Dharm is a word which everyone should follow, dharm is made to establish peace and has many kinds – ram dharm, bhatradharm, Putra dharm, Pati dharm, patni dharm etc
If we look at ramayan, every character has followed the dharm
Dasharath followed vachan dharm and kul dharm that’s why Ram went to exile, Sita followed patni dharm and followed him, Lakshman followed bhatra dharm so followed him, Bharat followed bhatra dharm so stayed in nandigram, Shatrughn followed bhatra and putra dharm and looked after kingdom, Ram followed putra dharm so went to exile. Ravan followed bhatra dharm so abducted Sita, Meghanad followed putra dharm so followed what he said, Kumbhkarn followed bhatra dharm so followed what he said, Sugriv followed mitra dharm, hanuman followed sevak dharm, vibhishan followed bhakt dharm, Sita followed patni dharm and gave agnipariksha, Ram followed ram dharm and banished Sita, Sita followed matra dharm and look after lav kush
but if we see, is there any dharm which ensured peace
Dasharath followed vachan dharm and Ram exiled but what about pitra dharm or pati dharm, what is the need of marrying 3 times and reaching the situation, Ram, what is the need to follow rajdharm leaving pati dharm, Lakshman, Bharat, what is the need to follow bhatra dharm leaving pati dharm, Ravan, what is the need to follow bhatra dharm doing adharm avoiding pati dharm , Meghanad, following putra dharm avoiding his wife thoughts, it’s not the refusal of pati dharm
If we see , none of the dharm is totally fine , someone has to suffer on its behalf