siya ke ram

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The one who can understand Sita can appreciate any woman of any culture or era, for Sita is central to the feminine mind. Rama is always in awe of her. Whenever faced with a sticky situation, Rama waits calmly but Sita is gutsy; she stands up and speaks her mind and if her decision proves to be wrong, she either apologises or pays for it.

Much fuss is made over the lifting of the Shiva bow by Rama in front of thousands of potential grooms at Sita’s swayamvara but no one talks of how effortlessly Sita lifted the bow as a child. Parashurama had advised King Janaka to get Sita married only to the person who could lift the bow. Rama finally does the deed she never once reminds him how it was child’s play for her.

Rama is praised for his calmness when he is banished to the forest by stepmother Kaikeyi for fourteen years but Sita is a step ahead; she imposes exile on herself, rejecting palace comforts so that she can go with Rama.
She takes it upon herself to provide Rama with a motive to kill all demons and begins to chart out a plan. She acts the defenceless woman in front of demoness Surpanakha who is enamoured by Rams looks. Then Sita asks for the golden deer that even a child would know is artificial, and Rama goes after the deer, to fulfill his wife’s wishes, leaving brother Lakshmana to guard her.

Hearing Rama’s call for help, Sita sends Lakshmana to check despite his protests – she even accuses him of dereliction of duty to his brother and when that does not work, implies that he was trying to stay with her because of her beauty, thereby forcing him to leave — and then confidently waits for Ravana to abduct her, so that Rama gets a sound motive. When Hanuman comes to Ashokavana to rescue her, Sita refuses to let him carry her on his back to safety for she wanted Rama to emerge hero and saviour.

Sita is not the victim, rather she calls the shots. She loves Rama yet checks him when necessary; she can confidently scold her abductor Ravana by holding just a straw; she walks into the fire with her head held high, never justifying to anyone why she wanted the golden deer. Never once demands any support for bringing up her children as a single mother.

In each situation she raises her voice for the right reasons even as Rama is busy balancing roles. Sita chooses a dramatic exit by asking the mother earth to take her away, leaving Rama to exit via the holy Saryu River. A perfect script for the hero, yet it is the heroine who walks away with applause, cheers and tears.

Credit to: sanjana

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46 Comments
  1. I don’t need to tell anything other than AWESOME ANALYSIS…
    Loved it… And each word was true…

    1. Thanks Di
      Thanks for accepting my opinion
      This is the first i a posting something in Tellyupdates and u are the first one to comment

  2. Awesome

    1. Thanx honey?

  3. So true sanjana..u really brought the character of sita beautifully justifying each and every statement of urs .lovevu sis..

    1. Thanks richa Di
      Ur appreciation will help me write more
      Yes Di I took a long time to think how each and every action of hers was true

    2. Thanks richa Di
      Ur appreciation will help me write more

      1. U are right sister sanjana! Sita also always have a grass blade in her hand when ravana meets her in asoka vatika! Many say various concepts for dis.but according to sita,she said to ravana that i can kill u within s minute with dis grass blade ! But i don’t want my husband’s fame to be spoiled!

  4. Loved it Sanjana! V.well written!

    1. Thanks ritika Di

  5. Very nice..we never say “jai Ram Sita” we always say “Jai Sita Ram” because, Sita is given the right to be in the beginning by Ram. If Lord Ram has given Sita this right which, She as mentioned by you, fully has a right over even without Sri Ramas verdict, we should never brush off her importance. Sanjana, you have written this very nicely, please write more.

    1. Jai Sita ram
      Sita is the independent goddess who has made ram the dependable God
      Completely agree Di
      Thanx Di and Will surely write more

  6. Seriously….Sita’s greatness is undefined…..

    1. Yes Di Sita is just great
      Jai Sita ram

  7. Wow Sanjana….. Very beautifully written…..

    1. Thanks nita Di that too double thanx

  8. Wow Sanjana…. Very beautifully written…..

  9. Have 3 more analysis
    Ram and Sita love

    Rules don’t make ram

    Sita is gauri and Kali

  10. Negative criticism also welcome for me to improve?

  11. hey!!! sanju
    awsm dear…….
    every word has its own meaning……..
    reallyy superb…..

    1. Thanks Pooja Di ? For ur appreciation

  12. Sanju it is superb…. Each and every word was true…… ☺Awesome my dear sis…… Continue to write like this……..

    1. Thanx brinda sis

    2. Thanx brinda sis
      All credit to sitaji
      Jai Sita ram

  13. sanjana di its awesome , i loved the way you described mata sita’s greatness 🙂 keep writing

    1. Thank twinkle for loving it

  14. Superb sanjana.. it’s really awesome… you described the greatness of sita…

    1. Thanks ahana di

  15. Ranaji(die hard fan of ishveer)

    Sita is superb in the show I like her acting also sooo much????and nice analysis sanjana

    1. Thanks bro and yes madrakshi is a great actress

  16. WELLWISHER (WW) CRAZY SWADARSH FAN

    ummaaaaaaaa…………. ya chellam………. sammaya iruku………….. superb………. at last tellyupdates posted ur article……. thank u tellyupdates……………

    1. Romba romba nandri akka
      Yes di telly updates thank u
      Loads of love?

  17. di i told na that we will like it
    and see we didn’t like it but loved it
    this analysis is awesome

  18. Yes thanx for encouragement and loving it
    Thanks again dear

  19. Super…what an analysis Sanjana…

    1. Thanks shantha

  20. this is really amazing

    1. Thanks kamya

  21. Awesome Sanjana di and keep writing more

    1. Thanks dear for encouraging

  22. Nicely written sanjana ;*
    Have a great future ahead??

    1. Thanks di for compliment and wishes
      i request u to comment more in skr page noww that ur exams are over

      1. I will now comment regularly dear
        Thanks for advice???

  23. Nice analysis Sanjana di…Jai Sita Ram ?

    1. Thanks srinidhi
      jai sita ram

  24. awesome it is i love sita the way she is it increased after reading this… thank u so so so so much…

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