Anupama 18th March 2023 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
Anuj cries saying his daughter left him forever. Maaya notices Little Anu watching Anuj and Anupama’s photos and asks if she is missing them. Little Anu says yes. Maaya says it happens in the beginning, slowly she will get used to it. Little Anu says her mummy and papa must also be missing her. Maaya says elders are strong and can handle themselves, so she need not worry. Little Anu asks if she thinks mummy didn’t take proper care of her; mummy had to go outside sometimes, but she used to be with her most of the time; papa used to get office work to home to spend time with her, she misses them. She starts crying. Maaya asks her not to cry and asks if she wants to return to them.
Anuj continues to cry that he couldn’t take proper care of his daughter and couldn’t win her heart. Anupama asks him not to say that. Anuj says get into sorrow when they can’t take proper care of their children, he was an orphan and got parents in childhood, but his daughter couldn’t get her parents. Anupama asks him not to say that as he took good care of his daughter. Anuj says every father has to say good bye to his daughter after her marriage, but he had to now itself. Anupama tries to comfort him. Maaya emotionally blackmails Little Anu saying she will live alone without her but can’t be happy as her happiness is only with her. Little Anu hugs her and says she will not leave her alone. Maaya hugs and pampers her. Little Anu says she feels bad staying away from her parents. Maaya says she will give her so much love that she will forget them. Little Anu asks her not to say that as she doesn’t want to forget them and wants to meet them often. Maaya says she will and says she was away from her for 8 years and will keep her happy always.
Next morning, Anupama walks to Anuj and asks him to wake up and get ready for breakfast as everyone are waiting for him. Anuj ignores her and turns his side. Anupama walks out crying. Dimple comforts him. Afer some time, Anuj keeps himself busy repairing Little Anu’s toys. Ankush and Barkha walk to him and ask till when he will continue like this, he should accept the truth and move on. Anuj asks them to leave him alone. He laughs watching Little Anu’s videos. Anupama prays god to give strength to her Anuj to cope with the loss. At Shah house, Vanraj and Leela get jealous seeing Kavya spending time with Anirudh. Dimpy sends Anuj’s videos in family group. Shah kids get emotional seeing Anuj’s condition and feel worried for Anupama.
Hasmukh visits Anupama. Anupama breaks down seeing him and says Anuj is completely lost in Little Anu’s memories and doesn’t even talk to anyone, she doesn’t know how to handle him and she can’t see him like this. She walks to kitchen and notices Anuj in kitchen busy over phone with utensil burning no stove. She switches off gas and shows her concern for him. He ignores her and walks away. She breaks down saying his silence is taking her away from him, she also needs him. Barkha and Dimple comfort her. Anupama says she wants to be alone and runs to her room. Barkha says Anuj’s mental condition is worsening with Little Anu’s departure, Anupama can’t handle him alone. Anupama cries vigorously in her room.
Next morning, during breakfast, Anuj gets Little Anuj’s video call and gets very happy. He and Anupama ask how is she, why didn’t she call them, and continue their questions. Little Anu asks them to stop and says she is fine and is happy here, she will soon visit them or else they can visit her. Anupama saysyes. Anuj clicks her screenshot. Little Anu disconnects call. Anuj says he will take Little Anu’s screenshot even next time. Anupama thinks if he continues like this, he will get into depression and she should get him out of this situation. She walks to him and says she wants to talk to him. He ignores her. She asks why is he ignoring her and behaving as if she doesn’t exist since Little Anu left. Anuj turns his face around.
Precap: Anuj gets into depression. Precap: Anupama tries to comfort Anuj and says even she lost Little Anu. Anuj says her 3 children are with her, he lost his daughter because of her and he suffocates being with her. He walks out of room. Anupama thinks Anuj left the room in anger and will return for sure.
Update Credit to: MA
Anupamaa is a punching bag for everyone.. When things go wrong everyone starts yelling at her including anuj
In the Indian series that are being aired, praising eternal love, but it’s really just a scam, when men need women they are everything, when men are in trouble, they think women are wrong in their lives, blaming the gods, is fate. If women like Anupam, Pragya, Pari, Sayi, Meet, Akshara, Preeta…… don’t respect their own selves, how can they ask selfish men to respect them? It’s all just a joke.
Is serial mein kub tuk choti choti chalta rahega
Writer dont bother about anupama journey at all
They are concerned about TRP only. Nothing else. They know the funda clear: Anupama ko hamesha rote hue, dukhi hote hue dikhao. Dumb audience is there to love these scenes. Bhad me jaye uski journey, bhad me jaye logic.
True really fed up of choti choti choti choti ki picnic choti ki.christmas choti ki birthday choti ka yeh choti ka woh .
Now every scene every time it is only choti
My choti my choti this is all about this serial become .don’t know when Wil this choti choti Jaap.will end
After hearing the manipulation story of maaya why did anupuma let anu stay in the dark. Why didn’t she clear it out this thing to Anuj? Had she told this to Anuj, he would’ve stopped fighting with anupuma to assure choti anu that she’s not causing any fights. The poor child thinks she’s the reason her parents fight though it is true but parents should not let their kid feel that they’re a threat on their married life.
Well Anuj, he hid the truth of maaya’s husband from anupuma. This can unfold many a things. And the way he’s yelling at her in the precap, he’s no better than vanraj. I understand his displeasure but he can’t break his promises like that
I still think it’s Anupama’s fault, she saw how Anuj was when knowing that CA is leaving, during the farewell party, did Anupama not seeing how devastated he is? He told Anupama he can’t live without CA, yet she still insist CA to go with Maya, without thinking how Anuj is going to live his life normally again with CA gone, does Anupama thinks that Anuj can be his usual self again after CA left? Did she expects thing will get normal for them as Anuj already questioned her motherhood and yet she ignored his plead n keep insisting CA to go, she literally deserve the treatment Anuj gives her, she is simply ruining Anuj’s life by ignoring his pain! CA is still young how can she decides for herself, Anupama should know better she is better off with them than with Maya, as she knows she and Anuj can take better care of her than Maya as she was proven to be dishonest, manipulative and an ingrate!
All tv serials are the same. Before the marriage its all lovey dovey; shit rainbow; love her till she is totally brainwashed then after the marriage its honeymoon faze for 3 months after that they show you flames. Him and his family. No woman of today’s time would put up with any of these so called tv serial ML or heroes;no ways. They are all toxic; they are all abusive and it doesn’t have to be phycial it can be mental or emotional; they always say the worst things in anger and expect LB in the end. It’s time for woman to love themselves and walk away from such behavior; your don’t need a man to hold your hand throughout life you can do it alone especially if you have a husband like any of these male leads.
Sad to say this, but this “him and his family” problem is still prevailing in our society even after modernization. Woman after marriage are always asked by husband n in-laws to prioritise them n forget her parents n siblings. Even when simultaneous problems arise in both families, women are asked to focus on their in-laws’ families and forget their own. so no shock that even Anuj is same for wanting to Anupama to prioritise him n CA.
It hasnt even been their first wedding anniversary and this what the marriage is like. Anuj has already become Vanraj. I know why Kavya wont divorce Vanraj because she is afraid of what society will say first of all she had an affair with Vanraj and left her first marriage which was fine now she is getting a divorce from the man she left her first marriage for society would make her life hell with all the taunts. I just hope Anupama picks herself up and shows the world that she is not weak and she will not tolerate digusting words from her so called husbands mouth. Choti Anu will come back to her rightful place once that has happened Anuj and Anupama must separate. Anuj can play father india because his worlds best dad and Anupama is worlds worst mother and he feels suffocated around her so she must leave him so he can breathe.
Best serial turning out to be bakwas.Hate this Anuj also
What happened to Anupama’s motherhood and responsibility towards the shah house suddenly she was so busy taking care of toshu and creating happiness in the shah home that she couldn’t even spare time for her daughter or husband,now she has time to spend in her home after she has contributed to the breaking of her own family isn’t toshu still paralyzed and needs his mother , ain’t the shahs sad and she needs to cheer them on with her presence and dance numbers and now that the shahs have indirectly ruined her happiness with their demands they suddenly can handle toshu and their problems while she has time to spend in her house for days pathetic
Anupama isn’t some goddess that Anuj should constantly worship, this time not even Devika and a dance number will fix her marriage
The least Anupama can do is tell Anuj the real reason CA left them but she’s making it about her self and how Anuj is making her feel she doesn’t exist if my partner was part of the reason or didn’t put up a fight for my Child until I lost them I would move to the furthest part of the earth from them cause it will be a constant reminder of my child and their inability to fight for my child which means they don’t care enough for my baby and I to fight, now that her home is on fire no one from shah house has come to help fix things but she’s always bob the fixer for their house
If Anuj died of depression I bet Anu would cry a few days and return to shah house like nothing happened
I can’t believe the Anu that fights for every tom dick and Harry hasn’t put up a single fight for her daughter and husband
Anuj should go back to the states and start all over again while trying to erase the events of India from his mind/heart
This show is putting a bad light on fostering/adopting children while promoting all sorts of negative behavior.
Anuj’s praised love is 26 years old but not equal to 1 for Choti Anu
Anuj’s assurance that he would not let Anupam get hurt a second time was just a whisper in his ears.
The family in this series is just a mess, with selfish members
Adoption of a child will not be protected by law here.
And there are many things in the Indian series that have awakened people. In life, nothing lasts forever, whether it is intimacy, love. When you are in trouble, just pray to the gods, the gods will protect you even if you have just harmed others,
Oh Memzie…U must also be soooo noble that you think of everyone else’s happiness before your own thus blaming Anupama for thinking of herself. What a wonderful person U must be!!
@unimpressed am not noble and I value my happiness above anyone else’s that’s why I mentioned I would leave my partner who makes me lose my child, in as much as like both Anupama and Anuj am not a blind fan of either who doesn’t see their flaws Anupama is far from been perfect and neither is Anuj they are both humans just like Anu cant fulfil all of Anuj’s wishes neither should Anuj be expected to constantly worship and just fulfil Anupama’s wishes, I will keep saying this Anuj and Anupama had no business getting married Anu’s life revolves around the shahs and Anuj’s expectations of Anupama she can’t fulfil because this is her second marriage and she has other duties
Adoption is a very sensitive subject even in this modern era if they weren’t going to do it right they shouldn’t have gone that route
Anuj and Anupama need to go their Separate ways
Thet are fostering Choti not adopted Choti, big difference.
You are right they should go their separate ways.
The makers are insulting 26 years of love matter, fostering matter, motherhood, real helpless people like maya, etc. this show should end their is no woman empowerment in this show any longer.
Anuj prioritise CA and Anupama even unwillingly prioritise Shahs. They should separate, Anupama should first learn set boundaries and live for herself than think about remarriage and Anuj first should think what he wants, does he wants only children or wife also than get married to some else from whom he doesn’t gets suffocated. 😅
The reality is Anupama is use to abuse. I don’t see her ever standing up.for herself a d leaving a toxic situation. She’s thesame woman who stayed in a house with her husband and his side piece. Being verbally abusive and outrightly disrespectful, insulting her motherhood and telling her she’s “suffocating” is light work for her to deal with
She’ll hold on for the grand apology and dancing followed by candle light dinner and thank Kanha Ji for bringing her husband back to her 🙄🙄
Only for the next shit yo Ingoldmells itself and again,more abuse,more insult,more disrespect then followed by puja to thank Kanha ji for giving her such a beautiful life with such a great man
Then again, and again and again the viscious circle keeps rotating
And we are supposed to look at such men as the “ideal”
Indian serials are really a trip man😄😄
Anupama seems like to be suffering from Stockholm syndrome than why else she is unable to separate abuse from care n responsibilities. Wouldn’t it be huge trauma for her, hearing her husband call her presence suffocating which she had nonstop listened in her previous marriage and wasn’t this the same reason Vanraj gave her for cheating.
She would have by now started to feel like Anuj will also do the same like.
I never wrote in awhile so here is my opinion. Their relationship has become toxic and honestly this is not hashtag MaAn that I used to adore and find comfort in. Both are wrong honestly, they expected to much from each other and Anu truly was always by the Shah’s at a point in this program. But Anuj ain’t some Saint, he to manipulated Anu into adopting this child even when she didn’t want to adopt. But the other story is he truly deserved a child….
But from here it goes down hill cause then everything was up to Anu, even signing documents that could have been signed by Anuj. And when he paralyzed Anu did everything and forgot about college and her dance academy.
In the recent episodes Anu truly never fought hard enough for Choti and this child basically said things that proved Maya manipulated her and yet she let the child go… but again WHAT DID ANUJ DO?
WHY MUST ANU BE THE ONLY ONE BRINGING THE CHILD BACK?
He is a business man and yes cry, scream but don’t loose hope. And I understand a father’s pain and Gaurav acted well but this is too far. Are they trying to make Anuj(Lover Boy) into Sikandar from Kulfi…. and if so Sikandar fought as well as cried. Why did he depend on Anu? He can fight for his child.
Cause damn it gets exhausting trying to fight for everyone. Anu should have fought harder but Anuj listened to Anu without fighting. He should have fought or got information on Maya.
And why didn’t they speak about the fact Anuj hid the kiss Maya gave him? Like privately in their room instead of being romantic…. like I found that sequence unnatural and cringe. They should have talked and cuddled at the end.
Another thing on your wife’s bday how can you say …..”I love Choti more then you ” like damn….like damnnnnnn, I mean it is natural to love your children more but don’t say it on your WIFE’S special day like…. I honestly don’t know if you’ll agree but there is different love…. you LOVE your child in a paternal manner but Love your wife romantically, passionately so it is kinda concerning when you say you love the child more then Your wife whom you married.
But I guess Anuj is alone due to the fact Anu was stuck by the Shahs but he forgot Muku and Gk …..
26 years of love…. and then to feel suffocated is a bit stupid on the writers part cause Anuj could have said NO to Anu. And truly Anu needs a break from Anuj and the Shahs. Cause he is acting like a baby then a depressed father. I don’t like what he said and I will never agree with it cause it hurts alot. Yes Anu is dumb truly, I would have slapped choti and held my child after that. Anu didn’t fight hard enough but she ain’t jealous nor insecure. Anuj is acting like there is no other option and honestly I feel bad bit I also just rolled my eyes as well .
Anu stop crying!
Or better yet get him married to Maya but I have a strong feeling Choti would leave Anuj for Anu
Plus Anuj needs space
Makers end the show make Anu successful
Cause you maiing their relationship toxic…. Anuj I am sorry but grow some pants and Anu get a brain and build a brick around your heart cause Anuj definitely can’t fight .
I am done venting my anger
@lichelle everything you said is true as well in regards to this whole CA situation both Anu and Anuj have handled it wrongly from the very beginning if they can’t keep these two happy/toxic free they should mutually divorce and go separate ways I actually enjoyed their relationship more before love/marriage got throw into the mix.
totally agree with u both are at wrong. makers should end this show now.
I don’t understand Anuj’s obsession with CA. It is in no way healthy for him or for CA. Anuj didn’t adopt CA; even if Maya hadn’t come, CA could be taken away by an orphanage any day, and that, too, legally. Here, if Maya wasn’t a negative character, and just like she was introduced at the beginning, if she had taken CA of her own free will, then also Anuj would have reacted this way. How does Anupama have her children with her becoming a reason for her to be blamed? Should Anupama have also behaved this way when Toshu was hospitalized and blamed Anuj, saying he would not understand as his children were not the ones hospitalized?
Why does Anupama every time have to be mahan? Any normal person in her place would have become more depressed than the way Anuj is shown now, by facing all that abuse in the name of love and relations.
Anuj’s love for CA is glorified, and Anupama’s love for her four children is shown in a bad light. is not good.
Should parents’ remarriage mean to their children that they can no longer ask their parents to be part of their lives as the parents have their own respective spouses and children to attend? Isn’t it unfair to them? Why should they suffer because of their parents’ divorce? By that logic, Kavya has every right to stop Vanraj from doing anything for Toshu, Samar, and Pakhi.
The makers are giving the wrong impression by blaming Anu for attending her previous marriage’s children. I have seen a lot of children suffer and be alone as their parents are busy with their respective new families. Those children live like they no longer matter to their parents, and if they want them, it is burdensome for the parent. What was their fault if their parents divorced?
You are so right, Anuj did not fight for Choti himself why let Anupama be the main decision maker? Why can’t he fight with Anupama and insist to not let Choti go? He can always refused to let Choti go, why blame Anupama alone now?
@Lichelle, very well said because while watching tonight’s show, I realized that Anuj was being too annoying, yes I agree they are both wrong, Anupama should gave told him what the child said and they would have approached Maya about manipulatin her. I really cant stand Anuj behaviour also Anupama.
Writers are deffinately killing it
Vanraj excuse for cheating was he felt suffocated and when people are not happy in a marriage or feel suffocating they tend to make mistakes like going to find happiness outside the house instead of solving the issue at home. I just hope Anuj doesn’t walk in Vanraj foot steps by find happiness outside the house because that would break Anupama imagine being cheated on twice. I’m not saying Anuj is a cheater for those who will twist my word.
This is for you Vaijanthi my comment
@Muge, being cheated on twice would be a trip indeed! But like I said, Anuj has already shown his hand, he doesn’t have to cheat to show that Anu got thesame man twice who use different methodologies to attain same results
If these serials can’t create good marriage examples from beginning, then at least showcase a woman being able to leave toxic marriages with her head held high na!! Why must she always stay in sucky situations
Maybe anuj will not cheat and he will look for a different way. But one thing is for sure that no man can live a peaceful life with buddhiji.
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No amount of justification and dialogues on Mother’s love and pain can justify how Anupamaa messed up this time. Anuj is blaming himself for CA leaving and Anupamaa who knows the entire truth and reason is watching silently. She fought for a stranger Dimpy more than CA and expects Anuj to be okay with her. Anuj doesn’t even know CA told Anupamaa everything and she did nothing to stop her.
Everything in this comment is true. Anupama fans have no brain cells just like her. They are giving her clean chit as if she didn’t have any blame when actually anupama is also responsible. She is a buddhupama and will always be.
If they had to give up choti either way then why not give her up after fighting for her in court since if they lost in court it would mean at least they tried and even choti would have known they want her. This is like giving up the race before even starting.
Anu said it would take years and would affect CA’s childhood when Anuj mentioned fighting a court case she doesn’t want that to happen
So Anupama rather let Anuj suffers? It’s better to fight than let Maaya take CA away coz how can she trusts CA with Maaya? A woman tat cheats, manipulates and eyeing someone’s husband?
arrey yaar its just serial.
why did no one from shah or kapadia house informed the authority about maya ? they would have stopped her or ask for proof, maya could be child trafficker and groom little anu into pr*stitute !!!
Anuj fought with maya’s husband just because he was rude to a woman! Look what he is doing to not only a woman but his wife and love of life.
Hahaha! Kya drama hai they try to say – all me – be it anuj r vanraj are same – all women are doormats! Anupama chali thi independent banane ek aadami kei ghar ki doormat sei doosre ki doormat bann gai – feminism freedom liberalism went down the drain!
So for the 30 or 20years he waited for her love, this is how he reduce the love to 🤔. Am so disappointed in the writers and Makers of this Show.
Iss show ka naam budda buddhi ki khel hona chahiye