Well actually i left writing a long back a really long back, its really means long even years, may be u guys find this ts boring or straight forward but i need little bit time to come on track.
Guys this is someone real life story, and i don’t know their depth but i know what overall happens. Its just i would like to you people know just you love someone or marriage fixed with someone and if he rejects and something happens so start behaving like menice to get your partner.
Lets simplify it, as you guys have seen in swaragini how ragini’ behaved when her alliance got broke. But i want tell what actually happens if other situations happen.
SO queries are always welcome and plzz excuse me for mistakes.
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In my family my marriage discussion started, no doubt i was very happy. I mean why not as according to our society …..all the things matches like groom should have home, property, educated, doing proper job, should be reputaed in his society, well mannered, same class and even our gotra is also not matching( gotra of my mother, grand mother and mine should not match with groom family otherwise if matched we will be considered gotra brother sister), like u see everything was correct. I talked to him and he okay with that and even asked from my sisters and they assured me if their help required they will definatly help me.
Slowly my family start seraching for groom and i talked to him and he talked to his parents and his parents also have no problem but there is demand of their that bride family should bring this relation to their home. I mean how can they say like that I really told Rahul that love marriage don’t happen in our house if they come to know i don’t know what will happen even. One of my di to run away from marriage her marriage i.e just 7 days before my chachu found out her within 24 hours and got her married because intercaste or below our stautus people, they don’t give their daughter. Idon’t know watever people say but intercaste ican’t say anything but i know why they check status so that their daughter don’t face problems like they face or we can say they want to give best to their daughter and rest God’s wish.
But their parents were strict at their decision and i have takled to my sister also, although she is little aftraid from jiju but she said if Rahul will talk to my jiju then she will support him and my marriage will happen with him but i was not aware that he was so coward. I mean his parents can fix his alliance with some else and he haven’t said anything and after knowing my problem even he can’t talk even my jiju, what a coward man he was. I really felt so disappointed from him “ ohh God really, how can he do this, was i anything for him, we are in relationship from 2 years, we share everything still backed out.” Many a times I felt like dying, i hope you understand yaar afterall my heart broke but afterall what can i do still i talked to him.
Ohh srry i forgot, My alliance was also got fixed with someone, the boy family was recommanded by one of my nanu’s realtive and family was ood enough he was a sinlge child, his father was having great relations with pachayat had and retaried from army, her sister married and he is going to join som goverment job. What should expect from my parent when Rahul himself is not talking seriously, really i never thought he can be such a creep man and now i start disgusting from myself but we say na time heals every wound same happened with me. Slowly I start talking to my finace and i find out he is good person, atleast with me as we only talked on phone and seen his photo.
Slowly slowly i started or can say try to forget Rahul afterall i don’t don’t i have any future with him. His parents have fixed his marriage with some else and he even i don’t know prtested or not , now it doesn’t matter to me. Al i know is that his and mine alliance is fixed and we are not destined together. Look what a fate i got but i know now he don’t deserve me after i ahve talked to him i mean what a man he is, he was describing me how he spend his time with his finace and he got intimate with her in my memory, now i know i don’t have any feeling for him. Now I can move in my life very efficently. Finally now i can concentrate in my lfe and in my upcoming relation, well till now i haven’t told anything to my finace about my past but now i don’t feel the need also because now i want to forgot this and although now its not paining also, watever Rahul do, it doesn’t matter to me. My family and relatives are very happy after 4 years after my di marriage is happening. Just 1 month is left dfor my marriage and marriage prepration like buying clothes and then stiching etc and many more work. I am also happy wih everything afterall my life is settling.
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So how who is the groom, does Swara finally got her soulmate, oer anything still left to face swara..?
Is there any confusion you guys can ask me.