Chandrachur Does Not Love Bondita

As of late, Barrister Babu fans have preached Chandrachur’s character. They believe that Chandrachur loves Bondita more than Anirudh and takes a stand for her where Anirudh fails to do so.

However, this is far from the truth. Chandrachur, to put it simply, is nothing more than a manipulator. He is also an abuser. He hurts his wife, Tupur, and is the cause of the enmity between the two villages. He is the one who killed Tupur’s parents. He is the one who is responsible for Binoy’s condition. He is the standard of an aggressive male predator.

Chandrachur, contrary to the beliefs of the viewers, has no hidden good side in him. He is a person concerned with the benefits the outcome has for him.

He is not respectable towards women and wants no good for them. The only exception is Bondita, whom he is obsessed with. Even then, the notable thing is that he doesn’t want Bondita. He wants the image of Bondita he has created in his head, that is, of a traditional quiet wife whose sole purpose in life is to please him and have kids with him. The version of Bondita he holds in his head is different from who Bondita truly is.

Chandrachur is an example of the ‘nice guy’ trope in fiction. A nice guy is a romantic by heart and will go to any lengths to pursue the woman he loves, even if it means hurting the woman. He is in constant denial of the woman’s feelings. He will refuse to take a no. A ‘no’ means a ‘convince me’ for him. He will also ignore what the woman wants. Her opinions, her beliefs, and her desires are not a concern for him. He only cares about about getting the woman. The nice guy is not so nice after all.

Chandrachur is the same.

He doesn’t want Bondita to do anything he disapproves of and be a submissive wife. For attaining this, he will go to any lengths.

Bondita’s consent and wishes do not matter to him. Even after being aware of Bondita’s love towards Anirudh, he wants her to be his and creates barriers between the two.

When Bondita agrees to become a Sanysasini in front of the Panchayat, Chandrachur is disdained. Not because Bondita would never be able to fulfil her life’s dream of becoming a barrister, but because if she becomes a Sanyasini, he could never wed her. Anirudh, however, is concerned about Bondita losing her identity and future with it. Which is why he wishes Bondita would say no to becoming a Sanyasini.

Later, he makes a deal with Trilochan. When the deal of Bondita’s marriage comes into question, he agrees and lies to Thakumaa and Sumati that Trilochan wants Bondita to marry Chandrachur only. He is aware this will hurt that Bondita, but he doesn’t care.

In conclusion. Chandrachur does not prevent Bondita because he sees her as a family member, like her mom and her sister, Tapur, do. He is doing that so he can force her into marriage with him and have kids with him. He doesnโ€™t want a bright future for her. He just wants her to have a future with him.

It is crucial for everyone to realize that and stop defending him and his actions.

A manipulator is still a manipulator.

An abuser is still an abuser.

One act of kindness doesn’t make him better. Being nice to one particular person for his own gains doesn’t make him a better person. He is an antagonist for a reason and should not be romanticized.

Anirudh is respectful to all women, while Chandrachurโ€™s respect only extends to Bondita, whom he wants to marry.

22 Comments
  1. Very well explained and we’ll written for those who don’t understand the difference between love and lust, freedom and slavery, liking and obsession. Come on guys, please look carefully and understand things. See the world with open eyes. Love is not only about achieving but also about sacrificing which our Ani has done it through his life not that CC๐Ÿ™„. Kudos to the writer!!

    1. Myrtle

      Thank you so much for understanding. I was honestly disappointed with everyone who has been saying this for the past week.

      I am happy you liked my way of presenting it.

  2. Myrtle

    Thank you so much for understanding. I was honestly disappointed with everyone who has been saying this for the past week.

    1. Pranbirlover

      This was the same opinion I was having… If you can, please upload one more- Bondita is not same as Soudamini…
      .
      Some people were saying that now, Bondita is like Saudamini… Do you agree with it??
      .
      If the answer is no, please post an update showing the difference between Bondita ( badi and Manorama track time) and Saudamini..

    2. Myrtle

      @Pranbirlover Consider it done! I don’t think she is the same as Saudamini, to be honest. Excited to write an article on that.

    3. Pranbirlover

      Thank you ๐Ÿค—

  3. Anushi

    Beautiful explanation sisโค, hope everyone will understand now๐Ÿ˜‰

    1. Myrtle

      Hehe, yes. I hope they do. And thank you for reading!

  4. Versi , do you watch BB on TV

    1. Anushi

      no sis, but i do on voot, don’t have subscriptions for any hindi channels๐Ÿ˜ but dono whether true or not, heard that viewership in voot is also counted for trp

    2. Myrtle

      Hey, don’t worry. I am sure Barrister Babu will not go off air. This is part of the reason every episode is ending on a cliffhanger these days. The makers are trying to increase audience retention and from the way the events have turned, the TRP will surely increase.

      You do not need to worry yourself. Stay hopeful. ^_^

  5. I mean versi di

  6. Lopa

    Well written dear even I commented on it on 12th August WU.

    1. Myrtle

      Yes, I saw! I couldn’t reply unfortunately, as the emails were different.

      Also, thank you!

  7. Pranbirlover

    Who is he actually?? Chandrachur or Chandrachud?

    1. Myrtle

      Google says it’s Chandrachur. ^_^

  8. Please also write your views on Bondita’s way ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™ everyone is calling her Saudamini and saying that she’s loosing her self respect and has become a puppy in love and she has forgot her purpose and dream and she’s blackmailing Anirudh ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™ I don’t think she’s at all like that! I want to know your views please! ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•

    1. Myrtle

      Hey, sure! I will post an article explaining that for sure.

  9. Very nicely explained .Thanks dear …

    1. Myrtle

      Thank you. I am happy you liked it!

  10. Riya _ queen

    Very well use of sharp word and very well explanation sis…….this explanation stands so high that it should change the perspective of people’so thought on chandrachur.
    Very nice post sis…….keep wrutting this kinda posts sis.

    1. Myrtle

      Thank you so much! I read your post on the same too.

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