Siya Ke Ram 16th September 2016 Written Episode Update

Siya Ke Ram 16th September 2016 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com

The Episode starts with Bharat, Laxman and Shatrughan going to Ram, and asking him to command. Ram apologizes to them. Laxman asks why are you apologizing. Ram says I have taken decision, I m giving up this throne. They get shocked. Bharat asks what are you saying, after so many years, Ayodhya’s fate has brightened. Ram says you three are capable of managing the Rajya. They apologize if they did any mistake. Laxman stops Ram and asks whats the reason by which you are helpless to give up the throne. Ram says not helpless, this is the solution, I have to sacrifice the throne or Sita, I have sacrificed the Rajya throne. Shatrughan says we don’t understand, why to leave Sita. Ram says Sita was captive by Raavan, so she is regarded impure by Badra.

Laxman says Badra is fool, who is he to

doubt on Sita’s character. Ram says he is representative of the Praja, he is Praja’s voice, everyone agrees with him, a king should be ideal for Praja, all my decisions will be followed by them, I can’t punish Sita for her innocence, and I can’t break Praja’s trust, I have just one way to leave Ayodhya with Sita. Bharat says no, don’t do this, we all will explain Badra, no one will ask you to leave Sita. Ram asks to how many people will you explain, its better you do your Rajya duties. Laxman says every problem has a solution, you don’t have to do this. Ram says I have taken the decision, I have to leave Ayodhya. He leaves.

Sita prays to Mata and says help Ram in taking the decision, and end all his dilemmas, the moment I stepped in Ayodhya, I realized that Raghunandan is his Praja’s Ram, but I request you that bless Ram to be ideal king for Ayodhya’s Praja. Ram goes to the ancestors’ hall and greets them. He says I have vowed to become king and serve Praja, but I failed to keep my promise today, forgive me, the woman who has always supported me in my life, I can’t leave that woman, I know this incident will be first and biggest one in Raghukul, but I have no option that to do Rajya tyaag, that’s why my ancestors, I sacrifice the throne forever to do my Pati Dharm.

He hears his ancestors telling him that his Pati Dharm obedience will get justice for Sita, but ruin Raghukul’s tradition, as he is breaking his vow which he took before sitting on the throne, you are independent to decide, but remember Raghukul is immortal in the world because of the Maryada and customs, if you leave, Raghukul will end and your motive to get born in Raghukul will be ruined, the ancestors hardwork will get ruined, Raghukul’s bright sun will set, Raghukul’s end is certain after you leave. Ram worries.

Ram says my decision serving personal interests can’t be above Rajya Dharm, never. The brothers come and ask him to get up. Laxman asks whats the matter. Ram says to protect Raghukul’s Maryada, customs and traditions, I don’t have any option, I have to obey the tough RajDharm, I have to sacrifice my wife, Sita. He cries. Bharat, Laxman and Shatrughan get shocked. Ram says Sita has to bear vanvaas in this life once again, this is our fate.

Guru Vashisht senses the happening and opens eyes. He says Ram, what hard decision did you take, you will protect Raghukul’s prestige, but you have stained your bright character. He recalls Ram’s words. Ram asks Laxman to do this work, you have to drop Sita to the jungle. Laxman says but…. Ram says no one should know this, go Laxman. Laxman cries and says this is not right, how can I do this, Sita Bhabhi is like my mother, can any son leave his mother in Nirjal van, I know its sin for me if I disobey your command, but I accept this sin.

Ram says Sita is Raghukul’s Maryada, question raised on her is question on Raghukul, if I stop her for my personal happiness, it will be bad for Raghukul’s prestige, I have to stop this. Laxman says forgive me, I accept to die, than doing this disastrous step. Ram says its right, then Bharat will do this work. Bharat cries and says no, I don’t have courage, you don’t put me in this Dharm Sankat, what will I answer Sita if she asks me, I can’t lie to her, and I can’t even speak out truth.

Shatrughan folds hands and says the work which Laxman and Bharat can’t do, how can I do this, forgive me too. Ram says Laxman, you have always freed me of problems and sorrow, you will do this work. Laxman says this work…. Ram stops him from saying anything and says this is command of your king Ram. The brothers cry. Ram asks Laxman to remember, no one should know about this, not even Sita. Ram goes. Laxman asks him to stop. Laxman cries and says how will I do this, I had vowed to protect Sita always and protected her during 14 year vanvaas, how will I do this, forgive me. Bharat consoles him.

Ram sees Sita sleeping. Ram vivash much Siya nihaare……….. plays………… He cries and stops himself from holding her. He turns to leave. His arm cloth gets stuck to her dupatta and he stops. He frees the cloth and gets away crying.

Sita wakes up and calls him out. He stops. She says you came to me and going without saying anything, whats the matter, He says nothing, you were sleeping, so I did not feel right to wake you up. She says I was waiting for you, you were saying of some decision before leaving, did you take that decision. Ram cries and nods, saying there can’t be more tougher decision than this. Keeping Dharm, customs, Kul in mind, I have taken the decision. She says I had belief on you, did you come to say this to me. He says you said you had to go to jungle and take Rishi’s blessings. She says yes, when shall we leave. He asks her to prepare, we will leave in some mahurat. She smiles.

Precap:
Laxman asks Sita where are you taking me, we are going to take Rishi’s blessings and then we will return to Rajbhavan. Laxman cries and forgive me, Ram has sacrificed you to obey his Rajdharm. She gets shocked. Ram sits in his Kaksh and cries.

Update Credit to: Amena

129 comments

  1. Priya15

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    Omg.. Emotional epi and precap…. Karan suchak nailed the epi.. I m literally having tears.. N m damn sure that he l make me cry on Monday with his conversation… And pls urmila ki bhi intense dikhavo iss scene Mei.. Pls CVS.. I think that’s the best part in ramayana… So pls… .

  2. Varshini

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    omg . what and heart wrenching episode . ashish sharma’s expressions , omg it was just phenomenal . awesome acting by ashish sharma

  3. kittu

    @guys…sorry my new frnds..actually I recently get to know abt cgandranandini…means is it true that CN will reply SKR….so bad m feeling…sorry for giving u all dearies this sad news
    ..I think that u already know this???
    @Sudheshna…
    Hey my Misti…PLEZ go to last pg of SKR…plezzz
    @Priya di…hi DIDU..
    @Guys..well after reading here..
    M feeling really bad..so ewww..just guys dho this dhobi…awwww.
    I was literally crying… Well sorry guys…kal Maine paka diaa ,but today I won’t do this…
    Bye sisi…

  4. Meena

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    ,I can’t stop my tears 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 … Thank you SKR for showing the emotional side of Ram…. Poor Siam and lakshman….. How innocent siya looked when siya was sleeping…. I was really crying…. Precap too so sad……… I was relieved to see ram’s initial decision to leave rajya and going far away from ayodhya for sita… As no other serials showed this… And again sad when he changed the decision because of his ancestors….

  5. SKR fan

    Could not watch episode. I’ll cathch the repeat. But seems to be very sad and emotional episode.
    This Sunday morning at 11:00 to 12:00 special sequence of the kahani ab tak named KATHA RAM AUR SIYA KE PREM KI.

  6. Anushya

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    emotionally charged epi… awesome acting today… i cant wait till monday now… when sita will be abandoned near valmiki ashram… i think precap first sentence is wrong??? laxmans point is excellent… why to listen to a fool like bhadra…. if laxman didnt love ram so much he wouldnt have done this… poor sita she doesnt know anything thats happening…. i think ram should have confided in her and let her know about his dilemma… she would have been very supportive… skr team PLS PLS PLS show angry urmila… i want to hear her conversation….

  7. Meena

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    I think Lord Vishnu was tired of being a perfect man and that is why he took the Natkhat gopal avatar😍😍😍.

    That’s why lord krishna is known as the Poorna avatar as he was aware of his reality of being a God where ram was not…He was a common king bounded by rules and dignity of his kul. Lord Vishnu took this avatar to show people that even perfect man has flaws… I hope what I said is true… If not please do correct me….

  8. joy

    Very emotional episode……. Can’t stop tear………… But big respect for SKR team………….. No other show dare to showing this side of the Ramayan……………………. SKR deserve big hands by us……………………….

  9. joy

    Is anyone noticed about it… Previous weak Sunday star plus aired special sequence of SKR………. Was this upload in HOTSTAR????????

  10. NABANITA626

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    Hey I have a question to ask all of you.
    Telly updates ki skr ki page ko akh band Parke yaar karo to first any 3 things batao jo apko yaad aye (it may be any friends name,feelings or Ramayana s any thing or any fun)
    Jiske liye ab barbar saradin is page ko open paste ho😀
    Please reply honestly.

  11. Padmaja

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    Omg!!!! a emotional Epi…. can’t able to see ayidhya bros n Sita like dis…. really it made me cry… and kitna tough job was given to Lakshman…. how he will feel when he leave Sita in van… can’t able to see ram in tears…

  12. Ishita

    Oh my god…..wat an emotional epi….am crying……..nd guys sita is too pretty than her previous vanvaas I this getup na…….but this is the last seen in ayodhya fr madi di…..

    And skr bro ur lins r awesome …….even if am not commenting ill see ur pics minimum twice a week…….nd kittu…jayantbi welcome…….

  13. Padmaja

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    Pls skr show angry urmila…. wanna see her dialogues….. and the reaction of the fmly when they come to know it just can’t able to imagine…. I will surely cry when these scenes r telecasted…

  14. riya

    Why didn’t ram discuss ds wid sita???i didn’t undrstnd ds…sita wud’ve surely given a suggetion…cz already she gave agnipariksha un panka at her own wish…so i think if ram had discussed ds with her she would’ ve given agnipariksha again…. That’s why aftr 14 years when ram tell her 2 give agnipariksha she gets hurt…cz already she suffered exile…now they want proof again..so she goes back 2 her mother.. Thnx skr 2 show according 2 valmiki dat ram sent her 2 exile without telling her…

    • Varshini

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      yes di . welcome to our family . i am varshini from class 9 and i am from tn . get registered soon so that it is easy for u to comment . btw how old r u di

  15. Richu

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    Seriously madirakshi ashish are such suprrbbb actors!!! They nailed it…full epi👌👌👏👏
    I luv next track luv – kush…
    Ummaaahhhhh

  16. riya

    Ram cud’ve atleast told lakshman 2 leave sita at ashram…instead he ordered him to leave her at middle of d forest. Why??? He didn’t think about d children for once….

  17. Sara

    Very emotional episode. All the actors are superb. I liked the brothers conversations -Ram, Laxman, Bharath, Satrughan. But why Ram didn’t listen to his brothers ???
    His 3 brothers were right . Bhadra /dhobi should have been given advice or punishment but not an innocent pregnant woman. Did this punishment help the social status of WOman ?
    Both Ram & Sita could have given Agniparisha to show that their relation is pure, they are chaste , what was need of sending Sita to Vanvas?
    Why Ram abandoned sita ?he did his Rajdharma. Ram’s compulsion of sending Sita is nicely depicted in SKR . Very nicely acted by Ashish

  18. joy

    I know many other blamed Ramji for abandoned Sita ji……………. But after seeing previous weak episode I think they could not say any word…………………………………………………….

  19. Jayani

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    Hi, I’m Jayani. I had introduced myself earlier. I won’t be able to comment very often becoz I hav my xams from tomorrow till next Tuesday, but I will be reading the written hpdates daily after skul n all d best for those who r having their xams.

    Jai siya ram

  20. rek

    wat a episode…heart melt scenes…salute to ashish..wat a acting man…to the core…born actor,,,outstanding exp…he deserve all the awards..i feel proud myself for the fan of fantablous actor ashish alias rudra…u never disappoint us…thank u so much skr team for choosing him as a ram..he is ram in my view through out my life….super acting by laxman great man..goahead u have a bright future laxman

  21. Rani

    SKR has shown very beautifully the RAM’s compulsion- very nice episode. But as sage Vaisht pointed out in yesterday’s episode -the abandonment of Sita will always remain a kaladhaba on Ram’s image .
    As a KING – he was extraordinary but as a husband he failed miserably . This is why he punished himself , sleeping on floor , eating like vanvashi .But did it change the pain and sufferings SITA had to endure?? -NO . Did it change the social image of a woman ?
    A chaste woman was punished for a dhobi’s whims – not acceptable . That dhobi should have been punished . In Uttar Kand -it was Sita’s greatness, sacrifice and unconditional love that made Ram great .
    Ram did wrong to his wife . He could have ordered second Agnipariskha for sita , he could have done special yagna to prove her chastity – He only tried to maintain the Rajdharma .
    What about Pati dharma ??
    His own family members never doubt Sita -then why to take a decision based on a Dhobi’s remark ? DID it at all change the image of woman -no , rather It has been the same question of purity is only for woman .

    • Anushya

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      if he does pati dharma, only sita will benefit… but if he does raj dharma, the upcoming generations as well as existing people will benefit…. after all he was born on earth to give benefit to people… so he gave up his personal dharma…. and he also suffered…. maybe even more than sita…. sita was living with her sons… but ram never saw his sons grow…. never heard them call him pita…. but suffered looking at his brothers sons enjoying with their parents….

    • riya

      Yeah i agree with u totally… He cud’ve discussed it with sita or tell her2 give agjipariksha…cz already she ad given it…bt he told her 2 give agnipariksha when they found about luv kush….why???1st gave her exile dn again asked fr agjipariksha….he cud’ve done it b4 sending her 2 exile.

      • Anushya

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        he could have exiled her after luv kush were born… that way he can also see them and she will have the satisfaction of having him close by while giving birth…

  22. Sara

    Indeed yesterday’s episode was well acted by all actors .
    But I wish , Sri Ram should have thought of third option that is agnipariksha or some sort of pariksha for both SITA & that evil minded dhobi. Punishing an innocent & chaste woman like SITA for Dhobhi’s narrow mindedness is not at all justified .
    Everybody knows if agniparishka happened -Sita would have come out unscathed & Dhobhi gone forever . It would have saved RAM’s Rajdharma as well as Patidharma.
    And yes, it would have sent the world a message that purity lies in mind & soul and not confines to BODY ONLY . BOTH Men and women should be pure from heart.
    But the problem lies that Ram was not purna avatar so he remained confined to Mariyada . But when RAM came as Lord Krishna , He was purna avatar . In that Avatar Purush ,He showed the world that Mariyada is good as long as it sides Dharma but the moment it sides Adharma, that Mariyada should be thrown off and new rule should be set in. Best example is Bhimsha – He is considered to be next best Mariyada puroshottam after SriRam. But Bhimsa had to favour adharma due to his promise /Mariyada of Promise .
    Lord Krishna reveals divine rules to Arjun in the GITA .And says the basics of Dharma & Adharma.

  23. Swastika

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    What to say about yesterday’s episode I don’t know…. Just my heart broke into pieces after seeing the episode .. I think it was neither Ram’s fault nor Sita’s … It was the fault of their niyati and everyone even swayam narayan was also bonded by niyati … Coming on the point of acting no words to say or to judge ashish sir’s acting .. For me he is Ram forever .. His acting filled everyone’s heart with deep grief yesterday .. Madirakshi and Karan also rocked .. The last scene was very much touching an innocent smile in sita’s face and hidden words in ram’s eyes … With tears rolling down his face … Precap was beyond saddest …. And ya plzz someone tell me that this Sunday also there is a special telecast on Ramsiya … Plzzzzzzzzz someone inform me .. And ya guys relax CN is not at all replacing Skr it will air on 10 October at 8:30 p.m slot so relax .. All the new members warm welcome to our sweetest Skr family .. @Kitty di I am from Jamshedpur….. See u all guys

  24. Sanjana

    Abandoning of Sita
    BY
    K B S RAMACHANDRA
    27 JUNE 2016
    Of the many twists and turns in the Ramayana, the most troubling one is that of Rama abandoning Sita based on the public perception of her character.
    The background
    The difficult period of vanavasa (forest stay) was over. The trauma of losing his beloved and all the troubles to recover her from the clutches of the demon king, Ravana, were behind him. The stress of great activity and the pressures of war were all relegated to memory. His friends and allies were comfortably placed in their respective kingdoms. His brothers were with him. His mother and step mothers were peaceful without any worries. The subjects of Ayodhya had got back their beloved prince. Peace and prosperity reigned in his kingdom. He and his wife, Sita, were happy and contented. To add to all this, was the news that every Indian king (nay every person) looked forward to in great anticipation. His marriage with Sita was bearing fruit. Sita was pregnant and he was to be a father soon. This is a picture that is complete in its sense of accomplishment, satisfaction, contentment, and happiness.
    In such a seemingly perfect picture, there was hidden a discontentment among the populace about the purity of their queen. It is widely believed that a single washerman abusing his wife led to Rama abandoning his wife. However, it is clear that the discontentment was widespread and found expression in instances such as that of the washerman. Having sensed this discontent, Rama decides to abandon his beloved wife. There are some points to be noted, relevant to this situation:
    The discontent was widespread. People of Ayodhya by-and-large believed that their queen was impure.
    Rama truly loved his wife. He had recovered her from an almost impossible situation with extraordinary effort. The feeling of love would also be all the more heightened by the fact that she was pregnant and carrying his offspring.
    Having got the feedback about the feelings of his subjects, he took a unilateral decision to abandon Sita. He did not consult his brothers (who were fully behind him supporting his rule). He did not ask his ministers or tell his mother or stepmothers. All the more, he did not even talk to Sita about it.
    The method of abandonment was most brutal. He didn’t bid goodbye to her. He didn’t send her off. He didn’t warn her. He just instructed his brother, Lakshmana, to leave her in the forest.
    Having abandoned her, he didn’t marry anyone else nor did he engage in the company of other women. He remained true to his vow of having only one wife (ekapatnivratastha). In her absence, later, when he had to perform certain rites that needed his wife besides him, he had a golden statue of Sita sitting besides him.
    This particular action of abandonment is most curious considering his relationship with Sita in the past; his commitment to her memory in future and the full life being led at the present. This subject needs analysis and here I venture into this in spite of this subject being discussed, written, talked about ever since the Ramayana has existed in the popular mindscape.
    Some facts
    For purposes of this analysis, the following must be taken as facts.
    That Rama himself was convinced of Sita’s purity. Even if not, he had accepted her fully.
    That Sita was pure – if not at the banal physical level (Ravana had kidnapped her by physical force), for sure in the mental and emotional levels. Through her period of captivity she had pined for Rama.
    Both Rama and Sita loved one another deeply, were happy with each other, and looked forward to a happy married life ever after.

    RAVANA AND SITA IN THE ASHOKAVANA
    Now comes the perception of the populace. In an age and place when the local morality required a married woman to be meant only for her husband, their queen had been kidnapped by a villain and was away for close to a year. Since they were not witness to either her sorrow in captivity nor her test by the fire subsequently, it is possible that a feeling of doubt may have persisted in them that Sita may have been violated by Ravana during her year long captivity. Though she was so important to Rama, the subjects may not have the same regard for her given that she was an outsider who married into the kingdom. Whether it was her mistake or not, the people were uncomfortable with her position as the throne queen. In an age when it was common for a king to have many wives (Dasharatha is said to have had 350 wives, not just the popular three – Kausalya, Sumitra, and Kaikeyi; see Ayodhyakanda 34.12-14), they may have expected Rama to take another wife. They may not have paid much heed to Rama’s personal vow (not a declared one but a practiced one) of having none but Sita for a wife. The net result was that the short-sighted people with short memory forgot all about Sita’s sacrifice and love that made her insist and follow Rama to the forest, about her travails, sufferings and trauma of being kidnapped, about her devotion to her husband.
    Rama’s options
    Now when Rama got to know the feelings of his subjects for his wife, what would his thoughts have been? He had gone to great lengths for her which is a clear proof of his care for her. The continuation of his lineage was in the Sita’s womb. It may have been a time of intense suffering for him. What were his options?
    Go on a public relations drive and try convince his people of Sita’s purity and character
    Try to change the mindset of his people
    Suppress the subjects by force
    Renounce her
    Renounce his kingdom and go somewhere else with his wife
    Remain unaffected by the affectation of his subjects
    In such matters it is impossible to convince the general population. Their doubts would only have got intensified in the face of propaganda. It would have stoked more air to the fire and the worst thing that could happen was Sita’s character being a subject of public debate. Hence the first option was not feasible. The morality of people is not easily changed. The social mores of a population does not change be preaching or propaganda.
    In the age of no mass communication media, the concept of molding the public opinion, let alone their mindset, in a short period of time is not possible. It has to happen largely by word of mouth. It needs lot of time and space and revolutionary social changes and hence the second option would not be possible. He could not use brute force on his people. It is known that from his childhood, Rama was very sensitive towards his people and they loved him in no small measure as seen by their emptying the town and going behind him when he left for his forest stay. In the true meaning and spirit of the relationship between the king (raja) and his subjects (praja), Rama treated his people as his children. Forced suppression was hence not an option. For the same reason (his love towards his people and their reciprocation of the same), he could not remain unaffected by their discontent. Like an infected wound, it would have festered and the discontent would only grow to unmanageable proportions.
    That rules out all but options 4 and 5. Could he have walked away from it all with his wife by his side? He could have handed over charge to one of his brothers. Some thought to this option makes it clear that this also would not have been possible. For one, there are not too many places an emperor can go off to and live. Had he gone off to the forest with Sita, it would have meant that he had abdicated his duties – that would be indicative of weakness, cowardice, and escapism. He could not walk away from his kingdom. Whether he liked the power or not was immaterial. He had to continue. While he may have forced his brother once earlier to take on the mantle of king, he couldn’t hope to do it again. In the first instance, he could convince Bharata only by the reason that his forest stay was required to save his father’s word and honor. Given their nature of their characters and relationships, Lakshmana would again have followed Rama to the forest and Bharata or Shatrughna would have declined to take on the responsibility. Most importantly, it would be totally against his concept of raja dharma (appropriate behavior for a king) to abandon his people for the sake of his wife. Whenever there is a conflict amongst dharmas (duties and responsibilities towards one in conflict with those towards others, i.e. dharma sankata), he was bound to follow the path that was for the good of many as against the good of a few (specially when the interested parties were him and his wife vis–vis the subjects of his kingdom).
    In this background we see that Rama, though saddened to the core, unwillingly chose to continue with his role as the king and renounce his dear wife. He chose to be there for his people as against his wife.
    Rama’s approach
    Having understood his decision, let us consider the method in which he executed his decision. He did not treat this as a judicial matter of dealing with a crime or a criminal. Even in the worst of crimes, the accused is given a chance to speak for himself/herself. Here Rama did not give Sita that chance. He didn’t pass an order in the manner of normal judicial matters. He was clear that there was no crime committed and that Sita was sinless. There was no way a punishment could be imposed when there was no crime committed. He had to renounce her. What were his options?
    She could continue to live in Ayodhya, but not as queen
    She could go to Mithila, her father’s place.
    She could be sent to the forest
    Staying in Ayodhya with any dignity would have been impossible for Sita. The queen of a kingdom couldn’t live in the kingdom as anything but a queen. Such is the high cost of rising to the very top of the power structure that there is no way down. There is no dignity in living a lowly life in a kingdom one ruled. Going to Mithila too was not an option. A dishonored woman, renounced by her husband would have been a thorn in the flesh for her father too. She could not command the respect of the people of Mithila or lived a life of dignity. The people of Mithila would be no different than those of Ayodhya in their sense of morality and their insensitivity. Living in cities would not have been possible.
    That leaves the third option of sending her to the forest. By forest, we don’t have to imagine a cruel and frightening world of wild animals and demons. The rshis (sages) dwelt in the forest in ashramas. People of the forest were simple people without the prejudices of the city people. Sita was well-acquainted with forest life and had in fact expressed a desire to again visit the ashrams that they had earlier visited during their forest stay. To the people of the ashrams Rama’s renouncing her would not matter. She could lead a simple and comfortable life (albeit without the luxuries of the palace). Most importantly she could lead a life of dignity.
    We must note that whatever be the destination upon renouncement, her immediate suffering would not have reduced. The best place to recover fro the grief of abandonment would have been the forest. Hence the forest was the most appropriate destination.
    Method of abandonment
    Now that we have covered the decision to renounce and the destination, we come to the most seemingly brutal part of this situation. That of the method of abandonment. Rama orders Lakshmana to take Sita and leave her in the forest. He did not show the courtesy of explaining to her his decision. Come to that he did not even tell her about it personally. Why did he do that? How should he have handled it? What should he have done? Again as usual, we list out the options and analyze:
    He could have explained to her and convinced her of his decision
    He could have just told her about his decision
    He could have conveyed his decision through a trusted person (maybe Lakshmana)
    He just executes his decision through a trusted person (Lakshmana)
    A little thought makes it clear that he could not convince her about a decision that has no basis in justice. As seen earlier, he was convinced that she was sinless. She was not an accused person in any crime. How could he convince her of a blatantly unfair decision (from her perspective). Could he have just told her about it without explaining – as an order from the king or husband. If he had tried this, she would definitely have questioned the unfairness. She had to be answered and he had no answers. We have seen that there was no way he could have convinced her. Hence talking to her personally and convincing her was not possible. On being challenged by her, he may have got into a position of not being able to execute his decision. Could he have a trusted person or an officer of the court explain the same to convey the decision to her. Maybe so. However, what he could not personally do, he couldn’t hope that an officer would be able to do. The question was always there that she might question the decision, challenge him and seek answers. Hence, unfair and brutal as it seems, the last option of simply executing his decision of taking her out and leaving her in the forest seems the only unfortunate option left for him.
    The dilemma
    This leaves some serious questions. For people who consider Rama as a perfect person with the highest character, what was the precedence he was setting? That one could abandon a wife on frivolous reasons (doubts by all and sundry about her character). We must realize that Rama’s situation is different than that of normal people. Normal people do not have the conflict of dharma since they are not responsible for others. They have recourse to the justice system for resolution of such issues. Either the husband or the wife in a situation could go to the king and seek justice. The king has no such recourse. By siding with his wife against his people, he would have set a wrong example for kings of all times to come. It was one evil vs. the other. He chose the option that was harmful to the least.
    To the readers interested in Ramayana and its characters, this action of Rama troubles the most. How much would it have troubled him? The first time he lost her, he had the luxury of openly expressing his anguish – of crying out loud. This time, he had to grit and bear it. His option was only to silently suffer for the rest of his life. To live with the burden of his decision. To leisurely reap the great sorrow he inflicted on his wife.
    Rama didn’t ask to be in this situation. He was put into it. Stuck in the maze of dharma, he had to inevitably take these steps. If there was a chance of rewriting the portions of his abandonment, the only natural way the story progresses may have been this same way. Any other path the story takes would be unnatural and would spoil the beauty of the epic. Such is the power of the epic that given the nature of the characters, the situations lead from one to the inevitable other as if by fate and destiny. Play the game again and the dice would roll the same way. The seeming helplessness of people over fate and their suffering for no fault of theirs is brought out in many memorable stories such as Damayanti’s who was abandoned in the forest half-naked by her husband Nala, apparently for her own good – so that she could go to her father’s palace.
    Conclusion
    The greatness of epics such as Ramayana and Mahabharata is that they still intrigue the minds. The characters still live in their richness and fullness and exercise the intellects and emotions of millions. Given the sensitivity of this situation in Ramayana, the emotional mind of a sensitive people naturally bends towards Sita, sinless and helpless, enduring enormous suffering for no fault of hers. It is again natural that Rama is pitted against her in this comparison – the King, all powerful, taking such a brutal action on one so helpless causing great grief to one who had already grieved so much. It seems a hopeless case against Rama.
    This analysis is a humble effort to look at the situation from Rama’s perspective. To see how it looks from the other side. To show that he was as helpless as his abandoned wife. The intent is not to pass judgment on the decision or the action. The correctness or incorrectness is as perceived in the minds of the readers. Also, this is not to defend Rama and his actions. Rama, because of his high character is already established in the popular mindscape as a god. He needs no defense. All the efforts to besmirch his character have come to naught. After all who am I to defend him. This is just an exercise in intellectual and logical analysis. For me and other like-minded people, it is a compulsion to indulge in such discussions and ruminate on these and such.
    Tellyupdates pls post my comment
    My take
    Ram did fulfil his Pati dharm by taking blame for exile he vindicated her forever
    Will post analysis after exam. This whole moth had exams will post as soon as over. Sorry for keeping u waiting it’s ready. Will elaborate on by vindicating her how he become the best Pati for generations to come and went to become siya ram
    Pls read the above article and reply too pls. I am not able to visit this page at all but I wanted to share this with my dear sisters when I came across it. Hi to all newcomers.

  25. joy

    @anushya…….. Totally agree with your Cmmnt which u posted uper……….. If he does Pati dharm only Sita will be benifit……. But he done Raj dharm so all are benifit………………………

  26. Swastika

    |Registered Member

    Wow great …. Thank u for clearing the dobts … Plzzz anyone tell me that tommorow is there any special telecast on siya ke ram plzz inform me or else if there is I will miss it tomorrow also plzzzzz tell me

  27. Sara

    Sanjana -are you married ?? Answer this question first.I am sure you are not married. A married woman will not have the same thought as you have . Whatever Ram did like abandoned Sita -that too in a forest. how far is it justified ? He could have send Sita to her parents place -Mithila . Because she was pregnant too and on top of it innocent & Chaste .
    Ram did Rajdharma not Patidharma- Patidharma means taking care of his children too. Patidharma means to be beside his wife when the wife needs her the most. Patidharma means protecting his wife . Patidharma means protecting the wife’s prestige . If someone disrespect one’s wife -physically , morally , mentally etc , then it is the duty of a husband to protect her prestige and NOT TO abandon the wife .
    Secondly the dhobhi raised the question not the whole Ayodha . Do you know if one apple is rotten in a basket , the other apple gets affected . So the best way is to remove that rotten apple. dhobhi was like that rotten apple .
    DID dhobhi got punishment for raising doubts about his wife and about Chaste queen like SITA ? NO, Ram never gave him punishment. Rather in the pretext of Rajdharma , innocent was punished .
    And after 15-16 years , Sita gave up her life to prove her innocence and purity . Was dhobhi punished then -NO. Why ? Where was Rajdharm then???
    And Sita was dragged to Ravan’s viman/vehicle – he hold her hand . Even if it means to you impurity .I must say purity should not be confined to body. purity comes from heart. Heart and soul should be pure . Ravan could not touch Sita in Lanka due to her purity , so Ravan gave her one year time.
    Thirdly In Sita’s heart -it was only RAM . Therefore she passed the Agnipariksha after Ravan’s death.
    Even when Ram abandoned her , She still loved RAM – never had a feeling of hatred . That is her greatness. HOW MANY WOMAN IN THIS WORLD CAN HAVE THAT FEELING of UNCONDITIONAL LOVE TOWARDS HER HUSBAND if her husband does what Ram did to SIta in UTTRKAND?
    And after 15-16 years of seond exile -SITA WAS asked for second agniparikha for Praja. But Sita knew this question of purity would keep on popping so she gave up her life.
    You have asked to look from Ram’s perspective , I am asking you to see from a WOMAN’s perspective like SITA – pure , innoncent and ever loving. ACT of RAM was unjustified if you see from a married woman perspective.

  28. kittu

    @Guys. Hi everyone… This is kittu..as u can see above…
    @Guys..first n foremost thnx to all for yr warm welcome….
    Nd now let introduce myself… Hey this is kirti….kittu is my pen name n nickname too…well I m in 10th standard…. I had provided my info earlier… But see…m a girl…I m from Ranchi( jharkhand ) but lives in Delhi since last 12+or 13 years..guys,I m a Maggie lover,history is my fav. Sub…lefty..nd love cartoons…
    I like jokes n shayari n songs…
    So,well someone had asked my… So dearieeee ,do u know,that girls age should ask…but m frank so dear m of 16….
    Nd ya abt registration… Hey guys ,I tried my best to b registered… But all in vain…I went to login n registration option…but they r showing that my id is invalid.. N when I went to open a new account on gmail… They asked for code after I provided my name n password n phone no….
    Could u plez tell…what this code is….
    They were asking.. “G________”… Don’t know which code???PLEZ tell.
    @Guys…seems that all r busy with xms…even I too…all the best fiends n best of luck me tooo😄
    @Guys….do u know in which river Lord rama took ” samadhi”…it was river SATYUG….
    @Guys…someone says that ravana is still alive….don’t know the truth… Ppl say that ravana’s death body is still in any cave of sri Lanka…..😯😯😯,no info…
    @Guys…do u know that laxman is lord balrama…
    When laxman had to left her brother n family because of sage durvasha ‘s shrap…. He pledged to b the elder bro of rama in his nxt birth… So when rama took birth as Krishna… Laxman came as balram…it was so because laxman had to follow his brother even in his wrong decision too.. Which was for sita….
    N remember when kaikai asked ram to leave ayodhaya for 14 years…laxman went to kill BHARAT n teache kaikai a lesson.. But rama stopped him..
    N he was laxman who had to take sita with him for her second vanvaas…
    Laxman did all because of his love to Bhaiya ram…even wrong too….that’s y he to pran to take birth as elder bro of raja ram….n ya Krishna was naughty..but he never went against of balram’s order….
    @Guys…ram divided his empire into 8 equal parts n distributed b/w his sons n nephews…
    I had craze on Ramayana when my dadi told me abt Rananad sagar’s Ramayana… I was very excited.. So I downloaded whole epi of Ramayana from 1st epi up to last…n was omggggg…at last scene I was sa

  29. Ashna

    |Registered Member

    This is probably the last siam meet …… 😖😖🙁🙁🙁…… Siam scene was very touching….. Couldn’t see Ashish crying since I am a die hard fan of him…. 😧😧😧😧😧😧….. Tears rolled down my eyes watching the episode

  30. kittu

    Sorry everyone for living my cmmt midway.. Actually mumma called me ..
    So ,I was saying to rama..don’t go don’t goo… Mumma said why r u murmuring??? I replied u won’t understand… He he…n was crying…
    Actually I started to watch SKR since its first epi….but in march …I was giving my final xms of 9th….but my sis came home on her vacation… N she like sankat moachan hanuman on Sony…but I don’t like…she argued with me..n refused to give me remote…n from that day I left SKR…because of her egooo…n then in April 10 th had started …n no time for such shows ,sorry….but it was in my heart n especially BG music…. N song ..sunaina suta….
    Guys do u know….when luv n kush revealed out their Truth before rama n all couriers of ayodhaya that they r raja ram’s son….n Mata sita is alive…
    But rama says….I want proof,call yr mother here n if she is true then she has to give agnipariksha to prove herself n that tooo that u both r my sons…
    Everyone stopped him..but he was put…praja was excited …
    Then, siyaji come with valmiki n his both sons…
    Nd greet everyone… N rama tooo
    Laxman was so happy …
    Put she didn’t pay attention to any of these reaction..
    She asked to ram,do u want agnipariksha…???
    He says yes,until it is clear that u r holy….we can’t b one…
    She said okay….thennnnn
    Valmiki said may b yr this decision ruin yr lyf…
    Sita said.. If I loved only my rama ,then prithividevi PLEZ give me shelter in yr lap…
    If I only worshipped rama then come n give me shelter….
    If both these r Rama’s son. Then PLEZ give me shelter in yr lap..n take me with uuu..I don’t want to live here…..
    Then suddenly earth break apart n prithividevi comes n took sita with her..
    Rama was in shock… He ordered earth to give sita back..otherwise he’ll destroy its existence…. I’ll destroy the universe but want my siya back.. .I’ll destroy ayodhaya for being so rude towards my wife….but then, Lord Brahma came n tell him to b calm…this is yr world n all r yr children… U can’t do this…PLEZ try to understand… She is awaiting for u in vaikunth…I’ll surely meet her after yr lyf…
    Valmiki too seconds Brahma…
    Rama then took the responsibility of his sons n give them the status of yuvraaj…
    Guys..lord hanuman is still here on the earth…
    When rama was taking samadhi…he ordered hanuman to stay here on the earth until the end of kalyug….so he is here..
    Guys..jamvant too was till traitayug means Krishna reign… Because when rama was going he ordered jamvant too to stay here as in traitahug I ‘ll take birth again n will marry to yr daughter jamvantii…
    Isn’t it interesting????…
    Now guys..see I like to write shayari n songs. .but on this pg…I have no topic as this is a holy pg so can’t put in my shayari.. But will write something for sure..could u plez give me topic ,on which I should write…

    Hey guys we r frnds now,soooo..A JOKE..
    ACTUALLY…..
    once there was a man .who was singing
    CHALTE CHALTE KAHIN RUK JAATA HU MAI..
    BAITHE BAITHE KAHIN KHO JATA HU MAI…
    KYA YAHI PYAAR HAI..KYA YAHI PYAAR HAI..????
    Another man replied..
    No no its the symptoms of madness…
    (NAHI NAHI,PAGALPAN K LAKSHAN HAI)
    Ha ha,see I don’t like to laugh alone…plez guys smile karo….
    WELL,OOH SO LONG CMMT…
    GUYS GOOD NI8..
    N THNX FOR accepting ME HERE…
    @priya 15 di .ya m fine…n thnx..@all guys n sis nd frnds of this pg…thk u all….sorry for not writing yr names here…
    @Well could anyone tell me..which code should I provide for my gmail acc.
    It was displayed in this format see…
    “G:__________”. …
    Please tell,if anyone know…

  31. kittu

    Sorry everyone for living my cmmt midway.. Actually mumma called me ..
    So ,I was saying to rama..don’t go don’t goo… Mumma said why r u murmuring??? I replied u won’t understand… He he…n was crying…
    Actually I started to watch SKR since its first epi….but in march …I was giving my final xms of 9th….but my sis came home on her vacation… N she like sankat moachan hanuman on Sony…but I don’t like…she argued with me..n refused to give me remote…n from that day I left SKR…because of her egooo…n then in April 10 th had started …n no time for such shows ,sorry….but it was in my heart n especially BG music…. N song ..sunaina suta….
    Guys do u know….when luv n kush revealed out their Truth before rama n all couriers of ayodhaya that they r raja ram’s son….n Mata sita is alive…
    But rama says….I want proof,call yr mother here n if she is true then she has to give agnipariksha to prove herself n that tooo that u both r my sons…
    Everyone stopped him..but he was put…praja was excited …
    Then, siyaji come with valmiki n his both sons…
    Nd greet everyone… N rama tooo
    Laxman was so happy …
    Put she didn’t pay attention to any of these reaction..
    She asked to ram,do u want agnipariksha…???
    He says yes,until it is clear that u r holy….we can’t b one…
    She said okay….thennnnn
    Valmiki said may b yr this decision ruin yr lyf…
    Sita said.. If I loved only my rama ,then prithividevi PLEZ give me shelter in yr lap…
    If I only worshipped rama then come n give me shelter….
    If both these r Rama’s son. Then PLEZ give me shelter in yr lap..n take me with uuu..I don’t want to live here…..
    Then suddenly earth break apart n prithividevi comes n took sita with her..
    Rama was in shock… He ordered earth to give sita back..otherwise he’ll destroy its existence…. I’ll destroy the universe but want my siya back.. .I’ll destroy ayodhaya for being so rude towards my wife….but then, Lord Brahma came n tell him to b calm…this is yr world n all r yr children… U can’t do this…PLEZ try to understand… She is awaiting for u in vaikunth…I’ll surely meet her after yr lyf…
    Valmiki too seconds Brahma…
    Rama then took the responsibility of his sons n give them the status of yuvraaj…
    Guys..lord hanuman is still here on the earth…
    When rama was taking samadhi…he ordered hanuman to stay here on the earth until the end of kalyug….so he is here..
    Guys..jamvant too was till traitayug means Krishna reign… Because when rama was going he ordered jamvant too to stay here as in traitahug I ‘ll take birth again n will marry to yr daughter jamvantii…
    Isn’t it interesting????…
    Now guys..see I like to write shayari n songs. .but on this pg…I have no topic as this is a holy pg so can’t put in my shayari.. But will write something for sure..could u plez give me topic ,on which I should write…

    Hey guys we r frnds now,soooo..A JOKE..
    ACTUALLY…..
    once there was a man .who was singing
    CHALTE CHALTE KAHIN RUK JAATA HU MAI..
    BAITHE BAITHE KAHIN KHO JATA HU MAI…
    KYA YAHI PYAAR HAI..KYA YAHI PYAAR HAI..????
    Another man replied..
    No no its the symptoms of madness…
    (NAHI NAHI,PAGALPAN K LAKSHAN HAI)
    Ha ha,see I don’t like to laugh alone…plez guys smile karo….
    WELL,OOH SO LONG CMMT…
    GUYS GOOD NI8..
    N THNX FOR accepting ME HERE…
    @priya 15 di .ya m fine…n thnx..@all guys n sis nd frnds of this pg…thk u all….sorry for not writing yr names here…
    @Well could anyone tell me..which code should I provide for my gmail acc.
    It was displayed in this format see…
    “G:__________”. …
    Please tell,if anyone know…
    Sorry guys if it get posted twice…

  32. kittu

    @Guys…it was not SATYUG river.. But SALYUG river… Typo mistake…
    Nd do u know when Vishnu was to take birth then his seshnaag don’t wanna to leave his Lord…so he also came on earth.. N laxman was character in which he took birth …I m saying these acc. to sage valmiki’s Sanskrit Ramayana…..
    Well I had read an interview.. In which madirakshi said that n may b producer of SKR said..that after siya Ji… The story of rama will go continue…. Hope for the best….
    @THANMATHI…
    @PRIYA15
    @PREETHI 12345
    @ANUSHYA..
    @PADMAJA…HEY R U A GIRL OR BOY,PLEZ MAKE IT CLEAR SO THST IT’LL B EASY FOR ME TO CONSIDER U AS BHAI OR DI….WELL I THINK U R A GIRL?????..
    @SHIVANI…
    @VARSHINI….THNX SIS..WELL M OF 16 YEARS OLD… OKAY…..!!!
    @SWASTIKA….hiii..m from Delhi….
    See u all tomorrow….
    Good night..

  33. SKR fan

    Just saw SIYA KE RAM- KATHA RAM AUR SIYA KE PREM KI. It showed from the vivah utsav till the Sitaharan. I think next week they will show till Raavan’s death. It might be available on Hotstar.

  34. Thanmathi

    |Registered Member

    Hi guys I have given previous part links in happy Ramayana ff so if anyone wanna read but not reading it coz u don’t know prev story can read it please give it a try I’m pretty sure you’ll like it plzz

  35. vaidehi

    Hi guys today I hv ny physics exam and I’m a bit tensed for it…….

    The saddest part of Ramayana is on the way…..

    Right ????

  36. Vanshika

    |Registered Member

    Hi dears.. Hope u all remember me.. Tomorrow is my English exam.. Pls pray fr me.. OMG the episode it was Tooooooo awesome that I couldn’t stop my fingers from commenting really missed u alot..
    Excellent acting by Karan Suchak he really nailed the episode.. I was crying throughout the episode.. Siya ke ram has the best casting ever n that’s y I have commented here..
    @kittu dear welcome to the family dear.. I’m Vanshika in 8th standard luv u dear.
    @sanjana dii that’s a nyc article happy 😊 to c u..
    @swastika sweetie pie thnx fr such a nyc news feelin lyk hugging u 😊 😄
    @meena di you’re absolutely ryt..
    GUYS I’VE A QUESTION.. PLS DON’T TAKE ME WRONG JUST ASKING Y RAM DINT SEND SIYA TO MITHILA INSTEAD OF VANVAS.. I MEAN IN MITHILA SHE COULD’VE BEEN HAPPIER PLS SOMEONE ANSWER ME..
    N a good news for my ff lovers.. I will post on Wednesday cos on Thursday I’ve very easy exam..
    Okie bye love u alot sweethearts

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