Kuch Rang Pyar Ke Aise Bhi 17th October 2016 Written Episode Update

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Sona tries to explain Dev that he did mistake by giving a high designation to Vicky, this way Vicky will never learn in life. Dev shouts it is his decision and she cannot interfere. She says earlier he was talking about us and now he is telling his decision and only him. He asks what does she means. She says some words are felt and not spoken.

In the morning, Sona and Dev sit for breakfast. Ishwari gives holy books to Sona and asks her to read it. Vicky comes and Nikki says she needs party from him as he got a high designation job. Vicky taunts a bit and agrees. He goes to his room after breakfast. Radha gets him new tie and while tying it asks him to show his worth in his office and next he needs to teach a lesson to bengalan. She tightens tie and he shouts

what is she doing, first she is talking about sukdi and now…She asks to lower his voice as his father may hear it and create a scene. He says Sona bhabhi ok..

Sona sitting in living room. Nikki asks how is she feeling her transormation from Sona di to Sona bhabhi. Their chatting starts. She says she hates literature subject. Elena comes to meet Sona and says literature is her favorite subject and can teach her. Nikki acts as sad, then excitedly says really. Elena says she can teach her thrice a week if she wants. Nikki says sure, they will gossip a lot after class. Elena seees Sona sad and asks reason. Sona says changes topic.

At Dev’s office, Dev feels irritated thinking about his fight with Sona. He angrily calls Tina and scolds where is his file, she should arrange his desktop before he comes. She shows file and says it is right on desktop. He scolds her and asks not to disturb him.

Asha shows gifts to Sourav and says he needs to give it to Sona. Bejoy comes and yells at Sourav. Sourav says he will manage. Bejoy continues yelling and leaves.

Elena teaches literature to Nikki and ways to learn. Sona sits with Ishwari in living room and says since post-marriage rituals have finished, she wants to join back a job if she permits. Ishwari looks t her for a second and encourages her to join and says she will manage work at home. Sona thanks her and leaves. Radha asks why did she permit Sona to work.. Ishwari says if 2 utensils are in same place, they collide, so better Sona is out of house.

Sona eagerly waits for Dev and looking at Dev’s pic in her mobile says if Mr. Obodro comes late like this, she will become jealous wife and will disturb his secretary often and take account of his each minute. At office, Tina asks Dev if she can leave. He says it is already late, why did not she go home. She says he told not to disturb her. He asks to take office cab. Sona continues waiting and thinks when he will come, she will not argue with him. Dev thinks it is already 10 p.m. and he apologized Tina, but does not have courage to apologize Sona, feels guilty.

Precap: Ishwari asks Sona why she lit so many candles. Sona says she is waiting for Dev and asks her to sleep as it is late. Ishwari says how can she sleep without feeding Dev and asks her instead to go and sleep.

Update Credit to: MA


  1. Manya

    |Registered Member

    Dev babu ka frustrated look itna cute thaβ€οΈπŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ’˜πŸ’˜πŸ˜β£πŸ’ŸπŸ’•πŸ’žπŸ’—πŸ’“πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ˜‹loved it
    And the Convo with photos wasπŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ’ŸπŸ’Ÿ
    Radha rani Ishwari aur us Vicky Ko toh chodoπŸ˜’πŸ˜’
    I am eagerly waiting Ko Sona Kya special Karegi but I am afraid ki yeh Ishwari Sab kuch bigaad Na de
    I love it when Dev babu said ab wait bhi toh nhi Ho RahaπŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹β£β£β€οΈ
    Eagerly waiting for tomorrow’s epi hope there is a bada wala DEVAKSHI scene😁

  2. AnShIta

    |Registered Member

    Ahhh! For the first time did I feel that Ishwari has done something good unintentionallyπŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜…πŸ˜… Looking at the precap, I was afraid if Ishwari would restrict Sonakshi from working. However, she turned out to be an angel for our dear SonakshiπŸ˜‡πŸ˜‡ irrespective to the reason behind her acceptance…
    Today, I sure did feel that Dev is completely lost. He has nowhere to go and nobody to speak to. His heart tells him to speak to Sonakshi, but his ego restricts him for the same😩😩😀😀
    However, I do feel that he regrets his words to Sonakshi and misses her voice a hell lot.
    Both Dev and Sonakshi give consideration to their ego, which they should, however, it always ends up causing trouble for the two. Yet, it seems that the two shall definitely patch up soon after every arguement of theirs, although I hope there aren’t much in the upcoming future track😬😬
    A sincere request of mine to MA to kindly provide detailed updates if not the entire script. There were a few scenes which would be adored by all the people, but they don’t seem to be mentioned in the updateπŸ˜•πŸ˜•πŸ˜žπŸ˜ž The time when Dev and Sonakshi had been speaking to each other’s picture wasn’t romantic but sooo damn cute😍😍
    Precap makes me realise that Ishwari can never really be an angelπŸ˜©πŸ˜©πŸ˜‘πŸ˜‘πŸ˜£πŸ˜£πŸ‘ΏπŸ‘Ώ Why? Why? Why does she have to always do this and make a mess of things!πŸ˜–πŸ˜–πŸ˜–
    So there’s one things that’s clear: Things don’t seem to be getting pretty much better in Devakshi’s paradise in the coming timeπŸ˜‘πŸ˜‘
    If sources are believed and Sonakshi really does like Ishwari mansion, then a 100% guarantee to all that there’s still a lot before Dev and Sonakshi can actually act like married couples!!!

  3. Aaru

    |Registered Member

    Bass!! Bohot ho gya..ab main tab tak comment nhi krne wali jab tak show mein kuch bhi accha nhi dikhata..Kuch bhi accha nhi dikha rhe show mein..hadd h!!πŸ˜•πŸ˜•

  4. nikita

    Last part is awesomeeeeeπŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ˜‹πŸ˜ and dev ke phone pe sona ke wo photo tho aur v aachi lag rahi the aur soha ke phone pe dev ke photo…πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜œπŸ˜œπŸ˜œπŸ’—πŸ’–πŸ’žπŸ’ŸπŸ’πŸ’•πŸ’“
    But kisi v episode me radha na bak bak kare asa hoo he nahi saktaπŸ˜’πŸ˜’
    And ishwari ji ne aaj tho kuch nahi kaha ya daata sona koπŸ˜±πŸ˜±πŸ˜’πŸ˜΅ but pata nahi kal kay naya tamasha create karengeπŸ˜¨πŸ˜¨πŸ˜’πŸ˜’πŸ˜°πŸ˜°πŸ˜° waiting for tomorrow…

    • AnShIta

      |Registered Member

      Agree with you Nikita di, aaj to Ishwari ne na Sona ko daata na kuch kahaa😡😡😡😡😡😲😲😲😲😱😱😱

  5. Ngkrishnakumari

    Devakshi fight is become daily routine work after marriage
    Dev babu use ur brain not ego
    Ishwariko pagal khane bejo

    • Juhi

      Hey u wrote Pagal khane meaning “asylum” but i for a minute mistook it for Pagal khane means “let her eat mad”
      And I was like 😲😲
      Then understood ki its actually what and I was laughing HORRIBLY LOUDπŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜† at MY( absolutely my) stupidityπŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…and my bro gave me a “Ye to poori ajeeeb and pagal hai” kinda lookπŸ˜•
      I know this isn’t a proper comment but worth mentioning. ..
      Sorry if I’d hurt u….πŸ™ I’m not at all criticising u na…☺

  6. Zaraa

    I donno what it is .. but ever since Dec and sona broke up and now married I don’t like the show as much … think I’m quitting this show will just read updates

  7. Manya

    |Registered Member

    Guys Aaj kal ek din Ladaai hoti his aur dusre din sorry and ek Chhotu say DEVAKSHI scene hota hai so I guess we should start watching krpkab on alternate days😝😜
    Just kidding but it’s the truth who all agree ki ab Aisa hi hota hai??

  8. Nikki

    Mein is author ko request karna chathethe, kyun ki I don’t wanna devakshi to fight always.πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ’˜πŸ’˜πŸ’˜πŸ’˜πŸ’˜.
    I hate the b******* Vicky and gkb.

  9. Priya9876

    |Registered Member

    Dev– aapki ego aapki height se jyada lambi hai….awwww — Toooo naraz ar gussa kyu hote ho aap dono ek dusre se….
    both r like chotu babies….

  10. Priya9876

    |Registered Member

    Sona dear jiss ghar ka weather hi kharab ho waha CANDLE v nhi jal sakti…samjh lo iss baat ko….
    saasu ma,,,,noo no let me correct— SAASU MENTAL k rehte aap ROMANCE to kya simple si dinner v nhi kar sakte…..

  11. Priya9876

    |Registered Member

    # SONA — NIKKI CONVO best part of todays epi


  12. Teena

    Oh this show has become so irritating now.Typical saas bahu show . There is so mich animosity. I am not wagching this show anymore.I feel so negative after watching it.

  13. anj

    ya…i hv stopped watching it …….just read updates…… it has become saas bahu seriel……. nt devakshi……. i think the writer s searching for a story worth to continue…….. i really miss edkv…… guys, s ther any other serial worth watching n sony……..good serial like edkv…….f nt up to edke….atleast like it…..

    • shalini

      oooooooo edkv….πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

      you can watch BEYHAD…it is nice…and then TKSS and CRIME PATROL, CID, EK RISHTA SAJHEDAARI KA and SUPER DANCER….😝😝

      and edkv is available on youtube and sonyliv also so you can watch it again from the starting(😝)…

      and if after all this you get bored then just go and watch any of the promo of KUCH RANG PYAAR KE AISE BHI….you’ll feel fresh after that….πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜‹

  14. Savi

    This mother is acting too much lol
    Its seem like ishwari married Dev cause she wants to care wait on him feed him and decide for him wow then what’s the used of Sona being there? Ishwari is setting up Sona in every situation at everytime hard to compete with a mother in law like that especially how she holds Dev around her fingers lol no good comes to this relation.

  15. Junee

    |Registered Member

    I liked one scene where Dev leaves for office by meeting his mother and Sona gives a look ” ankh fadke”! Erica fernandez us so natural! Her glare was so natural , awesome! Sona tum Dev ko aise hee ankh fadke liok maarne kyunki woh tumhe batake office nahi gaya apni Ma ko bataya! Huuuh…..
    GKB was on the right track apne bete ke gale mey tie ko fanda jeyse kheech ke laga rahee thi! Thodisi joor aur lagate to humare viewers ke liye kaam ban jata!!! πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
    Aj kya hota hey dekhte hey! Pisswari ki plans dekh ke to thak gaye ! All her plans become successful! Really strange!!!

  16. Azzuu

    |Registered Member

    ishwari pagal ho gayi hai
    aur precap mai kya silly question hai candles kyu jalayi hai
    common sense use karna maa candle light dinner ke liye .
    she is such aghatiya aurat

    • Sneha1

      |Registered Member

      inke ghar mein sab bechare bhole anjaan hai.. kisi ko nahi pata ki newly married couple ko akele chodna chahiye..
      bechari bholi maa…. apne bete ko pallu mein bandh kr rakh le… apni god mein uska sar rakh…bus wife k paas mat jane de..
      bechari innocent sisters… raat k time bhai bhabhi ko maximum disturb karo.. Ya to bhabhi ko apne room mein sulane le jao ya phir uske room mein tapak pado ki mera AC kaam nahi kr raha hai…

      Pagal pyscho family….

      • AnShIta

        |Registered Member

        Completely agree with you Sneha di!
        Sab ki sab bichaare hain…especially becharri Radha Rani aka Gareeb Ki Beti and bechaari IshwariπŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜

  17. Kittu

    Yaar ye ishwari puri pagal hai.sona wife hai dev ki aur WO sona ko hi bol rahi ki tum so jao main dev ka wait karongi..khana khilaongi…sona aur dev ki romantic scene kab dikhaynge.

  18. shalini

    i have to share my view….if anybody disagrees then it is OK with me….

    i know that KRPKAB is going through a bad phase and it has become a little unrealistic and a little more boring according to some people…(sometimes including me too)…all this is happening just because they have set high benchmarks for themselves by the awesome starting track…but we cannot go with the same flow all the time na….it have to show ups and downs….i know that we all think that the ups and downs can be shown in a different manner not this typical drama type….but as it is a drama only so they are showing it according to them or as they have planned to show it…..all we can do is just wait and see what happens next which i’m sure all the loyal fans are doing…..people THE FANS OF KRPKAB themselves are bashing the serial because they have high expectations from the serial…we all critisize it at some point or the other…..there is nothing bad in critisizing and like every serial KRPKAB is also going through an unlikable phase…so this is the time when we can actually check the fandom’s love for KRPKAB……so we should bash it, critisize it, and do or say what we feel but saying that “i’ll stop watching it” or “it has become useless” is something which i dont get….it is not that after writing this i wont critisize KRPKAB on its stupid track but i will support this show AS FAR AS POSSIBLE…..
    i myself said this thing a couple of time…but now i feel that we should start thinking in a different way and support our lovable KUCH RANG PYAAR KE AISE BHI….
    as it is the reason why we all are here together….

    ab aakhri baat…
    i know that it is just a serial” a fiction” so there is no need of getting so touchy but this was what i was feeling from last 2 days and wanted to share it with all of you so just did that….


    • AnShIta

      |Registered Member

      Wholeheartedly agree with you!πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘
      Every show has its own ups and downs. The unfavourable conditions are when we get to see the real supports and love of the audience, which currently doesn’t seem to be going great.
      However, I have a strong gut that things will get better in some time and yet again, KRPKAB will be highly loved by all..

    • Pinky tam

      Hi guys, seeing ur comments regularly…. I’m new to the forum… Shalini I like ur comments supporting KRPKAB ..i too agree with this… Even now I feel this show is different from others… Saas babu is part of family..and I feel this is the only soap which doesn’t show them totally negative or too sacrificing once… I still love KRPKAB ….and only KRPKAB…

  19. shalini

    Bhai sona candle room mein jalao….πŸ˜…πŸ˜…
    dining table pe jalaane se koi matlab nai hai…..kyunki DEV KI MAA abhi zinda hai….😜😜😝
    agar ishwariji ka bas chale toh wo toh raat ko dev ke room mein jaake dono ke beech mein baith jaaye aur sona ko bole ke tum soo jao mein dev ko sulaake hi soungi….😜😜😝

  20. shalini

    ishwariji should sell that gold chain to goldsmith and get a new pair of earrings for herself…because i dont think that, that chain will ever come in use….😝

  21. shalini

    i dont get one thing yaar….please tell me if anybody gets it…

    he is THE DEV DIXIT who is on the cover page of FORBES(as they have shown in some episodes)
    a highly rich successful businessman…then why his house isn’t having extra rooms with AC….moreover over his full house should be air conditioned….
    at some points the CV’s show such utter nonsense that it becomes hard to digest it…. πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜œπŸ˜œπŸ˜…πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

    • AnShIta

      |Registered Member

      Exactly! Jitna badaa ghar bahar se lagta hai, utna andar se nahin hai! Sirf living room and of course, Dev’s room are worth seeing…
      Besides, how can one of India’s leading business tycoon only have one servant???
      Guess there are a few things the makers haven’t really been giving a damn to..

  22. shalini

    Bhagwaan ne radharani ke haathon se shubh kaam hote hote bacha liya….

    kyaa yaar bas thodi der aur…aur thoda tight aur kar dete toh hum aaj party de rahe hote naa yahan pe….idiot CV’s ne happiness ka chance chhinliya humse….😜😜😝😝

  23. shalini

    DEV ne bhi phone mein sona ki kya DIVA waali pic laga rakhi thi….atleast they should have shown some SONA kind of image and not ERICA kind of….

    chalo isi picture picture ke bahaane both SHAH and ERI are having each other image in their cell phone…..😜😜

    P.S. i am a big bigger biggest SHARICA shipper so i wait for such kind of things to happen and just love their “OFFSCREEN FRIENDSHIP”😜😝

    • Sneha1

      |Registered Member

      Sorry i am not bale to open the utube link…. Are they going for honeymoon.. or only planning to go to honeymoon…

      • Priya9876

        |Registered Member

        Devakshi talking about honeymoon preparation like shopping,, packing..
        Soo they r fully planned…but mujhe darr h ki ishwari koi kaan na kar de ar inka plan na bigaad de..

  24. pankti

    @ junee…
    mene comment karne se to mana kiya tha but vo hamari trust vali jo baat thi uspe mene tumse agree kiya…but sirf ek baat hai jispe me agree nahi karti hu & that is…trust …faith is not absolute..
    i believe…in one strong & deep relation trust & faith is ofcourse absolute !!
    bcoz a good relation requires time…efforts..u have to work at it..u have to cultivate it..u have to forgive & forget..u have to be absolutely loyal one to another..
    Marriage has a unique place bcoz it speaks of an absolute faithfulness..a convenant between radically different persons..male & female & so it echoes the absolute convenant between radically diffent partners..
    in one strong & deep relation circumstances never change trust..they both can chang the circumstances on the bases of their trust…
    bcoz if u dn’t have absolute trust on each other ur relationship will fail bcoz trust is the holy grail of all relationships..
    i hope u can understand my point of view

  25. Ganga


    Friends watch dis……. Am very excited about dis.😱😱…. But at a same time doubt on ishwari πŸ˜•πŸ˜•…… Waiting for dis episode

    AAJ bahuth busy hu lekin is news ko Aap sab ke saath share karne ke liye man lagi….. I hope u all r njy with diz..

  26. Sneha1

    |Registered Member

    Hi mere KRPKABian fan.. kahan ho sab
    Priya, Devga, Azzu, Shalini, Junee, Pothik, Anshita, Manya, Juhi, Ayushi, Charnpreet, Erina, Pankti, Ganga, Neha, Kalpana, Tessie, Subhashini, Preet aur baki sab friends

    Kahan ho yaar..

    Aj itna sannata kyu hai… Tum logo ke post padhe bina mera to time hi nahi kat raha hai.. Online aao yaar

    • AnShIta

      |Registered Member

      Waaaoow! Hats of to IshwariπŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™
      How could someone, especially a mother, stoop so low and not want her newly married Son to not cherish these moments of his life?
      Ishwari mataji ki Jai Ho!πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™
      Bhagwaan hai vo vakayi main….varna konsa insaan poori tarah se apni marzi ka maalik ban sakta hai??
      If Ishwari seriously does something bad enough to prevent Dev and Sonakshi from going this time, the I would definitely want Dev to take some action this time. However, we all very well know that he won’t. Thus, I so badly expect some reaction from Sonakshi’s side, which should be considered by Dev as well. Fingers crossed😬😬😬

  27. Sneha1

    |Registered Member

    Mr. Obhodro

    And there he comes. Our cutest Mr. Obodhro… So he lied today. There was no meeting lined up for him. He went to the office early because of the fight with his beloved wifey

    And yet again couldn’t concentrate on his work. He just couldn’t find the file. Which was saved on the desktop itself and irritated, he asks Tina to come. And ask her to find the file. Why didn’t she arranged his desktop and Tina was yet again surprised as the file was on the dektop itself and she tells him there are no meetings today and he can go home early if he wants too. But the bachcha Dev is back. The stubborn Dev says:

    Kyu… kyu jaun main ghar… Mera office hai… Main yahin rahunga tum mere liye coffee lekar aao.

    And by the look of it Tina understood there’s something wrong with him. Whenever our DevAkshi have a fight our Dev babu couldn’t concentrate on work and the same happened today

  28. Sneha1

    |Registered Member

    Yaar koi ek baat samjho mujhe

    Sona ki work pe Jane se ishawri itna khush kiyu ????
    What does she want????
    Is she want mere gar ki chabi mera pass hi rahe … Psycho lady

  29. Erina

    |Registered Member

    Totally dissappionted with sona….. Yaa yaa i know that i love her but yesterday i was disappointed with her. Seriously ek to gulati vo kre, bhala bhura vo bole but sorry aap bolna.. Huuuuuhhh. Mai aisa kbhi nhi kr skti infact imagine v nhi kr skti. Mjhe lga tha iss baar dev baba ko bht mehnat krni paregi but mishti ne to pehle hi give up kr diya. Sona swtheart agar aap aisa krogi to aap ready rho sbke taunt sunne k lye. Pehli daafa h jo meri aur sona ki soch nhi mili nd coming to devakshi photos section dialogue i really don’t enjoyed bcse of whatever happened…..
    Nd coming to krpkab y kbhi bekaar aur boring nhi ho skta so jo v edkv vale ye keh rhe ho plzzz first a fall think before commenting bcse maine v edkv dekha h aur agar mai start hui to…… Sorry but kya karu agar edkv vale hurt hua to sochna jarur ki hme kaisa laga (talking about me nd my krpkabians family) nd kya yaar life hai to y to hoga hi kyu hmre life m aisa nhi hota aur guys kiske ghar m y Saas Bahu drama nhi hota hm y bol rhe h bcse we love devakshi nd only want them but seriously ek baar socho bcse jo dikha rhe h vo real m bahuto k sth hua h jaha Saas aisi hi hoti h jo bete ko Bahu k sth khush nhi dekh skti… Aur socho agar y na ho to show m dikhayega kya sab to ho gya fight ho gyi, pyaar ho gya, confession ho gya, break up ho gya nd finally shaadi ho gyi so ab agar sirf cuteee nd sab kuch happy dikhaye to v to digest nhi hoga na. Agar hme show dekhna h ya devakshi ko dekhna h to y to dekhna hi parega
    Mai comment nhi krna chahti tyi but kuch ki vajah se krna para. Nd @SHALLINI i agree with u swtheart about jo v tmne show k baare m kaha

    • pankti

      yaar…exam aane vali hai phir bhi serial chod nahi pa rahi hu aur comment karna bhi…bcoz it is my fav serial …

      totally agree with u erina… dev ko hi effort karna chahiye tha sona ko manane me..sona kyu sorry bole..dev ko sorry bolna chahiye…galti dev ki hai..

      & yes krpkab is far more better than edkv …ofcourse…krpkab is a differemt & unique love story..i just hope as early as possible ye track khatam ho aur ham hamar vahi vale dev aur sona ko dekh paye

      • AnShIta

        |Registered Member

        Yes, I’d definitely want to see our old lovebirds Dev and Sonakshi back in form😍😍
        However, we must keep in mind that these arguments sure might not be liked by all, but at the end they’ll turn out as factors which helped Dev and Sonakshi’s bond grow even strongerπŸ˜‡πŸ˜‡πŸ˜‡πŸ˜‡

      • Erina

        |Registered Member

        Yaa swtheart aisa ho gya mjhe v shock lga 😱😒😬😰😩😭😭😭😭😭but just vo meri pasand h mai uss ryt to nhi keh skti na. Yaha hmri thinking alag ho gyi but what u think swtheart kya sona ryt h????????

  30. test

    This is what happens in every bodys life. but no body is understanding that sona has to understand even though she has a point, she isnt explaining dev in the right way by giving space. She isnt matured just independent, she cant think holistically. Devs mom told before every body pls listen to me dev, if Sona has to resolve this it cant be the way she handled. And one more thing has she ever changed her father who keeps snubbing and disrespecting Dev. She is giving them time, and taking dev for granted there. Of course for vicky this mite be the wrong job, has she tried not to pull peoples legs and explain calmly. if u trigger people u have to face it, else keep quiet. Her independence is too much which wife discussed her personal life with a sister in few days, dev isnt discussing with any one. Where is the privacy. If Dev is egoistic, when Elina shouted and Sonas father insulted he wud have given back, I have not seen Sona keeping quiet she retaliates , but Dev doesnt, he said this is his moms decision, rather than arguing and telling we both have to take decision together she needs to understand that for somethings she cant come in between, She need to draw the line. She is the egoistic and not acting maturedly and thinking too much independently, feels she is only right all the time. If she acted mature and gave the space to Dev and explain next day or a week, will any body die no na, There needs to be patience which she doesnt have, she doesnt know how to give imp to Mom in law, no mom in law is perfect, its how daughter in law adjusts and giving her that positio. Respect is in givning the senior people and then slowly explaining them. just in few days she is forcing what if this happened before marriage, this is a company by thier family she came in newly she has no rite she can give suggestion explain but cant force, inspite of Devs mom telling listen to me, sona comes and tell u didnt do anything wrong, matured Daughter in law would give some time and space and explain also vicky in a non irritating way, the more u trigger the more u face. too much independence, for her vrat she spoke she will take her decisions alone thats where both rsupposed to be involved, this is devs company not an issue on devs food or sonas job, more Mom in laws will feel in secure, but u should give them control n some places but Sona is trying to control everything then she will have to lose. there is no wonder dev will lose her for her mother, as she doesnt know how to pacify a situation. even when his mom came to sonas home and begged and was sent out, how she came and shouted at dev. DID SHE TELL THE truth what his father did and all, she doesnt explain any situation correctly. Most of the marriages break, we cant expect everybody to be perfect, its the talent of changing in secure ppl and explaining them calmly may be like a kid, she triggers vicky, let her ignore the tantrums and try explaining which she never did, did she attempt that she does what vikcy does to her, so whats the diff between her and vicky and constantly nagging which is the worst quality. She cant come between mom and son that was thier decision, it was Eshari who asked something for her brother sons to Dev, why shud sona be involved, She needs to know that if she has to be involved and explain people that vikcy is abd or not capable, there is a way not like this shouting and creating scene. give ur husband space. she has to change if the relationship has to work. After she actually putting everything fails, then there will be some sympathy for her, stop being too independent and rude.

    • Sneha1

      |Registered Member

      hey i value everybodu opinion but somewhere disagree with u when u said Sona is rude and over independent…

      Like most of the newly weds, Sona is trying to mingle to an impossible family. Can we blame her? Its just her 4th day of married life and she genuinely wants to please her MIL who is the most important person of her husband’s life. Sona very well know Dev came back to her only after his Mom’s approval and she still hold on to that insecure feeling of breaking up again. Poor girl is still in the delusion of her happenings and her only support right now is her husband ! She still gives back to GKB and Vicky when needed but mostly avoids because she knows with gutters she is bound to get dirty and not them !I So she is not spineless but for now being quiet to the situations gauging it !!

      So is she wrong when she went to Dev to console and voice her support that he was indeed right in his decision? – NO… But is the timing wrong? – YES !!

      Remember the scene of Neha’s Vidaai and Dev’s breakdown. Sona went to console him but tries to leave when he didn’t acknowledge only to be stopped by Dev. Then he shared his pain and she consoled. Thats the Sona Dev needed today but instead we saw a desperate Sona trying to force her support when Dev clearly needed space. Sometimes its better to give these guys what they want because trust me they will come back !! But with the amount of pressure she is handling in this mad house, I can totally understand her frustration and fear

      Sona’s reaction after Dev’s announcement and Precap is the result of that mounting fear of her place in his life and those painful past of heartbreak!!

      Both Dev and Sona are imperfect and are reason for their own miseries. Both needs to grow for this relationship and it will be achieved with time !! Lets give them that..

      • pankti

        supreb sneha ! very well said !
        & no one is perfect …relationship or marriage is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other & sort out their differences of opinion toghether..

        relationship is not that you never get angry ..upset or irritated with each other …it ‘s how fast you resolve & bounce back to normal..
        & i think with time dev sona ka relation me bhi grow karega…with more mutual understanding

    • Erina

      |Registered Member

      Dear jb baat bitt jaye ya time chala jaye to phir smjane ya bole ki kya need h aur why u feel sona ki sona mature nhi h agar na hoti to itne insult sunkar bhi khamoosh na rhti.
      Totally disagree with u nd ur thinking. U r north nd i’m south in thinking

    • Krish

      There is nothing to be offensive about it. This became a lovable show because it was different from other shows. Everybody is feeling bad because it is now started following the other shows.This is the simple reason for fans adverse comments. Fans are such they get so much involved ,think that they are real and not consider as fiction.This is my humble opinion.

  31. Junee

    |Registered Member

    @ PANKTI,
    Its good to have you back .Of course you are entitled to your own opinion.
    I can see you are not registered therefore responding to your comment separately.
    I think, I could tickle you with some food for thought!
    Of course, trust is the holy grail of all relationships as you quoted! But trust is a heuristic decision rule, allowing the human to deal with complexities that would require unrealistic effort in rational thinking. ITS NOT OPTIMAL OR PERFECT BUT SUFFICIENT FOR IMMEDIATE GOALS.
    Definitely, a good relation requires both time and effort to cultivate and one has to forgive and forget and for that u say “one has to be absolutely loyal”.
    However, CIRCUMSTANCES AND SITUATIONS can challenge this!
    The circumstances could be such that you would question the years of trust and faith on an individual . Every rationale could go for a toss and that is why some marriages and relationships collapse after years of success. There are philosophies and principles to whether you will forgive or forget at that point of time because there is something called the ” TOLERANCE THRESH HOLD”! With an independent mindset, financial and professional competence, it becomes all the more difficult to over rule a rational mind.
    Therefore trust now days is replaced by the term ” CONFIDENCE” which is more appropriate for a belief in the “COMPETENCE” of the other party.
    Absolute trust is absolutely desirable but circumstances and situations in life can be so cruel that one might be faced with the dilemma of what one believed in as ” Absolute”! All that you believed in could then appear to be completely wrong. Lot of situations, physiological factors and several other factors might have contributed to the cruelty which could challenge ones absolute trust on the other person.A failure in confidence is much easily forgiven if it is interpreted as failure in competence rather than a lack of benevolence or honesty.
    I think there is nothing perfect or absolute in life; one just has to honestly take one stride at a time and use rationale to take the next step whether at that point of time you are ready to forgive or forget.Relationships are far more complex issues than what we perceive and trust faith though need to be worked upon but re evaluations are, I personally feel very important to take that call! In Today’s world, BLIND FAITH OR TRUST might NOT work what might really work is VIGILANCE AND INTERVENTION AT THE RIGHT TIME.
    I hope I have been able to convey my thoughts and anyways we can always AGREE TO DISAGREE.
    ALL the best for your exams. I loved interacting on this issue with you as it appears both of us devoted time to some serious thinking!

    • pankti

      once again thanks junee !
      me trust ke bare me apna opinion abhi bhi change nahi kar payi hu..
      but i also loved interacting on this issue with you..
      & tumhare thoughts me bhi point hai..i respect ur thoughts & if it is possbile for me surely i will try to understand ur point of view about trust ..

      • Junee

        |Registered Member

        @ Pankti
        I think one needs to understand the concept of ” trust” thru a wider lens! Perhaps Experience and time will tell u what we discussed

      • Junee

        |Registered Member

        I do have a successful life both family and professional Dear!
        But i don’t extrapolate to mine as circumstances are different! Yes ihave the ability to think differently probably becoz of the grooming in in the academia abroad! Anyways these are mere discussions to keep the makers informed about our expectations!

  32. QueenB

    |Registered Member

    Hi folks
    Please tell me
    does this really happen in India where the boy’s mother is so controlling and jealous of her son’s wife?

    • Junee

      |Registered Member

      Yes it does Dear! Whatever they are showing is very close to reality! However we get tired of the way its being stretched for a long time and would rather appreciate if they could focus on the possible solutions! Though solutions depend on every individuals circumstances! But this happens in this country and it also depends on the mindset which could vary again depending on the progressive outlook
      Of the family.

    • AnShIta

      |Registered Member

      Well, it might seem as a common case in India that the Mother does not want to lose her rights on her Son. However, not many of them turn out to be as cruel as Ishwari. Mothers consider their sons to be the star of their lives and express their right on them wholeheartedly. However, there are a few Mother, unlike Ishwari, who are completely selfless and want their sons to go and live life with his true soulmate. How I wish Ishwari was one of them!

      • AnShIta

        |Registered Member

        Hmmm…agree with you Junee di!
        The numbers sure do have to increase! And most importantly, this idea should be put into use by people like Ishwari😜😜

      • AnShIta

        |Registered Member

        Yup, definitely!
        We can’t dream of a better India if mothers don’t even let their sons out of the house freely! If he can’t stay close to his Wife, how will he work together with those thousands of women out in the world?

    • Junee

      |Registered Member

      Overpossesive mother in laws basically control freaks by nature! Most daughters in law have to go thru this grind! That is why couples prefer to lead a separate life from their parents! Though Parents are supported from outside

      • QueenB

        |Registered Member

        Oh my that is all so sad
        And yes, i do believe husband and wife should go and live separately
        Parents should then only give their opinion when they are asked of
        And couples should try to avoid that and solve problems between husband and wife
        When more persons get involved, they will take sides and create more problems
        Dev is no longer a child, he is a grown ass man that has responsibilities towards his wife as priority

      • pankti

        junee…mene jitni bhi comments padhi hai tumhari…i means us sab comments ke through tumhari thinking ka zo andaza lagaya hai mene…us par se me ek baat to keh sakti hu..ur thoughts really ek great level par hote hai..
        so i think jo bhi tumahari thinking hai uski vazah se tum apne future ke relations ko bahot acche se handle karogi..

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