Changes in my life (swaragini) OS by pavani

Hiii darlings pavani hear actually it is not a love story it is the pov of a girl from birth nd how she changes to a matured women
.u can assume it who ever you want it can be rag or swara nd pair was also ur wish it can be raglak ,ragsan,swasan nd swalak

Hear we goo
Rag’s pov
I was born in a middle class family so I was habituated to adjust for every thing .I used to be happy with what I have .my father is farmer he studied bsc but he just like farming but he made us study well my mother is a house wife she cared a lot .nd I have a brother who is my best friend .ours is a small nd happy family nd I was little reserved type .I enjoyed my chaildhood a lot with wt I have .I love the emotional bonding in my family as a girl I used to listen to my parents I never restricted them as I trust them as they can never take any wrong decisions about mee .
But after schooling I really saw what world is nd from then my life started changing

Change 1:my college life
I too hoped a lot about college days by seeing in movies .I was very anxious to find new friends nd at my first day of college I was attracted to a guy (u can say it a crush) .I have changed a lot in college I came to know how to face the world nd y u should be strong really the atmosphere changes everything I enjoyed it.one fine day I came to know that my crush loves mee u know wt first thing I did was not happy bit I cried (silly naa).I cried as I used to hate love and all stuf (I told u she is reserved type girl nd her family will not allow these things) so I rejected him as I know I can’t dare to fight for wt I want .many of u can say I was coward yes may be iam because I don’t believe in my judgement nd not ready to face the consequences .nd the main reason was I was not matured enough to take my lifes main decision I don’t want to be hurry in this age we can be attracted to everyone
This is my lifes first lesson don’t take any decisions when u r nott confident on the result nd really I took a right decision (atlest I think)

Change2:engagement
I completed my education .my parents asked me about an allience they brought for me I know they will think twice for taking any decision so I agreed altough there is a lot of age difference .I too started dreaming about future nd my hus we used to talk long nights (like lovers )it was a new feeling which I was enjoying .really girls like if a person gives more time in the same way I too enjoyed talking

Change 3:marriage
This was the most confusing change in my life .really I don’t know what’s happening .I don’t know y my parents crying .I went happily .I don’t know anything like cooking ,washing I was afraid first that how will I manage them .I don’t know how will be the relationship btwn hus nd wife really my hus was very understanding he explained me every thing nd my mother in law made me learn cooking now iam not a fab cook but not a worst cook .I used to cry because I was afraid as these things were new to mee but I managed to learn everything slowly with the help of in laws

Change4:pregnency
That was really a very happy feeling.don’t know may be its god magic when I came to know I was pregnent that min I was like proud nd have a feeling that I have everything .this period was the golden period

Change5:struggling
After children I was really irritated to tally them it was very difficult to handle children .then the first person I remembered was my momm how she ststrugleduring my time .I was not able to give proper time to my hus due to this there were many misunderstandings nd many arguments I was very depressed but my son brought me back from depression his smile brings life to us .that was most strugling period but we were not that much immeture to get seperated for those silly reasons I used to take out some time to spend some time with my hus .he too bacame busy in job he started working hard as now he has responsibility of our son too we started understanding each others problems nd then we realised wt is real meaning of love .

Then after also we used to fight but again we unite actually this is life .ohh I forget to tell u about my hus name naa he is sanskar

END
I KNOW many of them feel it silly or may bee boaring this was my own experience life is to move onn .ego should not come In love .I don’t know how many of them like my view at least I have a satisfaction that I kept my point .understand ur spouge then no one can seperate u

39 comments

  1. Varsha

    |Registered Member

    Pakka advice di, i d startin itslf i felt it to b a real one and as u say dis is true, ego shld nt cm in btwn luv. Me n my cousin alws used to fi8 fr silly thngs whch arise upon ego, so evn i hv experience, u prvd u r our sis again, luv u di

    • Pavani

      |Author

      Tnk u very much varsha I didn’t tought that people may even like it but u not only liked it but understood the concept too that’s soo sweet of u darling

  2. Anjali

    Awesome pavani just wow I read this twice. It’s just simple. I don’t like it in fact love it. The way you describe ragini ‘s life .😘😘😍😚

  3. Pammy

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    Akka….this is fabulous bcz it contains reality…nijanga chaala bagundi…actually nen love story kadu annapude ankunna may be real story ayyundochu ani nd ya ego eppudu madyalo raakudadu…dz iz too good

    • Pavani

      |Author

      Tnk u pammy darling chala rojula nundi raadam anukunnaa but I dared to write it today nd happy that u people liked it

  4. Astha

    |Registered Member

    akka…… hats off. here i didnt imagine rag or swa. here imagined u only. really nyz akka. our parents know what is crt to us. to be frank….. i like love stories but i believe the love which comes after the marriage. bcos that will long lasting…… i too dont know to cook but whatever the problem is ican manage. i’m very practical girl as well as sensitive too. i’m only daughter so i learned to live n manage myself. my frnds wont go to meet staff of restroom too they all wont go alone. but i’m not like them. i’ll manage myself. i’m not a volunteer but if any work handled to me i’ll complete it as my best. i think i talked a lot. here i close my mouth n stops typing. thnq so much for such os. bcos of this only i shared my feelings with u.

    • Pavani

      |Author

      Tnk u very much sanku darling Iam very happy that many of u liking it nd noo need to shut up u r always welcome to share ur views nd i think every girl is sensitive hey naa iam happy that my sis is matured to take right decisions

  5. Pathan

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    Ya Di you are fully correct from ur pov because real love happens after marriage only before this arw all useless stuff and the way you expressed emotion and very neatly used words of each and every emotion is amazing and it is reality of life rather than other useless love story hated of Di u are really my Di only

    • Pavani

      |Author

      That’s soo swwet of u bro .I really didn’t tought that people will like this type of story but iam happy that u are liking it nd yaa remember this dii will not pamper uu??

  6. Akshata

    |Registered Member

    this is so real. you have written it so beautifully. you know i dont have elder sister or brother to give me guidance about it, as i am a single child but i after reading your os, i understood so many things. i do believe in love after marriage, though i am not married yet. and you know what i know cooking lolz, jokes a part but your os taught me a lot. Thank you 😀

    • Pavani

      |Author

      Tnk u very much akshata darling.that is why I wrote it I just want to share my experiences with my little sisters In starting I tought no one will read it but was very happy after seeing that u people not only read it but got my point too

  7. Ashrita.S

    |Registered Member

    Ohh pavani u selected a very challenging topic and expressed it perfectly dear, which every girl would come across in her life, may not be exactly same but the stages are same, u did t great job by selecting such a good subject, I hope many girls who read this would definitely realise what you were actually trying to pass them, love is not just a feeling or crush for someone else, it’s for your parents who taught you the real meaning of love. It’s not true that love can happen only once in your life, but the true love is the one trying to find it in the person who is beside you and will be with your whole life, love has no bounds and not expected in return, as your parents do selflessly for us, I don’t know how many would agree with me but the reality for me is love for a person would change in eCh phase of your life. For every human, the first love will be ur father and mother, then at certain age your love will be your siblings, when turn into teenage crush would start on someone, after crossing ur teen u would really realise what love is !!!! U might get married to someone, then he/she ll be ur love and after a child ur complete world revolves around them who ll be ur long lasting love, along with ur parents, partner and siblings… but really you have done a great job dear… I hope the real intention of this ff has reached to everyone…. tc and happy weekend ☺

    • Pavani

      |Author

      Tnk u very much asrita darling u r correct our first love is our parents as they love us selflessly .iam not saying love is crime but the real meaning of love is to understand ur partner nd iam happy that u understood my exat point really tnk u very much

  8. Priya15

    |Registered Member

    Di.. It’s just fab and unique.. I said u that I l read na.. But I m having little roaming signal. So cmntng now di.. Di i m proud of u.. Actually I also have one topic Regarding a girls life hurdles but didn’t have time to write and truly courage too.. But thinking to write it.. And truly speaking I don’t know abt anything other than schl life.. But got some idea with this.. I loved it whole heartedly…. Actually it was u for me..tq so much for this os di.. Love u di..

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