Anupama 19th March 2023 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
Anupama confronts Anuj for disconnecting himself from everyone and troubling himself. Anuj ignores her. Anupama asks him to fight wit her or do anything but speak. Anuj tries to leave. Anupama pleads him to talk to her. Anuj refuses to talk. Anupama says Little Anu left with her wish and when he wants her happiness, why is he acting like this; Little Anu will return soon to meet them. She continues to persuade him and asks if he has gone mad. Anuj breaks things and says he has gone mad. Anupama asks him to break more stuff but talk to her. Anuj shouts he doesn’t want to talk to anyone. Barkha, Ankush, and Dimpy gather. Anuj shout how can everyone react normal, he can’t as he lost his only daughter. He says Anupama promised him that they will not let Little Anu go, but didn’t even try to stop her and even stopped him saying they shouldn’t trouble her; she didn’t as she has her 3 children with her; he suffocates in this house as he images his daughter everywhere; it reminds his helplessness and defeat, Maaya took away his daughter in just 15 days; Anupama can fight the whole world for her children, then why didn’t she fight with only one Maaya for his daughter. Anupama stands speechless.
Barkha tries to stop Anuj. Anuj warns her not to interfere and tells Anupama that she not only sent Little Anu away from him, but also herself away from him; she reminds him of his defeat; she was his pride and life, but now a biggest reason for his loss; its difficult for him to even look at her and tolerate her; their relationship and love don’t matter to him anyone and has lost trust on everything. Anupama asks if he at least trusts her. Anuj he used to, but not now; he couldn’t breathe without her before, but now he can’t breathe in her presence. Anupama stands heartbroken. Dheeraj and Devika walk in their usual jovial style and say they are back. Anuj walks away from there. Anupama stumbles. Devika holds Anupama. Anupama breaks down holding her.
Devika after hearing Anupama’s story asks how could she let Little Anu go with Maaya, she would have smashed Maaya if she was present here. She asks why she is hiding her pain and trying to comfort Anuj. Anupama says she can understand Anuj’s pain, he doesn’t even know what he is doing. Dheeraj scolds Anuj for blaming Anupama for Little Anu’s departure. Anuj says who else to blame them, Anupama hahd a 15-day challenge with Maaya and let her stay in their house. Dheeraj says Maaya is Little Anu’s biological mother and if they had gone to court, she would have won the case; Anupama understood this, but he doesn’t want to accept truth. Anuj tries to leave. Dheeraj stops him and says he is doing a mistake and asks him not to lose Anupama so easily.
Anupama continues to share her sorrows with Devika and cries vigorously. She asks Devika to do something and get Anuj out of this sorrow or else something will happen to him. Devika says everything will be alright, says they came here to give some good news. Anupama asks what is it. Dheeraj holds Anuj tightly. Anuj resists. Dheeraj says he and Devika came here to play holi with them and give a good news tha they have decided to marry. Anuj calms down. Dheeraj says he thought of a second marriage after seeing Anuj and Anupama’s bonding, but seeing them now, he wants to smash Anuj’s face. Anuj says sorry and says he and Devika deserve happiness. Dheeraj says even Anuj and Anupama deserve happiness; Little Anu has left, but he has Anupama with him who he got after 26 years and should let her go so easily.
Precap: Dheeraj asks Kapadias what are their plans for holi. Barkha says its Anuj and Anupama’s first holi after marriage. Anupama says its even Pari’s, Pakhi and Adhik’s first holi after marriage. Anuj walks away from there and questions her how could she forget everything and move on so easily. Anupama sits crying.
Update Credit to: MA
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I dont understand this anuj.. He said he dont have anyone except GK.. Par fir kahi se pehle mukku aagyi fir bhaiya bhabhi fir kahi se chhoti ko le aya fir dheeraj.. He is mysterious but thn blames anupamaa for everything wrong that happens just like shahs does
It’s not his fault but the writers of the serial 😂😂
Lol exactly! He has a grandfather/father type of figure, a sister, a cousin and his wife whom he thinks of or at least used to think of as his own siblings, he has a niece and nephew (or whatever Adhik is to him), and also has a close bond with Bappuji. Doesn’t a middle aged man who’s as fun loving and jovial as Anuj also have friends besides Dheeraj? But no, 24/7 he cribs about being a loner.
Of course the woman is to blame for everything that goes wrong in a relationship. I experience this phenomenon daily. Its bad to have an obsession about anyone or anything because it makes us blind to reality. That is the lesson that Shahi is managing to portray. Anuj has forgotten all his obsession for Anupama which has been superseded by his obsession with CA. Also his jealousy for her former family (especially her 3 children) is being manifested as he keeps harping on about this fact.
Please understand
Anuj already had a brain surgery and Doctor claimed that in future he may get insanely angry.
And he is now in edge of slipping into depression. No person has control over themselves in such conditions.
Anupama even after being aware of this, failing to handle him. She should have atleast acted as the way Anuj would get consoled.
For Anuj, he feels Anupama is not suffering like he is. He doesn’t know even the reason of his suffering.
He is innocent.
And the people who compare him with Vanraj are absolutely 10yr old kids. They will flip easily again.
lol, true.
Anupama is portrayed as such a stressed out character now. A normal human being would have a stroke and heart attack with all this stress. This is not a progressive character at all. What a terrible life for Anupama!!! after her second marriage to a modern husband!!! This is even more shocking than her first married life…
Anuj was introduced as new HOPE in her life!!!!? His character has lost the charm.
CA, writers have ruined her cute character. She was happy in her orphanage. No one will want to foster or adopt a child anymore.
I have stopped watching. Just read the written updates.
So anupama sending little anu is wrong
But when anuj was saying to maaya u can live with us at oour house no body will say anything to u
So is it OK for anuj to keep maaya forever in house
That means .if maaya sat I will stay at one condition that anupama should be my maid
Then anuj would have said yes of course u can make anupama ur maid no body will say u anything
So .for anuj no problem if maaya make anupama maid just because he don’t want to loose choti
He can even marry maya to stay with CA.. Hadh hai ye obsession.. 25 years ka pyaar hawaa hogya
So true
The way anuj is saying to anupama that u did not let me try
What try anuj is talking. About
Anuj would have definitely marry with maaya and give divorce to anupama so that he can’t loose choti
@Abc
Even If anuj tried the first the court would have done would have been to place CA back in the orphanage till final decision by court. According to court Maan spending few months with CA won’t have mattered compared to CA’s wellbeing n safety while staying at orphanage, and staying with maya out of question; court have preferred for her to continue staying at orphanage till verdict.
In this case what would have anuj done. Why is seeing CA n anupama as thing of winning and losing, they are humans.
Please make it interesting and it is high time that Anuj realises his mistake and his rude behaviour towards Anupama
My goodness this couple have not even spend a half year of their marriage together and this is what is happening. Now I think that love is a baseless thing there is no emotion called love in us humans, it’s only needs n benefits.
Maya failed to create fear in Anupama’s heart against Anuj’s love but she succeeded in sowing seeds of doubt in Anuj’s heart.
Is love really so weak as it is shown. Anuj’s 26 years of love became meaningless infront of his love for his daughter of few months. Anupama again became a doormat and mahatma in her love for anuj.
Anupama’s all progress after affair revelation is ruined. Anupama is back to 0 infact in negative in character progression. She again trying to please everyone around her. CA wants this, shahs want this, anuj wants this but what she wants still clueless. She doesn’t have any share and say in her any relations. Infact her previous bond with samar is also cant be seen.
Why she didn’t let anuj fight the case and let him lead this CA’s matter, she doesn’t always have to be the leader to solve every problem. She could have asked anuj to handle this matter saying I gave no clue to handle.
Let him fight.
And this Anuj blaming anupama for letting maya stay for 15days than what was he doing by allowing her to stay for a month than forever knowing maya’s character. For me it’s confirmed that anuj used anupama for adoption and when his this purpose is not fulfilling he is showing his real “26 years of love”.
Seeing Anuj’s behaviour and depression, if anupama in her mahanta decides to let maya enter his life for bringing CA back won’t be a shock. He is now forcing her to make sacrifices. He have problem when she makes sacrifices and he have problem when she doesn’t.
Only character that made progress in this entire serial is Kavya. She changed from a home breaker n jealous woman to trying to be like anupama to realising her faults to understanding that she has her own personality to wanting to focus on career…great progression. Rest every character including anupama are just becoming their worst self.
We may question the lifespan of “love” but we can also see how fickle Anuj is. The loss of trust can NEVER be restored even if Anuj comes to realise his mistakes. This comment is general, nor specifically relates to the character Anuj but to men/humans as a whole.
Time to ditch Anupama serial. So much stress and trauma to a woman is not good for viewers either.
Watch Teri Meri Dooriyan, looks refreshing to watch. Positive cheerful characters. Very entertaining and enjoyable 😊
Like I said yesterday BOTH ARE WRONG…..ANUJ IS VERY MUCH WRONG = AS ANUPAMAA IS VERY WRONG. But anuj has no right to speak about fighting and holding on cause he DIDN’T have to listen to Anu. Why must Anu only fight ? Why can’t THE MAN FIGHT?
Like I feel like slapping him for talking to much when himself must look in the mirror. Anu, did definitely not fight for this child enough…. but stop using her three children! Cause I am sick of hearing this over and over.
FINE ANUJ YOU ARE ALONE!
And as of trust let’s not talk about that.
Writers honestly I am not Stan Anuj nor Stan Anupama but I am tierd of this toxic relationship. Stop this! Cause your lines make no sense anymore
It sounds like Anuj is saying this…
“Anupama you must fight, you promised… I will sit back and watch and care and cheer … you must fight” ….. If maybe she had her husband that could have helped maybe that would have been good.
Rajan sir is writing the typical sterotype “A mother must fight for her children .” Father+Mother must fight for thier child. I am annoyed as F@ck.
Trust Anuj….. let’s talk about it Why should Anu trust you again after you hid the kiss? And if Kavya didn’t tell you, would you have found out ?
I really feel bad that he lost his child but I wonder if he would have reacted the same if it was Anupama. What if something bad happened to her? Would he react the same? I wonder if Anu realizes this man needs space… he just doesn’t want HER. He wants his daughter that’s it .
Just get his daughter cause it seems Anuj the millionaire really can’t bring her back. So bring her or make a condition that Maya should marry Anuj and leave him.
Cause at this point it sounded he just wanted you to be his child’s mother and nothing more…. And Anuj deserves to be happy with his child …. he does.
And if Anuj says “Oh you didn’t fight hard enough for our relationship.”
I will lose it…. I hope something bad happens to Anupama cause only bad things happen to Anujand I want to see what he does…. I want to see him fight the world. Anu definitely didn’t fight and listened to a innocent child who was being manipulated by Maya
… however Anuj didn’t have to listen.
YOU ARE MAD! And so is Anupama for crying. Anupama is thick…. I would have slapped and showed her reality of this situation. These writer suck….. if you want to make Anuj a victim then write it well not like he is blaming Anu cause he to Listened to her. Write something that makes sense
Write something that shows Anu doesn’t take such words even if her husband is the greatest man in the world.
And I know people are going to say “I am pro Anupama…. you don’t see it from Anuj’s side or what about the time he held her when he cried or supported her.” I truly agree with the second argument he did support her, held her when she needed him and fought the Shahs even when he was paralyzed he wanted to be there.
But Anu is also trying to do the same thing …. and he don’t want it and it seems he only Fought for Anu so that choti would have a strong mother…. cause he doing the same thing Vanraj did when it came to her children.
Muku come.back and slap this brother of yours who also manipulated you into marrying a man who ended up hurting you…. just cause he was rich…. yeah I am on no ones team.
Anu expected anuj to always stand for her and support her but he could only take enough.
Anuj expected anu to be the ideal mother, fight for the child(while he listened and doesn’t fight like if you so obsessed with child and Saw Anu give up then you should have fought) Anuj manipulated anu to FOSTER THIS CHILD in the first place knowing she would have a grand child. Who I haven’t seen in awhile …
Anuj expected her to be the perfect wife who doesn’t have another other children. What happened to all the promises Anuj made like “I will cook for you three times a week” I don’t see it, or I will respect you and you will respect me .
You think Anu wouldn’t have listened if you said “I am going to put legal action and choti will stay in a neutral home for now” or “you can’t give up and I won’t… WE WILL.BOTH FIGHT” Cause we don’t realize it is difficult to fight when you are the only person fighting. YOU GIVE UP and she did.
“Anu claims she loves the child as much as anuj yet she moving on and talking about holi…. She claims she loves the child yet can’t fight enough….” neither is true Anu is trying to be normal… but If Anuj truly loved this child more the Anu… he would have slapped Anu and went for his child BY HIMSELF. Yes Anu might not love Choti to the extent as Anuj but she tried not him.
Please Anuj stans or Anupama Stan thing one is right and one is wrong cause both are. Yet Anuj is much more wrong today… Anuj is manipulative and not strong …. Anupama is stupid and also weak for this man like she was for Vanraj…. and she took acts tooo great knowing she can’t be the only one fighting for choti.
I am done ……
If you Read Wattapad then I have a fanfiction of Anupama × Originals and her love interest in Elijah
Lose Everything by me
Anupama? That too in originals? Where her love interest is Elijah😂😂u hav truly lost it. Go and kiss anupama’s ass instead of trying to pair her with Hollywood characters in your fan fiction😂
It’s good Dheeraj and Devika are here. Anuj it right to be angry but the way he is expressing it makes you question alot of things. The biggest thing would be did he really love Anupama???? Was those 26 years just a sham or a trap for her??? He throws things around and yell at her in front his family members, clearly he has no control on his anger and that is toxic trait in a relationship. He said he feels suffocated around you Anupama so it is better if you leave him and let him breathe. I know Choti is fostered but I mean Anupama didnt apply for it alone he did with her and it both their responsibility to bring the child back home not just Anupama’s. Anuj just wants to sulk and insult anupama instead of bringing the child back home what is this behavior going to get him definetly not Choti Anu. I just want this track to end with their divorce and Dheeraj and Devika wedding they deserve a happy ending. Since Dheeraj made mistakes in him first marriage he won’t repeat those mistakes again in his second marriage and the reason he is stopping Anuj is because he has seen what easily breaks a marriage and that is what Anuj is doing. Can’t believe there marriage is already like this and it hasn’t been a year.
Fostering a child so quickly was a mistake. Anuj was clearly overexcited about the fact that so late in life he was finally eligible to foster/adopt a child and fix his own childhood issues. He jumped at the chance of using his marital status to heal his traumas without prioritised the health of his tender and young relationship. Then when he got the kid, he gets to do all the fun stuff and be the cool dad who spoils his little princess while unleashing hell on Anupamaa if she forgets one small thing. Even now getting CA back was her responsibility. Anuj sees her as just a nanny. He’s shown his true colours.
My god, I want this idiotic arc to end already so we can go back to Samar-Dimple, Kavya-Anirudh/Vanraj, hell even Pakhi and Adhik.Also what happened to that illegitimate child? Do the writers play blindfolded darts to see what storyline they should pick up next?
@Muge, I replied your message yesterday. Check it out.
Anupama and Anuj need to divorce. You only know how a person feels about when shit isn’t so Rosy. All these toxic ass men need to be LEFT when it’s time
@Vajiyanthi
I’ll look at it and reply to you here on this forum.
@Vajiyanthi
I have to say I agree if they can’t show proper marriage from the they should be able to show woman leaving such toxic marriage and finding happiness with in themselves. Being married isn’t everything is life there is so much more to life than just mangalsutra sindoor and being your in laws door mat all the time. Anupama should just leave him all I want to see is Dheeraj and Devika wedding I think they will be worth watching at the moment.
Exactly @muge
If Anupama stayed in a marriage for 26years with a man who neither respected nor loved her,she will definitely continue to stay with anuj. She is going to accept every hurtful words he throws at her, including ignoring her, all in the name of “understanding his pain”. If kavya, Devika and even Kinjal were in the same position as her, although they would have made smart choices, but if they were, they would not have tolerated such things from their husbands. Devika should give Anupama a reality check- just because your husband gave you a love which you were deprived of for 26years and is good, it doesn’t mean he has the right to insult or be rude to you when things get tough or when he is in pain. And Dheeraj should also give anuj a reality check, he is not the only one in pain, his anger and sorrow is justified but not his behavior towards anupama. Anupama has not moved on, she is just trying to find some positivity, some normalcy in this awful situation such as meeting and calling little Anu. And Isn’t Anupama tired of crying?? Isn’t she tired of following anuj around begging him to talk to her and not ignore her?She needs to stop crying and stop trying to prove or justify to her husband that she loves all her children equally. Do what brings her peace, joy and happiness and to hell with what anuj thinks. If he thinks you are moving on very easily or you never loved chotti Anu, then that’s his problem. Just give that man space because at this point he feels and sees your presence as a nuisance, a suffocation
Please understand
Anuj already had a brain surgery and Doctor claimed that in future he may get insanely angry.
And he is now in edge of slipping into depression. No person has control over themselves in such conditions.
Anupama even after being aware of this, failing to handle him. She should have atleast acted as the way Anuj would get consoled.
For Anuj, he feels Anupama is not suffering like he is. He doesn’t know even the reason of his suffering.
He is innocent. He will regret once he get back into his senses but now he is in state of darkness
And the people who compare him with Vanraj are absolutely 10yr old kids. They will flip easily again.
Seriously anupama should have not care about anuj anger
Reason of anuj is so wrong how can he forcefully keep choti anu with him when even he is not legal father of anupama
So anupama should not care about anuj anger
She should have Said gussa hai meri shakal nahi dekhna chahte I don’t care u r anger is wrong
END this show…its sending WRONG messages.
VERY TRUE END THIS SHOW. IT IS SO ILLOGICAL AND FULL OF NEGATIVITY. NOT AT ALL MOTIVATIONAL.
WRONG MESSAGE ABOUT ADOPTION. WHICH BIOLOGICAL PARENT SUDDENLY ERUPTS. WITH THIS FILTHY NONSENSE TRASH NO ONE WILL TRUST ADOPTION SYSTEM
REPEATED HISTORY OF DISAGREEMENT AND DIVORCES, INFIDELITY EXTRAMARITAL AFFAIRS AND CHEATERY
WHAT KIND OF INAPPROPRIATE MINDSET MAKERS HAVE. DO THEY WANT TO IMPLY THAT WOMEN EMPOWERMENT MEANS SEPARATION FROM YOUR SPOUSE. CHECK YOUR SOURCES.SUCCESSFUL WOMEN ARE EQUALLY HAPPY IN THEIR MARRIAGE
TODAY’S TAG LINE: THE ENTIRE CHEAP NAUTANKI OF MUCK MAYA HAS BEEN BOOMERANG 🪃 BACKFIRED OVER THE PROJECT ANUPAMA.
MR RAJAN SAHI AND YOUR BRAIN DEAD 🧠 CREATIVE TEAM, IN THE NAME OF CREATIVITY YOU SIMPLY DEPICTED NUISANCE STUPIDITY. THIS ENTIRE NAUTANKI WAS UTTER FIASCO
IT WAS ABSOLUTELY HILARIOUS TO SEE ANUJ AND ANUPAMA AT THE MERCY OF MANIPULATIVE WHORE.MAYA
THE MALE LEAD CHARACTER ANUJ HAS BEEN TOTALLY RUINED. HE APPEARS LIKE A CERTIFIED IDIOT PLAYING BLAMEGAME AND THROWING GUILT PARCEL ON THE LADY.
HOW DO YOU EXPECT SENSIBLE MATURED AUDIENCE TO DIGEST ALL THIS NONSENSE.
THE SERIAL HAS SUSTAINED SO FAR ONLY BECAUSE OF SCINTILLATING PERFORMANCES OF GORGEOUS ACTORS GAURAV KHANNA AND RUPALI GANGULY. HENCE DON’T EVEN DARE TO THINK OF SHOWING RIFT BETWEEN THE LEAD PAIR.
TRP FIGURES ARE SIMPLY BLOATED FALSIFIED VALUES. DON’T GET FLATTERED.
NOW ATLEAST WITH ADVENT OF DHIRAJ AND DEVIKA SHOW SOME SENSIBILITY. LET THEM PLAY ROLE OF CUPIDS AND DO TROUBLE SHOOTING.
TRY TO DO SOME DAMAGE CONTROL OF YOUR FALTERED PROJECT ANUPAMA
I just read what Chavi Pandey had to say, that there will more twist in Anuj and Anupama lives all I’m going to say is if Anuj goes with Maya trp will fall so writer must be wise with few episodes and what happens. Writers could have done Kinjal and Toshu divorce track( wasn’t Kinjal suppose to divorce him like 6 months ago what happened to that) or Samar and Dimple love story or Kavya pregnant with Vanraj’s child or anything else except this stupid Maya Anuj Anupama Choti drama.
Damn the comments are quite disappointing.There are lots of people blaming Anuj for expressing his anger and how he feels about what Anupama has done.yeah he might have loved her for 26 years but that does not mean he has to fall at her feet every single time and worship her. He is human and he does have a right to get angry.
If the situation were reversed, if Anuj was the one who allowed Anupama’s child to go away from him, the wolfs would have come for him.
So yeah, Anuj’s statement and anger is definitely justified. Some self-proclaimed smart fellas are of the opinion that how can Anuj love CA more than Anumpama who he has loved for 26 years. Oh well it is possible if you have ever been in love or you have ever birthed a child, the day the child comes to the world, he/she becomes your world taking even the place of your partner in your heart.
That is what makes parents special, because they love their children more than anything and anyone. So please stop with the illogical bullshit
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Well not everyone in this world thinks the same Sophie and not everyone will have the same opinions about something. Nobody has said Anuj’s anger is wrong everyone is talking about how rude he is to Anupama and about his hurtful words he has been saying to Anupama. How does anyone compare the love of a child with the love a wife or husband gives to make matter worse he is saying his wife is jealous of his child just because he loves her more. How does he compare 6 months to 26 years. He should never have said anything about loving one person more than the other. He is wrong in his choice of words, we agree his angry but could he not cool off and then have this discussion rather than scaring his wife with his words. Words hurt bruh and worse thing about words you can’t take them back. They were both wrong but Anuj only see Anupama as wrong he doesn’t see himself, does he not have a brain of his own he could have ignored his wife demands and tried to get his daughter but did he no so when both of them are wrong who is Anuj or Anupama to point fingers at each other.
Anuj is not well as you see and if you can remember he had Brain Surgery and Doctor claimed he may get out of control in future .
Anuj is not in his senses. He is neither rude nor Vanraj, he is just sick, which Anupama forgot.
Amar yes dear. People who are blaming anuj are anupama’s blind fans because they are blind to her mistakes when she, anuj and maaya are at fault. Anuj is anyways right on his stance as coming to a child whether own blood or not will equally deserve love just like the child that comes from own blood. Only thing is he is getting out of control due to his brain surgery which anupama’s blind fans are forgetting because of their blind obsession for her.
Sophie dear, all you wrote is absolutely true. To be frank its only anupama’s blind worshippers who are so desperate to see her being a wife of another man. After 26 years of torturous name sake marriage, anupama really had no business in getting married second time. I never like anuj and anupama as a pair as they don’t match physically and they have zero compatibility just like other heros and heroines on indian shows. As much as anupama is as equally wrong, the writers and production houses seem to be living in their own world always pairing women with toxic men. But women like anupama have a very weak character where even without a man she will be easily used and taken advantage of as she makes it very easy for people to misuse her trust as she loves trusting people blindly. Looks like the makers/writers or whoever is behind this story does not want to see a woman who already endured 26 years of abuse, focusing on herself and thriving on her own without the shoulder of another man. And what you said about anuj’s anger is also very true. His anger is totally justified but anupama’s blind fans are ready to give her clean chit. Suppose if someday anupama ends up murdering someone, her blind fans will still try to come up with nonsense to defend her. But ofcourse if she ends up killing someone as an act of self-defense then that will be understandable. However, my point is her fans are just like her as they never see her faults. They will blame everyone else just to give her clean chit. As for the matter of the little child, I agree that people specially anupama’s fans need to understand that fostered or not once a child becomes a part of someone’s lives then that child is the same as a child that came from that person’s own blood. The day I have a child, I too will love the child more than my own life even if the child is not my own blood as all children are precious gifts of god.
When Anuj fostered CA didn’t he at least expect that one day her biological parents may come to claim her?? Fostering don’t guaranteed you own the child. Anuj is just being unreasonable!
maybe the guy is not prepared for that although he should’ve. And if he wanted the child so much he could have adopted her via legally so that even if original parent came to claim back the child, he/she will need court’s permission to take back child from anuj. He is not being unreasonable as he is just sick and out of control. Go back and watch the episodes where he had to do surgery of brain before judging anuj’s behavior.
Thanks for the balance
Now in eyes of anuj anupama is nothing but maid
If maid is doing good job he will talk nicely to her other wise he will leave her shout at her and start blaming anupama
Now anuj degree of love towards anupama depend how much anupama obeying the order of anuj
Yes there are issue between husband and wife but if anuj really love anupama then he would have angry at her but in anger he would have not stop thinking about anupama
What is true love
True love means that in anger also u don’t stop worrying about their partner
But here anuj don’t bother about anupama he don’t bother that anupama is his wife he don’t want to see his face
.so is this True love of anuj that now he don’t want to see anupama face .
In True love partners may get angry for some time with partners for some time but they don’t keep grudges .heart forever they let go off after some time
But here anuj want to keep grudges against anupama forever just because choti went away
That is why there is doubt did he really love anupama that it is hard to remove grudges
Now what is difference between vanraj and anuj that if anupama did not follow order of anuj anuj start mistreated her just like vanraj mistreated anupama
Please understand
Anuj already had a brain surgery and Doctor claimed that in future he may get insanely angry.
And he is now in edge of slipping into depression. No person has control over themselves in such conditions.
Anupama even after being aware of this, failing to handle him. She should have atleast acted as the way Anuj would get consoled.
For Anuj, he feels Anupama is not suffering like he is. He doesn’t know even the reason of his suffering.
He is innocent.
And the people who compare him with Vanraj are absolutely 10yr old kids. They will flip easily again.
I have doubt anuj mental health from that Day when he ask goon to beat him
Which business tycoon Will ask goon to beat him
Will there be peace and happiness in the Kapadia mansion am slowly loosing hope even after seeing Devika and D
I never like anupama and anuj as a couple as they don’t match physically and even personality wise i never saw their compatibility which probably is not even there. Anyways after 26 years of abuse anupama is supposed to focus on herself rather than becoming someone’s wife for the second time. Do women really need men to hold their hand in this 21st century? Not really. But i guess women like anupama who are stuck in 3rd century will want support from men just like the writers.
Actually makers are at fault that for not handling the track. They wanted to create drama between Anuj and Anupama so they created this track. But for this they are making stupid mistakes and butchering characters.
Mini agreed they are butchering characters when they could show divorce of anupama and anuj in a better way. I believe that anupama should first become strong and independent instead of holding on to the shoulder of another man after many years of a failed marriage.
I still maintain that they accepted the words of Maaya without verification, Anuj is well educated and should have done more than just accept Maaya. No DNA, just nothing as proofs but words? All of them are to be blamed, Maaya saw a loophole and their weaknesses, she capitalized on it and hit them hard. It’s a trial of their love for each other. I pray the come out of it. Anuj hates his wife now but he’ll be alright eventually. But a new twist is already here. I bet little Anu will soon be tired like every normal child and would want to come back to her parents. She’s a smart girl, she’ll soon see through Maaya and would long for her parents love.
Please don’t spread misinformation.
Being biological parent doesn’t mean a criminal can abduct the child from foster house.
Especially when Maaya left the child, didn’t stay in touch for all these years, doesn’t have legal rights, officials are not aware of it, tried to seduce, wanted to break the house, manipulated child’s decision, she certainly is not eligible to get the child back.
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Still if you are saying Maaya(/Foster parent) can take away the child at any point of time without any legal hearing, without intimating the officials, then maintain it. Spread this message heard loud a clear.
If this is the way fostering works show it clearly.
If Maaya is legally eligible to keep the child, little Anu must not come back under emotional influence to create emotional drama.
You are neither giving justice to biological parent nor to foster parent. Show clearly who is eligible under which circumstance.
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Anuj must not play the blame game, if he thinks its better for little Anu to stay with him, then leave no stones untouched.
If Anuj believes an unstable woman like Maaya can take better care of the little one, then leave it.
As if a non stop crying Anupama was less now Anuj is also behaving like mental.
Answer to Can foster parents win in court over a bio parent if they have a better lawyer? by Trevor Goble https://www.quora.com/Can-foster-parents-win-in-court-over-a-bio-parent-if-they-have-a-better-lawyer/answer/Trevor-Goble-1?ch=15&oid=179636525&share=03f96364&srid=3rZYc&target_type=answer
Trevor Goble is in house legal representative.
If Anuj spend his time going through everything the legal way like get proof of Maaya’s identity, informed the orphanage that CA’s biological mother wanted to take CA away seek approval from the orphanage than spending his time crying, shouting, blaming n questioning Anupama CA would have still be with him, but NO he wasted his precious moment to get CA back.
Its bad to that parents get separated from kids…but.. The point i dont understand is .. What is anuj n anupama had 3 kids of their own… Would he react same way.. Like she is only priotising one… What the heck….kids are even for both parents whether it be mom or dad…
Very well said in early comments.. It anupama n anuj both’s mistake…n fact it anuj is 80 n anupama 20 percent…
Anupama was willing n managing to go with him to picnic..why he refused….didnt think of baby anu?…how can a mother or a father also fully be with 1 kids when her or his one kid is paralyzed…how the makers are potraying the story is..totally bullshit….and after he said to anupama about maintaining distance n saying no to wrong demands..its clearly shown she is working very hard on that…
Her mistake is when little anu told her about why she is going… She should have clearly told anuj when she send anu out of room … So maybe maybe he might have understood…n slapped Maya after sending little any to room with dimpy or pakhi.. And ask how dare she scare the child …its child abuse .
But end is its just daily soap …to make it catchy interesting the maker r making it..but …hope they understand it slowly becoming more n more senseless and pathetic.
At some point I agree with Anuj , Anupam should not have taken a challenge and would have learnt to say no because most of the times when she would here pari she kept running to the shah’s as if people dont stay in that house and when Anuj told her to go she easily accept without saying no and leaving her family, thus little Anuj not getting enough love from her mother which was not right, Anuj has a right to be angry but he shouldn’t blame and be toxic to Anupama he should understand or be sad but not unfairly treat Anupama anyways let’s see what’s next
Anyj is now overdoing the shit, wth he thinks Anupama is not hurt? He thinks it’s just him? Steupsssssss!!!! I agree Anupama should have told him what the annoying CA said because she realized Maya is brainwashing her so called child, but he needs to snap out and she needs to stop trying to literally suffocate him.
Writers have gone mad now. They are spoiling this show also with the crap, dragging on the sickening Maya scene
CA performed a villain role between Anupama and Anuj….. Anuj bhi aisy pagal hue CA k liye k jesy Woh koi Biological beti Hain Anuj ki….. I was watching this drama for last 2 years
And now I have stopped watching
CA should come back
Rajan Shahi should show Maya’s real face like child trafficking
Kavya should visit London and should get to know about Maya’s bad intention and phir poori family ko batai specially anuj and Idiot Anupama ko ….
Anupama Ka character bht duffer type dikhaya Hai, is aurat ko khud ki family sy ziyada bahar waly ki takleef nazar ati Hai
Idiot Anupama
Ekdham sahi kaha isiliye kuch log uski naam anupama se buddhupama ko badhal dya kyunki uss aurat ki andhar sirf bewaqoofi ke elawa kuch bhi nahi hai. Apni maa se bhi zyadha abusive shahs ki parva he usse. Classic example of stockholm syndrome. Aur bechara anuj bhi buddhupama ke saath reh rehkar uska dhimaag bhi kahi kogaya