Anupama 22nd March 2023 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
Hasmukh tries to cheeer up sad Anupama by dancing around her and apply color to her. Family joins him and ance on Holi Khele Raghuveera.. song. Anupama hopes Anuj comes. Anuj walks in and extends his hands. She runs and hugs him emotionally. Little Anu joins them, and they both pamper her. They all 3 apply color to each other and dance together. Anuj then meets Hasmuh and other family members and plays holi with them. Anupama gets out of her imagination and thinks it was just her dream. She then gets busy enjoying holi with family.
Anuj enters with Dheeraj and stand disheartened seeing Anupama enjoying holi with her family forgetting everything. He recalls Little Anu leaving them and recites a poem in his mind that he has become alone again. Anupama hopes Anuj and Little Anu were here and continue to dance with family. Devika alerts Anupama. Anupama gets happy seeing Anuj, runs towards him, applies color, touches his feet, and wishes him happy holi. She then with shying face like a new bride asks if he will not apply color to her. Anuj says it may be a happy holi for her but not him. Anupama asks why is he saying this. Anuj shouts at her to stop her drama. Whole family gathers and asks if everything is okay.
Anupama asks why did she do, why is he getting angry. Anuj asks how can a mother whose daughter is gone dance and celebrate festival; she forget their daughter so soon. He says he is feeling bad as he and his daughter are missing, but she is enjoying holi as her whole family is with her. He says this holi must be more colorful to her as she is free from Little Anu’s responsibility and can spend her time freely with her children and parents. He continues to vent out his anger and throwing color on himself and tells Anupama that this holi is happy for her but not him. He walks away from there. Samar says nobody can speak to his mummy like this, even if its Anuj. Anupama warns him to not interfere between him her and her husband and runs behind Anuj. Anupama recites a poem in her mind describing how heartbroken she is. Aaoge Jab Tum O Sajna.. song plays in the background. Anuj stops recalling quality moments spent with Little Anu. Anupama continues to follow him.
After celebrations, Leela leaves for her mother’s house in Jamnagar. Samar criticizes Anuj for his misbehavior with Anupama. Kinjal says she didn’t expect such a behavior with Anuj. Kavya says Anuj is not in a proper state of mind, Anupama shouldn’t have let Maaya stay at their house. Vanraj grins and says they all thought Anuj is perfect, but he proved that even he is a common man who can do mistakes and they should criticize Anuj now like they criticize him for his mistakes. Hasmukh and others decide to visit Anuj and speak to him. Vanraj stops them and reminds Anupama’s warning not to interfere between them. Adhik says Vanraj is right, they should let Anupama sort out the issue herself. Anuj anxiously tries to call Little Anu repeatedly. He slips. Anupama holds him.
Precap: Anupama asks Anuj to speak what is in his mind. Anuj says he suffocates being with Anupama after Little Anu left and doesn’t want to continue their relationship.
Update Credit to: MA
This is going too much now. 26 hafton ka pyar 26 saal pe bhaari pad gaya. Anupama not defending herself will make matter worst. She is still keeping calm and not allowing anyone to take stand for her. He is behaving as if CA has left the world. Pyaar vyaar sab thik hai lekin shaadi ke baad sab pyar khatam ho gaya.
You would never have said thst ifvyou had a child!why dhould anupama decide for everyone and impose her decision on anuj? Feminin vanraj
Seriously! I stopped watching this show.
In this way makers are showing
Men are the men.
And promote the thinking of the people
Agar sokh milta h to ek se hi mil jayega, nhi to kisi se nhi.
Women are encouraged to watch it to start or think their new life however now they are accepting that they are wrong. And only sadness is written in their destiny.
Total waste of time to watch ANUPAMA now, it was Happy time to watch MAAN but now headache day by day. I got migraine watching this,we are also facing so many problems in our lives, still watching same in Anupama is completely NARAK.
You are so correct.i stopped watching.Anuj’s tantrums is not men like.i switched to Kum kum bhagya during this time
Anupama is now totally FLOP SHOW.
WE ARE ACTUALLY DISAPPOINTED WITH RAJAN SHAHI.
SAME HE SPOILED YRKKH.
I agree, Rajan Shahi shows both Anupama & YRKKH are recycling same story round and round.
They are making a mockery of true ❤️.
When there are problems in family if husband & wife love each other they won’t break up at all. They will solve it together.
Very very sad these shows are ruined.
Those who will support Anupama and say that Anuj is wrong…Save yourselves.
What has Anupama lost? She has a family, right? The ones she can never go away from.
Anuj was a self made man, who survived life as is. They got Choti Anu and he got a taste of family….
He was never part of the Shah family as Anupama was/is.
So when he got the taste of family and how it would be, just like he said during the new years, where his family is choti anu, anupama and him. So take away choti, what does he have?
Anupama went to her family to celebrate holi cuz she didnt want to mourn choti leaving, cuz she was never attached to choti like Anuj was.
On a real life note, this is why single mothers cant find good men to be with, cuz if they leave with the child, the man suffers. The man will bond with the child, but if mom finds and issue, she can walk away with the child and in some cases, with the man’s money too. So man is lost on every front. And in case of single father, as rare as they are, they wont settle for just anyone cuz they are protective about their kid first. See the difference? Women will accept any man to provide, as is the gender role.
Back to the show, Anupama has always been the loser, is the loser and will always be the loser, cuz she cannot keep everything together. Vanraj is right, everyone has their breaking point, Anuj reached his.
Women and men, please let this be a lesson to all, you cannot keep everyone happy.
This show was touted to be the most progressive show is now on par with being the worst.
They might get to the topic of depression and all, but I fear they will go to “pray about it and your depression will go away.” That’s the sad thing about such shows that push religious BS down everyone’s throats..
I hope Anuj leaves Anupama and goes back to the US for his own sake. He was so much better off alone.
The Indian family drama broke a self made man.
Woah! I kind of agree with your first point about Anupama, but I think your statements about single mothers and fathers are inaccurate. Not all single mothers fit the negative stereotypes you mentioned. There are women who prioritize their children before entering a new relationship, and there are men who are the opposite of what you described. It’s impossible to predict how someone will act based on their relationship status. Also, your statements seem to suggest that you have some problems with single mothers.
Its just amar and his misogyny just ignore him
@NRI It’s important to note that being a single parent is a challenging situation that can happen for a variety of reasons, and it’s unfair to generalize or stereotype them based on gender or assumptions about their motives. It’s important to recognize that both men and women can prioritize their children and their well-being, and there are many instances where single parents work hard to create stable and nurturing environments for their children. While there may be instances where legal battles over custody or financial support arise, it’s not fair to assume that all single mothers are solely motivated by the desire to take a man’s money or that all single fathers are overprotective and won’t settle for just anyone. Women should not be expected to accept any man to provide for their family, just as men should not be expected to be solely responsible for financial support. Furthermore, it’s not accurate to suggest that women will accept any man to provide, as everyone has their own individual preferences and priorities in relationships.
Anupama is wife and she can’t be a family member for Anuj only children n parents like CA n GK are his family members whom he can call his own and how dare Anupama not stop CA from leaving. Being so intellectual to sign a contracts without reading doesn’t she knows about rules and laws of the fostering. She should have fought the custody battle instead of being scared like any normal middle class citizen of court’s cases.
How can she have the right to be a part of her children’s life after getting married for 2nd time. Don’t she remember what baa and her mother used to teach her. After marriage a woman’s everything is her in-laws n husband. If husband wants her to ignore her worries n tension of her paralysed son and go to picnic for their daughter forgetting everything and should all timing be smiling than she is bound to do that. How can after marriage Anupama have any right to feel any emotions. If her husband is happy she should be happy and if he is sad n depressed than how dare she be happy. Her first priority should always be her husband and CA than she should think about herself, her other children and that also if her husband allows her to do that. How can Anupama be such a dumb she was trained by baa n vanraj to be a good wife than after marrying Anuj how is she forgetting all that.
Anyway she should know her place, her job was to take care of CA and Anuj and nothing else. How can she expect any love from her husband, disgusting. Anupam is forgetting her place, she is just a nanny whom anuj married to adopt a child and to play a good mother figure in that child’s life. But here Anupama is wasting her time in going to her mayaka and catering to her previous marriage children and failed to be a good mother to CA so Anuj is right in insulting her and not wanting her in his life anymore, when CA is not there why is she still stuck to Anuj, so disgusting.
Anuj divorce her and marry maya as she can do what anuj wants her to do be complete nanny of CA.
@sara: You actually answered to my statement. When single parents prioritize their kids before a relationship, who loses the most in that relationship? That’s what I am getting at. My point is and I am again emphasizing this, prioritize yourself before everything and everyone else.
@NRI I believe it would be helpful if you took a moment to re-read what you wrote earlier, as it seems you’re now contradicting yourself. Prioritizing oneself is crucial, and Anupama appears to lack this quality. Your views on single parents are quite antiquated, especially regarding single mothers. Your statement suggests a bias against them. You mentioned that women tend to find anyone to be with while men consider the impact on their children, but now you’re discussing prioritization, which seems unrelated to your previous argument.
Anuj is worst than Vanraj .second time anupama is heart broken. For the first time I feel vanraj is correct. Anuj is so obsessed with CA I feel anupama should get anuj married to maya and let him live with her
I don’t understand why everyone is blaming Anupama for CA departure. What was Anuj doing at the time? Was he mute, unable to speak? Why allowed CA to live if he didn’t want her to live. Why depending on Anupama to fight his battles. Is he a child? C’mon guys, Anuj as clever as he is and educated as he appeared to be, he was suppose to fight for CA and not depend on Anupama to fight for him. He has to blame himself for not doing anything while the child was taken away. It’s not as if he was not at home that time, he was there, then why didn’t he do anything? He is abusive and his loneliness made him think he still loved Anupama where else he just wanted to adopt a child with Anupama’s help. He is useless.
Agree with you
I also think Anuj thought he still loves Anupama bcoz of his loneliness and actually he doesn’t. Bcoz at first misunderstanding or crisis in their Marriage this would have not happened. Anupama loves Anuj that’s why she trusted him in maya’s case despite her past trauma but I don’t feel like Anuj loves her. Whenever Anupama faced problems bcoz of her children she still never wanted Anuj to be unhappy like her and here for the first time when Anuj felt sadness n pain he wants that Anupama to feel the same than how is it love. In love we want support of our beloved at time of pain but we never want them to feel that same pain we are going through. We always try to protect them from feeling the same pain.
Anuj should have before marriage only discussed about this adoption matter instead of dropping bomb on her at honeymoon time. Than Anupama could have also thought well that she really wants to get married as Anuj wants kids.
Even if they turn this show around with Anuj & Anupama reconciling, magic of MAan is gone, lost forever. They twisted the story so much I cannot watch it anymore.
I want to remember Anuj & Anupama as they were before CA.
Writers could have made a positive effort by Anuj & Anupama together to bring back CA.
Maybe it is a game plan by Anuj and Anupama hopefully 🤞 to get CA back.
Wow! WTF! Seriously? This Anuj is just like Virat and Abhimanyu. He forgot his 25 years of love for a kid. Anupama should just get Anu back and then leave him and never ever come back. Let’s see if he will hate that kid when Anupama leaves. I don’t even have words for these stupid female and male leads of Indian Television. I am angry just by reading the updates, I don’t know how people watch this shit on TV or online.
You are in dream land if you think that Anupama is gonna fight for Anu and get her back. She wont, she cant.
Dont compare Anuj with other leads, everyone’s different. It’s easy to stand in the sidelines and then claim that he/she is this, he/she is that.
Even though I don’t watch this show, I read updates. I know how Anuj’s character has changed since Anu’s adoption. I supported him when he accused Anupama for not being there for him and Anu when they needed her. But now, that kid was taken away by her biological mother. How’s Anupama responsible for all this? After reading the precap, all I can see is him turning into a replica of current star plus male leads and I don’t see any difference. No matter what comes in the way, a strong relationship is one that remains together. (I am not talking about toxic relationships BTW). Anuj clearly said that he is feeling suffocated with Anupama since Anu left, what kind of reaction is that? Isn’t she a part of his life? This is a statement that will breaks someone heart and she is gonna remember that always.
Yes dear exactly. I totally agree to all your sentences. Most of the indian audience are actually stupid that is why they watch these kinds of shows. Only very few of the audience are smart and logical so the moment they know how bad most shows are, they will stop watching and will never bother to watch again. If more indians are smart then they would never give any ratings or anything to shows that are so rotten.
Hey look, it’s fake NRI. I have a fan now. How cute.
Yes, you’re the only NRI of this country.
Hahahaha. Whenever any problem arose in their lives Anuj still expected Anupamaa to run around dancing, smiling, baking and playing with CA, even if it was something as serious as her young son suffering a stroke and being paralysed. After his own brain injury, Anupamaa kept his spirits up and helped him heal mentally by keeping the mood in the house light and playful.
But now when Anupamaa is still trying to put on a brave face for everyone’s sake, Anuj starts screaming in the streets, stripping his wife of her dignity the way Vanraj and Baa used to do. Back then he used to roll his eyes, adjust his glasses and threaten them not to talk to his wife that way. But I guess he’s her husband so only he’s allowed to abuse and torture his wife. Vanraj is right for once. Anuj is just like any other man! What do y’all say in Hindi? Apni ki bhath aati hai toh…?
Blaming wife is what they are their for. Than why is Anuj wrong. He is absolutely right in doing so. When baa scolded Anupama for wanting to go to picnic n enjoying herself despite toshu’s sick condition than why is Anuj wrong in wanting the same, he has lost his daughter ( it’s other thing that she is happy with her biological mother) thabn how can Anupama be with her children n try to be happy. So Anupama deserves this abuse. Anupama should have begged maya and touched her feet and asked her to return CA. Should have allowed maya to seduce Anuj and be dumb to that matter. She failed as a wife n mother can’t she learn from Anuj. Anuj is such a great husband he gave her child within 2 days of marriage, why is she not happy. While every woman crave for child after getting newly married and her she a shameless lady is wanting husband’s accompany after so many months of marriage. What love is she talking about doesn’t she knows that she is only made for handling responsibilities after 26years she should have been highly trained in this job. But still failed to attend CA she is now useless than why should Anuj keep her n respect her. She don’t deserve respect.
This exactly is the issue in india and the other parts of the world. Most men are horrible to females and expect females to dance around them blindly following their absurd demands easily forgetting that women are humans too. And as horrible as it is there are women who do the same thing to men violating their rights because according to them men are not allowed to have their rights. But the people who show that behavior from both genders need to grow up and they need to be sent to a mental hospital as no normal human being is capable of being so ruthless to another human being for absolutely no valid reason.
I hope this track ends soon. It’s so illogical and stupid. They’ve even ruined Anuj for it which seems like a massive misstep.
Anupamaa has also lost her mind. Why wouldn’t she balk at CA’s reasons for going away with Maaya, as if an 8 year old can make a decision like that. It’s not like Pakhi and Toshu who were in their mid-twenties/late teens when they chose to align themselves with Rakhi/Kavya/Barkha.
anupama let Anuj go…he is begging for it…you let vanraj, thoshu, pakhi, choti go why not anuj…left him also breath….he is feeling suffocated under your mahanta…above all you are taking all the bullies which is not feminist at all.
anuj longs choti..choti longs maaya…maaya longs anuj…ronduma odd one out…consequences of excess mahanta.
Can Anupama stop crying and let him go clearly he wants nothing to do with you and it’s totally fine;he said he feels suffocated so let him breathe. Marriage isnt everything in life there is so much more. I didn’t believe people when they said Anuj married Anupama so he could adopt Choti but now I am especially after that pre cap. Even Vanraj sees himself in Anuj now and his right Anuj has become Vanraj. 26 years is a sham its was a trap.
So anuj will keep marrying and keep divorcing girl until he get eligible aaya of his choti
TODAY’S TAG LINE: ANUPAMA: ENDLESS SAGA OF DIVORCES, DOMESTIC BRAWLS AND EXTRAMARITAL AFFAIRS. MR RAJAN SAHI CHANGE THE TITLE OF YOUR SO CALLED GENIOUS CREATION
THE BRAIN DEAD CREATIVE TEAM HAVE TAKEN RELEVANT EFFORTS IN SLAUGHTERING THE SERIAL.
THE TEAM IS NOT SICK AND TIRED IN DISPLAYING INSANITY AND ARROGANCE. MS KETAKI WALAVALKAR THE TEAM LEADER SHOULD BE CONFERRED AWARD FOR SPOILING AND SABOTAGING A GOOD PROJECT. WONDER HOW DOES MR SAHI APPROVE THIS RUBBISH CONTENT
WE AS SENSIBLE AUDIENCE ARE SICK AND TIRED OF WATCHING THIS TRASH. NOW WE ARE TIRED OF POSTING COMMENTS AS WELL
AS IT IS THIS MAYA NAUTANKI HAS BACKFIRED. NOW THE TRAGEDY DRAMA OF ANUJ IS GETTING ON NERVES. THE CHARACTER ANUJ LOOKS YUCK 🤮 CERTIFIED IDIOT.
MR RAJAN SAHI DON’T EVEN DARE TO THINK OF SHOWING SEPARATION BETWEEN LEAD PAIR. OTHERWISE YOUR SERIAL WILL LOSE CREDIBILITY
why not to settle with maaya. problem solved
It’s Anupama’s own fault to not understand this that she was married by Anuj to foster CA and now when that purpose is unaccomplished what is she of use now. She should pick her bags and leave.
Exactly! One thing is Baa’s curse that Anupama can never be happy in her life came truth now! 🙄🙄🙄 Choti Anu said that she is afraid that bcoz of her Anuj n Anupama fight, now they are going to divorce bcoz she is not with them! Anuj is just making excuses to divorce her like what @Pk said he married her for the purpose of fostering Choti Anu! Now tat she is of no use to him he dump her like rubbish! Anupama be smart n divorce him, get half of his alimony, you deserve it! although Anuj gave her authority but only on signature not really on his assets! Don’t be great n refused anything from him after divorce!
TODAY’S TAG LINE: ANUJ THE NEW TRAGEDY KING. THIS ENTIRE TRAGEDY SAGA OF NEW CRY BABY ANUJ IS BEING STRETCHED AND IT IS NOW GETTING ON NERVES. ONLY SIGH OF RELIEF IS GAURAV KHANNA EMOTING THE SCENES HENCE HOPEFULLY IT MAY NOT BE THAT IRRITATING
WHY THE HELL ANUJ IS ALL INTO BLAMEGAME. IN FACT HE IS THE ONE WHO GAVE FREE HAND TO THE MUCK WHORE MAYA TO MANIPULATE THE GIRL 👧 BY ALLOWING HER TO BE THE LADY ON BIRTHDAY OF ANUPAMA
THE ENTIRE CHEAP NAUTANKI OF MUCK MAYA HAS BEEN BOOMERANG 🪃 BACKFIRED OVER THE PROJECT ANUPAMA.
MR RAJAN SAHI AND YOUR BRAIN DEAD 🧠 CREATIVE TEAM, IN THE NAME OF CREATIVITY YOU SIMPLY DEPICTED NUISANCE STUPIDITY. THIS ENTIRE NAUTANKI WAS UTTER FIASCO
IT WAS ABSOLUTELY HILARIOUS TO SEE ANUJ AND ANUPAMA AT THE MERCY OF MANIPULATIVE WHORE.MAYA
THE MALE LEAD CHARACTER ANUJ HAS BEEN TOTALLY RUINED. HE APPEARS LIKE A CERTIFIED IDIOT PLAYING BLAMEGAME AND THROWING GUILT PARCEL ON THE LADY.
HOW DO YOU EXPECT SENSIBLE MATURED AUDIENCE TO DIGEST ALL THIS NONSENSE.
THE SERIAL HAS SUSTAINED SO FAR ONLY BECAUSE OF SCINTILLATING PERFORMANCES OF GORGEOUS ACTORS GAURAV KHANNA AND RUPALI GANGULY. HENCE DON’T EVEN DARE TO THINK OF SHOWING RIFT BETWEEN THE LEAD PAIR
MR RAJAN SAHI AND YOUR BRAIN DEAD CREATIVE TEAM DON’T GET FLATTERED WITH TRP RANKINGS. THESE ARE JUST FALSIFIED BLOATED FIGURES.
NOW ATLEAST WITH ADVENT OF DHIRAJ AND DEVIKA SHOW SOMETHING SENSIBLE. LET THEM PLAY THE ROLE OF CUPIDS AND ONCE AGAIN DO TROUBLE SHOOTING AND DAMAGE CONTROL AND SALVAGE THE WRECKED FALTERED PROJECT ANUPAMA
HOPEFULLY SOME SENSIBLE MATURED CONTENT BE EXPECTED FROM MR RAJAN SAHI AND HIS SO CALLED CREATIVE TEAM
anuj really have a problem ,anupama was not ready to foster choti .but you guilt tripped her into agreeing .you waited for 26 years to get anupama . Anuj knew before he married anupama how broken she was because of V ,and now he’s doing the same thing .these braindead writter does not know how a script for anupama without giving her sorrows and pain 😤😤😩🤦♀️
Anupama needs to love herself and let go of anuj ,and all the baggage and ties with the shahs .she needs to find herself again ,because she is lost now .anupama divorce anuj and he can go and marry that prostitude so that he can be closer to choti . And if he realize his mistakes don’t take him back !!.
Today was the nail in the coffin.
How come Anuj didn’t verify Sampath story especially after creepy Maya was all over him like a rash ? Oh yes he was the Knight in shining armour saving a damsel in distress. DKP team thinks we want negativity etc. Well surprise surprise we don’t. Btw in Imlie n Pandaya stores “chipkali” as pet name and Chiku for a kid is used like don’t you guys have some imagination? Fed up. Wanted Maan got crap gyaan. No woman deserves what you showed today encouraging MCP behaviour
Anuj is the one character in this whole serial who is out of context, we all know in life we have the grand parents who is like Baa, the man like Vanraj, lady like Kavya, the kinjals of the world, the Pakhi’s who disrespect the mothers, the mummy boy Samar, the son who is a lost cause like Toshu, the Rakhi’s who love to flaunt their month in people, the best friend like Devika and people like Mukku. Anuj loved someone for 26 years but this is how he treats her I’m not saying he should worship the ground she walks on I’m talking about respect he should have taken her to a room and spoke to her there. Normal people in society would have moved on after watching a lover marry another person but no not Anuj, and then later when he finally gets the chance to be and marry his lover after waiting decades he wants to let her go so easily for someone else. Just for one person he would burn bridges with with his other so called lover. Anuj should just go divorce Anupama( just hope Anupama isn’t pregnant like normal TV serial Bahu when they leave their husband) and go with Maya and they should live happily ever after in London or USA with their daughter. Anupama you start going back to school and open your own business or whatever and live peacefully without a man because you don’t need a man to be something in life.
Lol Anupama will never be seen pregnant and not just because of her surgery. They’ll never dare to show a middle aged woman and mother of three adults, pregnant again: that would mean she has a recreational s*x life, and that’s unthinkable! As we know women can only have s*x right after marriage to make 1-3 kids before retiring into the role of matronly nanny and maid *sarcasm*
Instead of fighting amongst yourselves you should unite and fight against your common enemy which is Maaya. Anuj should think with a clear mind and recall how Maaya was shit scared of her husband which means the husband has something against her. Look for him and with his help get CA back.
Agree, I think Anupama must live her life without a Man,
Move out of the Shah shadows as well, Bapuji was right when he said it is Baa’s fault for what Anupama is facing!
Her big bum🍑 was clapping and didnt want a male nurse for Toshu, wanted Anupama there and take care of him, every other time, chase Anupama away and keep blaming her for everything.
She is the bad luck in Anupama’s life.💩
As for Anuj, he must go marry that Maaya so he can his daughter back, then when he see what kind of woman and mother she is, he must cry like a goat🐐 for Anupama, it must be too late then.
ronduma doesn’t cry for herself. y others vl cry for her. she doesn’t value herself y others vl understand her value. she lets everyone go y anyone will stuck by her. she loves let go, let everyone go..she loves cry and die.so let it be..
Oh Boy! This woman needs a reality check. She never had the chance to work on her marriage the first time. Second time when she could have benefited from that chance, she assumed all was hunkie- dorie. She never matured in her marriage or in herself. She is behaving like a 16 years old, insecure and immature.
In a previous episode when someone said ‘yeh Anuj aur Anupama ki pahli Holi hai’ she didn’t wait a breath to blurt out ‘yeh Pari aur Pakh-Adhik ki pahli Holi hai’. Any sane person would have learnt from Anuj’s reaction but not Anupama.
Today she greets Anuj with Happy Holi. What did she expect Anuj to say? Mubarak Ho??
Are festivals more important than people? For God’s sake they are cultural; people survive and thrive even without celebrating them. She is clueless. This is what happens, I suppose, when half ready people are pushed into marriage.
For those who are critical of Anuj’s behaviour, watch this to see a father’s pain:
Am soo suprised at how many people are justifying Anupama’s behaviour towards Anuj & CA departure….people have been soo brainwashed into believing Anupama is soo rightious & always right that she can never make mistakes nor hurt someone whether knowingly or unknowingly!!!! And to those who are saying he loved Anupama for 26years how can he be angry on Anupama for CA whom he knew for few Month??? Like is that even something to debate about??? People get attached to kids in an instant, be it your own blood or adopted or outsider!!!! You get a child today & you know instantly that you can fight the whole world for that child!!! And it doesnt mean Anuj doesnt love Anupama, he does, he just doesnt understand why Anupama is soo easily & willingly letting CA go when everyone knows that CA NEVER wanted to go & its because she was manipulated by Maya!!!! This time round Anupama is wrong, no matter how hard the writters are trying to make Anuj looks like an unreasonable cruel husband deep down am sure anyone can see through everything!!!! People are saying Anupama should divorce Anuj & be happy but in reality its better they divorce so Anuj can find peace…Anupama is dumb & stupid & the only family that she is used to is Shahs, otherwise if left alone she will make stupid decisions & hurt people in the process…the only thing she is good at is giving lectures & obeying the Shahs!!!! I really feel bad for Anuj, from a loving & caring business tycoon to a pathetic depressed husband!!!! Theres nothing good that will come of Anupama, she was suppose to be empowering & showcase how an opressed ideal smart woman breaks free & fly soo high up & empower all women who go through oppression
This. 💯 Too many are easily brainwashed to believing anupama always right and anuj wrong. In this case both are wrong for me. One is too overly dumb and stupid from head to toe. While the other has also become stupid by staying with the stupid one. There is no purpose of this facade now. Its as clear as day that neither this show nor the characters will grow.
I wish the story of Anuj and Anupama turns out like that of Anuj’s parents whom after adopting Anuj had Malvika after many years and still loved Anuj the most even after their biological child ,this is just a serial anything can h
appen just like we never expected Anuj to behave this way towards anupama
Anupama should ask anuj how much u have put me in priority
In first day of ur marriage u started taking about adoption
Tell me which husband wife talk about complete family wo
With in first day of marriage
Tell me right from. First day of marriage and till now how much u have given Me time as husband
The day I got married to u u just keep singing choti choti
And if u really getting late for adoption if completing family is very much important for u then why did not marry other girl why keep waiting for me
so wish for a complete family is wrong? which mother asks whether you love me more or the child? answer is always the child.
Yes from first day of marriage talking about completing family to wife is wrong
And anupama has never ask anuj whom u love most
It is anuj who himself said to anupama today I want to confess there is some who I love u more than u
Is it? Its wrong to talk about completing family on marriage day?
I though we get married to have a complete family.
Actually we talk about it before marriage itself, so that there wont be any confusion after marriage.
Sensitive issues have not been handled properly on this show and it’s sickening, first the fostering issues was poorly handled no proper legal route was used , secondly Anuj is clearly under going a nervous break down and no doctor has been involved instead they decide to bring Devika and her fiance. Anupama has internalized her pain for so long and she has become accustomed to it such that even now that she’s breaking down as well she needs to put on a brave font which Anuj doesn’t understand
Clearly the writers are obsessed with sad lead couples and they want to throw Anu and Anuj in that light but if that’s the case then this show needs to end with Anuj returning to the USA while Anupama remains the CEO of kapadia empire I think Anuj has taught her enough from the time he meet her for the first business proposal to this point she’s capable of running it.
If Anuj wants nothing to do with Anu and feels alone Anu should pack her things and leave the house then he will have a serious reality check of what loneliness is
And it’s funny how vanraj is obsessed with Anuj lol even in his wildest dream Vanraj will never be half the man Anuj is yes his going to far with his dumping of all his frustration on Anu but he will never stoop to Vanraj’s level , so he should just be concerned about his wife and ex husband.
Shahs are Anupama first love and first priority. She can leave the world but not them.
You are a successful businessman and tycoon. Please don’t waste your life+time to deal with shahs and solving their never ending nonsense problems to get Anupama’s love & attention.
Maaya will take very good care of CA (just like Anupama taking care of her own three kids).
Anupama deserves baa,vanraj,her 4 nonsense children including Kinjal. Let her shift in shah house completely and die for them.
Maine aur mera beta anupama ke sath 26 saal se galat kya. Ham dhono ne aisa nahi karna chahiye tha lekin ab nahi karongi. Aur koi kuch bi bole, sirf anupama hi mera bete ke sath ahchi lagti hain. Maide ki katori bi ahchi insan bangayi par meri bete ke sath sirf anupama ki jodi ahchi hain. Bas ek dhin vanraj bi uska 26 saal ki galati ehsas hojaye.
Be responsible writers, your writing is going to shut fostering down in India.
Anuj, Anupama, Maaya all 3 need to be behind bars for playing with the life of the child.
End this nonsense asap.
Kinjal pragnency care
Kinjal baby care
Toshu extra martial affair issue
Pakhi’s love story
Pakhi’s drama in KM
Toshu great business ideas
Shahs never ending issues and Anupam is only solution of their each and every problem..
She ran away all the time… because they are their first priority..
Anuj,CA had to compromise all the time but baa,vanraj,shahs never compromised..
Because Anupama can say thesis to Anuj and CA but never say “NO” to shahs.
Anuj tried a lot but they are not going to change.
So, Anuj please shift in USA and leave these mad people. Anupama will definitely not come with you because she can leave you but not shahs.
Do you realise you just listed some very serious issues? Anupama didn’t run back to the Shahs everyday to say goodmorning and make tea. Especially towards the end she was making great strides in setting boundaries and saying no. Even though by all rights she should’ve been with her paralysed son and not playing with a little kid. Still she divided her time between them, giving the healthy and happy kid equal priority. But that wasn’t enough for Anuj who said he was okay with marrying a divorced mother of 3 but really just wants a full time nanny for his daughter.
Preparing khichri for maa was most important than reaching on time fir dance competition. Taking help from samar, dimpi, pakhi was crime.. right?
Baa decided to keep pari with her in kinjal absence, but whole family was unable to handle her. CA was crying for her mom but Anupama was handing pari..
When pakhi was sad, Anu slept on road with pakhi.but she was playing holi with sahas because bapuji called..
It was Anupama’s mistake to coddle Baa’s pickiness, yes. But she mostly missed the dance because of the traffic. Such accidents happen in life.
The Pakhi comparison doesn’t even work. She was getting Pakhi to get off the freaking road. Teaching her a life lesson. She lectured her afterwards!
Playing Holi is more comparable to her still playing with CA and Anuj when he had his accident, or after some big problem. She’s always kept a brave face and tried to be joyful no matter the circumstance. Anuj and CA have benefited from this before but it’s only a problem for Anuj now because he wants to be bitter.
That’s what I want to tell.
She made shahs completely dependent on heself. Baa take whole responsibility and pull Anupama for handling them. Why can’t she say ‘N0’ to baa?
Taking pari’s responsibility in kijal’s absence was baa decision. Rakhi would be very happy to taking care of her granddaughter but due to baa, Anupama took her responsibility and result is
– shahs shift in KM
– khichri issue
– missed CA dance competition
– Anuj Anupama fight or so on.
In Toshu case, It was baa’s decision to not hire nurse but call Anupama for seva. She went there, managed and explained everything.
– Samar,kijal,baa called her so many time that Anuj Aupana was not able to talk.
My question is why so much dependency? If she will food-spoon her adult children they will never grow up
Wow this Anuj became a shit in a snap of time. You do not hurt people when you’re depressed🙄 and anupuma well done👍🏻 be a doormat that suits you a lot. Just done with their drama. Anuj worse than vanraj. Atleast he knew his home will not be a home without anupuma. Anuj worst character ever written. I think we praised him more than he deserved when he entered the show. And yes dude you imposed the responsibility of choti anu on this doormat but she accepted it. Well best portrayal of a toxic marriage
For once I want to know how Anuj and the Shah family would react of Anupama meets with an accident and is fighting for her life. At least she would get a break from all this drama.
Lol Anuj would probably tell her to smile and play board games with CA when she’s all bandaged up and can barely move so she doesn’t ‘ruin her childhood’
How is Anuj different from Vanraj? He boasted about his 26 yrs feelings for Anupama n within one year of marriage their relationship has turned bitter?
Where are those high ideals of Anupama n Anuj to emancipate/ uplift women and all that drama?
This is another Ekta Kapoor family drama, a tear jerker.
Sad that indian narratives cannot go beyond.
MAAN? No values, no integrity, no sincerity.
Wake up story writers.
anuj has a streak of mania. for mukku he left everything, need to see what all he can leave for ca.
I always thought both their relationship with that annoying child was not right, e.g, all we see they doing is pampering her while she just goes, annoyingly, YAYYYYYYYYYY!!!🤷♂️,smh😏
I agree Anupama should not be blamed as Anuj was there and was a silent spectator while Maya made her move. Why did HE not try to stall her? Why did HE not try to come to a solution? No he left the decision to Anupama only. Even Ankush, Barkha and Dimple had more to say to Maya than him, he’s behaving like little miss annoying is dead! Instead of treating him like a child I suggest they get out the house and try to find maya and the reason she brainwashed the child.
And also, makers are now destroying Ma’An, well goodbye to the show, the ratings and its viewers👋
To be fair, everytime he did try to attempt, Anupama either had decided or coerced him out of it. The only action he could take was to tell Anupama to ‘Shut the **** up’ but that would have sent her on a sulk trip.
Great excuse for Anuj. Man claims that he will give the world for his daughter and tells Anupama she should’ve moved mountains, but he himself can’t stand up to a woman? What about when he left the kid with Maya overnight, did Anupama force him to do that? I’m not an Anupama stan but sometimes the criticism is unwarranted imo
Yes! Like did he even tried to tell Anupama if CA goes, don’t think I can live happily with you, I am gonna leave you too? At least he warned Anu that, but no he just pushed everything to Anu n now blame Anu!
I read all this comments, and as a woman myself, a woman always suffer in the end and always carry her pain and sorrow alone, Some woman will standby their husband and children even when they are abuse by their husband or children mentally, emotional or physical
But it doesn’t gave any child or husband the right to abuse a mother she’s only human and as a human she also need her me time she’s not a robot she is first a woman before she became a wife and a mother.
So if you all think Anuj is right to insult Anupama and mistreat her like that after losing Choti Anu, first asked yourself will you be happy if a man will treat you or your daughter like to that.
I don’t blame either of them what happened to CA I know Choti Anu confide in her mother but I always wanted to know why didn’t she also confide in her father about the same about Maya
So all I’m asking hope and pray Anu and Anuj problems is sorted out soon and MaAn love will restore.
And I also want to see what if Anupama returned back Choti Anu and leave Anuj what will Anuj do and will he happy with CA or will he also ignore her and say she reminds her of her mother Anupama.
You know My desire, Rudrask use to say he love Saransh more then Preesha, but when Preesha fake her death, Rudrask become a drunken, so I think Anuj love Anupama he only feeling guilty because he blame himself as a failure couldn’t save CA, know he blame his wife.
Today Anuj’s reaction is over the limit! I wonder whether he can still do it in front of Anupama’s mother n brother?? If he does, then he is a gone case! Anupama should never go back to him!
Buddhipama bunny boiler
Anuj finally no more puppet of buddhi
Kinjal wow what a babe
Barka wow what a babe
Ankush wow so handsome