Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 14th May 2023 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
The Episode starts with Abhinav says this one rupee makes the money a shagun, money is yours and shagun is mine, there is another thing that’s mine, Abhir, there is nothing more precious than Abhir, the person who can’t leave shagun, he can’t leave his son, this father will earn money now. Abhi says its good, this father is also determined now. Abhinav says best of luck. Abhi says you become bit bad, it will be easy to fight with you. Abhinav says you too. Manjiri looks on.
Muskaan gives a watch to Neela. Neela asks why did you spend much money. Muskaan says you give it back then. Akshu says you would be feeling proud. Neela says yes, I will scold her too. Muskaan says forgive Kairav, he said sorry to you. Neela says okay. Kairav comes and says thanks. She asks were you around. He says no, will you come with me to temple, there is a famous Shiv temple, we can go later also. She says no, we will go today, I will change and come. He asks her if she wants anything else. She says don’t get the car to the room, I will change and come. He goes. Akshu and Muskaan laugh.
She says this gift would be for Abhir. She reads note for Kairav. Muskaan says sorry, I like Kairav, I didn’t tell this before. Akshu asks does he.. Muskaan says no, we didn’t tell anything to each other, he cares for me, he scolds me, I heard him telling someone on call, please don’t tell anything to Abhinav, if you don’t find right then… Akshu says no, I m very happy for you. She hugs Muskaan. Abhinav drives the cab. He sees the family pic. Akshu gets his message, I have earned 2000rs. She sits studying. Abhinav washes his face. He sees a tea stall and says hot tea, it will make the sleep away. The man asks Abhinav to come fast, he has to go to station. Abhinav thinks its not time to take rest, but support the family. He leaves. He comes home. Akshu sees him. She asks him to have food. She feeds him by her hands. She says work is imp, not this way, you will fall ill. He recalls Abhi’s words. He says no, I can’t stop now, I have to do this for my son, I will take a bath and leave, I took a booking. Its morning, Abhi packs a gift for Ruhi and sees the card. He talks to Neil. He says I miss you and cries. Abhir throws his shoes in dustbin. Akshu and Abhinav come. She asks why did you throw these shoes. She says your dad also fixes the old shoes and wears it. Abhir says its old, I will wear new ones, doc man gifted it to me. He wears the shoes and says its so cool. Abhinav says yes. Abhi asks Ruhi how did you like it.
He says I love you and will always be with you, you trust me right, will you listen to me, I won’t force you, please, I have learnt dance for you, I tried, Abhir loves you, give him a chance, try to become his friend once, you both are very imp to me, will you do. She says okay, I will try, I love you. He says I love you more. He hugs her. Aarohi looks on and thinks you will get Abhir home, but Ruhi has to pay a price. Muskaan comes and asks how did you like it. He says its truly special, thanks. He gets a call. He says I m going for an imp meeting, jeweller’s annual conference, if anyone asks for me, tell them I will be late. She says okay. He leaves. The gift box is seen.
Abhinav smiles hearing a man and his son talking. He sees the shoes and recalls Abhir. He stops the car. The man asks him to drive carefully. Abhinav thinks 9,500rs, my entire day’s earning is just 3000rs and these shoes… He cries. He dashes the car. Akshu says we will live in the new house, Kasauli house is small, this house is big, you will have a big room also. Abhir says no, I will miss my Kasauli house, I want that only, not big house. She says new things look good, but old ones are comfortable, new house, new friends, new shoes, it just looks good, but we like old things, you tell me, you have smart looking shoes or comfortable ones? Abhir looks at the shoes. The man asks what did you do, why did you drive when you can’t. Abhinav says this happened for the first time. The man says you will hit some man and it will be a police case. Abhinav says I lost attention, sorry. The man scolds him. Abhinav says I need this job for my son’s sake. The man asks what about my children. He takes the money. He says I will cut more money, I will fire you if you damage the car again. Abhinav sees the coins left in the box. He cries. Abhir wears the old shoes. Akshu clicks his pics. He asks why are you clicking my pic, its not my birthday, do I look smart. She says a lot, I will send your pic to your dad. He asks do I trouble you that you are dropping me to doc man’s house. She says no, you liked coming here. He asks shall I go in. She nods. He says you come with me, Manjiri will pamper you also. She says no, you go, I have much work, I will come later. He goes. She thinks I m trying to be fair with Abhi.
Akshu scolds Abhi for gifting expensive shoes to Abhir. Aarohi says Ruhi doesn’t like you spending time with her poppy. Abhir says I have to go home right away, please drop me home. Abhi worries.
Update Credit to: Amena
Awwww finally abhimanyu tried talking to roohi and explained her.. If she is ok thn whats arohi’s problem? Her daughter cant be the centre of attention all the time.. How can she expect abhimanyu to forget his son for her daughter.. Y not she try to do the same? Thn she will realize.. Abhimanyu is the one who is in the most painful suitation.. Even today he misses neil nd he still loves akshu and people are trying to separate him from his son😒 why akshnav overreacts so much? Always getting restless😖 nd akshu maata.. Whats wrong of abhimanyu gifted his son branded shoes from his hard earned money? Which father will like it seeing his son living in somewhat poor environment? Akshu chose garibi for herself and imposed same on her son 😒 nd ye kya hai heart relation vs blood relation? Abhimanyu Or abhir ka blood as well as heart relation hai.. Ye kaha likha hai ki biological father ka bus blood relation hota hai? Biological father dont have a heart Or what? Makers 10 mins roz bhagwan ki mahanta ke liye reserve rakhte hai.. If he is new ML kindly clear it 😏 its harshad chopda who bought so many awards for this show nd even now he is on no.1 but Jay soni is not even on top 10..just like neil bhatt is out of top 10 and harshad arora entered the list but same didnt happen here
Honestly akshnav are overreacting for sure but it’s bcoz they have a strong fear of losing their son so they aren’t in right mindset.abhimanyu doesn’t have anything to lose in this case which he always had(abhir)..if he wins he will get abhir but if he lose he won’t lose anything (ofcourse he will lose abhir but it’s not like he always had him)..but akshnav has only to lose in this case so their fear is justified.
But about abhimanyu,yeah made a mistake or committed a sin years ago but his situation is miserable,he is just trying to fullfill his promise made to his brother years ago but poor abhi has no idea that he might even lose his own son just bcoz he tried to good to his brother’s daughter, if no one else then atleast aarohi must understand him and support him in all these the way he supported her for years but she had become toooo selfish
You are right @Mayi. Sharmas know the value of not loosing so they must be on their toes.
Manyu has for a long time, done right things but some important things escape his notice. Arohi was a major red flag from the beginning and his inability to say no to Ruhi.
Harshad Chopra should quit the show or i say Abhimanyu should die. He is the center of problems. Good Riddance.
He can show his acting skills better in some Colors TV show
You are right Rachna. I also want Abhimanyu to die / get murdered by Akshara thus transforming Akshara’s role into a psychopath criminal who is obsessed with Abhinav’s love and can go to any extent to win Abhinav’s love.
Tum kisi aur hi nashe me ho,abhinav already loves akshu a lot …she doesn’t need anything extra to do for it stupid
Yes, I think now Harshad’s character is useless and the story is going another way I.e. Abinav love story and now Harshad must leave the show. Then can see the true love story of Abinav and Akashara’s as well as Abhir’s. Now can compare the real love like Karthik and Naira’s (Abinav’s love story) Definitely next award show the most popular Jodi will be Akashara and Abinav and not Harshad.
I bet that if harshad quits the show and the show ll not survive it ll go off air in one month or less. People are watching the show because of him
@[email protected], however I have the impression that his character is less highlighted than Abhinav and Akshara, maybe Harshad is really about to leave the series?
If he feels sad to see his son living in poor condition, he shouldn’t attack his don’s father his financial condition, as insulting his son’s dad n mum is as good as insulting Abhir his own son who grew up in this condition for 6 yrs they maybe poor but happy n happiness is the only thing that matter in anyone life!
Abhimanyu won awards coz he is in this serial since long, Abhinav only joined a few months back, ofc Abhimanyu will win simple as that!
I totally agree with you…aarohi is too selfish… and I just pity her the day abhi will understand her true intentions towards abhir..she will lose him for good
Whatever anger issues abhi had that does not mean he separated from abhir abhi give branded shoes to his son by his hard earned money so akshu shut the he’ll off
@niruban she wants everyone to follow her stupid principles😒 any wealthy father will give his son expensive gifts.. That does not mean he is trying to buy his love.. Akshu kuch v bolti hai
I agree it doesn’t mean he is buying his son love but you can see where Akshu is coming from. She and Abhinav were attacked in court for not having enough money to raise the child and about their job status’s that is something that would hit home for a lot of people and then Abhi buys him expensive shoes and sure, it’s out of a good place but obviously not everyone see certain things the same way many people wouldn’t take that as a normal gift some people would take that as a threat or a challenge.
Okk so makers are going to repeat the same storyline as kirti-Naksh for Muskan-kairav.Muskan has fallen for him but kairav isn’t at all interested in her and then he will give up for his sister’s happiness and blah blah.
Whatever they showed today for abhinav was just unnecessary drama -they are just trying to prove that abhinav can never give abhir a good life hence he might back off himself or turn into negative bcoz the place where he is standing is his future character graph is completely unpredictable.
This aarohi is too much,she must make ruhi understand (ruhi will understand for sure if it’s done in right way) so that ruhi’s childhood could be better than hers but she is instead doing all these that would make her childhood worse than hers.And who the hell gave her right to make abhir away from abhimanyu??? disgusting.
@muge but akshu has problem with everything.. Even if abhimanyu meets abhir she has a problem tabhi to US le ke ja ri thi abhir ko despite abhimanyu’s warning.. Or court me attack hua to vo bata sakti thi ki vo bohot rich family se belong karti hai nd so will never have shortage of money nd all par har jagah victim dikhana hai khud ko..
@mahi but i think this abhinav’s unnecessary drama was shown to show viewers that no one can be a better father in fact better human thn him bla bla so he will only get the custody
I think the only explanation to this behavior is the fear of Abhir getting too attached to Abhimanyu and then Abhir choosing to be with Abhimanyu and not her in the end. She is scare about what will happen in the end.
I only see that Abhir valued his Kasauli’s home there is hidden meaning that the maker show this, which mean he values relationship over material gains!
@mahi arohi is really ungrateful.. Abhi supported her for so many years.. Cant she support him once when its about his son? Selfish lady
everyone who likes to criticize Abhimanyu because of Ruhi, have you seen, Abhimanyu doesn’t fully understand Ruhi but he tries to take steps towards her. Abhimanyu and totally convinced of his ability to love and give both children the same love, since he knows that Abhir and his son he has always encouraged Ruhi to call him brother, Abhimanyu considers Ruhi as his daughter, he needs to spend time with Abhir as he wants to win his heart, but in Abhimanyu’s heart Ruhi has always been his daughter, so he never doubted that Ruhi can love Abhir just like him and Niel. Abhimanyu knew Niel in childhood and accepted him, so he is sure that Ruhi can also accept Abhir. Abhimanyu was right to tell Abhinav to be tough, this is advice Akshara should have given Abhinav, but Goenka and Akshara are so busy praising his personality, instead of confronting him with reality . Abhimanyu loved his brother so much, I feel bad for him that Akshara never understood the importance of his brother in his heart. Akshara’s behavior is getting so irritating, bought a necessary present for his son, why should that be a problem, if Akshara and Abhinav can’t, what is Abhimanyu’s fault. I sincerely hope that Abhimanyu will not be distracted by his guilt towards Sharma because no one is really on his side and can help him and Arohi will make things worse Akshara will definitely take the opportunity to lecture him on his bad qualities of father after Abhir’s rejection because of Arohi. Abhimanyu always pampered his loved ones and especially children, “Shefali’s son, how Abhimanyu liked to pamper him” Akshara should know, because she claims to know Abhimanyu so much, so she should know that was a gesture of affection and not a way to buy Abhir’s love. Muskaan and in a misunderstanding regarding Kairav. If Arohi instead of plotting, she had decided to stand on Abhimanyu’s side to help him with Ruhi things would have been easier for Ruhi and Abhimanyu.
I dont think Muskaan mu Kairav. Kairav definately likes Mus but when Kai looks at Akshu, all apetite of love fades. Well, i cant blame him. His sister loved and that love tormented her.
Also, as you said Manyu pampers kids. Is this not a red flag.
@Mark, maybe I’m wrong about Kairav’s feelings, I feel like he’s not really interested in Muskaan yet, and about Abhimanyu pampering kids personally I don’t think that’s a big deal problem, because my father was always the one who liked to pamper us and was the most lax towards us, and our mother was the one who instilled in us the essential values. My own husband and like him he adores our son and pampers him a lot, but I am at his side to balance things and teach our child good value. Abhimanyu love to pamper children, and sometimes getting lots of love helps them grow, but now there is no one to balance this overflowing love with more balanced thoughts it takes two to dance tongo. The old Manjiri was pretty reasonable but look at her now and Arohi is not a reasonable balanced person.
Okay i agree. Yap i saw the pampering as a red flag because it has made Ruhu the way she is now. But then lack of Arohi proper participation is also a reason for Ruhis behaviour now. She was let them spoil Ruhi and didnt see there was no one to remind Ruhi of proper values.
The timing of the gifting expensive stuff, not at this time ok!
Although I agree with much of your post here, I differ on where you inferred that Akshara should be understanding Abhimanyu’s inclination to pamper the children of his family. While Shivaansh and Abhir are sons of the Birla family, Abhir is different a son born during Akshara’s heartbreak. This is something different that sets Abhir apart from any other child in this world in Akshara’s mindset. Yes this is contentious as Abhimanyu will get exasperated when Akshara exercises her hold on Abhir whenever she feels threatened. It’s simple. Only Abhinav has the authority to make crucial decisions in Abhir’s life the Goenkas know this and since the identity reveal, Birlas are challenging this right which they imagine belongs to Abhimanyu. But Akshara isn’t willing to forgive Abhimanyu and she relentlessly continues to forge her own path even growing closer to Abhinav as is already evident. She doesn’t want to understand Abhimanyu and his feelings because he is no longer the epicentre of her life. She only considers Abhinav’s feelings in these matters which reflects where she is at right now. So then she doesn’t really care about Abhimanyu’s thoughts for that matter but Abhimanyu who is still in love with Akshara considers her stand on Abhir, which is why the custody case isn’t becoming an attritional battle. She doesn’t want Abhinav to get hurt in Abhir’s matter in any guise whatsoever.
Well these things happen to people in some relationships. Abhimanyu’s child is calling Abhimanyu’s former friend father. I can’t imagine Abhimanyu’s pain in this situation but I sympathise with him because apart from Abhir, he has to work harder to keep his relationship with Ruhi, which he would have been so sure about days ago.
@Francis that Akshara doesn’t care about Abhimanyu’s feelings is completely acceptable, but what is disturbing is that during all the part between the clashes between Abhimanyu and Akshara before the two families find out the truth she kept saying to Abhimanyu and affirmed to Abhinav that she knows Abhimanyu, she had a history with Abhimanyu that she does not want to forgive him it is her choice, even if it is an immature choice because she herself has made mistakes and caused injustice to Abhimanyu and Abhir is proof of that.. But if she knows Abhimanyu so well, she should also recognize that Abhimanyu does not only have faults and that his intentions are not necessarily bad. Akshara cannot continue to regard Abhimanyu as her enemy if she really desires Abhir’s well-being, because Abhimanyu is also the fruit of Abhimanyu and sooner or later when Abhir knows the ins and outs he will be forced to recognize that Abhimanyu never wanted to abandon him, he will recognize his father’s mistakes but also his mother’s mistakes and at this moment Abhir will want to know if Akshara’s decision was right for him because even if he loves Abhinav he has another father who loves him and who desires him in his life, but he was a victim of his mother’s bitter feelings. Akshara teaches him the good values but knowing how to accept your mistakes and act accordingly is an essential value. Akshara did not admit her wrongs and her grudge cannot justify her being unfair to the relationship of a father and son for her own personal reasons.
You are very right the way the film is going abimayun is becoming the victim I really pity him there is nothing as bad as your child not recognising you also he loves kids before knowing abhir was his son he gave him a gift at kasuli and is a bit expensive too akshu and are hubby are just overreacting
@Yeol you are right, Akshara one day is going to have to give an account of her decisions and actions to Abhir. That is one act of accountability she won’t be able to run from and no amount of legal training would offer up defences. She needs to stop considering just herself and at the most, Abhinav. Abhir is growing growing in the wings and he will demand explanations.
Yes I agree. This should be easy Akshara should forgive Abhimanyu. Which doesn’t necessarily mean getting back together, at least she has a new life. Abhimanyu has been denied, unwittingly though, his rights as laid down by the law. That’s for sure. He wants to be a part of Abhir’s life and that’s only fair. However he is at the wrong end of a self-imposed misunderstanding which Akshara misheard his assertion to not talk about her or the baby. That was when she made her mind up to move forward with the marriage to Abhinav. Though he cannot bring the past back to correct that, he can be availed the opportunity to be a good co-parent of Abhir. I think that she should forgive him, being swayed, that’s for me, over the last month or so by his plight which isn’t easy. Getting back together again isn’t a good proposition for me, as of now, because they are far apart on how they see the world. Problems are bound to occur when they clash as would be inevitable.
Now let’s see the way this goes.
@Francis je n’encourage pas non plus a se qu’ils se remettent ensembles, Akshara et mieux avec Abhinav et il ont une meilleure compréhension l’un de l’autre Abhinav .
I accept that Akshara has made Abhir’s life complicated by going away from everyone else, then discovering that one of the babies survived and marrying a stranger, a helpful one just like that. The man indeed turned out to be kind-hearted and has been a stalwart. Now Abhir’s life is complicated because he resides as a true son in a family where he is the stepson. Conversely he is estranged from from his real family. All this will be too much to handle for someone with a heart ailment. He will see through the circumstances and hopefully Abhinav’s upbringing should enable him to forgive his parents for putting him in this situation
Vous avez écrit votre réponse en français, mais je l’ai bien comprise. Elle est mieux avec Abhinav, je suis d’accord avec vous là-dessus. Abhinav et Akshara ont de bons rapports.
@ Francis do you speak any other languages, do you speak Swedish or Algerian? first time I come across someone who understands French on a forum, I speak a little French.
I speak French to some extent. I don’t speak German though I read a little my other euro-languages are non existent. No Swedish nor Algerian yet.
@Francis, my French is better spoken than written just like my English 😂, I have a perfect command of Swedish but all the other languages I speak I only master them at 70%. you must be a great lover of reading, it shows in the way you write your comments. in any case, it made me happy to find someone who understands French.
Yes I do love reading a lot. I read a lot of literary works and newspapers in French and German, then my English is almost perfect. My problem when speaking German is that my English interferes a little and then my French in other cases, so grammatically I can’t say that my German is at intermediate level for certain. I do like your comments as they are well delivered.
As you noted my interest in reading is the strongest. I enjoy fiction and nonfiction like news.
@Francis, I better understand your way of perceiving Akshara, reading allowed you to interpret Akshara’s emotions and read his feelings, when I read your comments on Akshara I always feel a good coherence and interpretation even if our opinions differ. You have a certain depth in your way of interpreting the story, now I understand why I always feel like I’m reading an epilogue, in your interpretation of the episodes. Even if our opinions do not agree, you still remain objective on several facts even if you support Akshara and Abhimanyu. And I apologize for being rude a long time ago about your interpretation of the story.
Thanks for your generous words here. I have immense respect here for your viewpoints and how you convey them across. C’est la vie. We have differing opinions but we are both following this story and I have learnt some valuable knowledge from you and others who contribute here. I’m sorry for the outburst that day. That wasn’t dignified on my part. Thankfully we have made amends and that is now in the past. Thank you once again for these kind words.
Whatever Abhir decides, i am happy with it.
He has enough good morales to decide what is right and who deserves.
@yeol both sisters are next level selfish.. Guilt can be seen in abhimanyu’s eyes but look at goenka sisters.. Arohi be like I am wrong but anything for my daughter.. Akshu be like I am always right I am the best.. Annoying sisters.. The day arohi will be exposed akshu will be like “its not arohi’s fault but abhimanyu’s.. He should have stayed away from abhir thn arohi would not have done all these”bla bla
Okay, Manyu is definately buying love and bribing Ruhi. Whether he knows what he is doing or not, will know tomorrow. As i said yesterday, Akshu is smart alright. She is conditioning her son subtly. The pressure is real. If those pictures would have reached Nav in time, he may have not met with an accident.
Now that he has experienced his first setback, i am interested to see what action will he take. As i said yesterday, Akshu should be smart and level the playing field using whatever means necessary. Guilty triping Manyu may just be what seals the deal. After Manyu gets scolded then gifts will decrease and so Nav will not feel the pressure from the financial competition.
NB: This is just the first competition these three will have. First competition is financial capability where Manyu is the man. But the next one will be values competition where we all know what state Manyu will be in.
But one thing is for sure, @Kriya S is right. Nav should control his emotions and stay calm. The pressure is real but he should take a step at a time. If possible, since he is pressurized by Manyu, accepting help is understandable. Just to get his point across to Manyu, he decides to forego his earned money. “In the same episode, he’s calculating future expenses when Abhir would be in 12th grade, etc. and feeling anxious about earning enough, & then he does these stunts, when he actually gets money. Please, someone teach Abhinav to keep personal and professional life, different.He needs to remain calm and manage his emotions, and act professionally and maturely, and accept all the money, with self-respect.The stunts he’s doing right now, are Facepalm lacking maturity and respect for work” i agree to some extent.
Arohi thinks Ruhi is paying a price by accepting Abhir? Ruhi now is in right track but Arohi doesnt see that in a positive perspective. Arohi will impose her insecurities on her daughter now going forward as Ruhi has accepted to give a chance to Abhir. Manyu language is such but i feel he wants Ruhi to accept Abhir as this is what matters now. Poor Manyu, he just doesnt know his efforts are useless in Arohis mind. Whether Manyu is still set to marry Arohi is a mystery even to me.
I agree with you on the state of play between Abhimanyu and Abhinav. I also think that Abhinav is worrying too much about meeting Abhir’s needs. He should have faith in the values that Akshara-Abhinav have instilled in the boy. Those can hardly go wrong. He is attracted to gifts as are many children but the guiding words of parents make more profound impact than gifts and the like. Well he, being Abhinav, will learn from his mistakes. He is in a city with several people. This is no longer Kasauli but Udaipur, so he needs to toughen up and do what it takes to make it.
C’mon what’s the problem ,if Abhi nuys gifts for Abhir ?? And Abhinav is really out of luck .. Abhinav’s dedication for his son Abhir is basically the story of every middle class father …who works very had to support their family I think this may be the reason that Abhinav’s character has gained so much popularity because people have related to it’s financial condition and simple life. Again Akshara blaming Abhimanyu ……atleast Abhinav and Abhimanyu have the decency of not shouting at each other while talking and also not blaming each other during every meet ….Season Climax ..both the sisters die Abhinav and Abhimanyu get together and raise the children …finally the answer is here “Yeh rishta kya kehlata hain ?”
@shilajit so true.. Both men are better atleast for now.. Both women are so insecure and full of “I, me, myself, my children, rest can go to hell”
Abhimanyu and abhinav both feels each others pain but both are helpless still respect each other.. But goenka sisters are another level crazy
Okay abhimanyu should die.. Ok akshu should kill him? Next what? Akshu will ask “meri kya galti maine kya kiya”and will run somewhere and later come back and play victim😂😂
Akshara have some support of Goenka but why do not Abhinav become part of their business This Shittamanyu will take advantage of it.
@Surabhi so true that Arohi never considered Abhimanyu’s feelings but he was unwavering support for her and Ruhi, Ruhi and attached to Abhimanyu because Arohi delegated a lot of responsibility in Abhimanyu’s hands because ‘Arohi loved that Ruhi was Abhimanyu’s princess sorry for Arohi fans but it’s true. The little things Arohi can do for Ruhi, she blames Abhimanyu, Ruhi said her teacher didn’t know Arohi for her PTA if Arohi was so involved in Ruhi’s life why Arohi never went to his own daughter’s PTA sorry to say but, Arohi let Abhimanyu do everything for Ruhi, Arohi was not bothered by this situation at all as Ruhi was the only one to receive Abhimanyu’s love, and she didn’t know that Abhimanyu had a son. Now she is disturbed and blames Abhimanyu for not favoring Ruhi anymore, but it’s just that he has to split his time between the two kids, but she just wants Abhimanyu to be like before, giving all his time to Ruhi. Arohi let Abhimanyu take a lot of responsibility regarding Ruhi and she was happy like that, she saw Abhimanyu reassuring Ruhi and making her understand that Abhir loves her and she should give him a chance one and he loves her too, but she was not happy to see Abhimanyu reassuring Ruhi while it is also her duty as Ruhi’s mother to reassure and advise her daughter in the right way. Arohi wants Ruhi to be the only one in Abhimanyu’s life. Arohi has so many ways to make Ruhi happy and make decisions that will benefit her daughter, but she is stubborn in her ideas just like her sister and stubborn. unpopular opinion but Arohi in her last six years, she has relied too much on Abhimanyu’s help regarding Ruhi, and now even for simple things, she needs Abhimanyu’s help.
I think that Abhimanyu is a tough competitor, so today another game in game, for Abhir. I don’t fancy Abhinav’s chances as of now because he lets his worries multiply and stack over like those 40-Foot containers at the seaports. When they are not cleared on time, they amass and create backlogs slowing everything down. This man came back home and the finest woman in Udaipur is feeding him a piping hot meal and he is thinking about driving cabs. This is misplaced priority. Why not first enjoy the care at the dining table and then worry later about work. I think that he is afraid of losing Abhir. Fear and the steering wheel of a car are never friends. Worries, accident and the sack. Well he will need to find another job quickly as time is of the essence. He has to prove that he is capable of raising Abhir comfortably. Will he be able to? Hopefully he will find the courage to do it.
Muskaan and Kairav are singing the same song but it looks like Muskaan is at the third verse and Kairav is reading the title of the song. I can’t wait to see the misunderstanding that ensues from the gift and its covering note. How lovely. Kairav should have looked at the gift a little bit more, there aren’t any surcharges for that. When Akshara spotted the heart-shaped note from a mile away, why couldn’t Kairav? It seems Kairav needs reading glasses.
Abhimanyu was able to talk to Ruhi and he needs more of those. These are the simple things that when done well win hearts and minds. He has to find the balance otherwise the whole thing tips over. He should have enough sway over Ruhi to keep her onside. He needs to observe Abhir a lot more that’s where the work really is. That’s because once Abhir stops smiling and starts thinking then the similarities that they share will become secondary and the person standing there is a child with Sharma upbringing. Those differences will soon begin to crop up and surely they will give Abhimanyu some tough time as some of Abhir’s preferences aren’t exactly Abhimanyu’s. Hopefully Abhimanyu will have answers for the new questions.
You are right. More of Abhi-Ruhi heart felt convos need to happen for peace to stay. 😆😆😆😆😆so true once Abhirs smile disappears, thats when time for pampering and comparing similarities will be over and bussiness will start. The easy part is now. The hard part is when Abhir and Abhi will differ in views and values. By then i hope Ruhi will be in check because if not, Manyu will look pitiful.
Agreed. This is finely poised. He faces a father’s dilemma he has to be there for the two children and the best way to do that is if their perspectives are converging. However if they are differing, it starts becoming an issue. Ruhi will always love Abhimanyu and the recent times are a learning curve for both of them. She has a the other end of a father-daughter bond. One of the purest bonds. Aarohi will even find it strange because she wouldn’t remember how that felt. Abhir is the tricky one in the sense that overtime his upbringing will manifest the small things, the mundane and these imprints will tire Abhimanyu. Although Abhimanyu is likely going to start wondering how Akshara’s mindset, reflecting on Abhir, became so different from what he knew.
I am looking forward to Ruhi asking for Abhimanyu n Aarohi’s wedding to take place, maybe Aarohi will make Ruhi to question Abhimanyu n Manjiri🤭🤭🤭
Akshara’s goodness was toxic, and as I said if Abhinav does not grow stronger as Abhimanyu advised him and does not start making the decisions that are necessary he will end up like the old Akshara always has good attention but the end result ends in disaster. Abhinav and a good person but he is too naive, I repeat myself but no parent in his situation will make decisions based on self-respect in the name of love, someone in his situation should make the choices that arise imposed.
I feel that you are actually “Ariya” coz ur writing is exactly the same, the same “and” instead of “is” the mix up of “his” instead of “her” 🤭🤭🤭🤣🤣🤣
Right I think so too, coz Ariya don’t comment when @yeol is commenting🤔🤔🤔
@Svirk, I clearly remember @Arya and I remember very well how she defended her savior Aksha, and we already shared our views, regarding Akshara and I’m sorry for my mistakes but I have said before that English is not my native language when I argued with someone on this forum a long time ago about our views on Arohi, and even my husband and sister-in-law often do these same errors because I’m not very good in English spelling and I have already noticed his same errors in other people I converse with in other Indian and Turkish series, or maybe you want me to speak my native language, Nie lubisz mnie i wiem o tym, ale nie obchodzi mnie to, I’m more comfortable with other languages, but here people mainly speak English and I don’t think they can understand m, already I know that they have trouble with my wobbly English.😑
Manipulating Abhir to reject Abhimanyu’s gift so that Abhinav’s pride won’t be hurt is wrong. While Arohi is teaching her daughter to be possessive, Akshara is training her’s into guilt. Arohi’s misplaced thinking is putting Ruhi’s feelings above all others. Akshara though is compromising Abhir’s feelings in favour of Abhinav’s pride. Old, split, mended shoes bring a sense of shame to the wearer, just like having no shoes. Why have her child live that shame when he need not, Abhir’s natural father is rich. Abhimanyu, shows more sensitivity and understanding towards the needs of a child than Akshara. In addressing Ruhi’s feelings of abandonment, he confirms he loves and values her and lays out straight that for his sake he wants Ruhi to accept Abhir, but respects it is her choice. Abhinav too understands that his sensitivity over his capacity to provide the best for Abhir stands secondary to the child’s own feelings. Coming back to Abhimanyu I think he handles with good grace Abhinav’s continual assertion that he is Abhir’s father. If this was a western drama the natural father would have landed a few punches on the stepfather. He would receive the stepfather’s remarks as taunts by a man who had aided and abetted his ex to steal his child from him. Anyway it is good to see the drama move from the love squares and triangles to the drama of co-parenting in a climate of financial inequality that gives rise to competition, personal insecurities and inadequacy.
@Rai a full analysis of everyone’s feelings and way of thinking, highlighting the learning ways questionable of Arohi and Akshara on children was a key point, to show that Abhimanyu himself has a better way of address children’s needs and feelings. Akshara guilts Abhir, and Arohi continues to pretend the best for Ruhi while ignoring Abhimanyu’s sincerity, Arohi continues on the path that only Ruhi should receive Abhimanyu’s care, so subconsciously she chooses to encourage Ruhi in possessiveness. a very accurate analysis.
It’s not guilt it’s understanding value, and the root of Source
Akshara trains her son into guilt is one way of putting it. Another way will be, not to throw away old shoes just because you have got a new option. Why didnt Abhir stay with both of them? He was okay with the old shoes but when he got new ones, he discards the old? But looking at his response about the house, Abhir seemed to have needed the comparison as it made him realize it was against his believes.
I would have accepted your view 100% if Akshu mentioned Navs feelings or views or name to make Abhir change his view of the matter. But the fact that no mention of what Navra expect to be Abhir answer, then i feel it is a success as Abhir final answer comes from Abhirs own thinking.
How do you expect Manyu to have a problem with Nav calling his son, son? Isnt Nav Abhirs father? Isnt our discussion past this? We did agree that Nav is Abhirs father but Manyu is Abhirs father too right?
These are what the viewers and fans are going to sample throughout the custody case and potential trial. Now Abhinav is middle-class no qualms about that, and Abhimanyu is rich no fault of his. So the perspectives are being compared in the most subtle of ways, without offending the sensitivities of people in those social segments. However it wasn’t out of place in my opinion for Akshara to encourage her son in treating the older shoes bought by his father with more care. However, I don’t zero in on the old versus the new paradigm. I felt Abhir could have maybe shown his parents the gifts so that they are aware that docman gave the gifts. Abhinav is someone with fragile self-confidence since the custody hearings he has been fidgety, worrying for no obvious reasons. This in turn forces Akshara to prioritise him vis-a-vis Abhir, a shocking observation as this happened before after the first Udaipur visit. Then Akshara missed Abhir’s failing health, now she is lagging on time to catch up with Abhir and what happened over at the Birlas.
@Mark, it is clear Akshara is protecting Abhinav’s feeling. She is portrayed as being deeply grateful for Abhinav’s unfailing support, contrasted with Abhimanyu’s who she felt let her down badly. Where does she tell Abhir to think of Abhinav’s feelings you ask. The implied meaning in her conversation we the viewers pick up from the story thus far – Abhinav’s pain at his limited means to provide for all Abhir’s needs in the last episode. The previous one at the Sharmas’ acute embarrassment when their financial capacity is question in the conference with the lawyers. But just to make sure we get the meaning there is the scene where Abhinav holds Akshara back from castigating Abhir for dumping the old shoes in the bin while dancing in utter joy at the comfort of the new one. That was the pictorial equivalent of Abhinav saying, ‘… it’s okay Akshara, I’m fine. Let the boy enjoy’. So from my readings, yes, Akshara was protecting Abhinav and putting his feelings before Abhir. And, I am not bringing up Abhir’s two fathers and their tussle for possession. The story makers are. That is what the sagun scene outside the Birla house is about. I recognise we have different ways of seeing (interpreting). To me, more used to western film and drama, I sometimes wonder at Abhimanyu’s politiness towards Abhinav when the later asserts to him ‘my son’, especially as some in these discussions cast Abhimanyu as an impulsive, hothead.
How is it that Abhinav is Abhir’s father being wrong or offensive? He is in fact Abhir’s father for the whole 6 yrs!
@PO, Yes, Abhinav has been Abhir’s father for six years. The offence for Abhimanyu is, as Abhir’s biological parent his rights to be the father was stolen from him. Akshara’s continued insistence that Abhinav is the sole father of Abhir and the couple’s resistence and refusal to allow Abhimanyu access to his biological child has brought them to the court’s door.
Akshara is teaching value instead of guilt, how does guilt came into the picture? If Akshara started comparing people who can’t even afford to have a decent meal not to mention shoes, n to those shoes is consider as luxury?
@Francis, thanks. You contextualise the situation well. Akshara is in danger of appearing neglectful of her child’s mental health.
@Hue, yes, it could be seen as a lesson in values. But equally it can be read as guilt tripping. The Sharmas are very sensitive about the financial situation compared to Abhimanyu. Abhir’s Docman, Abhimanyu is rich and he can afford to replace shabby shoes with new ones. But Dad Abhinav with lower purchasing power manages by repairing the shoes until they are useless. Akshara’s little talk then has Abhir take off Abhimanyu’s shoes and replace them with Abhinav’s. He doesn’t want to hurt Dad Abhinav.
Akshara is really irritating me. Even children of divorced parents know who their real parents are. The fact that she keeps telling Abhir that Abhinav is his dad while Abhi is just his doctor is downright disgusting and unjust. She is acting as if she tried all possible means and Abhi and his family were aware of Abhir but still rejected him. It’s so irritating and I wonder how a lot of people on here are supporting her evil behaviour. If tables were turned, would she be happy with her son knowing another woman as his mother and calling her aunt ?
@Deeee, feeling much the same as you with this story. And yes, if the tables were turned would she take it all lying down.
I said guilt, because I think a child should be taught to value old relationships, but still stay open to new relationships, because every relationship should be valued. Telling a child because of shoes that old things are more comfortable than new is a lie. An adult learns over time that some older relationships drop out of our lives and newer relationships become more important than old ones. a parent must teach his child to value each new or old relationship because you never really know who will be there in the hardest times, Abhinav is the epitome, a new relationship that has become a pillar for Akshara. Growing up means that the shoes will no longer be our size, and they must be thrown away, like the relationships that leave our lives because the mentalities no longer correspond. one thing is certainly, even if you try to fix something that is doomed to break its not going to change anything. and Abhir’s shoes are already damaged, so it’s not a bad thing to give him the joy of being able to put on new shoes which he finds more comfortable which he can cherish and because he always learns to value his new or old business. So I found it inappropriate for her to compare things to her friendships as if her new relationships weren’t worth cherishing. This whole conference was to make him understand that old relationships have more priority than new ones, and that new things should not be valued over old ones. whereas the reality and whatever the relationship or the object must be loved in the same way. When a parent is sure of his education he encourages his child to be more open but cautious in his new relationships because he will always value the old and the new.
@yeol @Rai @Fransic @Po
The exact words were, “old is comfortable”. Could this mean makers are projecting on the fact that Abhir with Nav is comfortable while Abhir with Abhi will be cool, but full of problems?
Which is true in the near future. Anyways, I choose to see that even though Akshu may have had ulterior motives, Abhir didnt feel any guilt but answered with his own understanding and was not influenced to think a certain way. At the end of it, some values were instilled and Abhir was none the wiser.
@Mark you’re right that in the end Abhir learned a lesson, and reinforce his values even though Akshara’s intention was unclear and I feel like it was a strategy for reinforce Abhir’s inclination for their family.
@Mark, well it is clear even now that the new bond forming between Abhimanyu and Abhir is fraught with problems mainly created by others. But would the ‘old is comfortable’ withstand the pain in Abhir of being lied to by his parents? Would the mother and son relationship then suffer the type of antipathy Harsh and Abhimanyu experienced in their father, son relations? I can see a wounded Abhir electing to live with Abhimanyu. Who knows where the writers will go! Regards the shoes, it is hard to get a child to accept a tatty old thing over something shinny and new, even with a great lessons on values. Shoes were my passion as a child and the only argument
the succeed in making me turn away from the object of my desire was my parents saying they couldn’t afford it. I felt guilty about pushing them money wise. You could say that is down to good values, its a fine line.
Yes it may be a subtle way of engaging her son and , teaching him the tenets of the faith, this is the age where children are first taught the basics of their culture. Now faced with competition from her ex and Abhir’s father she wants to embed the importance of Abhinav in his psyche so that when the truth breaks as would she have all the axes covered. She seems more organised than before. Yes she panics but now she thinks that she is fighting for her family, her happiness, her world. She could go to any extent to make sure that Abhinav and Abhir are by her side. When she invited Neela Aama to Udaipur, she wants Abhinav to be comfortable as he isn’t used to these kinds of fights in big families.
Yes your point is salient, she is influencing the members of her family in a way that serves her interest without being too obvious. When she felt Abhinav was hesitating at the Birla Hospital she extracted a commitment from him not to leave her alone. She has talked to Abhinav after his fight with Abhimanyu so that he would break their friendship. So yes she is recruiting Abhir for the fight ahead and his innocent mind wouldn’t know until the triggering event activates it.
In a way this would reflect the kind of hold that Manjiri has on Abhimanyu who would have been indoctrinated from childhood and when he was strong enough he chose Manjiri over Harsh. These things don’t happen of their own account. When a mother is threatened she uses these kinds of words to win the allies relevant to her fight. Some of these interactions become lifelong really. Like the behaviour of Abhimanyu towards Manjiri.
I am happy that arohi is saying abhir to move out from abhimanyu life even though she is spreading venom to abhir to stay away from abhimanyu but she is saving abhir from that disfunctional,no humanity,Selfish and people who doesn’t know how to raise their childre.I am happy that abhir will get saved from that so called nuisance and idiotic family if abhir grows in birla house,he too would turn like father, grandfather and his elder uncle parth ruining lives of women.If he abhir doesn’t enter birla house he will be saved from the birla atrocities
👌👌same way Arohi has to leave B house with Roohi.