Anupama 21st February 2023 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
Maaya checks a list of items she packed for Little Anu’s picnic and asks her if she needs anything else. Little Anu with sad face says mummy. Maaya says she knows Toshu is ill and needs her mummy and hence mmmy is unable to attend picnic and both her parents are sad, they would feel bad if she also gets sad, so she should smile. She tickles her and thinks she loves her more than Anuj and Anupama. She shows handmade keychain with their names and asks if its cool. Little Anu says yes. Leela while pounding haldi/turmeric yells and cusses Anupama for choosing to attend Little Anu’s picnic instead of Toshu’s doctor’s checkup. Hasmukh says Anupama is also needed by he family alos, its just a doctor’s checkup and anyone can go. Leela says nobody can take a mother’s place, Toshu would feel good with Anupama’s presence, what is the use of explaining them when a mother is not understanding. Hasmukh asks Vanraj to inform everyone not to disturb Anupama tomorrow.
Anupama sadly packs Anuj’s bag. Anuj emotionally hugs Anupama and apologizes for letting Maaya accompany Little Anu and him for school picnic instead of her. He says he feels sad more than her with his decision, but he doesn’t want new year’s issue arise again between them. Anupama says he is right, her attention would have been towards Toshu if she would have gone to picnic or maybe not, but she doesn’t want any issues between them. Anuj asks him to speak whatever is in her mind. Anupmaa says she felt bad, her brain understand, but her heart feels hurt. Anuj says he will miss her. Anupama says she is missing them from now itself and leaves asking him to sleep now. Anuj sits sad. Kuch Na Kaho Kuch Bhi Na Kaho.. song plays in the background. Anupama also stands sadly in corridor. Maaya notices her and closes door.
Next morning, Anupama gets Litlle Anu ready for picnic and asks her not to trouble papa and Maaya, sends her lots of pic, and take care of herself and papa. Little Anu says even she will miss her and hugs her. Maaya walks to her. Anupama says she packed Little Anu’s stuff and advises what Little Anu likes. Maaya thanks her and says she is going on a picnic with her daughter for the first time. Anupama feels sad seeing Little Anu’s hand slipping from her hand. Anuj walks to her and asks her to take care of herself. She says even he should and send her picnic pics if possible. Little Anu calls him and he gets into car. Maaya sits in front seat besides him. Anupama stands waving bye with tears in her eyes. She gets a call.
Vannraj gets romantic with Kavya. Kavya pushes him away. He gets angry and asks what kind of behavior is this, he is her husband. Kavya says he is her husband and not her owner. She says after whatever he did with her, he has fallen in her eyes and would never raise again in life; she has nothing left for him in her life, no anger, no love, no sympathy; she would rather bear a burning coal than his touch and he feels like a stranger now. Vanraj says this is real life and not a drama, if her love for him died for such a minor issue. Kavya reminds that he had said that he has no feelings left for her, she realized its possible. Vanraj asks just because she lost her modeling project because of him. Kavya says she lost her career because of him, now she will not let him break her again, etc. Leela overhears their conversation and thinks not only Anupama, even made ki katori has gone mad.
Anuj, Little Anu, and Maaya reach picnic venue. Pass checker welcomes them as Mr and Mrs Kapadia. Anuj says she is Maaya and not his wife. Maaya feels happy and thinks now its only 3 of them from hereon. Anuj feels happy seeing Little Anu happy enjoying games. Maaya says their daughter looks so happy. Anuj says yes and continues to cheer up Little Anu. Anupama at home feels sad recalling Anuj’s words. Parents asks Anuj if Anupama didn’t come. Anuj says yes and introduces Maaya as Little Anu’s biological mother. Other parents address them as Mr and Mrs Kadpadia. Anuj clears again that Anupama hasn’t come and she is Little Anu’s biological mother Maaya. Maaya asks Anuj is it necessary to explain repeatedly. Anuj says yes.
Vanraj tells Anupama that he feels peaceful when she is present around him. Anupama warns him to dare not repeat such words, she is happy with her husband and daughter. Maaya walks holding Anuj’s hand and Anuj doesn’t mind.
Update Credit to: MA
I dont like anuj anymore.. He keep saying he misses anupamaa but whenever anupamaa is around he gaslights her ignores her guilt trips her and this time left her alone😒
Mayaa was a feminist right? Which feminist does that? Even bar dancers and pr*stitutes are actually better thn her
When will baa die?
I think this change of Anuj’s character was planned way ahead by the makers.
Remembe Anuj’s surgery? The doctor said post operation his nature and behavior can change a lot. So the makers had already decided to make him Vanraj Part 2!
Look how much he has changed from motivating Anupama every step to pinpointing her shortcomings now.
Choti Anu wants Anupama. Not Maaya. She enjoys Maaya’s company for sure. But not seeking her as replacement mom!
Are the makers trying to prove that Vanraj n Anupama are made for each other shit? Or Anuj isn’t right for Anupama too?
The writers have changed. Guess the writers now are ex writers for Ekta.
Better to stop watching this completely. Once TRPs fall, they will bring the show back on track!
@Kalpana, we don’t want the show back on track, we want a NEW show with Anupama living alone,happy and content and at peace…finally🙏🏽
@Surabhi, agree.. which feminist acts like this? And Anuj is a hypocrite.. bluffs about respecting Anupama, but himself does something else.
You made me laugh o much when you asked “When will Baa die ” No doubt this story is getting more than irritating – As soon as we get interested the story takes a turn for the worst – Thank you Surabhi for making me laugh !
Just coz ek bar anupamaa dance competition me nahi pahochi to kya anuj uske liye zindagi bhar sunayega uffff hadh hai.. Go to hell with your adopted daughter and her biological mother huh.. He cant see choti sad so can he imagine how anupamaa is toleraring the pain of his paralyzed son? He should have tried to cheer her up but he left her alone.. Ye dekhne vapas ayi anupamaa?
Anuj is becoming like everyone else…disregarding anu as soon as she makes a mistake and focusing on that rather than the positive things she does. A mother has to share her time between her kids. She can’t be there for everything in her kids life but that doesn’t mean another person should take over her role unless it’s the dad. Anu has a paralysed son, this is any mother worse nightmare. And here anuj is making anu feel bad over a school function when anu put everything aside to attend it. Let’s say they adopt another kid, and that kid is sick or something in little anu’s school event, will anuj be mad as well anu can’t put her focus on a school event? I am sure no.
Anuj knew beforehand how much anu is involved in her kids life. And no matter what what age kids always need their mother. Anu has already so much going on but still he adopts a child within few months of their marriage. Then expect anu to be everywhere. Anu was supposed to build a career, get her degree and everything and there she is raising another kid for the fourth time and getting blamed as soon something is isn’t perfect
Anuj has become Vanraj, typical male chauvinist demanding from the wife. Anuj is forgetting how his family disrupted MAan after their return from the honeymoon. Barkha’s scheming spoilt their newly married life. Anuj said in an episode he cannot recall a happy time since marriage. He is the one who put pressure on their marriage with his family and adopting a child.
CA should be taught to adjust to her family rather than be made to a spoilt brat. Granted CA shouldn’t miss out on her child hood due to ever demanding Shah family.
I stand by Anupama 90% and her style of handling her responsibilities. But not her running after Baa & Vanraj’s demands. Is no one else there to take that spoilt Toshu to the Doctor? Anupama is too emotional to her kid’s demands. It is high time her kids handled their responsibilities. They were independent enough to find their partners in life but not able to manage their lives!!! If Kinjal leaves Shah house all the drama will be over.
Anuj is disappointing. A sick son and a child’s picnic are not comparable. He is putting Anupama in a very difficult position. Toshu has been very nasty and demeaning to Anupama, she continues to love him and care for him. As for little Anu, she is getting h to be too spoiled. Anupama is too good for Anuj.
Anuj yesterday was behaving so rude and now his hugging her and all that drama, I don’t understand how that mans mind works and obviously if you don’t take your wife they will think another woman is your wife and of course is okay with Maya being know as Anuj Kapadias wife. Anupama can feel Choti hand slipping but not her own husband my goodness. As for Vanraj and Kavya that relationship was dead the day they got married that relationship is running on fumes. They want to divorce each other then make up he gets her fired my word that relationship is just so toxic but also that relationship was based on betrayal and lies so nothing good can come from such a relationship. Kavya and Vanraj is just a red flag. Vanraj subconscious hasn’t realised that he loves Anupama not Kavya think about back then when they divorced Vanraj did not want a divorce he couldn’t bare anupama happiness without him and all that, he thought Kavya was ideal all because she was fancy, had a job and was a modern woman and thought anupama was wrong all because smell like spices and it was an arranged marriage. Kavya needs to free herself from Shah house because she is better than that along with Kinjal both of them need to free themselves if they want a proper life ahead. Anuj I’m still disappointed in you because if you promise to be with someone you don’t sulk because they are chose someone else besides Anupama didn’t go to have a picnic, but I also think the writer and audience is to blame because you put this image of a so called hero or heroine in such a good light and an antagonist character in such a bad light that even if they slip from the badness and become good you won’t believe they are good and a good character when they make bad choices they are alway see as tho they are good and that not the case. Good character have made so many stupid decisions but because they are good they are seen as right and people don’t see that. I mean which good character make no mistakes or which human makes no mistakes. But that is just generalising this through out the shows not just Anupama.
Stop this toxic show now Star plus.
For anuj now anupama is only aaya of choti anu now he is not treating anupama as wife of anuj if anupama able to fulfill duty of aaya then anuj will happy
Tub yeh anuj anupama bus meri choti ka khayal meri choti ki Khushi kare tumne to Main tolerate bus kare jaa raha hai bus Har time bus choti choti
As a wife anupama ki kya position for anuj now nothing
The whole show has been twisted, it is becoming like other silly shows. The story writers need to think what are the audiences expectations. Originally Anuj waited for 26yrs for Anupama, all of a sudden his mindset is changed for another more younger and more modern woman. How can the writers make a big fiasco of this show. What Anupama seems to be a slave to both the families, she can’t have her own dreams. This is becoming pathetic. Anuj has to be strong and protective of his wife, not having one sided story. Little Anu is a good character but don’t make her into a brat. Which she seems to have become with Anuj’s over protectiveness. This show is going downhill. I know of people who have stopped watching this now. Makers pull up your socks and get a proper story line.
The only way to revive this show or make a sense out of this bs is to let anupama get another divorce then ACTUALLY HAVE AN INDEPENDENT LIFE which this show was apparently about but we know they wont do that cuz of dumb maan bhakt overall i dont think even the writters know where they r going i will lever understand this type of script writting where they dont have at least an idea for the FULL STORY instead of just making it on the go like wtf
Conclusion is Anupama is better of being single!
Can’t blame Anuj because he doesn’t want a repeat of what Anupama did during CA concert where she promised her that she will be there but then she wasn’t because of circumstances. The only way to win back Anuj’s trust is to surprise them and turn up at the picnic venue to spend time with Anuj and CA leaving everything else behind.
While Maaya will be dreaming hand in hand with Anuj, she should wake up to the reality of Anu and Anuj holding each other together, just like it happened during cake cutting.
Proud of Anupama’s ability to be scrum master at shahs
Hopefully Maaya’s saaya will disappear soon.
@Razor..is it only the play Anupamaa let Anuj down in, I’m sure there were numerous other instances where she let him down to run to Shahs!
How many times can he give her a chance for her not to change and take it for granted that she can come and go as she pleases, especially as Vanraj gave her zero freedom when she was with him.
Anupamaa made no move to draw boundaries and find a balance. She could have dropped CA at school and then spent a few hours with Toshu to give other members of Shah family a rest, done this while Anuj was at work.
Why, cook, clean and wait on Shah family whenever they snapped for service?
Anuj wanted Anupamaa to be there for him but never stopped her from sorting out her children. He was/is against how Baa always blames Anupamaa for everything Shahs do.
Anuj has been neglected and put on back burner many times by Anupamaa.
When a marriage breaks and one person finds a partner, the other person also wants to find a partner just to show that they too can find love after divorce and to boost their worth and self esteem, but this is not a license to treat new partner like shit but to really improve your life and how your ex how they were the failure and not you!
In my opinion Anuj has not done anything wrong YET so I cannot judge him.
Maaya falling for him is one sided as yet. No one can help it if someone fancies them, happens all the time, but not everyone follows up on it.
@kally past is past, this time anupama managed well, made sure thoshu is attended, simultaneously got time for herself. she really couldnt have enjoyed picnic well when thoshu is unwell. so it wise for anuj point of view to give her own space. maaya is little anu mother. if anupama can coordinate with maaya for her daughter bday celeb, nothing wrong anuj coordinating with maaya for his daughter’s happiness. taking care of little anu with maaya doesnt mean anupama is lesbo or anuj is cheater,
@Razor,can you really hear yourself? Anupama is a mother of THREE grown kids!! CA is like somewhat of a grandchild to her at this point, yet she accepted this man’s WHIM of adopted a WHOLE child one week after marriage!!! Who does that??? Is it her fault that he didn’t have children of his own when it was time for him to do so??? Now he wanted to raise a child with her after the fact that she’s lived a whole life doing that ever since she was 18!!! This woman has had her life f**king STOLEN from her, right from her mom who shipped her off to sasural like cargo and 18, to her saas who has been nothing more than Ursula the villain in her life for 26 years,to the terrible husband she got in Vanraj and subsequently ungrateful brats that were Toshu and Pakhi and now Anuj, Mr. Saviour lover that turned out to be Vanraj in sheep’s clothing!!
She’s f**king 46, she should be sitting watching dance concerts not attending and dancing with a small child, yet she tried her level BEST to be there,for everyone, all the time!!! But Does she get any thanks??? Of course not! Because people can only see what she DOESN’T do instead of what she does, even you viewers! You’re thesame as Shahs and Kapadias, everything is about what Anu doesn’t do, where Anu DOESNT go, who Anu DOESNT stay with, HOW stupid Anu is and so on…SHAME on you for supporting Anuj!! She explained everything to him before marriage! She’s ALWAYS going to have responsibilities towards her children and towards the ex parents inlaw she now considers parents. He agreed,he witnessed everything and yet he decided…so problem kya hai abhi?
Anuj wants Anu to be the mother to the little orphan child he adopted thatbhe couldn’t get! He wants to live vicariously through Anu and anything that threatens that he gets agitated and start using emotional blackmail and gaslightung techniques to get his way….in many ways he is even MORE disgusting than Vanraj because at least Vanraj came out BOLDLY to suwo who he is, Anuj is nothing more than a green snake under green grass bas!!
There is no point in gaining Anuj’s trust. He has lost his charm. His 26 years of love was Phoney. He now only loves his daughter CA, he needs an Aya for her as Anupama. How many times he accused Anupama of not caring for CA as she is not her real child, that is nasty.
Anupama should divorce Anuj throw back all his money at his face. Since New Year he shows more love for his money, business and CA. He is insulting A at every opportunity. Anupama can do better on her own with her life skills ability. No amount of money is worth ones own self respect.
The whole issue of already spoilt Pakhi misbehaving happened with his family Barkha & co manipulating her, he seems to have forgotten that…
I wonder if the writers won’t Anuj to be
Bipolar. Don’t like this track and this
MAAYA has no guilt and remorse knowing he is married. Anupamaa must return and boldly claim Anuj
This is kind of giving a warning that people with children should think twice before remarrying.If you can’t expect empathy from a character as nearly perfect(or portrayed so) as Anuj, then what can you expect from the more flawed majority? Anu was wrong when she chose cooking dinner over Choti’s competition. But this time it’s the situation that is unfavorable.Leaving aside every thing else, Anuj shouldn’t have asked Maya to go with them. How would he feel if Anu and Choti went with Vanraj for a trip 🙄
Please don’t destroy Maan
*Fair warning* *long post ahead*
Here’s the thing, Anuj in many ways is the “nice guy” version of Vanraj. Because unlike Anuj, Vanraj has the balls to be emotionally ABUSIVE outrightly. Anuj uses loaded words and skewed behaviour to pass his point across,all the while pretending to be Mr. Lover man.
Look, as many people rightfully pointed out here, Anuj KNEW what the deal was deciding to wait for Anu for 100 years and even after getting with her,she warned him.
The truth is, Anu makes it so EASY for these men (and everybody else,really) to trample on her. One very dark side of human nature is the power one tends to feel when they know they’ve gotten hold of you in one way and another and people like Anu make that shit f**king easy for people. I had said this a few weeks back, Anu should LEAVE *everyBoDy* and i do mean EVERY.f**kING.BODY for at least 6 months,move to an ashram, get frequent FULL body massages, practice yoga CONSTANTLY for inner peace and balance, eat really clean and healthy, get lots of exercise and morning sunshine,pray and meditate by a flowing river, drink lots of water and get LOTS and LOTS of sleep.Then when she gains full inner and outer balance, she should return, divorce Anuj, gain ground financially, get a house and live life ON HER OWN TERMS. She can allow frequent interaction with her children ONLY and even at that, there must be suitable boundaries. no ONE is allowed to be bratty, disrespectful or even raise their voice above a certain level at her. Talk normally, relate respectively and then go back home. Other Shah members should be kept at bay. Same for Kapadias
As for Anuj, he can choose to wait another 26 years for her if he doesn’t want to move on or Marry Maaya legally for the sake of CA and eventually fall inlove with her. In all honesty, Anuj and Maaya look better together and balance out each other’s personalities quite well👌
Anu can focus on building a life that feels good from the inside,devoid of men and families that only seek to take,take and take and give only crumbs in comparison. This show is titled ANUPAMA na? Its HER Journey,its HER life. She doesn’t need a man please! Especially since their all so emotionally violent towards her sweet,innocent heart. Personally, I’d be WAY more interested in watching a show that shows how a woman can rise from the ashes of two failed marriages and still ended up on top rather than watch rona Dhona, jhagra, emotional blackmail,compromises,insults and befitting replies etc…
Where is Anuj’ Kaka and Malvika?
Was thinking the same – Characters disappear and nobody says anything
I mean if Anuj is really a gentleman, he should shows his disgusting attitude in front of everyone tat he is not happy Anupama always put Shahs in top priority instead of venting his anger on Anupama! He appeared as a understanding n accomodating gentleman to the public especially Shahs, but make people think tat Anupama is being unfair to Anuj! If Anuj make himself clear tat he is NOT happy with Anu putting Shahs top priority at least Anupama can show Baa tat her husband is not happy, and she can anytime tell Baa tat her priority is her husband!
The show is becoming do annoying.anupama left her paralyzed son just to please Abuja n CA. But Abuja left her alone n went with Maaya(the feminist)…too bad.i will soon stop watching this show.
The show is becoming so annoying, anupama left her paralyzed son just to please anuj n CA. But anuj left her alone n went with Maaya ( the feminist). I will soon stop watching this show