Imlie 11th March 2022 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
Aditya kneeling down proposes Imlie for marriage. Imlie says she cannot marry him as she is someone else’s wife now. Aditya and T family stand shocked hearing that. Imlie shows her sindhoor filled hairline and mangalsutra. Aditya asks whose wife she is now. Aryan walks in saying his wife, Imlie is now Imlie Aryan Singh Rathore. Aditya loses his balance in shock. Aryan asks him to control himself as Imlie will not come to support him again. Aditya asks if she married such a man. Imlie says she didn’t waste much time and married Aryan. Rupali says she didn’t inform anyone. Aditya says there is nothing to inform and holding Aryan’s collar alleges that he forced Imlie to marry him. Aryan says nobody can force Imlie, he just questioned Imlie and she said yes. Aditya asks Imlie she married a man who wants to destroy him. Aryan warns Aditya to stop it.
Imlie says she can fight her own battle. Aditya alleges that she betrayed him. She says he questioned her and she didn’t say anything like always; he put mangalsutra in Malini twice in front of her without bothering about her feelings, at least she didn’t give him that pain. She tries to leave. He stops her and asks why is she protecting him from the pain and insists her to let him go through the pain by watching his and Aryan’s wedding. Imle remembers telling Aryan that it would be a fake marriage. Aditya insists her again to complete the rituals and receive sindhoor bottle as gift from him. Aryan says sindhor bottle is a very small gift for him, he will give him a bigger gift instead by marrying Imlie in a lavish way and invites him for the wedding. Aditya says he surely will attend their wedding.
Imlie walks out and sits at steps crying remembering Aryan’s words and misses her mother. She imagines Meethi who asks what is in her mind. Imlie asks why she is so helpless and follows whoever tries to draw a line of fate in her hand. Meethi says her line of fate didn’t change by itself but she changed it, she should focus on herself like before and follow her chosen path. She then realizes it’s her imagination. Aparna walks to her and says she has come here as her mother to bless her for her happier married life. Imlie says she doesn’t need that blessing. Aparna asks why. Aryan walks in and says they both need her blessings and touches her feet. He then apologizes her for hurting her because of his and Aditya’s tussle. Aparna requests him to keep Imlie happy forever and take care of her. Aryan holds Imlie’s hand and says as she wishes and asks her to bless them both that they should be happy forever. Aparna ties a holy thread around their hands.
Aditya removes decoration at house and asks family to help him remove it. Rupali asks if he is fine. Aditya akss what will happen to him. Nishant says he can’t hide his pain. Aditya says Aryan and Imlie’s marriage is a lie as Aryan is creating misunderstanding between him and Imlie. Rupali says Imlie herself told she married Aryan. Aditya says her mangalsutra and sindhoor are fake. Rupali asks why he is forcing Imlie to perform wedding rituals then. Aditya says Imlie will not perform the rituals and will back off, then he will marry Imlie.
Precap: Imlie acts as fainting during marriage. Aryan lifts her and performs 6 pheras and says she should perform 7th phera with her wish.
Update Credit to: MA
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I mean please send some help for AKT… never seen anyone so dumb and shameless..
Nd he has the audcity of accusing Imlie of betraying him like wow 👏👏👏👏👏👏
And this stupid IMLIE still is crying nd running behind him…
If Imlie continues running AKT…screw ARYLIE…. because ARYAN DOESN’T DESERVE IT…HE DESERVES SOMEONE WHO ACKNOWLEDGES HIS EFFORTS AND LOVE..
IMLIE CAN’T SEE ANYTHING BEYOND HER “BABUSAHEB”
@Shraddha, seems Imlie will only appreciate him when there is a threat of someone else taking him from her. Badi ma and Gudiya are the new Anu and Malini. T family on their way out 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾
When AKT cries; angels sing, flowers bloom, rainbows… rainbow? And all that other good stuff 😂😂😂 all that’s missing is Malini shooting him in the face and running him over with a tractor – in front of Aparna and Rupy cause they are the most irritating. Is T family finally on their way out 🤞🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾 Is it possible we don’t have to be subjected to that bottom dwelling family of retards? Is Gul finally doing something nice for us 😃
@Shradha and Jade – agree with your comments.
lets see what develops with Gudiya as Aryan did and G are childhood friends
Rupali : Arrey Rey Rey, Adi baby ko bohot dard ho raha hai? Kahan Dil mein? Aley ley ley….. Koi nhi bas batao batao ek aur patni khilona la dun thik ho jaayega na…. Han….
Adi: Nahi didi😭 mujhe Imlie doll chaahiye, Aryan ne mujhse chheen Lee😂
Rupali: Aley aley mela pyala Bhai, tujhe toh itni dolls milengi, Malini doll toh tujhe pehle achhi lagti thi na, vo jo tune phenk di thi, le aaun tere liye…. Bata… 😅
Adi: Nhi di…… Mujhe Imlie doll chaahiye maine bas thode time ke liye phenki thi, kyunki tab mujhe Malini doll pasand thi ab nhi hai😭 Imlie doll dila do na😭😭
Rupali: Aley ley mela Adi, dard mat chhupa, tere liye main achhi waali doll laungi, tu so Jaa🤣
Means according to this T family, specially Nishant and Rupali, no one has had more pain than Adi, Adi is the saddest person of the world, because everyone betrayed him, Malini used him, Imlie left him…. And what about the betrayal he gave to them? What about his 7 years commitment to Malini? No but as per them Aditya is a pure soul, who deserves all the happiness in the world, he must get what he wants by hook or crook! Such rubbish thinking 😡
For Rupali I can remember only one thing Ae Rupali Ae Rupali pakad meri daali banaun tujhe Raani🤣 one of the most useless characters in the show!
And this Imlie Madam, what are you crying for? You yourself agreed to marry! No one forced you at gunpoint 😠😡 you really need to see a mirror, never see your mistakes just blame others… Such a hypocrite!
True! Aryan gave her options. Leave aryan or leave Aditya. Stay with adi & let aryan live like his way.but noooooooooo. Neither she will leave adi nor Aryan….
She wants both!! She wants to love adi & consume marriage with aryan. A biiiigghhh
sacrifice for Aaaadiiiiiiiiiiiiiii.
Seriously???
You have hit the nail on its head. But it may be hitting the mad fandom.
absolutely right.
Jesus Aditya is such a pain in the ass.
There are no words for this man or I wish there were more than just disgusting or garbage. After all Imlie had to go through in this family, and after all Imlie has done for this man and his family, the hobby bigamist still has the nerve to accuse Imlie of betrayal 🤮👎😡.
Oh this Anditya actor (Manasvi Vashist) has an expression like a lifeless stone, no wonder why I have no sympathy for this character, I also see no chemistry between Aditya and Imlie (Manasvi Vashist and Sumbul Touqeer).
Rupali seriously why should Imlie inform you and your toxic family🤦♀️🤔.
Fahmaan I love this man since ATBA. But I have to say that here he is even hotter and it’s only because of his beard,his expression his walking and his presence, and I love it when he raises his eyebrows.😍💖😍💖😍💖😍💖😍💖😍💖😍. oh and by the way he is ML that is confirmed 🎉🎊🎉.
Oh and if someone still says Aryan is forcing Imlie to marry him then the person should watch the episodes again. He is not forcing her, he is giving her a choice.
Aryan and Imlie look perfect as husband and wife and i Just can’t wait for their non stop nok jhok 😂😁.
@Hello, yep and no PGD people in sight with guns pointed to their heads. Imlie’s choice. I honestly think Aryan was testing her to see if she would sacrifice herself for that nalayak Adi again and she failed with flying colors. At this stage Aryan is marrying his gadhi to save her from her own stupidity (and save himself from Gudiya) I’m just hyped we might not longer have to see T Fam 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾
@Jade
yes, I think the same as you, that Aryan just tested her, and she failed.
a break from the T-family would be cool, but now we have the other two.
I can only hope that Aryan doesn’t let his aunt (or whoever she is) put him down. Most of the time, the ML loves his aunt almost more than his mother or sister. Hopefully, this is not the case here.
However, I do not understand why they are still needed now, Aryan is married 🤔. Jealousy track I don’t think so,for what then?????
@Hello, I think Gudiya is there to make Imlie aware of her own feelings and fight for Aryan 🤔 he’s fought for her a lot… it’s the girls turn to prove herself worthy of ASR also its cute when she says his proper name
@jade
do you mean Gudiya is the new Malini 2.0 🤔?
Oh god if that is the case then what will happen when the original is back (hopefully soon because I want a happy Aditya at Malini’s side)🤣😂.
Me too
@hello I agree he is not forcing her. Even during the negotiation – Aryan is watching and wants top Imlie stupidity of being loyal to this pathetic 🙄man
Adi ka pyaar, kabi barse Malini par toh kabhi Imlie bane uska shikaar 😂
Adi ka pyaar hai ya sazaa…
Ae uske dil bata 😂
Aryan bechara seedha sadha ladka
Aasman ke gir kar t house ke jungle mein hai atka 😂
Imlie par har uska dil aaya
Adi ko yeh bilkul na bhaaya,
Imlie ko kisi aur ka hote dekh woh seh nahi paaya
Bechare haal – e – dil baya na kar paaya 🤣
Writing a silly thing after a veryyy long time as i got bored studying aggregate demand and supply 🙄
@ Board exams, that’s wayyy too funny 😂 hope your preparation is going well 😊
Finally CBSE dates released.
And ye dates hote hain kya…?
Ek mahina pura rakh diya hai inn nalayak on ne 😡
I have exams from 7 May to 15 June according to our subjects… Major subjects are done till 30th Ma itself but they gave a whole of 15 days for Psychology alone which is the last exam. And mujhe nahi pata ki.. aise tho Neet kab hogi ??
@Star going well…. Hope yours as well…. I was fed up too but this cringey show made me even more fed up🤣
Anyhow, @Shriharshita mili mujhe bhi datesheet mili, my exams are from 27 April to 24 May 🤦 matlab humari 11th itni delay ho gayi, ab June mein hi start ho sakti hai vo bhi bina aaraam ke, bas kaam hi kaam😓 and they have given 10 days for INFORMATION TECHNOLOGY(last exam), matlab yarr itna gap Dena hi tha toh kisi main subject mein de dete, ye kya paagalpanti hai😡😠
Ek toh ye ICSE ke results ek mahina pehle aa gaye ab students ko pach bhi gaye honge aur humare na jaane kab aayenge, imtehaan ho gayi intezaar ki, intezaar mein hum boodhe ho gaye, bal safed ho gaye hain humaare, batao yarr😡🤦 hadd hai
We have huge gaps for main exams too and for optional too. Sorry for your fate @Board exams… infact the whole of 10th standard students’ fate –
Abh maine itni bata hi di hai tho yeh rahi meri datesheet :
1) 7 May – Chem
2) 13 May – Eng. Core
3) 20 May – Phy
4) 30 May – Bio
5) 15 June – Psych.
Yeh gaps nahi, centuries hai bhai 😂
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Anyways accha bhi hai bura bhi hai.
Competitive exams me liye hume time shayad na hi mile. Agar mile tho admission bahut hi late ho jayega phir tho. Agr time na mile, tho pata nahi admission ho bhi payega ki nahi 😜😂. Anyways kidding, confidence tho hai mujhe ki shayad I can get in through with a bit more of hardwork from now on… But bharose se men bhi tho nahi sakte ki selection hi jayegi ki nahi. Hardwork tho kiya hai…inaam milega ya nahi, that’s a question mark. It is more about luck too in competitive. Say ek banda neet top kar sakta hai par agar exam hall hi na pahunch paye tho ? Suppose ek banda..usse kuch aata hi na ho par woh sabse pehle pahunch jaye aur galti se exam mein seat bhi mil jaaye kyunki cut off kam hai.
Well, competitive exams in India is hard, harder, hardest 😂…world mein koi aur jageh nahi hai jahan education system ham jaisi ho😅..abh jo hai so hai. Citizenship badal bhi tho nahi sakte 😂. But India tho India hota hai.. and I love this place dude !
imtehaan ho gayi intezaar ki, intezaar mein hum boodhe ho gaye, bal safed ho gaye hain humaare..
Isse jyada tho mein bhi kuch bol nahi sakti behen 😂.
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Competition hi itni badh gayi hai ki jo bande 20 saal ko hi shaadi kar lete the, woh abhi 30 par bhi nahi karte.😂
You know why ? Pehle education ke liye aage piche, upar niche ho aate hai logh. Uske baad tho naukri ke piche pade huye hote hai. Phir boss ke pichhe dum hilaye phirte hai promotion ke liye. Zindagi tho aise hi kat leti hai 😂… Shaadi tho settlement ke baad hi karte hain. Aaj kal tho padhayi ke liye 30 lag jaate hai, shaadi 40 ko karne lagte hai. 😂
Anyways abhi humari umar hi kya hai ? Padhayi kar lete hai 😂. Aur ham kat lete hain 😜😂..
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Ye sahi hai😂😂 13 saal ke bacche pyaar kar rahe hain 50 saal ke buddhe shaadi kar rhe hain aur jiski umar hai ye sab karne ki vo naukri ke liye dhakke khaa raha hai🤣🤣🤣
About our fate, 11th syllabus is a mountain 🗻, we will get 2-3 months less for it’s completion, will be very difficult for the students like me who are aspiring for competitive exams… especially JEE/NEET….. And after seeing Russia Ukraine war, I was also thinking about the fate of the students in mid of their MBBS😓kya batayein didi zindagi mein khush rehna bhi mushkil ho gaya hai ab toh🤧Narayan narayan 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Same was our case @Board exams.
10th ke exams ho tho gaye the…par school start hua July ko ( lockdown ki wajeh se). But thankfully maine start kar diya tha exam khatam hone ke next day hi…
Maine koi classes tho nahi lagwaayi. Because I know ki agar NCERT shiddat se kar liya tho bhagwaan bhi tumhe selection hone se rokane nahi waale. See, questions ke puche math pade rehna.. understand concepts well aur line to line padh lena NCERT ko.
Yeh Neet aur Jee dono ke liye applicable hai.
Even I take out time for study and relaxation. Aaj prep exams khatam huye isliye I am typing comments here kyunki exams ke end humesha mein uss din nahi padhti coz I am fully exhausted.
I belive on giving full to even the smallest of smallest exam. Pata nahi yaar satisfaction hi nahi hoti.
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I have confidence too ki tum kar logi.
It’s not about time but ek advice hai integrated le lena. I know the pains of not going for integrated. I am suffering now. But consistently mien kar rahi thi isliye I am in a much better state… Or else school wale boards ke naam pe hazaar exams rakh kar zindagi narayan kar dete hain. Isliye jitna ho sake to for integrated. But I have one more advice. Classes ke piche guide math chale jaana. Believe on self study. Tutorials waalon se kuch nahi hota…woh logh bas daraane ke liye upasthith hain. And relax bhi karna. If you are consistent, you can give 30-60 minutes of the day for yourself as a me time.
Exams ke time neendh bhi gawa lo chal jayega ! Ye tho samjha dena parents ko ki sothe samay time math pucha karo 😜😂
Jee or Neet ??
@Shriharshita
Thanks for typing so much for my sake😍, for JEE😅
Maine Integrated hi liya hai😎, bas abhi Jan mein hi join Kiya hai FIITJEE Punjabi Bagh, Delhi, but abhi usmein main NTSE ke batch mein hi hun… 11th waala exams ke baad se…abhi bhi opt kar sakte the but I think ki focus bohot divide ho jaata, aur sabkuchh hectic ho jaata isliye abhi 11th ka batch start nhi kiya. As for books, maine abhi jyada toh experience kiya nhi, lekin mere hisaab se inorganic ke liye toh NCERT bohot achhi hai, infact, poori Chemistry ke liye, Bio ke liye toh hai hi without any doubt, but I am not going for NEET that’s why……. Physics aur Maths mere khyal se sirf NCERT se clear nhi ho paayega… Vaise toh 11th ki NCERT hai badi jabardast, khaskar Physics, but phir bhi…..
Again thankyou very much🙏🏻 I have my Science exam tomorrow 😶and I am typing here😂🤦
And final words…….
You have worked hard… So karm karte raho aur phal ki chinta mat karo… kyunki vo humaare adhikaar mein nhi hai….Aapne itni mehnat ki hai NEET ke liye, aapko phal bhi avashya hi milega vo bhi madhur😅Narayan Narayan 😁🙏🏻
For JEE, I think you should dive into physics all the more. Many get on with Maths also but Physics is hard. I myself solve jee phy and chem related questions along with the neet type of questions. What I observed was Chemistry of Jee is easier than Neet and Physics of Jee is tougher than Neet. Bio = Maths, I guess. So, if you are giving Jee, do search for Chemistry question of previous neet papers… It may help.
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Baaki tho luck hai. Incase mera na bhi hua, I decided to take a drop. Halaaki I think maybe I wouldn’t require a drop but yeah..we aren’t astrologers at the end of the day 😌.
See, I again say concepts are more important than questions.
Ek baar concept ho gaya tho questions nahi aa rahe honge bhi ho na, practice se woh perfect ho sakte hai. But if you are stuck at concept itself, Q tho milon durr hain nahi ?
Anyways, I know FIITJEE makes one of the good question papers to prepare you all for JEE…it will be helpful yeah ! Good luck and all the best, girl. Just don’t take stress. Mujhmein woh bharkar hai isliye I saying to you in advance.
On the pre-cap Aryan gave her a chose again clearly he’s not forcing her,,and i know she’ll do the last round🤧Aryan is just amazing He’s literally the reason why most people watch This show if it weren’t for his character this show was doomed,,,Aditya is so full of himself i want to see his face when they actually get married for real infront of him he is confident Imlie will back out and he’ll marry her but what will happen to his ego when she goes through with the wedding?😂😂😂😂😂😂Can’t wait
Aditya becomes Devdas 💁🏾♀️ Just drinks and drinks and Aparna can’t call Imlie to save him then they have to learn to deal with their own bs 😀😀😀😀 no more Tfamily no more t family 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾
Imlie’s fainting scene is very funny 🙂 But Aryan doesn’t eat it, he takes the wedding vows by taking it in his lap and lowers it in the last vow, saying, Aryan Singh Rathore does not force anyone, the wedding is yours, the decision is yours, what you do is up to you. It has nothing to do with the forced marriage we know, this would suit Aryan too.👍👏👏👏Today’s hero, who tries to provide the life a woman deserves and sets an example to the society with this behavior! I wish you to reach the highest of love.. 💖💖💖
I always prefer one thing, “ghar tornelwalaki ghar kabhi banta nahi”.
For me, Rupi, Aparna, Nishant & Adi is that HOME BREAKER.
They 1st broke Malini’s GHAR. They knew Malini from 7years. They knew Adi used to love her & she too. Then Adi married her.
But Malini & Nishant forgot about those 7years after having Imlie. Though Aparna atleast slapped him. Malini did suicide stil Their heart didn’t melt down. Just because of their behaviour Malini changed her attitude. Just for them.
Imlie, okay Let’s agree she is only 19. But rupy wasn’t 19. If Rupy told her that, ” Imlie i know Adi did WRONG but it was a forcefull marriage and adi, malini in relationship for 7years. Adi doesn’t know you. So he will marry malini definitely. And he did. As they are married now, so please Don’t interfere Between them. Don’t break Malini’s marriage. If you told ot before marriage, i would do something. But you didn’t. So it isn’t malini’s fault. You should move on”
But NO..That FALTU rupy did HANGAMA. If i was in malini’s Place, i would give 100 tight slaps on rupy’s face. Rupy was the one who broke malini’s married life. If she didn’t support imlie that time, imlie would understand everything. But she didn’t. She played with two girl’s emotions.
Now adi, Oh rupy madam Tell your brother that You cheated with Malini & Imlie. Imlie didn’t cheat. Imlie still supported you for many times.
Leave that imlie. Let her live with aryan. Why all are you spoiling her life?? 1st they spoiled malini’s life & now they target to spoil imlie’s life.
T’family is curse for woman.
@Anamika they say an idle mind is the devils playground…. Rupy’s mind is only idling for who knows how long, her own child is not with her either. Yet Imlie was listening to this failure of a woman…, I’m just glad no more T family 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾 I can see them sailing into the sunset … over a waterfall and straight to hellllllll 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾
Imlie did everything cause of Rupy. Imlie was afraid and she knew she is wrong. But rupy made her understand that she is right.
Most annoying character this rupy.
I hope YOU are right. I wish not see T family further. I’m done with them.
God this Rupali and Nishant!! Seriously! They behave like this Trashditya never did anything wrong to anyone. And why should Imlie tell her if she wants to get married? So she could talk Imlie out of it and get her married to her Trashbhai? Stupid people! And this “OH SO THE GREAT TRASHDITYA”… doesn’t he get tired of being so full of himself? 🤣🤣
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I admit Aryan’s ways are harsh but there is always an option to choose. Imlie can always tell Aryan to go to hell I won’t marry you and he will say if that’s what you want then so be it. He will never tell her that she MUST do something. It’s her problem she always thinks it’s her responsibility to keep T-family happy. One must understand that each and every decision we make, we have to face the consequences accordingly. By no means Aryan should give Imlie and option that makes both her so called family herself happy. He has the right to give the option as he pleases and she has the right to choose it as she pleases. Then go to the end with the consequences that comes along.
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Today I liked Aparna a teeny tiny bit. Not much just a bit. Maybe the size of a grain.
Soooo I guess she won’t do the 7th rounds
..tired of this serial, imlie needs a man in her life. Why can’t she just move on herself instead of being glued to Aryan or Aditya. No message whatsoever to society
Someone in the previous updates did say that Aparna was senseless.
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Today she realized that Aru and Imlie are MFEO
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Can’t wait for the Wedding track 🥳🎉
And #AryLie’s non-stop nok jhok as well 😁
Aryan On Stage, The first embargo has already arrived for Aditya. We thank our hero for translating our feelings and even putting them into action.
Where does Adi find the right to hold accountable despite all the mistakes he has made? Wasn’t she the one who committed the biggest betrayal when she was married? How dare he accuse Imlie? What is your position in this girl’s life? You haven’t been a respectable husband, at least keep your current boundaries. As Imlie long ago stopped fighting for her life and began to retreat deeper and deeper into the Tripathi swamp she was stuck in, Aryan’s move barely saved her. As Aryan had said before, Imlie could not use her mind, which was emptied during the divorce. This victory belongs entirely to Aryan, we congratulate him.
Another absolutely “bakwas” serial, just like the unbearable ANUPAMA.
Undoubtedly Aryan×Imlie wedding will be the biggest star plus wedding this year! Just look at the guest list!
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From the bride to be’s side
1. The bride to be’s overly confident pathetic Ex husband who has temporary memory loss and doesn’t remember that he is currently married to a woman who is pregnant with his child yet her whereabouts are unknown, thinks no man is better than him and dreams that the bride to be will leave her husband to be to marry him.
2. The bride to be’s ex sister in law who has a child she should care but babysit her brother and wants the brother to marry the bride to be.
3. The bride to be’s ex brother in law who also pathetically want his brother to marry the bride to be.
4. The bride to be’s ex father in law, ex aunt in law and ex uncle in law who thinks their son is the best of the best no matter what he does and think that the bride to be will come back to their pathetic son just because of his overconfidence.
5. Bride to be’s ex mother in law who claims to treat the bride to be as her own daughter who is currently sad yet happy for the bride to be’s new life with her husband to be ( don’t know for how long though. After all, her son is the gold boy who is blessed by the gods 😒).
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From the groom to be’s side
1. The groom to be’s arrogant Aunt (newly introduced to the audience) who wants her niece to marry the groom to be.
2. The arrogant niece of the arrogant aunt of the groom to be who thinks she is already the wife of the groom to be.
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And then there’s our 2 sweethearts… the mother in law to be and the sister in law to be 🥰 (they are the best!).
And finally there’s the Bride to be and the Groom to be 🥰🥰😍😍…. oh wait those two aren’t guests 😁.
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Hope I didn’t miss anyone. So how can this wedding not be the biggest wedding of the year?? Everything is gonna be so damn fun!!
And I forgot to add! Wish Malini comes there and laugh at Aditya’s misery 🤣
Congratulations, a witty narrative style👍👏👏👏
Thanks 😅
@Ru, 😄😄😄 and all of us friends of both sides
Of course!! We will give our heartiest blessings to the newly weds 🤗
Is it going to be a consensual, coercive, or marriage of blackmail? Or, will it be no marriage at all?
Lucy, I think IP are making us feel that Imlie is emotionally blackmailed. She is not as she has choice of not scarifying herself for that idiot. I think she will consent after the fake marriage
I read somewhere that after the wedding Aryan will try his best to make his Aunt and Gudiya belive that the marriage between him and Imlie is not just namesake and that its love marriage meaning he’ll try some romance which will be fun to watch😂😂😂😂😂😍 not to give them an opportunity 😂😂so hoping we’ll see cute and Romantic Aryan from hereon😋☺
I still feel like a misleading scene. Will this marriage happen? Considering the two witches (guests) who came to the house, it must happen.
Why should the wedding not happen. The two guests are busy unpacking their suitcases and settling into the Rathore mansion,
The two already have the blessing of Aditya’s mother, tomorrow Aryan’s sister and mother will also be there, so the next blessing.
I don’t think they’re going to get married now because in February they were both dressed differently and today they’re dressed differently. I don’t think they’re going to get married now.
lol it is march now. it is logical that people (actors) also change their dresses
I sincerely hope it is as you say
Delia, I think they will have grand wedding as promised by Aryan. Today was just to make and announcement to the T family.
Adi has provoked Aryan – so it will be a grand wedding.
At lease I hope so as I am now in isolation for 5 days as was with someone who had Covid virus.
@Baat Bin
wait, today was only an announcement?
That means the precap is part of the fake wedding?
i am confused is this now the fake wedding or the real wedding?
if the real wedding comes later then i don’t think we will get a real wedding with Aryan-Imlie,this will definitely turn out to be an Aditya-Imlie wedding 🤮👎 and if that happens then i say goodbye to the series
On wikipedia it is written that Imlie is Aryan’s wife so I think they will get married
@Elena
thanks.
what I like is that Aryan,Imlie carries during 6 rounds so no time to stare at the hobby bigamist.
I can only hope she doesn’t start crying when he puts Sindoor on or puts the MS on her. 🤦♀️🙏
Wow this serial has made marriage a joke. Imli married Aditya two times and Aditya married Malini two times, This hypocrite Imli was so angry on Aditya bcoz of Malini and doing the same mistake and agreed to a forceful marriage. People are saying he gave options who the hell is he to give options. She should file a case against him . She always wanted to file case against Mali. I clearly didn’t understand why they left satyacam go , yes Malini did lie but what about he tried to kill Aaditya two times but everyone behaved that he did nothing wrong. Rupali started taunting Malini (even after 7 years of love affair) before Malini turned negative.
When you say who is he, are you talking about Aryan?
@Fed Up
Always funny what kind of twisted imagination some fans have just to defend what hobby bigamist and his toxic family.
Well if you’re asking who’s Aryan to give options to Imlie, then here’s the answer. For whatever the reason whether it’s fair or unfair, Aryan wanted to take revenge from Aditya. That is his business. Imlie has no right to interfere in his business and ask him to give up on his revenge. So if she wants him to change his decision just because she says so, then he has a right to put forth whatever conditions he wants. Imlie just can’t expect to have her cake and eat it too. Besides, why aren’t you asking why Aditya is adamant to see Imlie marry Aryan in front of him? Why aren’t you asking who he is to put such demands? Just because he’s the ex husband of Imlie? If she says she’s married can’t just shut with it? At least for some days and then figure out it’s not actually a real marriage? It’s his own stupidity he’s going to turn a fake marriage in to real.
Look at my man’s out there LOOK at him!!! So strong so powerful carrying this whole serial on his back 👏👏👏 Fahman Khan. Manasvi has a villain face I’ve said it before he’s now the villain in his own life. I’m just waiting for Malini to return and shoot him … in the face.
Jade, are you a man or a woman. I mean it could be a boy or a girl. Don’t mind pl, just wanna know
We agree on this, “Woman is not a subspecies of man” 👏👏👏
To understand what role Aryan has in Imlie’s life, I recommend you to watch the series, especially after episode 310.
This is not a relationship of interest, it is a marriage made to protect the interests of the person he cares about. She saw her as a mentor and took her as a guide to achieve success. Aryan, has tested his success by offering him various possibilities. He had to intervene to end his attachment to his old, worthless relationship and ensure that he could move on with dignity. This is exactly what Aryan did. How we understand this event depends on the point of view.
I totally agree. I will try to re watch 310 .Have re watched E 399 and E 340
why didnt narmada said : ”hello the son is mine ,whats wrong with you?”
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is it normal relatives making marriage announcement without talking with the parents? (aunt)
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naina,
i think many serials mispresenting passion with assault.
(grope,keep one’s sleeve etc.)
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marriage…
please help me understand it. no offence.
1-
”Pati Parmeshwar is a concept in South Asia that teaches that the husband is akin to a deity, being next to God. … Indian and Pakistani women thus regularly pray and fast for their husband. ”
”Pati is a title meaning “master” or “lord””
”To a Hindu wife her husband is her God and her life becomes one of the selfless service and profound dedication to her husband.”
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”Hindu marriage is considered to be so sacred ,it is believed that once marriage is complete by performing proper rites and ceremonies, the marriage can not be dissolved at any cost and even after death their soul remains united. Husband and wife are considered to be one soul. For this reason the gotra of the wife is merged with the status of husband. They can not dissolve their marriage at their own will. even after death for 7 lives”
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”As Hindu marriage is considered to be a sacrament thats why consent of the parties does not have much importance. If marriage takes place with a person who is a minor or of unsound mind and all the ceremonies and rites are performed then the consent becomes implied.”
4-without law you cant divorce in hinduism.
5-men can have another wife(s) without divorce in hinduism.
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*** are these 5 infos true in hinduism? (let law sections stay seperate, im looking an answer only in hinduism)***
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if those are true then you dont need to have consent.
this means forced marriage is ok in hinduism if you do all rituels etc.
???
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if those are true then Gul is just showing the normal like other producers. the gul haters ,whom jade gave nice answer , do you read?
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is there a way to break oath in hinduism?
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im just in an effort to understand. no disrespect. dont get offended. please help me.
@Metin, the hate on Gul is because she is not Hindu. These same people won’t say a thing about the producers who are. I am not Gul’s biggest fan, she has her own weak spots and bag of bad supernatural ideas but the whole marriage is sacred blah blah blah talk must stop cause all producers do it. The original was a Bengali serial that producer was Bengali – why not pile on them why only pick out Gul. Anyway all these rights and rituals were written by the hands of men until God proves these rules came from God I’m out and I will punch any man who tries to tell me what to do in his patriarchal face!!! – hope that also answers the question of someone who wanted to know my gender 👀 all religious texts are from the hands of men to tell women what to do and I do not agree. A women is not some sub species to man
Thanks, Jade for being a woman that you are. Don’t you think this forum is conspicuous by the absence of men. Obviously then that the comments are one sided. Not balanced at all.
I’m sure I’ve seen some men around the forum… I was arguing with one the other day cause he was defending that other creep Virat from GHKKPM- how the hell does that crap serial have 2nd spot? What kinda black magic is this cause Anupama keeps sitting at #1
Metin, I may help you with your queries. But before that I must know who you are by religion, nationality, race, gender to understand your mindset, and then endeavour to explain you about Hindu marriage system from scripture and legal perspective.
@Priest
actually no , you dont have to.
i dont need modified info for this comment.
all my life i liked the basics about everything.
yes we need some borders for living together.(laws)
but we dont need restrictions for sharing knowledge,for independent thinking,for understanding eachother.
ill give you ”Meet” way answer:
if intention is pure for knowledge, Knowledge doesnt need to know my info.
we all are friends here , some close ,some distant.
you can give your answer for imaginary common indian hindu man.
but please in english.
Not all the 5 infos are correct !
Hinduism believes in 1 life partner concept only… 5th point is ❌
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And forced marriages may have happened in older generations but now there is almost no forced marriages…yeah elders don’t accept love marriages but still no alliance found by elders is forced on children.
And also, people of old times never thought the alliance arranged by elders as force. For that matter elders never asked opinion but still marriages worked very well. Because at those times, people didn’t know the definition of ‘forced’ or ‘pressurized’. Marriages used to happen and people used to go on with their new lives. Even my parents’ marriage happened the same way. Neither my father was asked opinion nor my mother (anyways my parents were from within the family only, a bit distant in relation). There was no engagement also. The two families directly found dates for the marriages and it was done.
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And yes, let me put my own views on divorce as a Hindu.
I think much increased liberty for all people to decide their own lives without anyone’s involvement has bring forth the mad concept called divorce.
Divorce is the most senseless topic…really !
Because if anyone takes divorce due to reasons like abuse, extramarital affairs, etc…there is nothing wrong.
But I don’t understand what the hell is ‘incompatibility issues’ !
When both the couple are good human beings, what is the incompatibility nonsense ?
If I have to say about Imlie and Aditya’s marriage, forced marriage is nothing. Time will improve their relationship. Forced marriage is really not the issue.
Suppose tell me if there was no Malini, is there any scope of any drama ? Adi will be angry in beginning but will tell the family and try giving their relationship one chance because Imlie was not at fault too. Also he would have no feeling of guilt in his mind to put forth the truth in front of family as marriage was forced on him. But he didn’t tell family because marrying Imlie..this guilt for spoiling Malini’s life and his life made him shut his mouth infront of family.
But according to actual plot, Adi already loved Malini and engaged to her, Imlie’s marriage with him was meaningless. Because technically, no matter time will improve their relationship, but if Malini is around Adi, it will be Adi’s extra marital affair.
So, divorce is correct here. Not because of forced marriage but because of bigamy or ema.
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Hinduism does say that marriage is sacred but our culture also says that you don’t have to hang on to the marriage if there are legible reasons. Suppose if a woman faces domestic violence issues, her parents will bring her immediately back to the home and tell her to divorce the person. Why will parents like their child to suffer due to irrational issue ? But yes, if the issue is so called compatibility issues, parents don’t heed or advice their children to go for divorce. They will talk with the families altogether and settle the things between the couple. And I think there is nothing wrong in giving marriage even a billion chances if both are good human beings and don’t lift the hand to slap each other. A slap isn’t a huge problem too. Tell me how many times your parents may have lifted hand on you when you did something wrong when u were small. Also, sometimes there may not have been any particular reason too. Will you ever tell that I don’t want you as my parents and that you want to divorce them and break off the blood relation ? No, right ! So what is the issue if once of twice in the heat of the situation, your life partner hits you. And also when you know that he or she is a good human being and no bad, what is the problem if one time you get inferior. Suppose you life partner cuts your wings to soar up in air, that’s wrong. But if it isn’t the case, the slap should be taken lightly too.
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I don’t know if I offended anyone but that’s just my opinion.
Marriage is a sacred thing. And most possibly, think you have only a single attempt. Marriage is a big think so decide carefully. If you get into marriage thinking that maybe I can’t get on in the marital life, remain unmarried for life. That’s the best choice too. Marriage is not a joke, indeed !
I am overwhelmed. It’s a must read n heed comment for so many commentators here. Specially, for some whom I don’t want to name, and for those who must have created their own China wall that some commentators have got so inhibited, or even intimidated, that they seek to know the genders, religion , race, and nationality of some commentators whom they would like to respond, just for fore understanding of their mindset. Well done. Gul are you listening, had you been telling this story under the Indian Marriage Act, it would have been a different ball game. But since you have chosen the Hindu marriage system, you carry the responsibility of understanding it, appreciating it, and most importantly, not hurting the sentiments of those who believe in the institution of Hindu marriage. Otherwise, you have no business over here.
Oh lord it’s the loser again 🙄 anyone have a copy of the Indian Marriage act? We can get Raj married to it. Some people dream of Hrithik or Rihanna (or both we are not judging 👀) this Raj is dreaming about the Indian marriage act and getting excited
I read the first 6 lines I shall answer with 2 names
-Draupadi – 5 husbands
– Lord Krishna – 108 wives
And yes….my opinion.
Pati Parmeshwar is a wrong concept. Now I think more and more people are rejecting this concept from their heads. Keeping fasts for the long life of your partner can be mutual. Why shouldn’t both keep keep fast for each other long life, is what I think. Men are different, women are different but none is inferior to anyone…be it gender wise or work or status wise. In other way, no one should be inferior to anyone..
I don’t accept ‘pati parmeshwar’ concept.
And let me give evidence that things are changing.
In 1950s, women used to press the legs of men giving men a position of God.
In 1980s, women used to stand a little away while their husbands used to sit on chair.
In 2000s, women sat besides men (equality now, u see)
In 2021, men press the legs of women too…women press the legs of men too. Well, I am joking. But actually what happens is that if one of them is ill, no one thinks I am pati so pati should deserve respect even when wife is ill. Everyone should have a caring aspect in them no matter one is a woman or a man.
At my home, even my father cooks food. In many Indian homes, it is still a taboo for men to fool food at house , even if the man works as chef outside. Why ? Due to the same lati parmeshwar concept. But my father used to cook when he was a bachelor, and he cooks now also. Even my mother does. My parents make food together..everyday. (there is an irony here 😂, my parents do all household works, but myself being a girl, I don’t know even the H of Household chores. But I genuinely regret this. But not my fault too…blame goes to educational system of India).
Abolish pati parmeshwar concept..really !
I think one day this will happen..
@”i know who you are”
i love you according to your way of expressing yourself.
mixed knowledge&experience.
some emotions&expectations.
you would be a good politician the world needs.
go girl…
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about hitting
you know im a man.
i observed many things about the nature of violence.
problem is its like drug addiction.
one time is too much.
violence should only be used for only only defence and a few special situations.
i advice aikido for women.
think about it.
5600 km away from you is dinner time.
like arnold said :
ill be back 🙂 🙂 🙂
@Metin… Hi 👋
You addressed so many issues that my head is spinning to absorb it all 👍
Frankly speaking… I just don’t like this aggressive nature because things can so easily go from zero to one hundred in an instant… (⌚tick tick tick 💨💥) facts.
What happens after marriage is that men eventually take things for granted…
“This woman now belongs to me and I can do whatever I want with her, etc.” 👀
…coupled with aggression… and you more than likely would have a recipe for disaster…
That’s all… (dropped the mike 🎤 and walking away 👣👣👣)
@Metin, I agree about the addiction thing .. it’s true. Once done, there is a second thought. After second thought, there is no thought… hand is up automatically.
But yes. Divorce on a single slap is not morally correct if both of them are good to each other in general. Just my opinion though. Violence should be used in defence only and only if the reason of slap is the genuine mistake of the person. Technically, it’s wrong to hit anyone. But after all we are human beings.. one may be carried away at some point of time that things may get out of control and such mishaps of hand raising may happen. But if the person who hit u for unreasonable reasons feel sorry, one chance should be given.
I don’t think the ‘Thappad’ movie concept is a right thing.
Critics may find me wrong… But from what I have observed in my own family, I can say that a slap can’t break a relationship into crumbs… If two people are really understanding.
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But yeah I will keep two things u said in my mind. Will keep it under the future lessons column..
1. Violence once can be a drug addiction
2. Violence should be used in defence.
I agree these…💯 % correct actually 😊
@Yolande a.k.a. Naina
song is for you from joe cocker.1974 as a gift , my queen.
no matter what the mike does.
the song of love is inside us, will not stop to the end.
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You are so beautiful
To me
You are so beautiful
To me
Can’t you see
You’re everything I hoped for
You’re everything I need
You are so beautiful
To me
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in lyrics joe describes average love story all of us aimed.
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but after some time …
The Black Keys – Lonely Boy
Well, I’m so above you
And it’s plain to see
But I came to love you anyway
So you pulled my heart out
And I don’t mind bleedin’
Any old time, you keep me waitin’
Waitin’, waitin’
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in the end…
Die, Die My Darling – Metallica 🙂
Die, die, die my darling
Don’t utter a single word
Die, die, die my darling
Just shut your pretty eyes
I’ll be seeing you again
Yeah, I’ll be seeing you in hell
So don’t cry to me oh baby
Your future’s in an oblong box
Don’t cry to me oh baby
You should have seen it a-comin’ on
Don’t cry to me oh baby
Had to know it was in your power
Don’t cry to me oh baby
Dead-end goal for a dead-end girl
Don’t cry to me oh baby
And now your life drains on that floor
Don’t cry to me oh baby
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im doing a crossover @yours and @Shriharshitas comments.
same thinking about many relationships.
i made many married friends inflamed with asking same question :
-you took that girl/boy with many efforts. flowers ,dates, sleepless nights.
even for a smile you worked hard for hours ,days. right?
-right.
-now you are married. he/she is at couch farting.
you go home late uninterested,etcetc.
what if you two gave STILL the same EFFORT to eachother,
expressed your interest STILL to eachother after many years,
would you STILL break-up???
i dont think so.
love(aşk) is nice thing
but love(sevgi) is better with long breath.
arranged or love couples , doesnt matter.
every couple needs to discover new loving attributes in eachother lifelong.
@Raj
ok come with me to the basics
let hindu marriage stay where it stays.
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a man asking a question ”is this true?’
you know normal people would say yes , it is or no ,(…) is true.
what is it got to do with mindset and other things.
are your truths depending on nationality? x5 for all.
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then you may be paranoid or you may have bad intentions.
if not please answer me,if you dont mind, are those 4 true?
(a normal person answered 5. is wrong)
(if i could be able to reach the core knowledge and had proper time for deep research , i wouldnt ask.)
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(ps its comedic that you write those long sentences for NOT giving answer.
You give me more of a new research topic.
some Indians ,After saying that they are knowledgeable about the culture and religion, why are they hesitating to write the answer? )
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and one last thing:
im the one who is asking.by definition it means i dont have full knowledge.
i may be wrong. the responsibility of correcting it is at the answergiver,who says ”i know”.
There is no need to force the brain cells in this regard, because there is no logic. What a person believes depends on himself. It is certain that I will not worship a man or an object that I can make with my own hands.
Adytia is a hunk, disgusting. Take that character away, go back to Maline to kill Adytia. What a boring guy. Imlie has to see how good Ary is for her, he’s saving her from this despicable family.
Indian people are trying to tell us that marriage is a joke.Married and divorced Aryan and Imile marriage should be real.Adi should go back to his wife malani.produce please wrap up this show and start a new one.
I think Imlie was forced to fake marry Aryan so that he in turn withdraws the case against Adi over the false weather report. He must have told imlie this is his condition of keeping Adi out of jail bur he still needs to hurt him so they have to do a wedding even a fake one.
“A slap is not a big problem” is not accepted in any way. It is to educate children by using brute force and to contribute to the development of individuals who are prone to violence. Every individual who adopts this concept poses a great threat to society. I request you to be more sensitive and reconsider your views on this matter.
Marriage is a sacred thing, as long as there is love and respect.
Adopting or accepting a behavior that is wrong does not make it right.
Yes, marriage is a sacred thing as long as there is love and respect. But this love and respect would often be under test by fire, where every time one or both partner will not score 100/100, or for that matter, sometimes even pass marks. Therefore, the marriage system has to be robust, elegant, accommodative, forgiving, and committed to mutual forgive n forget, and get back together. That’s what Hindu marriage is all about.
It is just my opinion. No offense !
My opinions may be silly too.. I may not be right, I agree. But keeping your ideals set is not a wrong thing right.
I am really sorry if I offended your opinion in any way !
I am genuinely sorry !
Who said slap isn’t wrong ?
You don’t have to tell a child to get into brawl with someone. But still when the child plays he himself may get into a brawl with someone. No one teaches violence. Everyone learns it on their own.
I didn’t say I am teaching someone to get into brawl. I am talking about ones who do it in heat of situation. Any rational human being never lifts the hand intentionally. Kabhi kabhi unintentionally ho jaati hai. So when you know the human being is a correct person…giving a chance isn’t a wrong thing. Woh bhala galat kaise hua ?
And yeah, if there is no love and respect, there is no sanctity of the marriage.
No love means no marriage.
And domestic violence, constant disrespect, showing that u are superior, or not letting someone pursue their dreams…if these are the factors one’s face when into marriage, I think divorce is wrong.
But for a single slap or due to compatibility issues if anyone heads for divorce, that is stupidity.
That’s what I wanted to say.
if these are the factors one’s face when into marriage, I think divorce is wrong.
…replace the word wrong with right.. I typed so fast that I typed the wrong word there 😂
@bebe
harshita’nın söylediği birçok açıdan doğru.
-davranış eğitiminde insanlar hayvanlara benziyor.
hayvanlar hala belirli dozda şiddet ve zor görerek eğitiliyor.
-bazen neredeyse hepimiz karşımızdaki ayarsızlığı durdurmak için şiddet kullanmayı aklımızdan geçiriyoruz.
-psikoloji hala emekleme aşamasında. şiddet konusunda hala elle tutulur bir ilerleme kaydedilemediği işlenen suçların nicelik ve niteliğine bakıldığında görülebiliyor.
-bazı insanlar sadece şiddetten anlayabiliyor. özellikle bunun içinde doğmuş ve büyümüş insanlar.
-ayrıca o genel anlamda şiddet uygulamaya destek vermedi. basit ,anlık kızgınlıkla olabilecek tek seferlik bir hatanın , boşanma sebebi olarak görülmesini abartılı bulduğunu söyledi.
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ben onun cesurca düşüncelerini ifade etmesinden mutluyum.
öğrenmeye çalışanlara destek vererek , fikirlerini çekinmeden ifade edenlerle bu dünya düzelecek.
😂😂😂 Precap… omg… what a very creative way to say “no” 🙄😴 … 😝😝😝 my favorite jokergirl 🤓🙃
Marriage is really no joke! you say. I’m sorry but some of your ideas are like a joke..
Even if a person or spouse who lacks ethical values and exhibits primitive behaviors is forgiven, they will continue to use the power they have for their own interests. Such people can only recover with a psychological treatment.
So you say that if someone does a mistake unintentionally, you will not even give a chance ?
Just in the fear ki the acceptance may increase a person’s instinct to continue the act again, you will resent it and get ahead with divorce ?
How morally correct is that ?
When you commit mistakes, you forgive yourself and want to be forgiven don’t you ? A single chance is deserved for the life partner’s case too then. See, a single chance doesn’t make anyone inferior or superior. You give chance for the person you love and want to be with, that’s it !
Metin,
As we are human, it is certain that we will make mistakes. This does not mean that we will defend a wrong behavior and make it ordinary. In this context, I condemn the use of unauthorized force against all kinds of creatures, especially domestic violence against our women, regardless of whether it is more or less.
bebe
you dont get the full picture she paints.
in there marriage is one of the most important thing of a womans life.
do you know how the divorced womans threated in their society?
they are alienated.
most important three things are
i know her thinking way, she is a good person.
but you are judging her at the border of insult with some of your expressions.
secondly she says every healthy minded person (he/she doesnt matter) can cross the line for a moment. she wrote it clearly if couple knows and trusts eachother, couple can achive this hitting incident ,because marriage is bigger than that.
and you say it like you memorized a rule. life is fluid. memorized rules doesnt work.
third is your commenting style.
you wrote everywhere about her comment with at the border of insult language,because you didnt like her comment. i almost say you are attacking her. this is mental abuse. one kind of violence…
you love aryan. almost one of two words of yours is about it. but you didnt mentioned his rude ,violent behaviour towards imlie.
i dont want to continue this.
im happy that you are here with us.
every different voice is a wealth for a thinking brain.
welcome.
Hi Yolande, I was waiting for your and Lyn comments.
Thank you all for today comments. 🤗🤗
Please can someone help me understand
When Aditya is asking Imlie to marry him, her sad face etc. Seriously was she planning to get back with Aditya?
As a very clever and astute person – I find this weakness in her hard to digest. Aryan has told Imlie that he will not ever use her in his mission.
🤷♀️🤦♀️
Is this meant to convey that her belief and faith in Sita Mayaa and marriage wows to Aditya is her only husband.
In one episodes- she says to Aryan that her relationship is over with Aditya but she will not be able to love anyone else. I understood this as – she needs get over her hurt..
After all the humiliation’s and insults during the Adity/Malini wedding she is showed to burn – Aryan given handkerchief and saying that will NOT CRY for Babushaheb ever again. She is making that wow to Sita maya
IP : I request to change this old fashion and regressive “hindu marraige “ customs ( think practiced only by a minority), – that Imilie is following in her psychi
NB : . That women are only allowed one husband . This message gives the wrong signal & can perpetuates backword practice. Please, enable Imlie to find happiness for herself. She is blessed in that Aryan already cares for and love her unconditionally. NOTE: her gunpoint marriage has been rocky from the beginning and never consummated
Satyakam has told her – if you do not feel respected in the house leave…
Meethi has told her to look after her needs first – above others. Meethi also did not give her blessings to Aditya when the 3 were departed from PGD
Now which bit does this clever “ ghadi” not get?
From the new years resolution – we are lead to believe that she will look after her her “ T parivaar” . She tellArayan that Aditya is not part of that. Aryan know that in her won_Aditya is Big Part. But I didn’t think she meant to re unite with Aditya in marriage
Raj..
I don’t believe in the sanctity of forced relationships. It should be the choice of each individual to live with the person he/she is happy with and where he/she is happy.
Yes, force is prohibited. Mutual understanding, forgiveness and forgetting, accommodating makes marriage robust and resilient. Marriage does not work by itself in its contractual nature. We have to make it work. The sacramental nature of Hindu marriage helps us in making it work, making each other compatible.
Heyy don’t take my opinion seriously. It was just an opinion girl.
I know that everyone has different opinions and what you see in your family, influences what you think.
So I think that a single slap doesn’t change anything.
Anyways, I think that a highly rational thought is leading to increased divorces in present world. And people have forgotten what real love is, as people have increased options in life now. Because emotionally if you have a single life-partner who loves you, it’s the most pleasant life. Marriage again after divorce leaves a blemish…ek kharoch chhod jaati hai. You can never fully believe on marriage again. You always have have a sense of doubt that what if the relation may not work. Again getting into a married life with such a thought, will ruin the remaining peace of the life. That’s the reason I say a single slap shouldn’t lead to divorce. You give yourself many chances even after you may have committed millions of mistakes, so why not give a chance to a marriage when you know the person genuinely loves you.
Sorry again if this contradicts your opinion.
Adi has incited hatred in Imlie about Aryan, again all about him.
Instead of acknowledging Imlie’s ability as good journalist, front cover, good feature writer Adi lets Imilie feel its all part of Aryan big plan and nothing to do with her talents – undermining Imlie AGAAIN. Seriously, Imlie start to underestimate herself- that gadhi. May be you deserve Adi – if you going to bs so stupid
Aditya’s journalism skills and judgment about Imlie /Aryan relationship needs to be questioned. I am surprised that Imlie , who has has chosen to forget everything Aryan has done for her. Her her trust in Aryan is broken in one after Adi chatting to her. She has seen Aryans very deep pain and hurt re Arvinds death. Aryan has also told her he will not kill Aidtya.
Seriously and this is showing my negative quality – I would do the same. Adiya had lost a job but now got it back.
Where is the problem. I mean Imlie, allowed by Adit – hid it from the family of their marriage for a long time🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️
In the past Aditya has done very little to win over her affections or put up a fight for Imlie
In contrast,
Aryan has stood by her , supported her, saved her from falling soooooooo many times. Looked after her izzat and honour when her dress is torn, Mirchi bazzar, Malini and road runner. The T family are aware of Aryans support and care for Imlie. Then, why look so surprised when Aryan mentions Mrs IASR . They are all selfish except may be Arpanji but she has also gotten used to Imlie help
I like E339 – when Imlie signs the Divorce papers and explains her struggle with Aditya but he in his knee jerk response wants to marry Malini. Aryan facial expression – he feels her pain
E340, when Aryan save Imlie from falling on the doorstep of the T house is so beautifully shot
PS: We do not see Rupi Nishant or anyone coming to see if Imlie is OK. She is all alone. Only Aryan
If Imlie does not see all these qualities in Aryan – than Gudiya please do your best to make her jealous and appreciate Aryan . May be by than Aryan has gone back in to his dark stone face mood
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Not a negative comment but asking
Q: is there a dark side to Aryan, gripping of Imlie arms and taking control over her decisions like the time he deleted the text message from Adi at his wedding.
His rage and fight with Adi in the hospital? As I love the Aryan character I want to believe that this is because he , cares and has the insight is being protective . He has also got the foresight of the T wanting Imlie back – and he will not let that happen
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After all it’s a drama and I am still hooked on it
Q. Will the fake marriage include Meethi, Satyakam, Dev?
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Don’t know the answer to your second question. But the first one I don’t think that Aryan has a dark side. I think he’s gray shaded and very realistic. As much as I don’t like the arm griping I think it’s because he’s not a very gentle person. He has gentle traits but he doesn’t know how to use them. Most importantly I don’t think he had a girlfriend before considering his aim was revenge all along. And also this revenge may have fuelled an aggressive nature in him which prevents him from being gentle. Which leads to the annoying arm gripping. I don’t think he does that intentionally to hurt her. And after the wedding we may see changes in this behaviour of his. And when he finally realize just how much he actually loves her, he’ll treat her like an invaluable treasure.
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Talking about the decision making, I think it’s because if it’s up to Imlie she’s just fabulous in making the wrong decisions. I have to admit it bugs me when he does that but his precious gadhi annoys me the most because she doesn’t make the correct decisions.
sorry for the lengthy comments – got a bit carried away.
Anyway, if they don’t get married now, I won’t go after them,
Behaviors that restrict personal freedom also leave traces.
(such as brute force) If a solution is sought, it should be found by talking or discussing without losing respect. Also, marriage is sacred in all beliefs.
I agree !
I think there is no right and wrong in a correct sense when we think about the sanctity of marriage.
I know…old generation was a time which was different. It is true we can’t apply the same old principles in present timelines. Times have changed, so must the definitions of life and marriage too.
So, yeah I may be wrong. I may be right. I can’t differentiate. It changes from couple to couple actually. But as you can see nowadays, celebrities have made the marriage thing a joke. So somehow it makes common people make a deep rooted opinion that divorce is a big joke too. That’s the reason divorcees are witnessed as aliens 👽 at may places even now. People who take divorce for genuine reasons face criticism due to these celebs.
Anyways, I sign off from this topic.
As I said there is no clear conclusion when we talk about life. Life tho life hoti hai 😂. Life ke baare mein ekdum sahi definitions le paate hain,tho galtiyan hi kyun karenge. Galtiyaan hote rahenge. Divorce bhi galti ho ya na ho… Life moves on. We can’t vent about the past no matter we take right decisions or wrong decisions. Ye sabh tho marte samay hi yaad aata hain ki bhai life mein kiya kya hai..kya nalayakon waali kaam kiye, kya ukhada, so on 😂
Take it easy !
Happy discussion and happy reading ahead as well !
Celebrities’ marriages or lifestyles do not reflect the right concept and cannot be my example. I wish peace and tranquility for everyone
A Friday song for all of you
https://youtu.be/Q-GOFPM01d0
👌Thank you Jade
relaxing…
The issue we’re talking about isn’t fault, it’s disproportionate use of force.
Thank you Jade, I like this melody.
Ru
….Thank you for your response.. Don’t know the answer to your second question. But the first one I don’t think that Aryan has a dark side. I think he’s gray shaded and very realistic.
I think because Aru has bottled up so much emotions, grief after Arvind’s tragic death and because he is a boxer – his arm gripping is his way of expressing his frustration and annoyance towards Imlie without having a conversation.
PS : I do not advocate violence and aggression but if I met that gadhi – I would verbally slap her for always putting the T Family above her own needs.
The Makers of this serial have made a mockery of the sanctity of marriage!! Is DIVORCE so easy and quick? That spineless Aditya, first marries Imlie. Then in front of Imlie’s eyes, this idiot marries Malini. Then suddenly, Aditya realises that he loves “maid” Imlie. Then Malini divorces Aditya so that Aditya can live happily with Aditya. Soon, Malini wants Aditya back, so she plots to break Aditya- Imlie marriage, creates misunderstanding between Aditya and Imlie. She seduces Aditya, by drugging Aditya. Becomes pregnant. Then , Imlie divorces Aditya. Malini re- marries Aditya. Imlie exposes Malini, so Malini gets kicked out. During all this tamasha, Imlie stays at Aryan’s house, who falls in love with Imlie. After Malini leaves, Aditya wants Imlie back and wants to re- marry her. Imlie pretends to be married to Aryan to save Aditya.
Gosh, has anyone seen or heard of such “crap”??? Absolutely ridiculous..
How true. It’s not only marriage, they have made mockery of divorce too. Divorce is one of the most undesirable and dreaded thing. It is an extreme step to be taken when there are no options left, something akin to amputation.