love from her parents, Akshu is the same, although it is different. But Akshu, Abhi were harmed by their own relatives, separating them, they are Arohi, Mahima.
I’m not a fan of any of the characters in YRKKH, I’m just standing on an objective stance to see the value of this Series, relationships, traditional culture, and laws of this country to understand more. never mind. So I won’t criticize anyone.
1. Like i said, i don’t follow the serial anymore. So i don’t know if surgeries are done or not done. Thanks for the information.
2. I agree akshu thought a lot before agreeing to go to udaipur. I understand her dilemma. But, by the time abhir’s health problem started, everyone knew abhir. Akshus family was with her, they would have helped her. She could have asked for family’s help and found doctors abroad, would have avoided this whole thing. It’s practically not possible for abhinav and akshu to arrange so much money, and there is no harm in asking your own family for money for your own kid, who at that time was not even this stable.
3. There are some people who think only about themselves. And tbh, there is nothing wrong in it. Abhi felt they interfering in birla matters will only add to stress to their personal life, birla family was toxic and will always be. So many people feel it’s toxic so aarohi should get out of the family with ruhi. If aarohi should get out of this toxicity, why should akshu sit back and unecessary take stress for the same toxic family? Why should she be a therapist for this family which was beyond repair. Abhi told her to stay away from matters because the family will emotionally and mentally drain her. A lot of people tell that akshu did not go to goenkas back because they were toxic. So she cut them off from her life, then birlas are even more toxic that goenkas, she should have cut them out of her life too. Abhi wanted both of them to be mentally happy, and to stop trying to heal a family which is a lost cause already.
4. Exactly. Kairav searched and he didn’t find. But now they found. It’s a dumb thing. The makers always feel that there is one and only doctor in the whole world who can treat the disease.
5. I am again telling abhi bringing sirat issu and the impulsive divorce was wrong. I do not support him. I again am telling that akshu is better than abhi in a lot of cases. Yes abhi has made more mistakes and bigger mistakes, but that doesn’t mean things cannot be worked out.
What akshu did was an impulsive thing too. Ran away from home, did not go back to her family, did not come clean about abhir’s identity, gave a random person (i love abhinav though) the name of her kids father. She should have gone back to goenkas, officially and legally gotten out of all this situation by claiming complete custody of the child. She had way more advantages of having complete custody of abhir since she is the mother and is backed by her rich family. Now it’ll be way more difficult because birlas will claim that she hid the identity of child, tried to take the child away despite doctor’s advice, and is financially in no position to take care of the kid. There is a lot of difference between going to court at that time when injustice happened and now when the points are more in abhis favour.
I am really sorry about your son. I hope you guys are doing okay. I lost my dad four years ago and i was 23 and the void never heals. I will keep you guys in my prayers and wish you the best❤️❤️
Back to the serial, I still feel either they should have introduced abhinav as akshus old friend or made him just a friend to her who helped her, like he’s the god father to abhir, instead of messing up relations. Although i love abhinav and their family together, and now akshu wants to move on with him, i will never get over that abhinav was bound to abhir and his mom (by his choise no doubt but still bound), for life. There were lot of ways this decision could have affected- abhinav may have fallen in love with some girl but would have to stay back in a loveless marriage just because of his love for abhir, or akshu may never move on from abhi and choose to be just legally be with abhinav, idk, it’s very messy, it’s binding.
Abhinav is absolutely worthy of being a father and husband. I love that guy. And i feel he deserved a better wife tbh.
Actually the reason abhinav and akshu are good together is because they both think more alike- both are emotional, both put family first, both are content and happy, and akshu is a little more dominating that abhinav. Akshu and abhi were opposite and opposites just attract, they don’t work in the long run.
@Gunjan totally agree and realistic.
Akshu didn’t return to Goenka’s house because they didn’t care about her. They are only concerned about Arohi losing her husband. Manish goes to Kasauli to meet Akshu but only tells her friend about Arohi’s pain of losing Neil, not asking about Akshu’s situation. She heard about it so she left without seeing Manish, So how can Akshu come back home?
When Kairav was blamed by Mahima for Anisha’s death, what did the Goenka family, do to save Kairav, especially Manish,? In the end, only Akshu sacrificed her own happiness, separated from her husband, sacrificed her voice to find proof of her brother’s innocence, is that impulsive? Should Akshu save his brother? Meanwhile, Arohi has many plans to destroy her own biological family. Is that reasonable?
Manish is always on Abhi’s side, Arohi is at Birla’s house, so Akshu’s return will only create more conflicts, Manjari’s prejudice against Akshu is getting more and more crazy and increasing, will make the lives of the two families even more. Tired, is that good?
There were decisions made by Abhi that Akshu unable to look back and continue on his lonely path. That is regret for her
Okay. What about all the times goenkas supported akshu for everything, the way they created differences between both sisters. They were terrible people and it’s a known fact. If she chose not to go to them that time, she should have chosen not to go back to them for dadis birthday or even now. When it’s a out ethics and self respect, it should be both times right?
And she need not physically go back and stay with them, she could continue staying in kasauli like how she stayed for her degree, with financial help. She refused to take that also. Goenkas don’t care about her, so she has to leave them. But birlas also don’t care about her, yet she has to bring the family together because it’s family and she’s a good girl who wants to share the pain and happiness in a family? That’s what you said na, that abhi asked her to stay away from his mental family but how could she since she’s family member.
When things get toxic, when people get toxic, it’s better to leave them behind and move forward. So when birla family was toxic from start, she should have just thought of her and her husband as he said. If she can’t leave birla family when they were mean to her, why should she leave goenkas? And if she left, why come back?
Everyone claims it was difficult for her to come back, i understand, it was. But she came back right? Why didn’t she bury her self respect when abhir was born? Why couldn’t she ask her family’s financial help when he was born? Why did she deprive him of comfortable life. Yes it was her decision, she did what she thought was best for her child. But trust me, she could have kept the same family but with a materialistically better life if she claimed what was hers. She can choose to live like that, she cannot make a decision for her son. I’m not telling she needed financial support so she can spoil him with money, she could use it for his education, could have used it as a loan to start something of her own. As much as i love the kasauli family, it doesn’t make sense because ultimately they’re depriving abhir of what he deserves because they had problems with udaipur people. Yes they did give love and basic comfort, way more than what they could afford. But why struggle in the first place.
6 years ago the circumstances was different the wound was still fresh, Goenkas n Birlas were connected coz of Aarohi! Understand! Different circumstances different decision are make!
I agree with you @Shilajit. On two occasions, machines have malfunctioned at Birla hospital. Aarohi was electrocuted and Mahima hid the truth that Parth failed to have the machines maintained. What are the chances that something happens while Abhir is being operated on!
I don’t know why some people insist Akshara should have informed Abhimanyu. The minute he divorced her and threw her out of the house, he became a sperm donor who doesn’t deserve any sympathy. Just like Akshara called him, he could have looked for her. It takes two to tango. Some fans are so mad in Harshad’s love that they cannot see the flaws in the character he is playing. I stand with Akshara in all this. Abhimanyu doesn’t deserve Abhir….he rejected the mother and consequently his son. He can cry a river but those are crocodile 🐊 tears. No one can cash them in a bank and get the lost 6years back. He is to blame for missing those 6years with his son.
Kudos to Abhinav….masta masta what a well written character for now.
Y’all can argue till kingdom come but Abhimanyu deserves everything he is getting including missing 6years of Abhir is life. When he learns to manage his anger and stop being a puppet, then maybe I can feel sorry for him. He dominated Akshara just like Aarohi dominated Akshara. They are two peas in a pod Aarohi and Abhimanyu. When you love someone, you take them with their flaws and pray to God to change them. He loved Akshara the wrong way and broke her. The poor girl doesn’t even want to sing the one thing that comforted her just because of him.
There are always consequences to our actions. Even if he screams and shouts at Akshara when he finds out the truth, it is not going to bring the 6years back and if he misbehaves with her again all in the name of his fatherly rights, he will not get the 6years back. So the makers can either continue with redeeming his character or can take him back to being toxic. At the end of the day, the character was butchered so badly that it is hard to feel sympathy for it. It is what is it…..6 beautiful years of Abhir lost because someone couldn’t manage their anger for just a second and listen to someone. Choices and their consequences.
I agree with you and after what happened to Akshara, she was blamed at the time. This was understandable as there were losses of lives in the family. Now Abhimanyu, lost his temper and ousted Akshara from his life and her marriage. For all the talk of eternal love, he had divorce papers at the ready, even though his wife was pregnant. How is this line of thinking justifiable? How can I sympathise with such behaviour? Okay according to the laws of India, Akshara is obligated to inform about a baby to the father, and Inspite of the pain and difficulties after losing everything due to her mistake, she couldn’t make contact with Abhimanyu.
I too don’t understand why some people still think that Abhimanyu deserves to know about Abhir. He wasn’t interested in that when he was rejecting Akshara due to his loss. This is not discounting the fact that his brother meant a lot to him. The stern recriminations that Akshara received, I can hardly argue against them. However after a loved one makes a grevious mistake then he or she is brought into the fold after the correction. In this case she was banished from her marital home. Is this how to treat loved ones? She of course was broken from within by her husband and she found a second life in an unexpected place and I love the character of Abhinav he soothed her took care of her and her baby, protected her when she had lost all hope and will to live. Yes she used to be a drama queen in Udaipur but now she is confident and strong in Kasauli. This is why Abhinav deserves her and Abhir. He gives her strength and now her behaviour is becoming more sensible as should be when two people stay together for a long time. Has she interfered with Surekha and all her side comments? She is more mature now. Whereas Abhimanyu retains all the imperfections of the past. He allows still his anger to overtake his better judgement.
I didnt know saving a person let alone a child needs to ask permission. I mean are you doing it for them or for yourself? So that you will be able to live with it? And you guys are failing to know the meaning of saving someone. What you guys are describing is “trying to save someone” where you will wait in the car and also take a chance at that persons life by following the kidnappers car hen decrease the chances of saving that persons life. But if you “really want to save someones life” then you are ready to give your life in exchange for theirs. Its a matter of life for life. Infact you will see a small chance and take it without carefull calculations. If anything would have happened and thus made Akshu unsuccessful in saving them she would regret for the rest of her life. You guys are taking chances with Akshus conscience. It was just Neil death day and Akshu was going to help out execute it. In this life we will die one day but how and where and when is in Gods hands.
Yes! At that moment your mind is of the saviours or the kidnappers?? Seconds of thoughts!!
Wow! @Sivk 👍👏👏 you said it all
and look at the result, she didn’t think she had a promise to keep, she didn’t think that something bad could happen to her that she could regret all her life, because she didn’t is not police. Her conscience woke up for strangers and she forgot that it is the domain of the police to handle this kind of situation where the criminals are armed and dangerous. The police also have weapons and know how to defend themselves. sincerely what did she think she could do better to save the children than call the police?
I understand this is close to personal for you. But please visit the episodes first before commenting. Akshu asked Manish to contact the police and he did. Akshu was saving the girls for herself not for anyone else. She could regret and never face herself if she could not do anything in her power to save them. And also, for someone that trust in God as much as Akshu did, she knew God will never do injustice to her. And true God did not leave her, he returned her son to her and also gave her Abhinav as a bonus. And where Manjiri and Abhi who were drowned in their own hatred lost so much.i.e. Abhir 6yrs and peace. It could be justified if Neil was not Akshus patner in crime. But Neil was happy with his decision and so was Akshu that is why, Akshu was able to face herself and be at peace. Abhi and Manjiri should ask themselves what Neil would have wanted.
PS: please give example of another mahan action Akshu did that destroyed someones life.
If Akshara had exposed Anisha’s actions in front of both families instead of giving a chance to a woman who cheated on her own family and her fiancée’s and betrayed Kairav’s heart then all of Kairav’s drama and trauma could have been be avoided. If you have watched the series, you have yourself seen the consequences of his acts of savior. And for of Niel’s death Niel wanted to help but it was Akshara who got impulsive and wanted to get out of the car when the police hadn’t arrived yet. Niel had to get out of the car to prevent Akshara from doing something stupid
@@yeol you are thinking as if Akshara can predicted the future??? Wow!!!
Same Old Story. Manish reacts as though Akshara is the only person who needs to be correct all the times. She should not have any emotions, no tensions about her son. In yesterday’s episode she gave the answers for why she is planning on considering the US. There is a tension that Abhimanyu will get to know that Abhir is his son and there will be extra tension around the same. Instead, if they go to the US, both Abhinav and Akshara can only think about Abhir’s Problem.
Having said, no one in the Goenka household is sensing a foul play from Aarohi. Surekha who has the habit of poking her blo*dy nose in everyone’s business now doesn’t evesdrop anywhere when Aarohi is there. Aarohi’s changed behaviour is not getting noticed in both the households.
Manjari is becoming very irritating of late. Mahima is another schemer who is giving a helping shoulder to Manjari’s tantrums.
Abhimanyu is still shown as he was before. He had the same anger in him when he confronted Akshara yesterday. He had the same carelessness when he burst the balloon that Abhir gave(though it is a small thing. Atleast anything that is given by my loved ones, I will be careful while handling. I would not blame Abhimanyu and give a benefit of doubt). He had the same getting influenced attitude when Rohan talked him out. He had the same “I give a damn” attitude when he spent the 3 extra hours after his shift in Abhir’s room not thinking of his responsibility towards Ruhi.
Overall, we can see the same old Abhimanyu coming back. Somewhere all the characters are returning to how they were before the 6 years leap. Aarohi – same masterplanner with no logic; Manish same person who forgives Aarohi but never thinks a bit to point fingers at Akshara, Abhimanyu the same adamant,egoistic person, Akshara the same gullible character.
Today, I felt angry on one more thing. Abhinav’s deeds in today’s episode. Had Abhinav not met Abhimanyu and not known that he is Abhir’s dad and Abhir gets diagnosed with heart ailment, would he backoff from tying the veneration thread on Abhir? In spite of Akshara asking him accept his fatherhood towards Abhir and giving him Lord Krishna’s scenario, Abhinav goes behind her back to get Abhimanyu. Shouldn’t Abhinav have certain self-respect and a bit of selfishness. Now after today’s episode if someone is feeling sorry if Abhinav has to give up on Abhir, I would not feel sorry for him. He is trying to leave a doubt in Abhimanyu’s mind about Abhir being his son.
You are wrong about Abhinav, it’s bcoz he knows that’s why! The saying goes ignorance is bliss, Abhinav dun have the bliss to ignore wat he knows his conscience dun allow him to…he might be thinking God knows what he knows if the puja dun work is it bcoz of the ritual not carried out properly? .. and since Dadi mentioned it’s has to be the father to tie the thread!
But the thing is Abhinav knows Abhi is the father! The case will be different if he never met Abhi!
Abhinav’s mind there is only one thing that is stressing him a lot is “abhir’s father should tie the thread otherwise it won’t save his life ” ………
I hope there will be solid dialogues between Abhi and Akshu during the truth revelation scenes. Both of them made equally wrong mistakes and those mistakes created the current situation. So, instead of winning each others arguments, I believe both will understand their mistakes and each others pain during the past situations.
Me too waiting for it!
@Mark, Akshara dominated Ahbinav in Kausali too, I don’t think he concedes to her because she knows better the Birlas and Goenkas. She has an air of superiority over him, though, he is more world-wise and emotionally intelligent than her. He can handle those families well as he has shown in his confrontations with Manjiri, Surekha and even Abhi. But with Akshara, she holds the power of family over the head of an orphan and he submits to her power. This may not be intentional on Akshara’s part, but it is a powerful part of Abhinav’s psychology. By the way, I hope you saw my reply on my view that Akshara and Arohi are both self absorbed people.
If Abhinav is world wise and more emotionally intelligent, he should make use of this trait after knowing the true face of everyone. The fact that he has not caught up on Arohi low key leave from here and Arohi blaming glance, is enough to show that he is not up to date yet on the topic Arohi.
Now coming to Nav issue, sharmas are a family of 3. Universally, a wife handles all household issues. Now on Sharmas scenes it was always taken at home where Akshu being the wife, will have a saying in almost everything. Now both Nav and Akshu always do something without consulting the other because they already know what the other will respond. E.g. new saree for Akshu and now going to US thing. Its good they know each other to this extent. But if you are carefull enough you will notice that after each taking decisions on their own, they later argue about it and then lastly the looser supports the winner in the decision as the winner views is more correct. E.g. going to Mimis birthday. Nav was against it but later after pointing out his opinion, respected Akshu decision because it makes sense that Abhir should be introduced to his family. If its about dominance, then a good example is Akshu abortion idea. Abhi discussed with akshu first but made sure that his decision is final and Akshu should go along. So dominating someone is when you do not allow their opinions to win ever.
Afterall, Abhinav being all world-wise, do you think he will allow Akshu to dominate him? Since he does not feel dominated then who are you to say that? Abhinav has given Akshara the power over so many things, do you think he feels the power is being abused. Why did Abhinav support Akshu today? When yesterday they were still discussing? Its because he saw that there is more to it than meets the eye. Also why Goenkas always start with blaming? Why not go for the reason first? If they would have asked the reason then Akshu would say Aru suggested it and that would have shut them up.
Bottom line is.
1. Akshu understood Manjiri, Abhi, Arohi pain that is why she is staying away. Also, since Goenkas were on Arohi side, which was for Akshu to leave then she respected their pain and stayed away. She did not accept Abhis sorry as what he did changed her sons life.
2. Akshu was in a cage because of sirats death and Abhi placed her there again when she just started to get free from it (her sister.)
3. If Akshu is to blame, the Neil is also to blame for his death. Its a shame all the blame is falling on Akshu only as if Neil did not equally participate.
3. There is a saying that goes “If you like a pumkin, then like its flower too” it means if you love someone, you love and their flaws too not trying to prune what you dont want. The least Abhi and audience could do is back her up and pray for her. Because Akshara is all about helping people. Its a part of her. So Abhi prohibiting her to be herself is like caging her. She escaped one cage created by her sister and is now in another cage. Akshu and helping people cannot exist without another.
Point 1 is your own conclusion she stayed away to hide her secret, and a character that puts you in danger every time you want to do good you end up causing evil deserves to be controlled. Each of his good deeds created greater drama. When we get into a relationship we have to adjust to our partners there are things that we spanked because we were alone but now that there is someone in our life we always have to think that we are now together before making a decision . and if our character destroys our relationship if we want to preserve it, we must think about changing it whether it’s the man or the woman. We can’t love all the faults of someone who continues to ruin our life for love. Not everything is tolerable.
Sorry for what happened to your brother. Since i do not know the entire story, its hard to give any input.
But from what i have seen about Akshu and Neil, is that, Neil was okay with saving the girls too. And if Neil sees what they did to Akshu after the incident, he will be very disappointed. Its not like they did that for fun, they went to save someone. Neil always applauded this side of Akshu. He really encouraged this trait of hers. And the fact that they used this trait to blame her for the death of the person that liked this trait is so messed up. Its like you did a good thing but no one sees it. This is what Neil must be thinking now wherever he is. He died a hero but his herioc deeds are reduced to a mistake.
And also, since akshu is only partly to blame, isnt her punishment extreme? Her punishment is like she killed someone deliberately. And also, after all they did, they still cannot move on in life and have to resort to fake happiness and arranged marriages. I mean Akshu is at peace with herself right now. Anyone asked why? Because she knows Neils was glad to have gotten the chance to save someone and also, she can live with the choices she made. Its a shame Manjiri is still in denial that its Akshus mistake only.
my cousin wanted to go meet her boyfriend, she was visiting my mother’s house, the whole family opposed her choice because it was night and because of a light snowstorm the roads were blocked but she insisted. she begged my brother to accompany her without thinking about their security (because she knew he was too nice) he ended up accepting because he didn’t want anything to happen to him when his family had entrusted him to our family . But my cousin insisted on driving and even though the car was equipped with snow chains, the misfortune could not be avoided. In my heart I know she didn’t want this to happen but her irresponsibility cost me my brother. I repeat to myself every day that she didn’t want to, that she didn’t have bad attention, but is this going to bring my brother back to life? She knew anything could happen but she insisted anyway. I can no longer look at her without feeling resentment. I held two of my babies in my arms without life and yet my brother’s death is more unbearable because I remember his smiles, his hugs, his affection, his support, his favorite dishes than I do support more. I have too many memories with him to manage to ease my pain, I just have to live with it.
I understand that your cousin could have waited until the next day to go meet her boyfriend as it was not a rushing matter? There was the option of calling and video calling. I understand that snow makes the roads require caution and care. I understand she needed company because she herself was afraid of being alone on the road (you know how roads get deserted during snowstorms)? I understand that she insisted to drive? Was she drunk? I understand, your brother was too nice? Why do you say your brother is too nice and still think it okay to hold resentment towards your cousin? Will your brother want you to burden your heart for something he was okay with doing? It was unfortunate that your brother was the one to go but what if it was your cousin that had died? Would you have blamed her for being unreasonable and insisted to go to her boyfriend? Ask yourself if you would still blame her if she was the one that died. Do you know their final moments? How they spent in the car? Maybe your brother was happy to have acompany her? Maybe a part of you knows that you are also to blame as you all let her go despite knowing she could have died. The fact that you were okay with her going but atleast not take your brother with her means you were okay with her dying? If not, why not stop her when her thought was premature? You know how we interact with our family on a day to day basis builds a scenario for future actions. Eg. I may be getting annoyed by my sibling on a day to day basis as she asks obvious questions. Not knowing my actions have consequences, one day my sibling may see that i dont want to annoy her today so i am not going to this obvious question. But unfortunately, the obvious question costed her life. Who is to blame??? Have you ever asked yourself why she was so adamant to go to her boyfriend? See it from her point of view.
Lastly, is she sorry? To what extent? Has she realized her mistake? If not, have you confronted her about it? Have you talked to her and express how you cannot move on from the incident and thus expect her to give you some closure? Are you okay with the state you are in? I.e. the state of holding resentment. For this, go and see Kairav and Mahima scene at the resort. Kairav expressed how Anisha death deeply affected him and thus Mahima found some closure.
Akshu and Neil goal was different from your cousin and brother goal but never the less they were okay with their choices. Akshu and Neil had the same goal and were at peace with their decision. Anyones words could never change their mind at the time because a savior would want to give their life for someone else. If they had gone to try to save those girls then they could be okay even when they become unsucessfull.
@@yeol, For this you were not wrong abt ur cousin! But for Akshara was entirely different case!! Again Akshara was saving life! Mind you again!
I am flabbergasted by your thoughts. my family was adamant, they all refused. In the family it is well known that my brother always gives in to his sisters and he has always considered it as such. Let’s be clear my family and I didn’t want them out, but we couldn’t tie them up either. In my conscience it is clear that I do not have to feel guilt for an act to which I did not consent. In the mini camera that was in the car you could hear my brother tell him when they got in the car (if you say no, we go home bad weather) in the black box I looked at the car my brother being hit by a snowplow in a thick fog, My brother and dead on the spot. How can you even think that one can be happy to die at a young age and to leave his family and his son behind either. you want to justify the actions of a person who was irresponsible and who didn’t think about what we lost. That day all she said was I didn’t want to, I’m sorry. IS A SORRY WILL RESURRECT MY BROTHER? How can someone be at peace after his deeds and cost his life. Mahima did not find solutions she had to admit that her daughter’s actions were causing harm to an innocent, who believed that he could have saved his daughter. I don’t want to know why she wanted to see her boyfriend, because she didn’t want to see that she was dragging my brother into a dangerous situation. If my cousin had died my uncle would have sued us because she was in a critical situation in the hospital, he accused us of being responsible because we let her out despite the bad weather, for them my brother and responsible, and my family had to accept this situation to avoid family conflicts. Why should I feel guilty for a person who has lost nothing and continues to live his life quietly. You are hypocritical to ask a person to minimize their suffering to put themselves in the place of a person who is more fortunate to be able to watch their future children grow up. You can keep looking at the pain of my cousin or Akshara without thinking about who lost the most.
I don’t even know why I justify myself, I only owe an account to God and he sees and understands my pain. Forgiven is easy to say but not easy to do. I am a human not a saint I cannot forgive easily, just look at the example of your Akshara who does not forgive Abhimanyu as she thinks his motives are justiciable. I don’t expect a stranger to understand my pain, nor am I looking for sympathy, my husband and my family are there for me. But I am flabbergasted that human nature is so incredible that it prefers to find more justifiable the irresponsible acts of real people to compare their pain and minimize it for the benefit of others. You didn’t have to agree with my view of things, you didn’t sympathize with me but, don’t come to question my pain and try to blame it on me and my family to defend a series.
That is why i asked, are you okay with the state you are in now (resentment)? Is your cousin sorry and to what extent? ( if you noticed, there is lots of question marks in my prior comment).
Now clearly there is more to your family matters than what you disclosed.
Anyway, this yrkkh Akshu and Neil is no where the same as your brother and cousin situation. Lets not compare the two.
I hope you get closure at the end because that will be for you not for anyone.
You shared your personal matter and i felt obliged to help you with my view. Now i see there is more to your situation. I wanted to give you a differing angle to consider (statements with question mark) but it seems all angles you have covered already.
Sorry for your loss. I understand your pain especially if you had the car camera and blackbox of the car.