Silsila Badalte Rishton Ka 13th September 2018 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
Kunal and Nandini were taken aback as they turn and see Mauli staring at them from a distance. Tears filled Mauli’s eyes while she stood only motionless. It begins the rain. Mauli recalls Rajdeep’s warnings about Kunal and Nandini’s affair, Chakor’s doubts she had laughed at, Rajdeep claiming Kunal as Nandini’s lover, Zoya’s advice… The rain water washed away her sindoor. Mauli drops the aarti thaal and fell down on floor, losing her balance. Kunal and Nandini head to help but she stops them with her hand. She gets up with the keys of Kunal’s clinic, walks towards Kunal weakly and place the keys in his hands. She says congratulations, these are keys to his clinic. Kunal recalls his vow to start a clinic of his own within the same year. She turns around and runs away. Kunal sends Nandini home while he follows Mauli. Mauli fell on the floor having lost the courage to be able to walk ahead. She recalls all her best times with Kunal. Kunal reaches her, he asks her to come home and he can explain anything. Mauli doesn’t let him touch her and says she needs sometime. Kunal wasn’t ready to leave her in such a condition alone. Mauli instead trembles and shouts at him to Go. Kunal steps backward. Agonized, Mauli screams and cries.
Nandini shuts the apartment door behind her, haunted by Rajdeep’s words that if she couldn’t belong to her husband, she couldn’t belong to even her best friend. She gets a call from Kunal. Nandini says he shouldn’t have left her alone, what if she do anything wrong. Kunal was sure Mauli was strong. Nandini cries wondering how she will face Mauli. Kunal wonders what face even he would carry to her?
Nandini speaks to Mauli’s photo that she never wanted to ruin her world. Mauli had given her a new life, a family and a worth in life. She never realized when love intervened, but she can’t live without anyone Mauli or Kunal. She never wished to ruin Mauli’s life, it only happened unintentionally.
Mauli recalls everyone cautioning her against Nandini, her mother and Rajdeep. How she always gave Nandini the confidence and love.
Someone brings a tissue for Nandini. She was shocked and turns to see it was Rajdeep. He forcefully wipes her tears and says he is really impressed, it seemed Mauli was her friend still she ruined Mauli’s life. Nandini tells him to leave. Rajdeep says he came by foot into the house only, and Nandini went into her friend’s married life. She got restraining orders, and made his spying easy. He has witnessed the whole block buster, their joggings, and hugs in café. If Nandini even realize what’s women like her called? Mauli wasn’t tired of praising her and she got Kunal behind herself? Kunal rejected his business proposal, and insulted him in front of everyone. He clutches Nandini’s neck asking what’s in Kunal that isn’t in him. But at least now, people would thank him for treating her abusively. He will now ruin Kunal’s life, thanks to Nandini to clearing his way up. He leaves the house. Nandini fells on the floor, timidly.
Kunal returns home and cries in silence. He recalls his best times with Mauli. Mauli returns home late and silently locks herself into the room. Kunal was left knocking the door. Soon, Mauli opens the door draped in red saree like Nandini. Kunal was taken aback. Mauli asks if she now looks like Nandini. Her dress, jewellry and everything… he likes this only right? She tries to shy away and offers him what he would eat? Kunal was ashamed. Mauli asks if this is what flattered Kunal? She only wants to know what it that she couldn’t give him was. Is she a bad wife, or a bad daughter in law? She did everything. They were a perfect couple, how could someone come in between. She always considered her marriage as the best one. She wonders what was missing and what was left behind? Kunal says there was nothing she left. Mauli fell on the floor, demanding why then? Kunal cries silently as he sits beside her. Mauli says he must tell her a reason, any irresponsibility, any mistake; if helping her friend was wrong, or giving her a new life was wrong. If bringing her home was wrong. They brought her together, when did Kunal allow her into his heart? They only had to support her, not to love her. She always thought Kunal was also her well-wisher, but was sure Kunal loved herself (Mauli). She corrects herself that Kunal loved her only, he doesn’t love her anymore. She and Nandini are way different. She hysterically looks towards her attire and says this isn’t her, its Nandini; she doesn’t even want to be Nandini. Mauli never makes up, and show all this grace and innocence. She pulls her jewellry, her ears bleed. Kunal was concerned and stops her. Mauli says this is only physical bleeding but what about her bleeding heart? If her bruises would ever fill?
Mauli blames herself for being busy. She was as well blinded. People poked into her eyes to make her able to see their reality. She stuffed her ears instead only because of her trust over him. Where she was wrong, she had to trust her best friend and her husband. She took time out of her schedule and completed Kunal’s dream. Kunal only looks towards her sadly. Mauli cries feeling herself as filthy, she requests him to tell her what she missed doing? She can’t live with this guilt and this filth? Kunal holds her above the floor but she resists his touch. He wipes his tears.
PRECAP: Nandini decides to go to Mauli, why Kunal should bear the punishment alone?
Update Credit to: Sona
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very sad….no words to describe what a low life Nandini and Kunal are. Rajdeep was a filthy person but what he said today was true. Nandini should go kill herself for ruining her best friends life.
Idk how intense was the episode but hats off to MISS SONA for beautifully portraying all the emotions in this write up
Thanks alot 🙂
1. I felt really bad for Mouli. I hope she gain strength to bear this pain??????????
2. Its so funny that generally now a days people use liquid sindoor, but when in show they need to wash it they showed it powdered..?????????
3. How come Mouli sindoor washed away not Nandini and Kunal face color.????????
4. Ohhhoooo kunal and Nandini ab pachatye hot kya jab chidiya chug gyi khet, I mean ab guilty mehsoos kyu kar rehe ho, phele dhyan nhi aaya tha mouli ka, ab samjg nhi aa raha hai kaise face kroge.?????????
5. Kunal said Mouli ko iss tarha pta nhi chalna chiye tha, but tm dono to btane ko bhi ready nhi the, bus pyar me ghum the.????????
6. Nandini was feeling and saying sorry to Mouli picture, which Mouli will never ever hear, though we all know that Nandini did wrong but I have to say she tried hard to stay away also, but it never happened.?????????
7. Writers plzzzzzzzz change story soon, I don’t want Mouli to bear such harsh pain and she break into pieces.
8. I don’t know why, but either Mouli or Nandini, one will be shown pregent and may that will change story, which will cause either of them to go away from kunal??
9. I thought that Rajdeep chapter will be over, but he is such a cheap person, still behind Nandini. He did everything to get Nandini and to treat her like servent and trophy wife.???????
10. I know what Nandini and Kunal did is wrong, but why can’t Nandini use her house cctv footage against Rajdeep????? Rather he will use that video in wrong way.????????????
11. I felt soo pety on Mouli, she just went in deep pain, she said right we trust on family, friends and Relatives so blindly, and she got pained from most of two trusted relations.??????????????
Quick update.. thanks Sona..
Heart wrenching episode.. Mauli should get best actress award this time.. she perfectly nailed each and every emotion that we could feel her pain.. I hope she starts her new life independently and stay strong..
Heart breaking episode, can’t see mauli in this state
Nandini says she can’t live without Kunal or mauli? Then just go jump off a bridge nandini! Since you never thought how mauli can live without Kunal. And really, nandini wants her best friends husband as well as her best friend after that betrayal wow someone’s living in a fantasy world. Done with this disgusting serial
Shameless nandini.
Am very sad for mauli…God knows how she will tolerate all this n back to normal…hoping for justice to mauli
Mauli ????
Sad epi!! Aditi nailed her performance.. It just looks real!just like any other daily soap leap after the whole drama.
words are not enough for Mauli she just nail it with her emotion it felt as if everything she was portraying was actually real and it happen 2 her for real????? keep it up mauli you are doing way too good
did anyone observe how nandini looked without makeup today
Ya like devil face today she looks like
She were in her true form, kunal should have seen her then run away ?
literally was in tears..felt sad for mouli
Ugh I feel so bad for Mauli and every woman or man who has been betrayed like this…
I can’t imagine what such a experience does to one’s self-confidence/life.
Nandini is a real time b*t*h she used to act like a typical sanakari ladki. She cheated on her angel like besty who gave a her an entirely new life to live . I mean kal hi toh mauli bata rahi thi ki she can’t live without Kunal and humari sanakari ladki was feeling guilty and phir bhi besharamo ki Tarah aaj Kunal ke Saath aa gayi romance karne and woh bhi Ganesh mahotsav me. HEIGHT OF HYPOCRISY NANDINI And KUNAL
Actually problem of this serial is they gloryfy ema…. making of a serial based on ema is not wrong.. but makers trying to justify ema and claim that it is devine love.. ema cant devine one… accept the truth and show this prperly.. kunal nandinis love is pure then why they share bed together without marriage? If they mentaly connected then why they physically involved?? Its not love it is attraction.. the problem is nandini and kunal have no job.. thats why they get so many time to attract somebody.. makers showed us nandini sansakari abala naari but she get dressed for mens attraction… and she get all the facilies to live from mouli.. if she is a good lady then she must tried to get a job and set a stand to live but she is busy with kunal and enjoy mouli or kisi aur ka money… what kind of a lady is she?? And kunal he is not doing any work… no responsibility…such a bad husbend….. makers plz accept right and wrong acts.. we all know this serial based on ema… but dont gloryfy ema.. kunal nandinis wrong deeds need no justification.. so show it on the correct sense.. no need to introduce rajdeep to gain sympathy to nandini.. nandini is not a good lady and not acceptable as good.. god never send any husbend or wife to anybody as a lover… if god is existed then evil be existed… so its evils duty to spoil somebodys life… taking wrong decision by evils grace only.. so dont show kunal send by god to nandini… god never do this bad thing… today moulis acting so gud kunal also did well… drashti sometimes did over acting… actually i am from kerala.. i watched the first hindi serial is madubala… after that i saw many old hindi serials through internet.. and tv.. drashti is one of my favourite.. but aditi i firstly saw u in this serial… u r a fantastic actress…..
Trueeee Words
Mauli is perfect yar .. I don’t know why some people will support illegal relationship s and extra material affairs ..if nandini bears much pain by her husband why can’t she understood the same pain will go to her best friend who support her alot because of her.
Nowadays shows showing the people who do this type of illegal relationship as Mahan and their pain nonsense
In olden days coming to our mothers era .
All marriage s are arranged couples will compromise alot to give a good future to their children
If parents will do that type illegal relationship and all what will the future of children
Mauli is perfect and done her duty as wife 100%
First time I feel that nandini husband words are very true
If nandini want new life she can marry .
A man who also suffer in his marriage life .
But she can’t break someone s life like dis
People who support such relationships are part of it…it’s that simple!
Again I say, Nandini with Rajdeep only.????
Wow! Have you never done something wrong? If you have, why don’t we get you married to a murderer too?
Just because rajdeep has been exposing the truth, he’s suddenly a hero for you? Or is his tortures okk?
Just imagine someone you know with a man like rajdeep. Chi! Your thought is disgusting and I can’t believe you’re laughing right now
Offo girl , u r taking it totally wrong dear, after watching Mauli status, I wrote that, as this show is heading towards wrong things,I was always a Kunal and Mauli supporter, and like everyone I too hate Rajdeep, and from which angle do u think, he looks hero in present episode, his character is evil and will always be evil.so don’t take any funny comment so harshly,I just hope this reply clears all ur doubts regarding me, I am sorry too, kyunki sorry ki to aadat ho chuki hai sabko.
How can nandini say that in picture, she want one time both of them, she say plzz forgiveness mauli i am your best friend, mauli tum mujhe maaf kardo gina mein kabhi aisa nahi chahti thi maine koshish ki bohot koshish ki par mujhse nahi ho paaya mein tumhare or kunal ke bager nahi rahe sakti hmm, nandini thought maybe mauli ko agar patah chalta aise nahi achha toh woh apni best friend nandini ko gale se laga leti uski aarthi uttar ti kyun ki uski best friend uski sautan banne ki sapne dekh rahi hai how can she think such a cheap thing you are discussing nandu how can you do this with your friend, and well done rajdeep you are doing right whatever you say that’s all are true jis dost ne madad ki ki thi usse nayi zindagi di hai ussi dost ki pati saath ek naajayaz sambandh isse tumne saabit kardi hai ki tum kitni giri hui ho you are a shameless, or mauli tumhe apni friend ke jaise banne ki jarurat nahi hai kyun ki you are the one in the world, so dont change your self ok, aaj jo kuch bhi hua hai us mein kunal ki koi galti nahi hai kyun ki jab kunal ko ehsaas hua ki something feel for nandini and then he trying to control, but when nandini ko ehsaas hua ki something feel for kunal she never ever trying to control, agar dekha jaaye toh chipak ne ki shuruat nandini ke taraf se hua na ki kunal, jab nandini rajdeep ke paas gayi uska mangalsutra wapas karne tab kunal soch raha tha ki aaj nandini uske wajah se gayi hai or woh bohut guilt mehsoos karta hai or little rota bhi hai lekin jab mauli usko bata ti hai ki nandini wapas aa gayi hai toh woh khush hoke hug karna chahta lekin usne aisa nahi kiya or wohi dusri taraf jab dida bolti hai nandini ko ki kunal ko rok lo tab woh kuch nahi bolti hai ulta dida se kahti hai ki unko aaraam karna chahiye or jab accident ki khabar sunti hai toh door kar jaati hai or kunal ko sahi salamat dekh kar hug karti hai tabhi aaj kunal ai sab kuch kar raha hai hug wagerah only because of nandini the characterless and cheap dost jo apni dost ko khush bhi nahi dekh sakti hai, you are a looser insecurities and cheap friend, kunal ki koi galti bhi nahi hai sab galti uski hai, rajdeep say right jo aurat apna pati ki nahi hui woh aut apni dost ki kaise ho sakti hai, nandini itna masoom bholi bhali sankar ro wali banke rahti, aa kya hua aise galti kaise kar sakti hai, jab uska pati patel ke pass bheja tha toh kitna sankar ro wali banti thi or ab apni dost ke pati ko chhin liya hai kitna ashamed ki baat hai ek dost dusre dost ke saath aisa bhi kar sakti hai or ab woh mauli ke paas jana chahti hai kyun ki kunal akela zimidar nahi hai kya woh bhi shamil hai, go nandini go i wish wahan mauli ke maa ho woh achhi tarha se class legi nandini ka gande gande baat bolegi tab usko ehsaas ho ga, or toh or puri duniya ko yeh baat patah chalne chahiye ki woh nandini kunal ki bolna toh nahi chahiye par aur koi charah bhi nahi hai kunal ki mistress hai chii she will be betrayal all everything thing disgusting cheapness
Mauli asked kunal right question ?
Like ? Mauli asks if this is what flattered Kunal? She only wants to know what it that she couldn’t give him was. Is she a bad wife, or a bad daughter in law?
Kunal did wrong because he has good and beautiful wife
Although what nandini did was wrong but she faced problems with her husband so she attracted towards kunal
But dis kunal waste fellow he has very understanding ,lovable ,caring and beautiful wife but he wants another women’s love
Very emotional episode..and those of you throwing shades at Nandini should put a stop to it! This right here is what is happening in the real world. Love! Crazy stupid love. It bites you In the butt when you least expect it…I want you all to just take a moment and look at it with an unbais self righteous Indian mind ..if it was lust they would have slept together already! But it slowly grew..they tried to fight it..they knew it was wrong and still tried..I feel so sad for Mauli because she is going to think no one deserves any little show of humanity anymore..
I don’t know what’s next to come(probably Mauli becoming bitter towards Nandini) but I know that Kunal and Nandini are in for a long ride..Mauli Mauli Mauli…my sweet Mauli..the beautiful woman who doesn’t bother about her looks(strike one) the smart woman who is always busy (strike 2) the too trusting woman who is always oblivious (strike 3) That’s the mistake most married women make…You think because you are married little things don’t matter? Look at Nandini, she isn’t that beautiful but she is a lot of things!
Emotional episode ..let the games begin! And oh..Thank you Lovely Sona for the updates..Keep it up
Umm they’ve slept already. Remember the episode of blood on the ceiling fan? Yup. Now justify this as love. They never felt pangs of guilt as you try to point out. All we ever saw was they romanced like college kids in front of Mauli. They wouldn’t have told her for a long time and would’ve continued with it but poor Mauli discovered it. Are you seriously justifying Kunal sleeping with ? nandini by pointing out it as entirely Mauli’s fault? Is being smart, having a life outside her husband’s world, being busy to set up his clinic(which I’m sure the @ss will never appreciate), trusting your husband and bf(I agree with this point though) a crime? Lol, you said nandini isn’t that beautiful but she is a lot of things. Does it mean a woman who wears heavy makeup, drapes designer sarees, does craft work,cooks and stays clinging to a man like a monkey is a lot of things (ideal)? Some Indian men and their ego. Never change. Always behind an available abla bechari naari cuz they can’t handle a woman who’s independent.
@irina First off, I’m not a guy. 2nd..this is a show meant for entertainment so miss high and mighty I can do no wrong, lay off Okay! And I don’t know what episode you watched but Kunal and Nandini never slept together.
And yes! I still stand by what I said. Why do you think marriages break easily these days? It is because most “independent ” women don’t know how to balance it out! Kunal felt needed! You think men don’t like to feel needed? They are egotistic in nature. Once in a while they want to feel needed. He needed a friend. A companion. Yes Mauli(beautiful soul) gave him what she could but he found exactly what he wanted with Nandidi. It was like..he finally found that one piece that was missing and he felt bad(YES HE DID) that he didn’t find that in his wife. Look. Infidelity is wrong. But it happens. A lot. Even in the so called India. It happens every where in the world!!! What this show is doing is just giving us an insight on how most ruined relationships happen.
Really? Are you really justifying men going astray due to women’s Independence? What regressed thought are you holding in this century? There’s a word called “Communication”. Was Kunal mute so that he couldn’t talk about his needs with his wife? Let me tell you what Kunal wanted. He wanted a woman who always clinged to him all the time. Go to the bed whenever he calls her and feel like a man whenever she wanted him to open a jar. And what part of my comment declared you as a man? I’ve never mentioned your gender. I said some Indian men. In what context does that include you? Defending women is not high and mighty, it’s needed. As a person who has seen ema happening to a close person, I understand what a woman goes through when it happens to her, especially when there are children involved. And it doesn’t apply just for women, even some men too. Puhlease a woman balances her household to take care of everyone, while the man has to do one thing. Just because he wants his libido in check he has the right to look for other women? What? Ema most of the time fulfills only lust. Not love.
FYI they’ve already slept together…shameless blo*dy cheaters
I agree that love doesn’t see right or wrong, it just happens, but showing this way just spoil trust on most trusted relation that is friendship and husband/wife, becoz on these two relation we trust blindly.
I love mouli so much I dnot have words to praise her wt a emotion she realy rocked today I hope they dnot change her character to negative whatever the reason behind kunal & nandhini I hate them to core .
I am not say anything about wrong to drashti dhami, i must say her previous serial like dmg and geet and madhubala and ek tha raja rani and pdmhmd, she doing good job i also like her role madhubala’s madhu ke samne nandini kuch bhi nahi hai, us serial mein kitni acchi thi or ek yeh serial, woh aisa soch bhi kaise sakti hai cheapness characterless and insecurities aurat jo apni dost ki khushi bardasht bhi nahi kar sakti, kunal didn’t anything wrong just because of nandini the disgusting character very cheap
Lol pig kunal said mein tumhe ese nahi chor sakti when he already left her the night he slept with nandini. How he wanted to break the truth…in a diner? babe me nd your bestie are an item now, you became last season, hope you don’t mind nd we can all stay friends?! Is there any good way tell wife about affairs, if he cared about mauli couldn’t he share with her his feelings about nandini as soon as it satrted so they find solutions together before things goes out of control .
Pig nandini is so worried about her so called best friend but didn’t think once for her when she shared bed with her husband, she herself was cheated so know how painful it is, still made only human who showed humanity on her go though the same agony . Feeling are not controlled but body are, she could have gone to another city or country in order to avoid kunal, no bechari had to stay close and behind her well-wisher’s nose romance with her husband. Now that she is caught suddenly remember mauli . And how dares she call mauli’s husband her lover, there is a limit of shamelessness.
Mauli is the only victim here, she loved kunal so much, worked hard to make his dream true, has been so understanding, supportive what she gets in exchange…dhoka, bewafaa…She should have never get involved in nandini’s life in the first place. Never shelter any snake she will always bite in return.
Ha ha ha, kunal saying by you was funny and if you remember Nandini was leaving for Lucknow, but Kunal came from Pune and stopped her by expressing love. And lastly right said that Mouli got pain ….
That true but she prioritised her feelings over others feelings nd what is right. Kunal said he loves nd that was enough to make her stay to do more damage. If she really wanted to go pig kunal couldn’t have stoped her. It looks like Just because she was abused it gives her license to be emotionally weak, falls for others husband, get intimate nd get away with it
Good job people need to realize that how it goes in real life it show you it could happen to anybody pay attention to your man or your relationship
It not sad it real life also they just protraying a drama don’t get mad them that mean their acting skills are very good. Good job Kunal and Nandini
Nandini and Kunal were roiled Mauli’s bad grand emotions. What are they expected? I want to see her happy without Kunal in the end. On the Web there are a lot of negative reviews about that show.
Drashti and shakthis acting is same as previous no improvement even though in 10 to 12 years in industry.crying huging kissing fu……ing only.but aditi done a superb job
Why should this serial go off air? The serial is showing what happens in real life.
Why would it have bad effects on society? Or one does not want reality check.
There are shows like roop mard ka naya swarop. That show actually giving out mixed view. A Police officer abusing females in his house and in the society.
That is not having bad effect on society?
Mauli does have fault in her relationship. Her focus on and home was more than her husband. It is good but at what cost? Now she should fiqure out what went wrong. Kunal is immaure and easily deluded. Soft heart and cheater. Why only blame Nandini. Why females always blame females. Females are their own enemies.
You contradict your own statements my dear. You blame Mauli for paying less attention to the @ss of a husband just for a few days (the time which she used to set up a clinic for the @ss). It’s totally her fault to lose a husband like Kunal to her bf (who totally doesn’t deserve sympathy for what she has done to her bf, like the ? knows how affairs make a person feel like ?, didn’t she go through that phase with her husband’s affairs? yet she has the gall to keep an affair with her bf’s husband) You say women are enemies to their own kind. Doesn’t blaming Mauli and asking her to figure out her mistakes(the only fault was to place trust in wrong people, the people who she had faith in) contradict your own statement of women blaming women? You can disagree with my comment but nandini is wrong in keeping her friend in the blind, I mean for godsake she brought you a ?, supported you when you suffered abuse and miscarriage and this is how you show gratitude for the woman? By sleeping with her husband? The husband is the biggest @ss. He’s so into his ego that he thinks if a woman is strong she’ll suffer less and a woman who is like an abla bechari naari needs constant validation, support and hand hand holding all the time which inflates his ego as a provider. SMH. I can ask you the same question why only blame Mauli and support nandini? Kunal is soft hearted, immature and easily deluded? Wuut? Does it make him immune from the mistake he has done? Pitying nandini for abuse is fine but clearing her of her wrongdoings just cuz she suffered abuse in the past? I mean I’m really that not into the argument.
What people want to serial went off?? But why???
I know what they have shown is wrong, but its serial not real life, yes I agree that Kunal and Nadini did wrong by cheating Mouli, but ofcourse Nandini also doesn’t deserve husband like Rajdeep..
I noticed some under performance of shakti compared to his previous act in matsh in emotional situations. I feel that he really needs to show fake sympathy and emotion as per the script or director has not taken max out of him or he must be demotivated by negative comments he gets.
though many of us are blaming the story line, but this is the reality.. ajkal esa hota hai aur this serial is giving message to every husband and wife not to betray their partner. extra marital affairs are increasing..
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After 14 years of marriage, many vacations and two children, Shalini felt that she needed more in life. She went away on solo vacations, took up yoga and meditation and realized that she still needed more.
She had more to give (read love). And at 38, she could not waste it by sitting at home and waiting for her partner to figure out what she needed. That’s when Rohit entered her life and she started having a rocking affair.
Shah Rukh Khan once said in an interview relating to the film Kabhi Alvida Na Kahana or KANK that extramarital relationships happen in the society itself. And that in turn influences the films.
Infact many of our films both Hindi and regional ones revolve around extra-marital relationships as their theme. To name a few are Choker Bali, Silsila, Saheb, Bibi Ghulam and others. As for KANK, one question often comes to the mind if Karan Johar has done another Silsila? That can only be decided by film experts and critics. But in the context of extra-marital relationships, we may ask if such relationships are common within our society.
The answer is yes, they are. And in comparatively older times, they also prevailed.
Mahesh Bhatt’s Arth is remembered for its sensitive portrayals of ‘the other woman’ factor in marriage. Extra-marital relationships do exist in our society and there are thousands of housewives who are confined within the four walls of loveless marriages.
Even in TV soaps we see a lot of extra-marital relationships and viewers are willing to empathize with the characters, if the story is strong enough.
In Jhumpa Lahiri’s Interpreter of Maladies, in a short story ‘s*xy’ we find how a young Midwestern woman Miranda is drawn into a tantalising affair with a married Bengali economist Devajit Mitra. It touches us. “It was cold but sunny, and so she walked all the way down Commonwealth Avenue, past the restaurants when Dev has kissed her…” Not for a single moment that we thought anything bad about Miranda and Dev.
But in reality, a few years ago a Boeing chief executive’s romantic relationship with a colleague created a scandal, which in turn led to his ouster. He later resigned voluntarily.
Now men and women are quite open to free mixing, particularly in workplaces. Office means anything between 10-15 hours. On crunch days, timings can be crazier – with going home for maybe just a change of clothes. So, for the married ones there is hardly anytime left to share with spouses. At first there develops a sense of at homeness and then closeness with colleagues – and one thing leads to the other.
The relationships which we are calling ‘extramarital’ happen to people, even unawares. It cannot be judged like something good or bad. It happens. Being forewarned is forearmed, and prevention is always better than cure. And these extramarital relationships which happen in our society are very often repeated clichés but at the same time, also highly steeped in reality.
Top reasons most frequently quoted for infidelity and having extra-marital affairs include:
* In love with someone
* Variety is the spice of life
* Boredom
* Often to seek revenge
* Desire for emotional support and intimacy
Okay I get your argument. But it isn’t pertinent to all cases. For instance look at the first story you’ve broached. She is married with two kids, was bored after 14 years of marriage. Doesn’t justify affair but she never once thought about her kids mental well being, was her husband abusive towards her? Was he incapable of loving her? Couldn’t they both find a solution if they just had a heart to heart talk? She found the easiest way out to get rid of her boredom. I haven’t read the short story of the said author but I presume it’s a fictional story just like this serial. Again I feel for the wife of the said economist. He’s allured to have an whirlwind affair just to satiate his lust. Again it depends on which perspective you choose. In reality it’s wise to not trust other person and trust your own self to move through life. Human emotions are complex. Why complicate life when you know this simple truth. That being said, there are people who stay with one person through their life and stay by em till the last breath. Right now due to the advent of technology and availability of emotional abundance online it’s no wonder people find it easier to cheat. Justify cheating is the norm in today’s world. Reasons such as “Oh but it’s only love, it can happen again and again (count innumerable times), it’s only natural” “He/she strayed cuz they were bored” “They were busy, it’s only natural” “He received emotional support from his colleague rather than his partner, so it’s justified” “They swapped wives in a roulette game, one of the couple started the affair and the other one started to take revenge on the said couple”. But the cheating partners seldom realize the effect of affairs on children. Some children born out of affairs are given up for adoption, some are left picking up pieces of a shattered home. Why should children bear the brunt of being trampled on by a person’s selfish desire to have his/her lust fulfilled? Would it rather not be sensible to talk with your partner rather than keep an affair to satiate your needs? Nowadays people find it easy to have an affair than speak with their partner.
Okay guys future spoilers ahead. Mauli will ask Kunal to leave the house and go to nandini. She says “I’ve let you go, please don’t come back to me forever”. The shameless @ss instead of feeling guilty for his deeds goes and lives with the ? woman happily. There will be a leap. Mauli will get a new love and things turn shitty from this point like rest of the serials. Nandini cannot bear any child so Mauli will become a surrogate to the @sshole’s and the ?’s baby. Really writers? Getting deceived once is all it takes a person not to talk with the said person and break all relations with him/ her. ? Nandini broke Mauli twice (once when she wanted rajdeep instead of choosing Mauli and later when she slept with Kunal who was Mauli’s husband), then why the heck should Mauli help ? again and again? It doesn’t make any sense. It’d really be a different serial (albeit definitely a good one) if it shows Mauli’s journey through the betrayals to find happiness for herself. I don’t want another surrogacy drama. It’s over used and boring( Regurgitated ?). And I don’t want a twist which has ? bearing Mauli’s child. *Shivers in a corner like gandhini* Puhlease writers stop smoking weed (affects productivity) and start writing a decent reality based story of tribulations of the victim of adulterous affair.
No no this would be really boring track.. they will ruin this unique drama.. instead they should show mauli’s strong journey after betrayal.. no need to show any new love interest of mauli as of now as she has already betrayed by her loved once and it will be unrealistic to show mauli falling for someone so soon after heart break.
These things happen in real life . Advice to women never introduce your best friend to your husband .
Mauli gave so much love and attention to nandu yet right in front of her eyes she betrayed her best friend .
Rajdeep was a villion but really enjoyed his comical scenes. Awsome
And that Kunal…. disgusting u do to ur wife . Tomorrow nandu will find someone and leave I too . Ur wife is perfect
Best dialogs of mauli:
1) “Ab lag rahi hu na nandini jaisi, yahi sab pasand aya hoga na tumhe”
2) “Ye mai nahi hu ye nandini hai or mai aisi banna bhi nahi chahti, or ye mai nahi hu to itne saal pyar kisse karte the”
3) “Hum ne to usse apna samjha tha tumne to apna hi bana liya”
4) ” Hum dono ne milke use ghar me jaga di thi fir tumne kaise use apne dil me jaga de di”
She nailed it totally.. don’t know how many viewers have been cried while watching this..
Also I liked Kunal’s acting and that guilt on his face he was like “ye maine kya kar diya”.
It will be interesting to see what decison these 3 will take.
What I don’t understand is, everyone knew this day was going to come. They knew that Kunal and nandini are going to betray mauli. They know that the track was going to happen.
Why watch the show if you don’t want to see Kunal and nandini together or mauli’s tears. It’s just stupid.
Or have you all come here only to bash the poor actors who are doing such a fabulous job.
The story has been embellished and is really dramatic but then what else can one expect from a soap… However, it was always known that Kunal and nandini are going to hurt mauli. So either you shouldn’t watch the show or else, stop cursing them like you know what they feel.
Every person makes mistakes, small ones, big ones, unforgivable ones. Who are you to judge them?
Watch the show, praise mauli and hope she becomes better… Unfortunately everyone’s only interested in spouting curse words against nandini and Kunal which shows your mentality TBH
You’re mighty wrong my friend. People know the difference between reality and drama. I know a few are cursing the actors for taking up this role, it’s wrong. Most of the people are bashing the characters not the actors. Is it wrong to be involved in a drama? It’s really appalling the way Mauli was treated by the people she trusted the most. It’s the way the track was written that made no sense whatsoever. I mean Kunal fell in love with Mauli in college and married her out of love, when she became busy just for a few days to set up a surprise for him he felt neglected and saw his wife’s bf dancing in a wet transparent saree ;he fell in love with her? How is it love not lust? It’s not judging. It’s justifying affair as god created event. Why drag God into this shit? Does god tell people to murder people? Does he whisper into ears to start a war? Does he want people to be adulterer/ adulteress? Granted there are stories of god having two wives or excess of wives. But who wrote em? MAN right? You see people find reasons to justify their mistakes. If affairs are justified, stalking will also be justified. When is stalking ever a way of love? When is hurting your spouse mentally ever right? Especially if the spouse only has ever supported and loved you? If we keep on accepting the reasons the world will be filled with self entitled brats. This story will be well rooted in reality if it shows the emotional damage a person undergoes when his/her better half is cheating on em, It should show Mauli’s journey of moving forward in life in spite of betrayals she has faced. Now that’ll be a inspiring story to watch. But no, the makers in their quest for trps will throw in some bull$hit story arc of surrogacy between the couple. I mean how will the victim be able to talk to the betrayers after all these events? Nandini knew how affairs hurt but still went on with her affair with her bf’s husband even when she knew her bf would be broken. It’s loathsome. If nandini has an ounce of self respect she’d have tried to come out of her troubles independently (after receiving a little help to stand on her feet). If she needed help to heal her trauma there would’ve been a psychiatrist to help her along with her friend. I really don’t get how a woman will be able to trust another man so quickly that she jumps in bed with him? Indians can keep affairs to heal mental wounds but not visit a psychiatrist? SMH. But I should really be thankful to this serial don’t I? It states: Never trust anyone, in the end they may betray you.
I loved yesterday’s episode. Aditi nailed the episode she did a fantastic job I’m crushing over her it was so natural in whole episode it was only aditi nd Abhinav who did really good. The dialogue delivery of aditi was fantastic nd when she confronted kunal the direction was very good. Loved rajdeep his dialogue delivery is really good I loved him it was very funny. Aditi did award winning job she shud get best female actress award
Now it vl be interesting to see how the story folds
the actors were flawless!!
the screen space was only for the 4 main leads today..
the way mauli said, ‘mein sarpe utalethi hoon na’ was so… no words!! simply amazing…
everyday when they showed romance of kunal and nandhini, i used to be like, let the truth come infront of mauli and it happened… the makers are playing a sensitive issue… serials that start with some issue like this domestic violence, ema etc mostly drags a lot and ends boring..
i hope they take this serial in a different way
trust your parents….they’ll never break your heart
Actually I watched this serial first time only to see Mauli’s reaction…
I never feel like watching this shit show…
But I would say – Big Claps for Mauli?…Superb potraying all the emotions…
Kunal and Nandini call it love but it is not love it is lust…And if makers will try to justify this then the show should go off air…
Love just happens. It doesnt know any logic. Kunal nandini tried hard to stay away from each other…but they couldnt. Love is like that..! and this do happen in real world..! I am not justifying their act…but true love when it happens..it comes without logic and warning. Its just present and you cant deny it..! No one is wrong here..! all three characters are very good and pure…but they are just entangled in the deep layers of human emotions. Its amazing to watch this complexity of emotions and how its going to unfold.
Beautiful story of complex human emotions..!
Ya right!!! Am I the only one missing integrity here and love is not what’s been described here. Please stop glorifying what Nandani and Kunal have done. yuck!! It’s called BETRAYAL!! Nothing less than that. Poor Mauli has to pay the price of her kindness. I get the abused part but it would’ve been better if that Cinderella ( disgusting Nanda) has not proved Rajdeep right ( the most hated character) She has reiterated the fact that no one should try to be God and save others from their hell otherwise they’ll drag you in the worse living hell. And BTW Kunal is a loser who wants to be a hero saving Cinderella.
Yeah actually right but people can’t understand and judging them it’s so easy to judge but they are not thinking why kunal n nandini are doing this. First of all when kunal proposed nandini he told usko situation ke waare mai pata hai that means its true na koi confusion ya koi misconception nahi tha just love tha so I think don’t judge them
To fall in love is not in your control , but what you do with that feeling of love is in your control . Both Kunal and Nandani “fell in love”. i don’t believe that. Nandani fell for Kunal being her hero all the time and Kunal fell for Nandani because she was the damsel in distress .Mauli takes care of herself so this was different to him , and because of this difference Nandani could never love Kunal the way Mauli has loved him. Taking action with what they felt was completely and disgustingly low and wrong. nothing can justify their behavior and actions.
Actually…I wanna mention something…that Kuna said in this episode…that Mauli is strong n she won’t do anything to harm her…idk whether that means …? This is where he gets confidence to cheat his wife or she can bare anything as she is a strong person ? Poor Mauli?
As per spoilers two years leap and mauli will stay with dida and kunal with nandini. But if they really wish forgiveness from mauli they must not stay together and kunal must leave nandini and stay alone and nandini must leave kunal but if they stay together that means they don’t want to leave each other. They have no regrets.kunal has no fear of losing mauli. They just wanted to hide their relation from mauli nothing else.
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