Siya ke Ram Analysis

Sita vs draupdi

Sita and Draupadi are the two great heroines of India and they are as different from each other as the Ramayana is from the Mahabharata. A comparison of these two legendary female characters reveals to us much about human personality as it does about human society.

Both Sita and Draupadi are princesses. Both have unnatural or supernatural births. But while Sita is born of earth, Draupadi of fire. Sita’s father Janaka, king of Videha finds her accidentally while he is ploughing a field and decides to adopt her. Draupadi’s father Drupada, king of Panchala, creates her with the sole purpose of destroying the Kuru household that patronized Drona, who used his students, the Pandavas and the Kauravas, to conquer and then divide Panchala. Thus while Sita is born an infant, Draupadi is born an adult, with no appreciation of childhood or parenting. And while Sita is raised in love, Draupadi is raised in hatred, designed for destroying a family. They are always addressed as their father’s daughters: Janaka’s Janaki and Drupada’s Draupadi.
Both Sita and Draupadi are trophies in an archery contest. Ram breaks a mighty bow that he was supposed to string to win Sita’s hand while Arjuna strikes the eye of a fish rotating on a wheel hanging from the ceiling to win Draupadi’s hand.. Sita’s sister and cousins are given in marriage to Ram’s brothers. Draupadi is shared by Arjuna’s four brothers, all of whom have many other wives. Thus while Sita experiences monogamy, Draupadi experiences polyandry and polygamy.

Sita pays dearly for the actions of her husband and brother-in-law. She is abducted by the Rakshasa-king, Ravana,. Draupadi pays disproportionately for her own actions. She insults her husbands’ cousin, Duryodhana, the eldest Kaurava, when he falls in a pool of water calling him the blind son of a blind man, not realizing how oversensitive he was. As a result Duryodhana goes out of her way to publicly humiliate her, getting her husbands to wage her in a gambling match, and having lost her, watch helplessly while he gets her dragged in front of in full of the court and proceeds to disrobe her.

Both Sita and Draupadi are feared by their abusers. Ravan fears forcing himself on Sita as there is talk of him losing his life if he touches an unwilling chaste woman. Duryodhana’s father, the blind Dhritarashtra, warned by Vidura, gives back to the Pandavas all that they have lost to the Kauravas in the gambling match when he hears Draupadi swear that she will not tie her hair until she washes it with the blood of her abusers.

Sita never screams vengeance but displays silent stoic confidence that her husband will rescue her. Draupadi screams vengeance but doubts if her five husbands will avenge her insult. She has reason to doubt them.

In the final chapter, Sita is abandoned in the forest, banished from her husband’s house as the public feels she is a stain on royal reputation and unfit to be queen. Ram, however, never remarries, thus declaring his love for her. Draupadi gets her vengeance: her abusers are massacred and she washes her hair in their blood. But the joy of vengeance is short-lived.
Sita gets the pleasure of raising her children and they do inherit Ram’s kingdom. Draupadi, however, does not get the pleasure of raising her children; The kingdom of the Pandavas is passed on to the grandson of one of Arjuna’s other wives.
When Sita finally disappears under the earth, refusing to rejoin her husband on his throne, Ram weeps and decides he cannot live on earth without her. He enters the river Sarayu and does not rise again. Draupadi, by contrast, dies a lonely death when she slips and falls down the slopes of the Himalayas;

Both Sita and Draupadi are enshrined as Goddesses. Sita is a more familiar sight in temples. She is the graceful Lakshmi, without whom Ram is never worshipped. Draupadi worship is popular in some parts of India as in North Tamil Nadu. There she is Amman, the mother-goddess, worshipped alone without any of her husbands, the fearsome Kali who drinks blood of her abusers.
It is interesting to note that modern writers tend to project Sita more as a silent suffering victim and Draupadi more as a outspoken demanding heroine while traditional storytellers saw Sita as a person full of love, wisdom and patience and Draupadi as a glamorous intimidating diva. What everyone agrees with is that there can be no two characters more different from each other