My Super MOM – Happy Mothers Day (OS)

Hi deariiiiiiieeess, this is Roma…Thanks to my lovely friends for encouraging me to write, I’m not taking any names here as in my heart all my friends have very special place…each of you very precious to me…I love u alllllll….I’m here with my very first story…which I want to dedicate and share with all of you my sweetheart friends…this is the story of my mom…my lovely Super MOM…

She born in a low middle class family of a small town in U.P. India….father had small business n mother was house wife, she had 2 sis n 3 bro. My mom was second from eldest sister. She was not beautiful but was very intelligent in studies. At that time the families wasn’t letting girls get higher studies but my mom was the first one in her family who did Masters in Economics. Everybody praised her because of her higher degree. At age of 25 she got married to my father. Papa worked in government services where he had to transfer from one city to another every 3 – 4 years. She happily accepted that. First 6 years very tough for her. It is says when a child borns thena mother borns too. The pregnancy period was very hard for her. She used to vomit mostly whole 9 months. But we came in this world she forgot her pain.  She got 3 daughters, one after another. We have 2 years gap in between. She was happy being a wife and mother, living her life, busy in house work n kids as typical married woman.

Her real struggle started when we grew to the school age. As the area where my father get transfer was always at  border states so most of the time it’s a forest and backward area with no schools. So mom decided to live separate from papa for sake of our education. Father lived at his place where his job was and mom moved to my grand parents (mom side) town in their house. Mom loved papa so much but a mother in her wanted bright future of her children. So a mother’s reponsibilities dominated over a wife. Now, papa was coming after 6 months to visit us for few weeks and goes again for next 6 months. Mom alone raised us in his absence. She worked in home, buy groceries, pay bills, helped us in school homework etc…She didn’t apply for any job, she thought that might make her neglect the kids n she will not able to give enough time to us. She gave us very good up bringing inspite of papa’s limited monthly salary. She spent money very wisely n saved also so when papa come for visit, they can use that money to build our own house in town.

She was keep doing all this. When I was in 3rd grade, she diagnosed with diabetes. She broke down, but for us she again gathered her strength, her treatment started ang she again living normal life…same schedule, our school, cooking, cleaning, washing dishes n clothes, bills, groceries…all of that…

When I was in 8th grade our house built and we moved in same town but 30 minutes far from grand parents house. We were now old enough to help her in house work n groceries, so we sisters help her, but mom always tell us to do study and she will do all the work.

Her health was getting down slowly, she was alone and missing my papa, but being a mother she only wanted her kids to be stand on their in feet and make them independent. Only 2 short visits in an year was not very much to share sorrows n matters with him. She try to be normal when he visit. As time passed, mom’s health was keep going down, her hearing also decreased, so she had to use hearing aid. Her treatment was going on, but in absence of my father, she doesn’t take care of herself but only look after us. We give her medicines on time n take care of her. My uncles n cousins visit us sometimes.

I passed 10th grade with distinction in math and science. I loved math but in my town, none of the college had math for 11-12 grade. So, she told me to go to bigger town (12 hrs far by train), her younger sister’s family for study. My elder sister took biology and younger sis took commerce so they stayed with her.

Mom loved me so much and missed me, me too missed her a lot. Whenever I call her on phone, she always encourage me, gave me strength to be strong n study hard. I worked very hard and pased 12th grade also with 1st rank. I used to visit her in my holidays…

Mom’s health became more serious and she start getting panic attacks due to stress n loneliness. My sisters told me on phone. I went to visit her in my holidays. Papa was also in home for his visit.

I still remember crystal clear that dark night when my mom got panic attack again and rush her to the hospital in neighbor’s car. Her head was placed in my lap, we were on back seat. The hospital was just few more minutes far but…THUD…all of sudden she lost her heart beat… her breathing stopped…her hand in my hands loosened….and my eyes filled with tears….I screamed hard….MUMMYYY…but all in vain…she was gone…I was helpless…alone…no doctor there….her warm body became cold slowly in my lap…by the time we reached hospital she was no more……

I was crying like hell…I lost my precious treasure. But her words still echo in my ears…never lose your strength and fight for life….

There’s no single day gone without remembering u mom…I missed you so much..don’t know how to say thanks to you…thanks is a very small word for ur sacrifices which u made for making us happy….I missed our every moments which we shared together n that reassuring smile of urs which made my life cheerful..
U cared for us,u guided us to the best u can..u were there had been with me throughout my tough time..u taught me like no other ..I become today successful cos of u… I am thankful I’m the lucky one to call u mother..its only because of u am able to see the beautiful world…

Mom always gave me strength n courage to fight for my dreams. And herself fought until her last breath to give us bright future. Now I’m an Engineer, married, have kids and living happy life just because of mom’s good words. My both sisters are teachers, married, have kids. She always stay in my heart. I know I’m not very good but I try to be a good mom for my kids.

So this was my mom, my Super Mom…I love her soooooooo muchhhhhh n proud of her…whatever I’m today, just because of her. In my culture, it says, there is Heaven under mom’s feet…so sweeeeeetheartss love your mom, respect her, obey her, take good care of her health, cherish her because mom is the precious gift from God. God can’t be with us all the time thats why He sent mom to us. Even if she is no more, she always stay with us, bless us and give us strength in our tough time.

I don’t know how I wrote…maybe bore most of you. Please forgive me if I hurt someone or made you cry, my intention was to show the hardship of life n struggle of a mother… please let me know your feedback. This was my very first attempt to write something n I wanted to start with my inspiration, my MOM….I love you MUMMY n miss u a lotttttttttt…..Love you loads my deariiiiiiieeess….muaaaaahhhh…

♡♡♡ HAPPY MOTHERS DAY ♡♡♡

Your friend,
Roma 🙂 😉 🙂

Credit to: Roma

49 comments

  1. Zuha Fatima

    Beautiful , may your mother’s soul rest in peace , and if I am not wrong you are a Muslim , right??

    • Roma

      Thx A.K., Happy Mothers Day to you tooo …ALL Mother is precious…I’m very thankfu..love you loads

  2. Thank u so much for posting this & mother is everything and more than anyone or anything LOVE U SOOOOO……. MUCH MOM, HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY

    • Roma

      Thx a lot Vamwolfan for reading it, yes dear Mom is everything, happy mothers day to you tooo. ..love u loads

    • Roma

      Thx rhimjhim for reading…I’m sorry to make u cry…my intention was to tell my friends the struggle of a mother n her sacrifices for kids…plz smile as we all know she is always with me…happy mothers day. .love you loads

      • Rhimjhim

        its ok Roma… i loved ur story and i wish that may ur mom’s soul rest in peace. today morning i asked all my friends to finish their mom a very happy mother’s day though this is nothing before what they do to make our lives…. so don’t get sad and of course ur mom is always with u… and thank u for sharing ur expeirence….

  3. My god …di finally u r here….m so so happy that u tried….it’s very beautiful…what else can I say when it is related to mother…mother the most sweet word of the world…m emotional…lov u di…tc??

    • Roma

      Thanks a lot rosieeeeeeee for your encouragement n support, without your support I couldn’t get confidence to write this story. …thx a lot for reading n commenting…mother is precious gift from God…happy mothers day dear….love you loads. Muaaaaahhhhhh 🙂 🙂 🙂

  4. Ameesha

    She never cared of her health but cared her 3 kids.. Her selfless love.. She must be your ideal.. As u’re a mom now.. Happy mothers Day to you too..

    • Roma

      Thanks ameesha for reading n commenting. …yes dear she is my ideal….I try my best to be a best mother like her….my kids r my world….I’ll do everything to make their life successful. …Happy Mothers day to you tooo. ..love you loads 🙂

      • Ameesha

        Well, I am not a mom 😛 I have just written 10th exam.. Anyways i will give ur wishes to my mom

      • Roma

        Sorry dear…keep loving your mom n convey my best regards to her…Happy Mothers day to her. …love you loads 🙂

    • Roma

      Thx honey…I just gave my best to explain my mom’s sacrifices n her struggle….all mom’s are precious n do everything possible for their children’s bright future…Happy Mothers day. ..love you loads 🙂

  5. Supriya

    U brought tears in my eyes darling….. This z such a emotional story…….srsly hats off to all moms who sacrifice their happiness for their children….. I salute all of them nd u too…..I don’t have words to praise u…..r8 now m speechless….. The journey r8 from birth to death had struggle…… Girls have to struggle alot first for family then husband nd then children…… still they do everything with a smile……srsly all women r grt and mothers r next to god…….u nailed it……love you dear….tc

    • Roma

      Oh supriya your comment is very beautiful. ….thank you so much dear for reading n giving such a beautiful comment. …it was really hard n emotional for me to pen down mom’s sacrifices n her struggle from birth to death…i tried my best….all women are great n mom is the best gift from God…….Happy Mothers day…..love you loads 🙂

    • Roma

      Thx tanya for reading n commenting….it was very hard for me to write something about mom, as she did a lot more but I couldn’t expressed it here…this is only one story …there are infinite mom’s in this world n I’m sure they have their own story of sacrifice n courage….I’m thankful you liked it…happy mothers day. …love you loads

  6. I’m crying,apu.May the Almighty ALLAH bless ur mom with Jannah.Like U we r 3 sisters..Mom’s r the BEST frm all human being..I learn frm my baba how to behave,obey&respect a mother.I think being a mom my grandmom is so lucky cz she has a son like my baba.She with so much glad also said that..A mom can do anything for her child&nothing can compared with a mother’s did. .That’s why everyone should realize d fact&try to give their best for mom..I love u AMMU..My mom’s lap is the most peaceful place for me.Often my mom behave with us like a child.We did a lots of fun together.We sisters love her company d most.We often think d whole day by doing lots of work frm where she get so much power.Bt its a mother.She alwys try to keep smiling&make their children happy.when ammu give me d most precious,adorable,warmth smile i just forget every sorrow,tension&scolds which ma gave me.now ammu isn’t at home.she is with her mother.she’ll come till evening.Last mothers day nanu called her&said everyone/her children called her&

    • Roma

      Thx umama for such a beautiful n lovely comment. ….i loved that you shared your story with us…..you are very lucky to have your mom with you and I’m glad that you are taking very good care of her…cherish these moments…..I had these moments too…but it didn’t last for long….but now I try to give these moments to my kids…I love them, play with them, scold them too when they do something wrong…..give my love to your mom….Happy Mothers Day. …love you loads. …. 🙂

  7. I’m crying,apu.May the Almighty ALLAH bless ur mom with Jannah.Like U we r 3 sisters..Mom’s r the BEST frm all human being..I learn frm my baba how to behave,obey&respect a mother.I think being a mom my grandmom is so lucky cz she has a son like my baba.She with so much glad also said that..A mom can do anything for her child&nothing can compared with a mother’s did. .That’s why everyone should realize d fact&try to give their best for mom..I love u AMMU..My mom’s lap is the most peaceful place for me.Often my mom behave with us like a child.We did a lots of fun together.We sisters love her company d most.We often think d whole day by doing lots of work frm where she get so much power.Bt its a mother.She alwys try to keep smiling&make their children happy.when ammu give me d most precious,adorable,warmth smile i just forget every sorrow,tension&scolds which ma gave me.now ammu isn’t at home.she is with her mother.she’ll come till evening.Last mothers day nanu called her&said everyone/her children called her

  8. I’m crying,apu.May the Almighty ALLAH bless ur mom with Jannah.Like U we r 3 sisters..Mom’s r the BEST frm all human being..I learn frm my baba how to behave,obey&respect a mother.I think being a mom my grandmom is so lucky cz she has a son like my baba.She with so much glad also said that..A mom can do anything for her child&nothing can compared with a mother’s did. .That’s why everyone should realize d fact&try to give their best for mom..I love u AMMU..My mom’s lap is the most peaceful place for me.Often my mom behave with us like a child.We did a lots of fun together.We sisters love her company d most.We often think d whole day by doing lots of work frm where she get so much power.Bt its a mother.She alwys try to keep smiling&make their children happy.when ammu give me d most precious,adorable,warmth smile i just forget every sorrow,tension&scolds which ma gave me.Mothers r supposed 2 b like this& they r.now ammu isn’t at home.she is with her mother.she’ll come till evening.

  9. I’m crying,apu.May the Almighty ALLAH bless ur mom with Jannah.Like U we r 3 sisters..Mom’s r the BEST frm all human being..I learn frm my baba how to behave,obey&respect a mother.I think being a mom my grandmom is so lucky cz she has a son like my baba.She with so much glad also said that..A mom can do anything for her child&nothing can compared with a mother’s did. .That’s why everyone should realize d fact&try to give their best for mom..I love u AMMU..My mom’s lap is the most peaceful place for me.Often my mom behave with us like a child.We did a lots of fun together.We sisters love her company d most.We often think d whole day by doing lots of work frm where she get so much power.Bt its a mother.She alwys try to keep smiling&make their children happy.when ammu give me d most precious,adorable,warmth smile i just forget every sorrow,tension&scolds which ma gave me.Mothers r supposed 2 b like this& they r.now ammu isn’t at home.she is with her mother.

    • Roma

      Thx umama dear….always love your mom …Happy Mothers day. …love you loads 🙂

  10. I’m crying,apu.May the Almighty ALLAH bless ur mom with Jannah.Like U we r 3 sisters..Mom’s r the BEST frm all human being..I learn frm my baba how to behave,obey&respect a mother.I think being a mom my grandmom is so lucky cz she has a son like my baba.She with so much glad also said that..A mom can do anything for her child&nothing can compared with a mother’s did. .That’s why everyone should realize d fact&try to give their best for mom..I love u AMMU..My mom’s lap is the most peaceful place for me.Often my mom behave with us like a child.We did a lots of fun together.We sisters love her company d most.We often think d whole day by doing lots of work frm where she get so much power.Bt its a mother.She alwys try to keep smiling&make their children happy.when ammu give me d most precious,adorable,warmth smile i just forget every sorrow,tension&scolds which ma gave me.Mothers r supposed 2 b like this& they r.

  11. Shree

    Loved it!! It was heart touching!! I was literally crying!! The end.. Omg… I can never imagine.. Loved your mom.. Her sacrifices being a mom… Just for her kids… A girl changes after wedding to be a good wife then the best mother to give her kids the best of best… She smiles with what comes… Your mom is very proud you.. To see her daughter achieve success and be a good wife and a great.. No best mom for her kids..

    Love you Amma!! I donno if I’ve hurt you and if I have ever have.. I’m Sorry!! Will try to be a good daughter from now on.. Promise

    I salute to all moms… Love you all.. I donno if I can be a good one .. My mom keeps saying it’ll be all fine.. You’ll change… But I will try… Happy mother’s day Roma!! And to all the other moms in the world!!

    Love you loads.. Tc… Keep smiling.. Bear hug ??

    • Roma

      Thanks a lot shree my sweeeeeet friend. ..only because of you friends I could open my heart out here…this has been very touchy topic for me…only your love n pure friendship gave me strength to do this…..why sorry honeyyyy? U never ever hurt me instead I always enjoy your company n stories….love you soooooooo muchhhhhh. .say ur mom from me a very Happy Mothers Day. .. 🙂

  12. Debajit Das

    Dis is the first time I am commenting
    …may be the reason is ur emotional story and a very special Day MOTHERS DAY……ur Mom was very inspiring n encouraging…hats off…….I love my Maa too…..she is sweetest of all the beings The Almighty ever sent to the earth……everyone should love their Mother unconditionally…..She is Precious…….i wish ? to the God for Her(Maa) Good Health…..

    • Roma

      Thanks a lot Debajit, I’m very thankful for your first time comment…thx for liking the story….all moms are very precious n their sacrifices are infinite. ….you are very lucky n very lovelyyyyyy yourself as you know her value….plz convey my best regards to your mom …..happy mothers day to her…love you loads 🙂

  13. saya

    Hiiiiiii roma. you made me cry. Who said your mom wasn’t beautiful… she had a really beautiful soul. And you are also good. and you didn’t bored us with this. Really, moms are the best and their sacrifices are truly incredible. I liked it. Happy mother’s day to you. love ya ??

    • Roma

      Thx Saya for such a beautiful comment. ..yes my mom was the most beautiful lady with most beautiful heart n soul…I love you sooooo muchhhh…take care sweetie n give my best regards to your mom Happy Mothers Day to her…love you loads, muaaaaahhhhhh 🙂

  14. Gauri

    Roma this was beautiful….and this is the best way a daughter can wish her mom…hats of to you for penning it down so beautifully…mom is the only one who will scarifice everthing for you will love you unconditionally….for this reason Mom is above god…bless you dear…for writing such a beautiful treat for your mom and all of us…she would be looking down at you from the heaven and must be blessing you for the words you wrote 🙂 bless u

    • Roma

      Thank you soooooooo muchhhhhh gauriiiiiii…..for such a lovelyyyyyy comment…..it’s a very tiny gift from me to mom for her infinite sacrifices….I salute to alllll moms who are doing everything possible for their children’s better future….today’s girls will be future moms n they should be prepare for all the upcoming struggles…thx honeyyy, I love you soooooooo muchhhhhh. ..plz convey my best regards to your mom, Happy Mothers day to her. … 🙂

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  16. Roma

    Thx a lotttttttttt my friends for reading this story…your lovely comments brought tears to my eyes…thx for your love n support. …my God is very happy with me I guess…. thats why gave not 1 not 2 but 3 moms…mom is not only the one who give you birth….that is also in place of your mom who raise you, supported you, gave u shelter in her lap in your alone time n help you achieve your dreams….my both aunty….my mom’s sisters, elder n younger both traditional my moms too….I lived with my younger aunty for 5 years during my 11-12th grade n BSc first year….she took very good care during that time n after that too…my elder aunty is my mother in law now…she help me every day, no matter what it may I can’t move forward without her agreement…my 3 moms r piller of my life…I feel I’m the luckiest one who got love from 3 moms plus my other aunties n grandma, family and you all lovely friends……..so friends plz love your moms, auntys, grandma, sisters, family n friends…….Happy Mothers Day to all moms…..my bow down salute to every single mom out there….take care of your moms and yourself, my sweetheartsssss….love you loads, muaaaaahhhhhh. .. 🙂 🙂 🙂

  17. richa (titli)

    WAH WAH!!! ROMAAAA WRITER BAN GAY :d WELLL ALLL MY EFFECT :p 😉 lol just kidding 🙂 😉
    lov ya dr superrrbbb…. u made me emotional dr u write superrr mat God bless u nd ur fasmily and everyone in the world tc c u kepep smilinggg and rocking and waiting for ur nextt ficc yAAAR TILL THENNN
    ALLAH HAFIZ DAARLING TC KEEP ROCKING ND SMILING 🙂

    • Roma

      Thx a lotttttttttt richaaa…my sweeeeeetuuuu…its all your effects…my lovely friend….thaaaanxxxxx for reading n commenting. …loved your kind words….I’m honored….love you loads, muaaaaahhhhhh 🙂 🙂 🙂

      I’m missing nisha so badly. …where is she??? If u find her tell her to contact google + grp…uu should join too…desi aashiqs forever…love you loads

  18. Yours nishu

    hey roma meri jaan how r u

    hey richuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu tell me about this article you wrote . I must say

    Words are not enough to say that how beautiful gift you give to your mother she should be proud on u dear

    She is so happy to be your mother and you giving her the chance to be a proud mother

    Very inspiring story of your family and mother. I must say.

    And the emotions are seriously real life is real always

    lOve u roma never knows that YOu and your family really work harder to reach here

    and she is proud on u today and so am i to be a part of ur life and to be your friend

    lOve u roma meri jaan.

    Keep smiling

    Once a friend always a friend.

    Tight hugsssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssst o u.

    Muaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

    • Roma

      Nishuuuuuuui, finally u came….I’ve tears in my eyes of happiness seeing your comment. ..u know how much I missed you. …I was finding you everywhere. ..I was keep msging you on our google+ grp n on hangout several times…..but you never replied. …r u very busy? Yaaa phir naraaz ho, bhool gayi apni jaan ko???? Please talk to me…..we all friends are missing you soooooooo muchhhhhh. ..please yaar maan jaaoooooo…how r u and how is your studies going?…how is your mom and other family members? ….everything ok?……….you are and will always be my sweeeeeet musical friendddd….I desperately want to talk to u….thx for reading my story n commenting….your sweeeeeet n beautiful words means a lotttttttttt to me….thx you soooooooo muchhhhhh honeyyy….I always pray for your happiness and successful life….Lotssssss of hugsssssss n kissesssss. …muaaaaahhhhhh. …. 🙂 😉 🙂

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